Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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(the first part is background that i think could relate. the second is my actual problem) sorry for the length...
PART 1
ok well this girl elizabeth i had been friends with her since like 2nd grade im in 8th now with fights and temporary splits here and there....but one time on this one chat site she called me a B**** for no reason and then just left and kept doing it if i asked for an explanation. the next day at school during lunch she said she didn't eman it and WAS JUST JOKEING. i mean COME ON. i didnt forgive her because i don't take stuff liek that as a joke, so after a day or so she comes to my house in tears with a card tat says SORRY and a small present. i forgave her.....grudgeingly. ok well then we got along ok but then...
PART TWO
ok well i was at another friends house and i was really mad for some reason or another and i called elizabeth fat. she isn't really fat just a little....well porportioned. so this oher friend told her later ( ididn't mean for her to) and elizabeth got all mad. WELL she got all mad and she understands that i didn't mean it.....i relaly truely didn't....and now she doesn't want to be friends anymore and won't forgive me which i don't think is fair because she really hurt my feelings with the part 1 thing....but i didn't have to forgive her, but i did. and there were other things she did that i didn't want to forgive her for doing.
what should i do? she has made it very clear via myspcae that she doesn't want to be friends. yes she told me.. i don't think its fair. do you think it is?
sorry for the length.....
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Hey. I had a really similair situation once. My friend did a lot of little things like the part 1 thing and finally I just got really mad. No, it's not really fair because she pretty much did the same thing to you in a different version and you forgave her. It also sounds like she's done other things like that so maybe you should be the one who's mad if this is true. Your friend sounds like she is really sensative so she probably gets upset a lot easier which is why she started crying when you were mad and her and got really upset when she found out about what you said. I wouldn't try to end the friendship over things like this but if she constantly does little things like this to you then you might want to take a break from eachother. It may work out for the better and eventually I'm sure she'll come around because time heals all wounds. Then, if you feel like you still want to be friends you can talk to her about how you felt also, and make up. The relationship doesn't have to be as close but at least you guys can be cordial. OR if you're really upset right now and want to tell her how you feel you can write back to her over the computer and tell her what you told advicenators. How she's done similair things to you and you always apologized right away and you're just tired of these little episodes. You don't have to say it mean or anything but it will get your point accross. But anyways, in final answer to your original question, no I agree with you, it's not fair. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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where can i find cute warm beanie hats? im looking for some for skiing and snowboarding. thanks (link)
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Hey. Modell's has a lot of really nice ones such as this one http://www.modells.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2263016&cp=710542 you can hit the arrows all the way to the right to see all of the hats there. These are really cute too, and not too bad with prices http://www.nextag.com/beanie-hats/search-html you can also go to places like Hollister or American Eagle. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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right i need to make £1000 but im 15 how cn i get a job:S im 15 and male (link)
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Hey. I'm 14 going on 15 in 9 days and I know of a few places where you can get a job. Not everywhere hires 15 year olds but places like McDonalds and Burger King deffintely do. Also, I know that a lot of little family owned places near me hire younger kids about our age. The only other place I know that hires 15 year olds near my house are these two play places (sort of like Chuckie Cheese, only Chuckie Cheese doesn't hire young kids). Also, grocery stores for bagging and Walmart or Sears are supposed to too. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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Okay i really want that emo look. Can anybody help me? I am male, 14, and 6feet tell. thanks a ton
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Hey. You want tight jeans, hair that covers your eye, and normally a black t-shirt. Also, piercings can help too. Tight shirts with random slogans on them, a messenger bag with patches and pins on it, and black or blue converse shoes or vans are always great. Sometimes, it's good when you're skinny enough to wear childrens shirts or tight ones with slogans from the 70's or 80's. Black rimmed glasses are always good too. Usually you should have died black hair (unless your hair is already black). Wrist bands are also worn by people who are emo. This is pretty much all you need to know and I really hope this helped! =)
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i just got a verizon phone and i am so confused
i have a few questions
can i use vcast music as a ringtone or should i just purchase a ringtone?
how do i figure out how many texts and minutes are left?
can i return ringtones?
how much are ringtones?
if someone texts me does that take away from my 500 free texts?
thanks [: (link)
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Hey. Ok I have a Verizon phone too =). Yes you can use Vcast music or you can purchase a ringtone. Whatever you prefer. I'm not sure how to figure out how many minutes you have left but to find out how many texts you've used you can dial #3282. Nope you can't return ringtones although you can delete them but this would be a waste of money. The ringtones range in price depending on the App you get. For example on my phone if you go to Get Tunes and Tones and then Get New Ringtones and then you go to Get New App. Certain Apps give you a certain amount of uses (meaning how many ringtones you can buy) for a certain price such as 99 cents for one use (or one ringtone) or $5.79 for 6 uses (or ringtones). It really depends on which package you get. As for the text messaging it depends on what plan you have. I have the $5 a month unlimited plan where I can text anyone with Verizon for free (well for $5 a month). If you have the 500 free text package then yes, if someone texts you it takes away from the amount of free texts you have. The best way to keep track is #3282. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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Okay, so when you get cuts you get scarring. Not those bumpy ones but like a darker skin color in the place of the cut [does that make sense?] Like there won't be a cut but in place of it, the skin color there is darker. But anywhos, I was wondering why that happens and if it will ever go away.
