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Q: ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much

sincerely,
troubled girly

there is absolutly nothing to be troubled about. Your first like year or so going through periods is going to be off and on again because they are still irrgeular after all this is only number one... you may not have it again for a nother few years depending on how developed u r.... ive had mine and it hasnt come back since like 2 years ago its completely natural it all depends on how ur body reacts to the changes. Hope I heled
Kelli

Q: Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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Sit your boyfriend down and let him know whats going on. Say I am so lucky ro have you. Your the best boyfriend I could ever imagine. Your always there for me when I need help. But now its time for me to help you. There is obviously something bothering you and I think we should talk about it. Don't think you a wuss for talking about it because your not we are here to help each other and you deserve the best help I can give. Hopefully you can get him to talk. Let him no that no matter whats bothering him you aren't gonna tell anybody... be true to him like he is to you and things should work out. Let me know
♥ kelli

Q: my mom is haveing a realastate person come to the house tomorrow and we might move but i really don't want to cause i like it here i mean my dad finally said we were going to stay here because all my life i haved move i don't want to do it again cause i'll miss all my friends and my boyfriend should i tell my mom or just hold it all in

Explain to your mom that you hate moving becuase you'll miss your friends... tell you mom you love your friends and home and want to stay put tell her to think on it and hopefully she'll come through in the end. Have her take a walk in your shoes.
Xoxo
kelli

Q: Hey, I was wondering does anyone know any cute hairstyles? I have straight, long black hair. I was thinking about long sideswept bangs and layers, but that seems sort of blase. I'll rate high!

I think the swept aside bangs and layers are a start. Maybe get some dark chesnut, and copper colored highlights. Get a curling iron and give some gentle curls to your hair. If you don'tlike that then maybe use gel and scrunch it up to giv eit a wave. Hope this helped
Kelli

Q: i was just wondering what most of the swear words are so i dont say them. Ill rate high if u tell me them!!

email me for the words because I don't want to post them in my column lilabdougirl9@AOL.com

Q: ok well i just broke up with my boyfried cause another guy asked me out that is much cuter i am not sure if i did the right thing but i have been waiting for him to ask me out fro the longest time not i have a cuter boyfriend am i right or not and should have stayed with my old boyfriend

I guess there really isn't a right or rong answer. I guess though that you shouldn't have based your desicion on looks, but based it on personality. Is you old boyfriend nicer then your new one or does your new one treat you better. What it should all come down to is who is nicer, who you can trust, and who treats you better, looks are the last thing you should worry about. I hope I helped
♥ kelli

Q: I'm just wondering, my friends say sometimes I act like a prep. And I dont mind that, cus like we were doing this quiz that like "sterotyped" you and they agreed on the answer. But I was wondering, what makes someone a prep? Is it like there popular or something ?

Being a prep isn't nessacarily about being popular. My friends and I consider ourselves to be preppy and we aren't like top of the charts in schools. Being preppy is about being girly, you know like doing girly sports cheerleading, dance loving makeup drssing fancy you know just being a girl! Being preppy isn't anything bad. Its a whole lot of fun! Hope this naswered your question
♥ kelli

Q: OK....i want to do gymnastics and im not very flexible. I am but not as flexibale as other ppl....anyway do you hav to be flexible to do gymnastics? And is it hard to learn to do gymnastics?? Plz help i rate high!

Not being very flexible is not a problem. As you get into gymnastics you will become more and more felxible. Learning gymnastics can be frustrating butits a great feeling to accomplish things and to do gymnastics is just fun. I did it for a period of time and i am not too flexible but i learned a lot of new tricks along the way. Every night or mornign maybe do some leg stretches and arm stretches, practice doing splits, eventually your muscles will get stronger and so will you. Have fun with it and relax... trust me the only time people will be thinking about you is if there saying "wow she's good!" good luck i hope i helped
♥ Kelli

Q: ok I have been doing about 60 situps a day and now my stomiac hurts in the bottom of it. REALLY BAD to. Whats wrong and whats going on. I will rate all 5'd 4 good answers. (Please exuse the misspelled words) Thanks

If your doing 60 situps a day... then your muscles are getting a very large workout. I'm guessing you went from doing no situps to 60 situps adn that isn't good. increase the amount gradually so your system has time to get used to it. Maybe do like 15 a day adn then maybe 25 keep working your way up there. Don't be worried you didn't hurt yourself its just a pain from your muscles being tired. Hope this helps good luck
♥ kel

Q: i am moving to a new school and town and i am scared. what is an easy way to make friends?? like, how can i get them to notice me and like me?

When school starts again scan over your new class. Say liek hmm this girl looks nice maybe ill be friends with her and go up say heyy im heather whats your name tell her u just moved here adn ask her what going to skool there is like tell her your a cheerleader or a dancer and ask her what type of sports she plays maybe you guys could sit together at lunch and she could introduce you to her friends or maybe you could exchange screen names or something I hope I helped rate me please!
Kel ♥

Q: A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted?

dont let your self be overcome by peer pressure. I have to say that trying it in the first place wasn't to bright if u didnt want to get addicted but i understadn peer pressure and I can see why you did it. This is the best advice I can give you to quit. say NO! so many people die of lung cancer and other types of diseases you get from smoking I know this for a fact my nana died of cancer and she was very very sick from smoking my grandfather who also smoked but wuit is now living with emphasema a disease that places water on the lungs and he isn't in the best shape. As much as you want a ciggarette just say no trust me the sooner you try to quit the easier its going to be. I don't mean to osund harsh but i dont want to see anyone go through what my nana went through. Its to painful
Kelli

Q: ok so i have brown hair down to the middle of my back. i always wear it down and thats all. this year i wanna change the style of it, professionaly. any suggestions?

