my friend and i went out last year
we are really good friends but our friends didnt support our relaionship so we broke up cus it was too hard. we still hangout, and whenever he touches me i get a chill, like a good one, and last weekend he was watching a movie at my house with a couple other guys, and he sat wicked close to me and ran his hand up my leg, and just left it close to my 'area' .. his friends were there so i laughed at him and he just smiled, and i put my feet up on his stomach, and he moved them down a little bit, onto his penis area, so i guess he wanted me to play around a little so i kinda rubbed my feat back in fourth around there under a blanket so people didnt see.. then he took me in the next room (my laundrey room) and picked me up, and started like rubbing his hands undermy shirt and kissing me and stuff, and was like' we should do this more often, just fun you know?' and it is,,, i'm not the type of person to do a 'fwb' and i know a ton of you think its 'bad' or it wont workout,, but we're good friends, and it wouldnt be awkward, and i trust him, so what do you think i should do. like we cant have sex, because we both couldnt do that, but what other things ca help get us going and explain how to do them,, he wants this to be like a fun 2 hours for every weekend, and i do too, we promised to stop when either of us got into a relationship
just advicce on things to do
thanks
well if off the beginning of the "letter" isd like the two of you like each other but aren't together because of your friends. your friends should be happy for you that you found someone that likes you and wants to be with you but if they aren't and are telling/hopeing for you two to brake up then i have to question their friendship and if they what you to be happy or they want themselves to be happy and you to just follow behind them and date someone who they like but you don't. now on to this boy of yours. from the looks of it he hasn't gotten over you or never has and neather have you, which i'm not saying that's bad but it's good and the fact that he wants to do it again (dating you, i'll get to that part later) cause of the way that he started things up. now on to the second part which ties into the dating him again. you need to deside if you want to date hime again no matter what your friends think, or just keep it like a 2 hours sex things every weekend. what i think you should do, and this is from my own personal experiance date him no matter what your friends think as long as he ain't cheatin' on you then your friends are just talkin shit so frak them. the two of you sound like you get along really well and the only reason you broke up the first time is because of what your friends thought.
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i am hanging out w/ my bf 2morrow
he always talks about how he loves sex and everthing leading up to it..
hes tried stuff with me before but i have always turned him down
we are hanging out tomorow and i know i am ready. can you give me a list of sexy things to do and say to get him horny and get him going
like what to do if we are on the couch together
also what are some things he can to do me so i am in the right mood
thanks
--laur
well first off sex ain't no joke, but here are some how to if you are really going to do it. it won't take much to get your huy in the mood but it never hurts to take it slow even when having sex take it from a guy a little tease goes a long way. don't worry too much about it their is no wrong way to do it just get some music going and hopefully your guy can last a few rounds or it'd suck for you i guess if he can't get more then 1 or 2 rounds. just relax and let things go as they go. but i guess i just got to say that don't do it if you don't want to even if you're halfway there it's ok to stop and end it, if your boy doesn't understand then he should be with someone like you.
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yeah yeah yeah another one of those questions..
okay so theres this boy in one of my classes and i think he's really cute and i want to get to know him more..but how do you like "get to know someone" ...like if i just randomly went up to him and started talking he'd be like "um?" ..because we've never talked before..so how can i become his friend without being too weird about meeting him? if that makes sense?
today i added him as a friend on myspace though...(he hasnt been on though so he didnt accept me yet.)
well the basics would be that to take it slow and there is no need to rush on to him. you said that you had a class with him why not ask for help on something like a short homework thing. now the trick is, and take this from a guy's point of view, if he stays with you after then homework is down then he might be interested and is trying to find out if you are as well. it also helps if you start up a conversation start small like something in class and then go out into a movie as the conversation goes on like the new bond movie or something that interests you.
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okay well this might not be in the right catagory so im sorry...
but anyways, me and my friend just got out of a HUGE fight and weve been gettin along better but we still havent talked about our problems but i told her that we r gonna talk about them either tommorrow or the next day.. i just wanna know how i shoulld bring things up..((if you dont remember or didnt read the fight it is labeled: its about to be a .....GIRLFIGHT)) i know corny title but yea, please help=]
thanx
it's never easy talk to someone about something that makes ether of you mad but it's important to talk. their isn't mush to say but other then the fact to try and keep a open mind about what you best friend is saying, what made them come to this "crossroads" i guess you can say, and how they feel about it. above all it's important that you find somewhere quiet and alone where you can talk.
