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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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I'm starting the brth control pill Ortho Tri-Cyclin Lo. Has anybody else taken this? And can you let me know the positives and negatives of it?!

Thanks so much!

could make you loose or gain weight
effective- two weeks.
could possibly help acne
if you want to know anything else let me know.

I asked my mom about going on birth control and she said she would get me some pills. I want to know if I do go on it, do you still have to use a condom? I know for sure that he dosen't have any diseases or anything. Just birth control reasons. And what's the chance that I could gain weight from it.
Thanks hun.

usually they tell you that you should use backup birth control (pertaining to condoms) but not many girls do.. i didn't and i never got pregnant.. but birth control is only 99% affective and god for bid if somehow that 1% was you then you'll be kicking yourself in the butt. most girls don't get pregnant when there on birth control but you have to remember to take the pill EVERY day. i set an alarm on my phone so i remmeber and sometimes i shut it off and still forget..

all girls are different with the weight thing.. when your on birth control it tricks your body into thinking your pregnant.. so some gain weight.. but some actually loose weight. most just stay the same.. but the chance isn't very big.. and if you start to gain weight tell your doctor and they'll put you on something else that will be better for your body etc. :]

i just made an account there, and i have two questions.
1. does it allow virgin mobile?
2. when i was putting my number in i put 1716 and nwo it thinks 171 is my area code and 716 is! so my number is ALL wrong how can i fix it!?

no worries. just go into your profile when your signed in and it will say "mobile phone number" 1712348972[change] hit the change button and change it

i met this guy awhile back. and we recently started dating ( june 8 2007 ) but i liked for a very long time. and i had to go away for the summer, two hours from him. we talk every night on the phone, and on the computer all the time. but sometimes it isnt good enough && i seem to cry all the time over it. i can`t stand being away from him. he means so much to me. sometimes i call him and when he answers i start to cry and hang up. i even acciendtly said i love you the other night hanging up. well i dont know if i meant it or not. i care so much about him and would do anything for him, he`s my baby. well my question is..... is this love && if not, how will i know if it hits me && what it love.

16/f

if you question if your in love your not. i know it's not the answer your looking for but you just REALLY care about him a lot and want to be with him all the time.. believe me baby when your in love you'll KNOW it. and have no doubts.

I was just wondering what exactly a child psycologist does, im considering it. since you want to be a phycologist, i figured you would know, thank u!

a child psycologist does the same things as a regualr psycologist except they specialize in talking to younger kids.

For example: lets say a girl is 7 and she got raped. her parent would like someone specialized in working with kids than an adult psycologist so they would come to you and you would talk to the young girl about the incident and ask her questions and let her express herself to you

hope i helped

i want to get a piercing somewhere on my ear that is simple.

i like a certian spot, but im not sure if its pure carlige, or had bones or vessles

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/DSCF1959.jpg

i circles the spot in red where i was wondering if thats all pure cartlage

PLEASE only amswer if you are 100% sure! =] thanx

pure cartlage and skin hunny.

every time my boyfriend and i see each other we have sex like 3-4 times in one day, we see each other either everyday or every other day.. is there any risks in having sex to much like health wise?

looked it up and theres something called the honeymooners infection. be careful and safe it's rare but could be likely

ok so when you go on the pill, how long does it take until you are actually protected? Like how long do you have to use it before you have sex?

k thanks.

depends what pill you takee.. i take ortho tycin and they told me two weeks. but i would take it safe and wait a month or so

ok well i sometimes use the water faucet to pleasure myself and i was wondering if like water in ur pussy is a bad thing. could it mess something up? after i do it water comes out so i dont know. haha k thanx

your fine sweetie.. everyone does it.. the water is fine.. won't damage anything

My boyfriend and I had sex. I noticed however, the condom was a tad bit to big. I'm almost positive we'll have sex again, but I want him to have a condom that fits right. How should I tell him he needs a smaller condom without making him feel bad about himself, or his.. um.. size ? Also, how do you buy a box of condoms that are the right size ? It's not like you can try them on.. haha =)

Thanks !!

you should go out and buy a box yourself and suprize him and tell him you want to try out the new ones he'll never know ;]

what is the yellow stuff coming out of my vagina

it's discharge it ocmes out usually hardcore when you due for your period

hey.

