Question Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 3:05 pm
This is to all EYE DOCTORS. Can seeing glasses (not reading glasses) whether or not the seeing glasses are old or new magnify what you are looking at(a person). Here is why I am asking: Ok my coworker Marie (who is skinny) went over to a Yvette (a customer) to find out what type of help Yvette needed. Yvette wears glasses. Marie was standing and Yvette was sitting. Yvette looked at Marie and said to Marie; Did you gain weight; Marie was upset and said to Yvette: everyone always tells me I am skinny; That is when Yvette realized her glasses may be the problem and said; Marie I think it is my glasses, they are old and magnified; So Marie asked Yvette to take off her glasses and Yvette took off her glasses and replied: You are skinny; For about ten minutes Marie pestered Yvette. Yevette said; It was my glasses you are skinny, small; Then left. Marie told one coworker the story; and this coworker said; you are too skinny, you need to gain weight. (And yesterday another customer asked Marie how she stays so slim and never gains weight; and other customer said to Marie that Marie keeps getting skinnier and skinnier) My question can Marie accept the fact it was the glasses that made Yvette say what she said and Yvette thinks Marie is skinny and did not gain weight.
Hey. If Marie has a high enough self esteem than yes she'll get over it. She should be able to realize that Yvette was just being a pip or being obnotious and if she feels good enough about herself she'll get over it. I wouldn't worry about it or just explain what I just said, to Marie. Leaving out the self esteem part. That was Yvettes way of being rude and she covered it up by saying it was her glasses. I really hope this cleared things up (lol no pun intended)! =)
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xokristabelle answered Saturday February 24 2007, 4:11 pm: You already asked this question.
christina answered Saturday February 24 2007, 4:07 pm: These questions always end the same. The person the question is referring to always overreacts when someone says something to her.
If she's skinny, she's skinny. If she's fat, she's fat. Who cares what people think?
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