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Ok...so i'm a 15/f and I'm talking to my friend. She has liked me forever and she just told me she loved me. I just wasn't expecting it at all. Is it too soon for her to love me? Is it ok since we have been friends for about 2 years? I didn't say it back either, because I don't love her yet, but I eventually could.
the important thing is that you talk to her about how you feel and ask her how she feels about it. you can never measure love and time because the two of them share nothing in common. time is the same all the ...time, but love is always a mystery and you can never know what it is really after or how things might end up. just one last thing and i guess it's the most important, when you do talk to her and i'm guessing that you'll tell her that you don't know if you love her (not trying to put words in your mouth) but make sure you mention, from what i'm getting from you, that you are unsure about the whole love thing and that you still need time to sort it out but until then you don't want anything to change. now you'll most likly not use that and i agree but it's the message that it gives that's important to follow. follow your heart, it always knows the true path, even if you don't.
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Alright, for the last, maybe three months, my mother has been really mean to me. Its like every little thing i do, she yells at me for. Lets say if i don't empty the dishwasher, i'll get yelled at, and then my other sister is just sitting on her a$$ doing nothing all day, with the trash cans completly full. Unlike my sister, when my mom yells at me, i stand up for myself. I won't take all the $#it she throws at me. In addition, my father has been really b!tc#y too. I'll do a little thing, and he'll flip out at me. They keep on telling me that i have to stop being in a bad mood all the time, and how i need to go out and do things. I do sports all the time, and just recently i have had a long break, one that i have never had before. as sports season's are rolling in right now, i'm going to be busy a whole bunch. The problem is, no matter how nice i try to be, my parents are always mean to me. I can't do anything w/o them yelling at me. What also really bugs me is that my sister might say something mean to my mom, and she won't get in trouble, and they could be fighitng for a while, and i don't do anything, but finally i say one teensy small thing, and i get in major trouble. gahh. sorry this was long.. but what can i do???
what most people seems to forget is that your parents are just like anyone else, which means they have problems, it's just that anyone doesn't want to come forward with the fact that their parents have their own fault. you said that you tried being nice to them but, and i know it sounds crazy, what if you just sit them down together (your parents) and make them talk about what's on their minds and don't no for an answer just because you're their child. don't look at them as your parents when you're talking to them but like your two best friends how are not getting along. make them talk and most likly yell because when people yell they say things that they are tring to hide.
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15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends?
take it from a guys point of view the whole grabbing your knee was flirting. just make the first move, it'll throw him off a bit, but most guys like it and don't mind. about the other girl it seems like you don't have to worry about it at all cause like you said he spent the period talking to you which means that he is over her and wants to move on
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What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love
breaking up is never easy it's like moving away from your friends and changing school. unlike moving away from the life you know, love shares one important similarity life changes and you need to move on or be left behind living in a past that you loved but no longer exists. love is a interesting subject to say the least the only right answer is the one your heart gives you but the important thing is to never second guess yourself. when breaking up from your boyfriend, in your case, someones heart gets broken it's a sad truth but it happens when you open up your heart to someone else in hopes of getting the samething (love) back. things change and people move on it's nothing to be afraid of, the important thing is that your boyfriend hears it from you first and no one else, word travels fast so don't tell anyone not even your best friend, even if that they promise not to tell anyone, the important thing is that he hears it from you and not a little birdy.
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when ever I look in the mirror all I can say is wow im so ugly. im starting to get so self consious about how i look. i dont like to look striaght at people when im talking because i always think people are thinking that im ugly. i dont know why im like this now. before i didn't even care how i looked. :(
everyone worries about how they look i guess you can call it human nature. it's all the little things that make you different from the person that you see down the hall, but it's also those little things that make you who you are and not someone's copy. don't compare yourself to that other person but to only yourself. if you feel great then everyone around you will see that you are confident and sure of yourself. it's the way you see yourself that others see you, and by others i mean everyone but the "haters" how'll say anything in hopes of making you feel bad about that kind of person you are.
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tommorow i am auditioning for into the woods at my middle school (13/f). I REALLY REALLY want to be little red riding hood and i guess my second choice is cinderella. I am about 5'5'' or 5'6'' and my friend said im too tall to play little red. is that true? and does anyone have any tips on auditions or the part itself (its only a reading audition this one)
thanks!
it's not what others think that matters it's what you think. It is important to stay who you are and not change for anyone else no matter what. You are who you are and nothing can change that and nothing should make you want to change that cause that's what makes you so different from everyone else around you, remember that.
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