i answered a question on advicenators, later realizing that my answer was totally wrong and i really wanted to erase it. so i went to "edit answers" and deleted everything, thinking it would get removed from my column and my answer wouldn't appear on the question page. but i was wrong. i clicked "submit" and it said i hadn't entered anything in the box, which i hadn't. is there a way to reverse the process of answering a question as if though you never answered it in the first place?

thankss.

it used to delete the question.. but i guess peopel would cheat there ratings by deleting questions they got bad ratings on so now you can only edit the answer and not delete it.. i know it sucks =/ i was pretty mad myself.. but if you really want it off and have a good reason to just email dangernerd and he will get it off for you =]

i have an amazing boyfriend, he does everything you could emagine a wonderful boyfriend doing. we've been together 5 and a half months now. i used to be so happy with everything, but he's 3 years older than me. i'm only 15 and everything is so serious now. he also get VERY jealous, and i'm not allowed to talk to other guy, text any other guys or anything, i barely even get to hang out with my friends. i really love my boyfriend but i keep thinking do i really want to be so serious, i'm only 15 i need freedom.

i need some advice on what to do here?

plain and simple. you want to live your life.. you should be able to live your life your only 15 it's not like your oging to get married you know? you need to get out and be able to do things that normal 15 year olds do.. your too young to be so serious your only going to get hurt in the end.. he doesn't trust you .. and if you don't have trust then you have NOTHING. tell him you want a break.. to see if he's really what you want in a guy. or tell him to back off a little that he's too controlling and you want to live your life.

go to www. myspace.com/brandicyrus

when you go there scroll down to the 3rd pic, where miley and brandi are holding those computer thingies. Can anyone tell me what those are called and what you can do with them, they're price range, and where you can get them? And if you can go on internet can u go on the internet anywhere in the world, and do you have to pay for the internet?

but what do they do, what they're called, price ranges, and where to buy?

btw: thats not brandi's REALY myspace.

it's about a dollar a day.. which equals to about 30$ a month... one of my friends has them she got it from T-mobile called a sidekick.. it all depends on the price by what plan you get. just go to a T-mobile store usually located in your local mall for details =] if you need anything else just le tme know

How long after sex should I start seeing signs of pregnancy? And what are the first signs?? Thanks

first signs are nausia in the morning (aka the morning sickness), weight gain, you go to the bathroom way more than usual, boobs hurt, feeling really tired all the time, ... you will start seeing symptoms about one month after (or when your missed period comes) heres a website you should consider taking a quick look at http://www.womens-health-questions.com/pregnancysymptoms.html if you need anything else babe let me know =]

when i have sex it doesn't feel good, like my boyfriend and i have been together almost 6 months and decided to do it. but when he asks if i like it or it feels good i lie because i don't want him to think it's his fault.

is there somthing wrong with me?
what should i do about it?

use alottttttttttttt of lubercation. condoms rub and they hurt real bad for me anyway. it could be that i don't kno wif it was your first time or not.. but if it was then it's going to hurt for another 2-7 times that you do it.. it's because your vagina isn't used to stretching that much but don't worry hun it'll get better.. just give it time.. and if it still hurts then i would go see a doctor something could be wrong and that's why it gets so irritated if you need anything else ask

How long should I wait after sex to get an accurate result for a pregnancy test?

about a day before your period would come... for example if you had sex today and you usualy get your period on the 5th of the month you could take it the fourth.

My cousin is getting married this weekend. It's not a religious wedding. There is no official dress code, but the bride said to my sister that we should wear anything that makes us feel gorgeous and we can dance in.

I am wearing a navy dress that I think is dressy without being the kind of thing that you would only wear to a wedding (I might wear it to a very nice restrurant or a grown-up party). My younger sister (19) is worried about what she should wear. I was going to lend her a dress of mine in a similar style to the one I'm wearing, but it's black. Is this inappropriate for a wedding that doesn't have a dress code, but isn't totally casual? The only other dresses I could lend her are really formal, and I would be worried she'd be overdressed.

Thanks in advance.

she'll be fine =] no dress code = wear anything you want.. usually they don't wear hardcore formal dresses because it takes away from the brides beautiful dress. so yeah lend her your dress and all will be well =]

uhh yeah so this is weird but like im a girl and i was just wondering how some of you masturbate withought using anything you have to go out and buy. pleassssssse ansawer

you can buy a vibrator from spencers or any local condom store most girls use them

uh.. What is spooning?

it could be cuddling from behind (i love that =] ) or anal/ kind of lik doggie style.

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