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Hey everyone, u can call me KOOLAID.... ima junior at my current school. I love to help people with problems about anything;evn if i cant relate 100% i still would like to give my 2 cent.I tell it like it is b/cuz y should i hold bac if that wont help a person face the truth and let them kno wut they can handle emotional. But EVERYONE feel free to come to me with ANY problem that u have...
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My boyfriend fingers me and nothnig ever happened before. Now, I'm itchy and red. This never happened before. what does it mean? I know it's not and STD. help (link)
well you could have a yeast infection (IF) you Itching and burning in the vagina and around the vulva (the skin that surrounds your vagina)
A white vaginal discharge that may look like cottage cheese
Pain during sexual intercourse
Swelling of the vulva .


But it shouldnt be a std or anything


what do guys prefer a shaven or non shaven vagina? (link)
well all boys are different you should just ask that one guy what he likes.


when people talk about sex and everything they talk about four play.
My question is what is four play?
Another question is does it hurt to get fingered? (link)
if you are a virgin then yea it will hurt and itdepends how many fingers they use and the size of their finger.Foreplay is the word for any kind of kissing and touching that leads up to sex. It helps people get more aroused and can make sex more enjoyable.

Of course it doesn't always have to lead to sex. This kind of kissing and touching is a great way to get closer to your partner when you're not ready to go all the way. But you should never do anything that makes you uncomfortable or that you don't feel ready for. Remember, most people wait


im 110 pounnds, and 5'6

my bra size is a 34B, is that normal for my weight
or like extremely small (link)
well your normal to be a size b and i dont think yur wieght has anything to do with it; it just depends how you body matures.and they will tend it be sore a little


i've seen people with all kinds of different stuff by their display name. such as a music note, a slanted smiley face, and other diferent stuff.

i know how to do the basic ones like a heart, spade, etc. but does anyone have or know where i can find the codes for the different ones? (link)
go here... http://freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/fancy-name-generator


There is a song where like this girl who like kind of announces something and then the music starts.. and it sounds like bob marley kind of its got that Jamaican type of music and the bob marley type of voice.. like how he pauses in between songs you know..
anyone know that song!!! (link)
well what is the words to teh song or at least um of them


how do i get layouts for my advicenators site? i did'nt use mine for a while now i started to use it again but i cant remember how to get layouts and where to get them. (link)
look where you would normally would for a myspace layout .. you can use those layouts for this site aslo; just put it as the background image in the column settings


Well, on my face, I don't have any like whiteheads or red bumps or anything, but little areas of red that don't respond to acne creams or hurt like red bumps. They're ugly, and I usually can't leave the house without dabbing cover-up on them. What can I do to get rid of these little spots? I know it's acne, not any of those weird skin conditions or anything. I have one on the tip of my nose, one between my eyebrows, and a couple tiny ones on my cheekbones and chin. (link)
could be a rash or sumthing that irritates you


okay so
i've been seeing this guy Jacob for about 5 months now .
he lives with his best friend robert.robert and his ex Lucy broke up 2 weeks ago
well Robert is a very jealous person.
Jacob promised robert he wouldnt do anything with lucy. but robert made sure all of his friends didnt do anything with lucy. well jacob and i were kinda official but now we're just like not as serious.

well i know jacobs password for myspace but he thinks i forgot it...anyway, i see a message from lucy saying "i hate how we have to hide our friendship"

he replies
"yah i know it sucks but wait til i move out"

so last week jacob calls me and says, "if anyone calls just say im with you." and i said "okay but why"
he then said, "i'm going to hang out with a few friends and lucy is in the group and i told robert i wouldnt talk to her "

so i was like "okay whatever"

then he texts me the next day @ 6AM saying "goodnight baby.if anyone ask i was with you til 6AM"

so he hasnt called since tuesday so i call him blocked and just see if hes alive

so from tuesday -thursday i call blocked and later on thursday at about 11pm i was with my cousin and he calls and says "i know its you thats calling, give up."
so i denied it and my cousin took the blame.

so friday i was with this my friends cuz they were making fun of jacob and how he got in an accident so i sent jacob a text saying "i'm with my friends right now and the story they're telling me about your last accident is pretty funny"

so like 2 minutes later he calls and bitches at me saying

"how is it funny that i got in an accident"
i told him
"i'm not saying its funny, i'm saying the story i'm listening to is funny, cuz its so different from the one you told me"


well saturday i go on his myspace and read a message to lucy saying

"heyy cutie im at my parents and im just misssin you thinkin that you should be in my arms its like 446 i called you and a older guy answered sayin i had the wrong number i think it was your dad well anyways ill c you on sunday (link)
ok i think you should tell robert because (THINK)jacob is cheating on you and why would you care about somebody that would do that to you.. you 2 havent been going out long enough to be alll in love so i think you should tell robert becuase jacob is putting you through stress.Forget what jacob will do; think about yourself and your feelings.Stop being his excuse