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Hey. Well it really depends on the severity of the cut. For example if it's a really big cut or a deep one it will be more likely to leave a scar. This happens because as the skin is closing up the skin is still raw so as it "heals" it becomes darker and turns into a scar. Scars act as an inferior quality to the tissue that it's replacing. They form when the cut is completely healed and often have a different texture then the original tissue. There are ways to prevent the scar from becoming very dark such as using vitamin E, cocoa butter cream, and several skin products available over the counter. Also, as years go by the scars will start to become lighter. For more information this website gives a great overview of scars http://www.clevelandclinic.org/health/health-info/docs/3700/3764.asp?index=11669&src=newsp I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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any tips on dealing with an annoying friend who talks, no brags, waaay too much, but who you cant really be mean to because shes really nice, but she just cant take a hint when to shut up? plz, any advice is welcome! (link)
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Hey. I had an extremely similair situation. So that it doesn't come off mean but you're still getting your point accross maybe you can say something like you're so funny. It's so cute how proud of yourself you get. Believe it or not she may get the hint if you put it that way and at least it's not coming off mean. I've actually tried this tactive and it really worked. OR if you might want something more effective you can say ______ you're so funny, I find it so cute how you're so high on yourself but say it laughing so you don't come off like you're being mean. Eventually if you continue to say things like this I'm pretty sure she'll get the hint and calm down her bragging habbits. I really hope this helped! =)
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Okay, recently I've been getting sick a lot [mostly form lack of sleep and sickness going around in school] and when I get sick, I tend to throw up [yea, I know, ew.]
I've heard that when you throw up, your stomach acid deteriorates your teeth [enamle?] Anywhos, I was wondering what I could do [without going to the dentist] to help protect my teeth. (link)
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Hey. Well I wouldn't worry if you're only throwing up when you're sick because eventually it will stop. You really have to worry when you constantly throw up like every other day or you make yourself throw up. But some ways to help protect your teeth from the throw up are: instead of brushing right away, the most effective thing to do is to rinse with a fluoride rinse. You can also use a counter-acting paste, such as baking soda and water, and rub this on the teeth after you throw up to neutralize the acid. After 30 seconds rinse the paste off and then brush your teeth. Afterwards use mouth wash to refresh the mouth. Or you can actually just rinse your mouth with water if you'd rather. I really hope this helped and I hope you get better soon! =)
Chrissabelle
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what are some good bikinis for the summer..
i have speed bumps but i got my period recently so by the time i have to start going swimming i'll have something,
im blue eyed
blonde
any advice?
im thinking maybe black or blue or blue and white stripes.. just ideas! (link)
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Hey. I think any one of these would look really great on you http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&categoryId=10961&parentCategoryId=10002&sortBy=0&pageNumber=1 then to see more from pacsun you can just go under the bottom to the KIRA bathing suit (you'll see what I mean when you get to the page) and hit the next button =). You may have already realized that one lol but I didn't see it at first. Also, I think some of these would look awesome too http://store.delias.com/browse.do?categoryKey=seasonal.swim.brands&splashTrack=swim
I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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You know thoughs things on Myspace,
and other websites that are like 10 things
boyfriends should do. Or the 50 cutest things
boyfriends do. Can anyone get me a list?
Like examples are, kiss her nose. Send her cute text messages in the morning. Sneak up behind her and tickle her. Thakns (link)
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Hey. I found this list I hope it will help =). The top 25 cutest things boyfriends do:
1. still says you're beautiful with no makeup on, wearing sweats, and a big t-shirt.
2. doesn't pressure you to do things you don't want to do.
3. shows up at your house with soup and a movie when your not feeling well.
4. kisses you on the forehead
5. doesn't kiss and tell
6. actually listens to you when you talk
7. gets excited all day because he's looking foward to our date that night.
8. is just content with holding you and doesn't want anything else.
9. can't help but smile when you walk into the room.
10. is perfectly content with staying in, watching movies, and cuddling.
11. doesn't lie to you about where he's going, or where he's been, or who he's been with.
