hey im jessica and i just thought it would be a good idea to give advice because i like it when i need advice and someone is there to help me out and im sure i can answer most questions i hope my advice helps!
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ok im 13 too so this is why im asking you this : all my friends have bf's and i feel so left out its not liek im desperate i just want relationships like theirs i need some advice on this because i dont feel like i can just talk to my friends about this (link)
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Just wait for your chance to get a guy, it's worth it to wait. There's really nothing you can do for now but wait until someone likes you for you. It's hard to feel left out, but don't worry your time will come. Try having just a girls night out, where your friends don't include their bfs.
~jessica~
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there is this girl whos is really really really nice but some of my friends make fun of her b/c she can't afford new clothes i want to make her have really cool clothes but the problem is i don't have any money to get her new clothes how can i make her look stylish w/ out usin alot of money?? (link)
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You don't need to buy her new clothes, it doesn't mstter what she looks like on the outside. Try complimenting her clothes so she doesn't feel so bad. Just be a good friend.
~jessica~
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Ok guys, here's ,y question! I'm turning 18 soon so I can legally pierce anything I want. When I was 16 I got my belly button pierced on the top. For some reason something went wrong and i got very infected and I had to go to the docotrs n take it out. Now I have a scar there. When I squeeze the scar tissue it hurts. And my doctor said yesterday that it would be difficult to repierce through it. Anyways I guess my question is do u think it would look dumb or hurt if i got it pierced from the bottom??? I heard people say it hurts more but maybe thats just a rumor? Thank You guys so much for your help!!! (link)
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no because it should hurt the same as the top did because my sister has the bottom pierced and my mom said that it most likley feels the same
~jessica~
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Hey...
What does the word modest mean? Is that a good thing if you are modest? Thanks!! (link)
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modest means that your shy and its not good or bad to be modest
~jessica~
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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do? (link)
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he most likely will remember you because he is one of your brothers friends!@!@!@!
~jessica~
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Brother Hater (link)
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i think you should tell your parents to make him babysit for once so you can go and have a break i know how you feel i am the middle child too
~jessica~
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i liked this one kid for a really long time.. i only ended up telling a few people becuz i dont like every1 knowin.. then after awhile i found out he liked me for awhile too.. then he asked me out at 1:00 A.M on my birthday.. i said yea of course.. and then i didnt get a phone call from him or nothing.. then at 11:O0 P.M that night.. he told me he doesnt think we should go out anymore.. he never told me a reason though.. i asked him why he even asked me out in the first place and he said i dunno.. he said he was sorry n everythin.. i think i might still like him but i cant say i loved him cuz we were neva together long.. wat shuld i do.. try n get ova him or still like him? (link)
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i think you should try to get over it because you dont sound worth his time
~jessica~
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I live in North Carolina and my mom and dad got divorced 3-4 years ago. He doesn't pay for much, and I know he won't pay for college. I'm 16...a Junior in High School and have 2 more years left for college. I really want to go to Boston University or University of Massachusetts because I love those schools and it's my home state. My mom said that I should go to college in North Carolina so it will be cheaper but I don't like many colleges here. The ones I do like (Duke University and Wake Forest University) are private and will still cost more. I told her I'd pay for law school and 4 year college but she wanted to pay for that. She said if I go to college up there then she'll only give me the amount a year that she would pay down here. What should I do? Should I go down here or up there or should I say something? (link)
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i think that you should talk to her about how you feel about whats shes doing.
~jessica~
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Well uhh I love this person and well he says Im pretty and stuff and he SAYS he doesnt like me im 13 by the way........one time my friend goes "what do u think of katie" and he goes silent for like 15 seconds and goes "nothing..." i dont know what to do!!!!!!! and he moved, and my other friend says we werent meant to be......ok, i LOVE him....im serious....could you please help someone who cries every night????????
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i think either you or him are shy and that you should try to get over him even thought it's hard
~jessica~
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Theres this guy, and I really really really like him a lot. And my friends met him and saw us together and they all say that he deffinetly likes me too! They try and get us to hook up, but nothing ever really happens. I'm going to an amusement park with him later this week, and my friend said shes going to get us together, but what should I do? What if he's to shy, do I go for it? HELP PLEASE!!!
oh and im..13, and im a girl. did i really have to put that in there? what for? just curoius (link)
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i think that you should go for it because you will never know untill you try!
~jessica~
p.s.good luck!!!