Okay...im going to try to have this make as much sense as possible so there is this guy lets call him kyle =) well today kyle asked me out and he's really cool and sweet and stuff but im not sure if i could ever see him as a b/f...and i dont wanna hurt his feelings either and there is another guy let's call him matt =) well he's a year older than me and goes to a different school but i see him all the time at the park and we hang out and have a good time and he's like always hugging ma and sometimes we'll play tackle football and he'll run towards me making it look like he's gonna tackle me and he'll put his arms around me and his firnds will be like dude tackle her and let go already and he'll be like i dont want to and im going to see him tommorow at a game at his school so yeah but one more problem...there's a 3rd guy let's call him christian my ex-b/f...he broke up with me about a month ago but when he did he still loved me and really cared about me it's just a lot of "stuff" was going on and he didn't wanna drag me into it and he promised me he wouldn't get another g/f but when i was his g/f he wasn't a very good b/f and i'd alaways end up walking to class after brak or lunch crying so idk wut to do? should i wait for christian the guy i still kinda love? matt the sweet funny guys who's always hugging me? or kyle the guy who just asked me out and is really nice and seems to really like me thanx alot and i would appriciate if you would explain who i should pick and why it would help alot thanx!!!! love yvette
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ok yvette teh big question is . do you still love
christian with passion liek to the point you would go back to him no matter what... if so then pick him.. As for kyle, what do you like about him besides his charm and kindness and if you cant see yourself with him then just be friends,becuase a realtionship does not work all upon the nice cahrming type if you cant see your self with him. and Matt.... if you really like himand he has more to him than just being funny than give it a go


so i want to get an all white tattoo on my wrist but im worried that sinse im more on the paler side that it might not look very good. what do you think? (link)
the brighter you are the less it will show.. the darker it is the more poeple can see it


is there any way you can check someones myspace bulletins if your not their friend? i need an answer realllly soon! thanks so much (link)
no srry you cant.. you only see people who r your friends


Hello everyone I need some serious help! My boyfriend said for me to surprise him with his Christmas present but I really don't know what to get him. Can someone give me some hints? It's our first Christmas together and I really want to make it special and memorable. Thanks (link)
just think of what he likes and some of his hobbies,colors and put it all together and find something for his personality.. (Chain,watch shirt,shoes,cologne,earring if he wears em)


there is a big high school poetry contest coming up and i want to enter it. I am a pretty good writer, and capable poet but not extremely experienced. If I want to enter it has to be soon, but i can't seem to write anything! I don't need help with what or how to write, I'm just wondering how other people get inspiration? what can i do to jumpstart my creativity!

thanks (link)
well i write poetry to and sumtimes i cant think of what to write so i jes write about how i feel or wuts going on in my life. What could be more interesting than your feelings and life... heres an example of one of my poems...
(Time for a change)

I call myself an average girl with a hidden twist
I want many things but cant put my finger on it
My secret twist is yet unknown
Its very hard to find deep within my soul
Many wouldn't understand the personality I hold behind
I feel passion for things that are way beyond the mind
I try telling people about it but cant get my thoughts straight
So much confusion I need one big break
I want people to see the real me
Making them understand is more work times three
I guess I would call myself lost
To regain self control I got to pay the cost
I want to blossom into who I really am
It might be hard and get into a jam
How do I find a solution to a problem that's so strange
Simply enough it's time for change..




if yu neeed more ideas just go to my poetry website.... http://poetry.com/Publications/search.asp


A guy I really like lives in a different province but im absolutely in love with him.
Should I try a long distance relationship or should I wait until he moves down here?

thanks
megan (link)
it depends wen is he movin near you and you should go out wit him;so it then you be very anxious to see him and that will make you want to stay with im evn more. Trust me ... my boyfriend lives in a nother state and weve been together for 2 years and i now that hes a senior i cant wait till he graduates so he can move down here after he finishes skool so i say go with him.. you never kno he might be your soulmate.. 16/f *classified_cutie*


is it true if you do the splits you'll grow taller?? (link)
no that is no true but it does make you more flexible


i straighten and blowdry my hair everyday, so what are some things to do so i can keep my hair nice and healthy? and which one is worse: blowdrying hair straight or straightening hair? (link)
both well you can straightin and blow dry but just dont do it everyday becasue that causes breakage and slipt ends as weel as brushing it toooooo much..... jsut dotn do it so much and drink lots of water beaucse your hair does grow faster wen you drink a lot of h20 not just any drink.

_classified_cutie_


the iPod Touch recently came out. It looks awesome. My question is, do you think I should wait another year so Apple can improve it? I've looked on wikipedia.org that each year, Apple improved the iPod each year, making it better. (link)
well if you want a better one bcuz eitha way u would want to get the otha one next year.. so 'wait


I know I'll get scolded for what I'm about to ask..
But..
15/f..
I met a guy online. Let's call him S. Now, S is a nice guy. And I've made 1000000000000000 % sure that he's not some 76 year old pedophile masturbating to pictures of young girls. Trust me, he's not.

Now..I've known him for a year. And he's 3 and a half years older than me. He lives on this continent (U.S) but way, WAY up north in another country (get ittt? :)) Anyways...We've been communicating on and off for a year and stuff..and he always asks me for pictures. And I give him pictures. And he asks for more...and..uhm okay..here're more pictures. And of course..I don't ask him for pictures. It would be too awkward. I only ask him once in a while. But he says things like "You have me curious..I wanna see if your pictures are bad." And he just teases me on and off...and OBVIOUSLY ASKS for bad pictures. I never send them to him. WTF? Why would I do that? And whenever I don't send him some, he gets mad and pissed.
I don't know what to do. He creeps me out. But I can't block him because I [usually] like talking to him. Help? =/ (link)
well im sorry to say but he does sound like a pervert beacuse boys dont ask for pics and get mad wen he doesnt get one, but u should reallly ask him for a alot of pics . nowa dayz u really cant tell whose real and who isnt.U shouls see if he has a myspace & look him up and see wut chu get beaucse THINK// wut boy gets mad over a pic wen he can get naotha to show him sum.


How do celebrity people honestly get so skinny. Is it because of an eating disorder? Even so, it seems that they lose the weight much faster than any 'normal' person who has one. I dont understand.
Yes I know eating disorders are horrible, I'm not planning on picking one up. I'm just wondering how they get so skinny! (link)
some take exspensive pills while othrs have prfessional trainers.. n little proly do have eating disorders




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