12. gets butterflies when he hears your name.
13. not afraid to tell his friends how much he loves you.
14. doesn't mess with other girls when he has you.
15. doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.
16. holds you while you watch the sunset.
17. puts you on a pedastool whether you like it or not.
18. tells you you're cute when you're angry and beautiful when you're vomiting.
19. goes for a long walk on the beach with you at midnight.
20. calls you five minutes after you tell him to call if he needs anything, saying he needs you.
21. brushes the hair out of your face for you.
22. wipes your tears when something really bothers you.
23. never remembers to kiss you goodnight and tell you "sweet dreams"
24. buys you personalized presents with both of your names
25. never forgets to tell you how lucky he is to have a girl like you
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I went a week ago to take my permit test. I failed, I was so mad. But anyway i noticed it was asking me questions like facts like "how many people die from alcohol accidents" and things like that what can i do to learn about things like these? I live in massachusetts by the way.
thanks (link)
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A lot of book stores have books that tell you everything you need to know for a drivers test. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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Does anyone know any of the "I want a guy who.." quotes? I saw one yesterday somewhere but i forgot where & I'm trying to find it. It's not the one with the running mascara, it's a different one.
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I want a guy who still thinks you're beautiful with no makeup on, wearing
sweats, and a big t-shirt. I want a guy who won't pressure you to do things you don't want to. I want a guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you
aren't feeling well. I want a guy who kisses you on the forehead. I want a guy who doesn't kiss and tell. I want a guy who will hold you while you watch the sunset. I hope this is what you were looking for! =)
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ok well when i was 13 i started my period i am 15 now and well i am a 34A in bra size and i really want to grow and i just have a feeling that maybe i am done growing but i don't want my breasts to stop growing until i am like a bcup but ok do you think they can still grow and well when i wake up everymorning my boobs hurt and they itch alot do my breasts still have time too grow? (link)
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Hey. I'm 14, turning 15 in 11 days and I know I'm still growing. Or at least I'm pretty sure. Yeah you still have A LOT of time to grow, it just takes slower for some compared to others. Some girls have gone until 17 (very late but true) so I wouldn't worry about it. I really hope this helped! =)
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This is to all EYE DOCTORS. Can seeing glasses (not reading glasses) whether or not the seeing glasses are old or new magnify what you are looking at(a person). Here is why I am asking: Ok my coworker Marie (who is skinny) went over to a Yvette (a customer) to find out what type of help Yvette needed. Yvette wears glasses. Marie was standing and Yvette was sitting. Yvette looked at Marie and said to Marie; Did you gain weight; Marie was upset and said to Yvette: everyone always tells me I am skinny; That is when Yvette realized her glasses may be the problem and said; Marie I think it is my glasses, they are old and magnified; So Marie asked Yvette to take off her glasses and Yvette took off her glasses and replied: You are skinny; For about ten minutes Marie pestered Yvette. Yevette said; It was my glasses you are skinny, small; Then left. Marie told one coworker the story; and this coworker said; you are too skinny, you need to gain weight. (And yesterday another customer asked Marie how she stays so slim and never gains weight; and other customer said to Marie that Marie keeps getting skinnier and skinnier) My question can Marie accept the fact it was the glasses that made Yvette say what she said and Yvette thinks Marie is skinny and did not gain weight.
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I'm really sorry. I didn't mean for that to come off mean or anything. I guess I just couldn't understand why someone would tell someone they gained weight even if it was their glasses. I'm sorry if I offended you about Yvette and I apologize. Yes glasses can distort vision if they're old.
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well my best friend just got a boyfriend .. and he's cute and nice and i really am very happy for her. i've never had a boyfriend (we are 15) and i want one .. so i always feel jealous when friends get boyfriends. and like i am soooo happy for them .. but i wish i had one too. how can i get over that feeling of jealousy? (link)
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Hey. Jealousy is a completely normal emotion for all human beings. Some girls just go for it more than others and that's why they get boyfriends. I mean that's really good for them but not everyone's into that. If you really want a boyfriend you have to be like this and work for it. I know that sounds funny but that's really how it works. As for overcoming jealousy I don't think that can ever work for it's a common human emotion. Just try to be friendly and outgoing and flirt a lot. Guys will really like this and you and your friends can all go out together. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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What are some billy joel songs that are easy to play on the piano? (link)
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Hey. Well you could do the song Piano Man which would be pretty cool. Or all of these which are in his easy piano album.