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Friday night me and this kid finally met, he was such a sweetie i instantly fell in love with him. We were hugging eachother holding hands and we even kissed once!...I was so so so SO happy because he treated me like i deserved to be treated...Well we all went home and I couldn't talk to him that night or anything because I was in trouble for being out so late, but the next day I started talking to him, and he was acting so weird!...Like he says "...You know i cant talk to you whenever you want me to!" and I know thats not mean but if felt so painful because of how much i liked him!...So today we talked again and he was being so sweet, balling me baby, but then hes like "its as simple as this...I dont wanna date you" I was crushed and broke out into tears!! and i really cant get my mind off of him..The reason im so crushed is because Friday night he told me he really liked me...but now hes saying all this stuff and now saying he has a girlfriend...my heart is so broken, and i cant stop thinking about him...what should I do?help!!=( xoxo // Lyss (I'm 13 and a girl) (link)
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i think that you should just give up and then like try to keep your mind off of him because you obviously are too good for him if he is going to act retarded
~jessica~
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Ok i really really really like this kid hes 16 and i`m 13 and we live hour and 15mins. we talk online and on the phone alot ! should i tell him how i feel and should i keep tryin for him or give up ? (link)
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i think you should talk to him about it becayse it all depends if you like see eachother alot
~jessica~
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I was spending the night at my freind "susies" house with my other freind "Jane". we have all been really good freinds since kindergarden and im now 14. Well anyway. we had gotten some chinese food. Susie and i love to eat so we each had large portions of food. Jane only had a small peice of orange chicken and some rice but didnt eat any of it because she claimed she wasnt hungry and that the chicken was too spicy. then she went on to tell us about how lately she was only hungry for salad which is what she only eats.(dressing- water and salt). plus- she runs non stop and has lost a lot of weight and still claimes that she is fat. and trust me this girl didnt need to go on a diet. about 15 min. after we finished eating, we went on the computer and susie and i could hear janes stomach gowling. im really worried, i love her alot and i dont want her to hurt herself. am i being to paranoid? Susie thinks the same way. what should i do? (link)
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i think you should talk to her about it because one of my friends was like that and all she needs is a little sopport
~jessica~
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i just dumped my bf i totally regret it he is hurt he just doesnt wanna go bak out cuz his friend told him not to and idk i need help (link)
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well then if he really likes you he wont listen to his friend and you need to explain that to him!
~jessica~
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should i tell the one i love how a feel even threw a 2 year difference in age and a hour distance in where we each live ? (link)
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i think you should because its better to be straight forward wit the person you love
~jessica~
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how do u rate other ppl
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at the bottom of their question theres numbers 1-5
rate them on how good you think their advice is 1=bad 5=great
~jessica~
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Whats the average weight if your 5`1 - 5`2 ish. (link)
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100-115
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Hey..
me and my friend are together in a babysitting job and we love children so much and we just already let out flyers one,last year and once just recently the next year..on the 1st year flyer given out..no1 responded..the 2nd year one responded..liked our job..gave us $20 each for 1 1/2 hours...i know.. alot..o well..lol..back to the subject..ever since that day..no1 has responded..what should we do? send out more flyers or keep waiting or quit caring..what should we do??
thanks if u help.. (link)
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try talking to family and friends and ask them if their parents need any babysitters
~jessica~
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ok i am 14 almost 15 and i am seein this boy named tony and he is 13 almost 14 and he acts ignorant to me when he is around his friends and the last time i talked to him i told him we are done ad never talk to me again because i was just really mad!! and now we havnt talked him 2 almost 3 weeks and i am upset how do i get him to talk to me i just want to go crazy because i dotn have him with me well please tell me what i should do!! thanks for you advice anyone
~*~*~katie~*~*~ (link)
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talk to him and tell him why you acted they way you did and if things get mended ask him to try harder at being nicer when hes around his friends
~jessica~
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ok im 13 and my friend thats 12 and weve been friends ever since like we were 2 and shes a year younger then me n stuff so she used to look up to me and when i was in 7th grade and she was going into 6th she was super scared and so i told her it was no big deal and so ya she did rilly good makin friends n stuff cuz shes like rilly popular so then there is a girl that shes like best friends w/ now and shes like a rilly "bad girl" or however u wanna explain that and she steals drinks n smokes n stuff and shes only 12 too! so then those 2 became rilly good friends n just last weekend she went up to her cabin for a week and my friend since she was w/ her friend got caught stealing drinking and smoking so now im like super mad at her n stuff and shes always like god im sorry it was a mistake and i told her before she went up there to be careful cuz i knew that was gonna happen and it did.. and im super mad at both of them cuz her friend got her into it becuz she told my friend to smoke drink and steal stuff and idk wut to do cuz everytime i try to talk to her about it and try to tell her not to do that ever again and her parents found out and they didnt do anything they just grounded her for a week and then left it at that i mean shes 12 years old and i know shes gonna do it again! and im scared and i dont know wut to do cuz idk how to talk to her if shes gonna tell me not to talk about it.. so wut should i do?! ill rate u for this if u answer this! pleez i need help before she goes n does it again! (link)
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ok heres what i would say choose jail or freedom and just so you know if she has her heart set on doing these things then she will and no one can stop her but you can still try (i suggest that you do)but if she thinks shes kool doing this stuff shes not i think thats lame not cool
~jessica~
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