Maybe trim it a little to get rid of any dead or split ends. Layer it and maybe get some blonde highlights in it. If your bangs are grown out maybe get a few whispy bangs
hope i helped
kelli

Q: does anyone know any free cute websites to have besides myspace, xanga, picturetrail, and livejournal?? thanks

http://www.buddyprofile.com you can have pages for people to read like a category and a subcategory up to like 20 I think you can have a quiz a poll and you can put up links for people to go to. You can make them any colors you want to and you can have a guestbook for people to read and sign. IMchaos is also fun i mean it isnt really a wedsite but you can get things liek apy poll where you can put the link in ur pro and it can say am i
hot
pretty
Ugly
skinny
fat or it can be about whatever and wen people vote YOU can see what they vote for!
Hope this helps
post for further help
&hearts kel

Q: Hey All.

My boyfriend is coming over in a few hours, and we have to stay outside. He will only be here for about an hour. He has a car, and he can drive, but we can't go anywhere. What are some things that we could do? (like games or w/e not nasty stuff)

Thanks in advance!

I'll rate and leave feedback, if that helps!

Oh, Its our 18month anniversery today, too.

-SLeK-

Maybe take a walk around your neighborhood and stuff just hold hands talk and be happy to be with each other. That will probably take up most of the time. Then maybe if you have time left turn the radio in his car on and goof around. I'm sure that no matter what you two do you'll have fun!
I hope I helped
happy anniversery ;-)
♥ Kel

Q: alright, my pubic hair has grown outside of my bikini line and it's really noticable whenever i wear a bathing suit... what could i do to get rid of it besides shaving or waxing??? please help, it's like really really embaressing...
~mandy

I don't really think there is another way to get rid of it but honestly I am not 100% sure. I guess you could try getting a bikini wax... I mean the whole point of one is so you CAN wear a bikini ya know? I f you still feel uncomfortable doing tihs maybe talk to your mom... I'm sure she'll have some tips for you. Sorry if this isn't the best advice... for further help post on my column and I'll help you as best I can
♥
Kelli

Q: I was playing a game on my boyfriend's mini iPod and it froze. I can't do anything with it, I hooked it up to the white charge cord. But it didn't do anything. I tried finding out how to fix this on google but all I can find is wait for the battery to run out then charge it up. Does anyone know anything else I can do to unfreeze it? Its a 4GB by the way if that helps any.

I don't know how to unfreeze it. Maybe if you turn it off and on enough it will start to work. Maybe just tell your boyfriend what happened he most likely no's how to get it to unfreeze if he doesn't offer him money for a new one because sinc ehe's your boyfriend... he most likely isn't gonna take it. But seeing as its his he'll probably know how to unfreeze it. Just leave it on for a week or 2 and let it die then just recharge it good luck sorry this advice isn't awesome
♥ kel

Q: LiKe I like this guy and his name is john and hes sooo cute but Idk how to ask him out? I need like words to say that will make him like me? ok? thanks a bunch!

-&hearts,
TANYA

ok maybe start off by saying you no a few of me and my friends were thinknig of going to the movies friday and htere all bringing guys so i was wondering if maybe you wanted to come with me or if u want to be more upfront about it say you know lately I have been thinking and I think maybe we should give going out a shot I like you and I think we could work out really well. Hopefully he says yes. Just be yourself if he doesnt like you for who you are he isn't even worth it in the end
good luck!
♥ Kelli

Q: ok... well i really like this guy and he likes me... but if i go out with him my friends will get mad at me well at leats some of them and i love my friends they mean so much to me and i dont want to hurt ther feelings... idk what i should do??? and i dont know why they will get mad??? please help!!

First of all I think you should talk to your friends. Say ya no you guys i really like him but i dont want you mad at me why dont you want me to go out with him... most likely there jealous because some of them probably like him. I guess in the long run your friends are much more important but do wat makes you happy... if your friends dont support your desicion and there jerks about it then they arent even worth your time. Hopefully you can go out with this guy and keep your frends if you can just get them to talk. I hope I helped rate me and post for more help
good luck
kel

Q: is jessica simpson a real blonde??

Yes I do think that Jessica simpson is a natural blonde Ashlee just dyed her hair brunett but yes both girls are true blondes

Q: people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i?

Walking can help but you have to walk a little bit farther then if you were running. Running is what works for varius reasons 1) you moving different parts of your body stengthening muscles burning fat 2) when you run you tend to sweat and sweat is a good way to burn off fat and I am sure there are pros and cons to walking to. I suggest maybe take a nightly jog around the neighbor hood go at your own pace, bring a water bottle, and take brakes when you need them. I am sure results will come to you quick if you try hard enough.
I hope I helped
Kel

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Hey! I'm Kelli! I love shopping dancing singing cheerleading fashion anything girly! I have awesome friends and I love to give advice so ask me anything!