Allentown
Baby Grand
Don't Ask Me Why
The Entertainer
Honesty
It's Still Rock And Roll To Me
Just The Way You Are
Leave A Tender Moment Alone
The Longest Time
Movin' Out (Anthony's Song)
My Life
New York State Of Mind
Piano Man
Say Goodbye To Hollywood
She's Always A Woman
She's Got A Way
The Stranger
Tell Her About It
This Is The Time
Uptown Girl
You May Be Right
I got this from http://www.sheetmusicplus.com/pages.html?cart=33813210187675873&target=smp_detail.html%26sku%3DHL.356295&s=pages-www.google.com/search&e=/sheetmusic/detail/HL.356295.html&t=&k=&r=wwws-err5 I really hope this helped! =)
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What are some songs that are about someone who doesn't care about you, but you just really wish they did? I need quite a few, thanks! (link)
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Hey. The song We Should Be Lovers. The lyrics are here http://www.goldlyrics.com/song_lyrics/zappacosta/start_again/we_should_be_lovers/ I really hope this helped! =)
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i died my hair to day and my best friend thinks i look kinda of ugly what should i do??????
helppp (link)
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Hey. If this friend called your hair ugly to your face than that is NOT a best friend. A best friend respects your feelings as a person and is someone you can trust and talk to about anything. But they don't hurt your feelings. I would either ignore her and hang out with nicer friends or tell her how much she hurt you and how you're really upset with her. Your hair probably looks great and everyone's different so I bet a lot of other people do too. Don't worry about what other people think because everyone has so many different tastes that no one can define what looks good and what doesn't. I would hang out with new nicer friends or go with my second option. I really hope this helped! =)
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hi, my name is SAM.female 14. i saw ur answers to some peoples questions. you give really good advise and i was wondering if u could maybe help me out?
ok so his names Jesse and hes the sweetest thing in the world(i know corny but yea) he flirts and hugs me leans on me puts his arm around me...so this means he likes me right? he knows i like him, i told him a while back, and ever since hes been even more flirty. but the problem is he was in this one relationship previously where his girlfriend was like to obsessed with him and he kinda got freaked out by it. like she was invading his personal space and he broke up with her because of it. Basically from what i can understand, Jesse likes me (or is confused about liking me) because he doesnt want the whole situation to be repeated. he said he has commitment issues which means he doesnt want a relationship right now...but again he said he doesnt like me. it was pretty strait forward too. and it really hurt me. i dont wanna be dramatic or anything so our friendship hasnt changed at all, i mean he still flirts and jokes around and everything. hes just so great and ive never had a boyfriend anymore i wish it could be him but it might not work. Ive talked to him about it since then and he says that he doesnt like anyone.we often talk about it and then he'll say that love is stupid or something like that....and he jokes around about being mean and then i usually agree with him. if only he would just tell me the truth and asking him will not help ive tried. his best friend told me that she can not tell me too much because she swore to keep it a secret.he doesnt want her to tell me. but she said hes confused for many reasons. and i am confused about what to do and it sometimes seems like he is just leading me on.....thank you so much =) (link)
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Hey Sam =). Thanks so much for the compliment too. O.k. it sounds like your friend really does have commitement issues, what he told you in the first place. So now he just told you that he doesn't like you so he wouldn't have to be faced with the question he's afraid you'll ask him. Deep down it seems as if he really likes you but he's afraid to tell you this because he's probably not sure if you guys going out will mess things up. So he told you he didn't like you so maybe you wouldn't bring it up but that was just a cover up. If he's still flirting and making jokes then I really think he still likes you but he doesn't want it to turn into anything yet. He's just really confused about what to do so he's putting it off. What I would do is write him a really long letter telling him how you feel. So he doesn't get freaked out that your friendship will end explain that no matter what happens you guys can still remain friends. Tell him how it really hurt you when he said he didn't like you because you love him so much. Just say that you seriously think this could be true love and I think it might really hit him. I suggested a letter because saying all of this in person is really hard because often times people don't listen and this might be the best way you can get through to him. You can also add in the letter that he can write one back if it's easier. I think this might really work. If he still is hesitant he's still afraid about ruining your friendship. Just convince him that your friendship could be so much more and I think this will really help. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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My best guy friend lead me on for about 2 months, and I fell for him. Now he's completely ditched me, and it hurts. I've been dealing for about a month and a half with the grieving process. Usually I'm fine, but some nights everything comes to me and I'll just breakdown. How long do you think this will keep going on? I'm dying here. (link)
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Hey. Well remember it's not your fault you feel this way. He led you on right? I bet he does this to a lot of girls and you might not even realize it. Just remember that everyone goes through things like this at some time in their life and time heals all wounds. A month and a half isn't very long yet so just give it time and try to distract yourself. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to or to let it all out and just cry. Eventually you'll feel better and less hurt. Just try to keep yourself busy with friends or other guys. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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