Holla, My name is Heather
I am 15 and in 9th grade and i go to school at Ferndale High School. I love to talk on the phone and comp, hang out with friends and of course give advice. I am a cheerleader, takes dance at school, volleyball player. I am single and looking right now. If u wanna know some thing u can im me on aim or msn or yahoo or email me.
E-mail: troubleinventor@hotmail.com
Location: j-town
Occupation: student at Ferndale Area Jr/Sr high school
Age: 15
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This chick insist that she is going out with my boyfriend.. he tells me its not true and i know its not true cuz he is always with me or on the phone with me.. and if not he is with my cousin hanging out.. or he is at work.. i know this because.. i know when he works and i know my cousin wouldnt let him hurt me like that.. i know where this chick lives and i know her name and her age and what skool she goes to and everything... she use to be friends with one of my friends... but im not sure what to do.. if you were in my shoe's what would you do? (link)
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well if u know that ur man ain't cheatin on u and u know where he is at then don't worry about the girl she only wants u guys to break up so she could have him have trust in the guy don't be like i hear this and this just be over the phone one day and tell him about this girl.. but don't go and call the girl she apperently only wants attion so forget about her and life ur relationship don't let anyone try messin up give trust get it...
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okay well theres this one boy who i really like. hes not that good looking lol but hes really nice and funny and i like him a LOT! well anyways he says he likes me too (i dont know if i believe him cuz hes said that to gurls before but he didnt really like them i guess) and in the halls he always touches me and says hi and stuff.. well he has a gf. they have been going out for like months. they recently "did it" even tho shes 13 and hes like 15. well i like him a LOT and cant stop. well what im asking is do u think he likes me if he says hi and we talk online a lot and he flirts with me.. im confused about this. :-\ (link)
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well thats a tough one i mean alot of guys can do that and really like u or just do that b.c they wanna "do it" but in ur case if he has a girl than whatch out cause u don't wanna be havin problems with his girlfriend i say stay away but u can talk to him but don't let the stuff he tells u he just might be sweet talkin u cause if he liked u he wouldn't be havina girlfriend just becareful
good luck
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this has really been getting on my nerves lately. and i just dont know if this should be going on. this is the thing: i could do anything little thing and i end up thinking about it for the rest of the day. like if i do something and it wont even have to be a "bad thing" then i think back on it and im like i should of done this or i should have done that and then i can never et it out of my system. its the most annoying thing ever. is somethin wrong or does n e one have advice for helping me loose this "concious" bc i think thats it... PLEASE HELP! (link)
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well next time this happens be like yeah that could of happen yeah i should of did that but i didn't and just try to let it go u shouldn't put ur self in this position like don't make ur mind go throw this stress it is ok to think about what could of happen but focas on what happen..
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14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
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well do u think that maybe that yeah they do like u and wanna go out with u but friends are more imporant than havin a girlfriend who ur friend went out with or maybe he still likes u and thay know that if they go out with u than he would get mad and he ain't stopin u u just forget about him and find someone who doesn't hang out with him and that means that it wasn't love maybe u thought that but it isn't there are alot of boyz out there and one u will fall in love it just hasn't happen yet...
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Ok i only want answers from someone who cuts/ used to cut. Why do you do it? I cut so often and I'm really depressed and it just makes me feel so good. But what specifically for you was it that made you want to cut? I think getting ideas from others would help me. Thank you. (link)
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i used to cut to take the pain that i had inside of me out cause there was no other way to do it i wouldn't tell anyone how i felt i keep it in and cryed every night and cut my self also i didn't it b.c the boyfriend i had was always puttin me down and made me feel so bad but i loved him in every way also friends wasn't helpin ethier they were made cause i was cuttin that didn't make it better but one day i got sick of holdin in my feelings that i went to mental health and got treated i am so glad that i was able to admit this problem that i had i haven't cut for 6 months.. need any help gettin over this im me or email me i would love to help
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One of my closest guy friends just told me he fancies me. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend but now I don't know how I can carry on as normal with him. And what makes it worse is my boyfriend is his best friend. (link)
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well u can just let him there is nuttin u could do but i mean u don't have feelings for him do u maybe it was only a one time deal u never know but i would ask him why he is doin that and talk things threw b.c u wound't want u and ur b/f realtionship to be messed up so i would talk it over with him..
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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris hes a sophmore and im a frshman.. and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hi or sumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-\thankss (link)
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well just go up to him (chris) and be like hi and usually guys would be like hey whats up and if he doesn't say anything be like u don't know me but i am and tell him ur name and than start a convo that way and i wouldn't just jump in and be like i like u just start off slow and when u get to know him than tell him later on and i don't think anything would hurt if u went up to him and asked if he wants to hang out but u gotta introduce ur self first before u go right up to him and ask him to hang out he might be shy or weird cause he don't know who u are well email me back to let me how it went
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what happens during a gyno appt.? (link)
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well all doctors are different but they mostly do the same thing like u get a paps smear done thats when they check ur vigina for std and other stuff that could be wrong and they ask u questions thats most of all it really depends on what u are there for...
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okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out??? (link)
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i had the same problem i know hoe u feel and what i did is went to a hosptal like in mental health and i ain't tryin to be a bad person but u need to tell some one i was like u and held it in and than i had to tell someone not only does cuttin hurt u it hurts ur whole family and it took me a while to figure that out so plz plz will u tell someone or find different ways to take out anger or get the high feeling and cuttin ur self and not tellin anyone u might even cut ur self too deep and die not wanting too plz email me back and plz tell some one
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How should you go about treating an addiction (I don't want to be specific so just say in general) Please help! I'll rate anyone who answers back. Thanks so much. (link)
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well it really depends on what addition u have if it is really serious than go to ur mom or doctors to see if u can go to a help center to get help or stay in the hospital over night and get treated
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to reach my weight goal i need to lose 8 pounds, but these last pounds just won't come off! what is a good way to lose weight? (link)
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walk around like around ur house or at a track and drink alot of water 8 glasses a day i know too much water but it is worth it
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Hi. I have been having this problem with my blatter. I haven't been able to tell weather i have to pee or not. I have recently done some drugs that I beleive could mess up my kidney's but I have also had sex. I am wondering if sex can make you not know if you can pee, and also give you a felling of for example. A day when you havent pee'd for a while and you need to go really bad. That feeling...but when u sit down..nothing comes out. Could that be from sex? Or no. Plz do not delete this. After this question I'll never ask it again! Plz and thank you.
-911 help (link)
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no it prolly isn't from havin sex takin pills can mess up ur kidneys and other stuff plz email me back to let me know what u took but u should go to the doctors so u can be treated
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Hey sorry its long but I dont kno what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart n I could never love anyone this much. He is my whole world, he means everything n more to me. He has cheated on me a few times n I've cheated on him. But anyways this last time he cheated on me, he promised n swore on my life that he would never do it again, n said he loved me more then anything n he couldnt live without me. But now this girl is telling me that he tells her he misses her n wishes he could turn back tha hands of time, but he says tha same thing to me. We've been together 3 years, n we've broken up before n I just cant even live..I cant go on without him, I go crazy, we've been through so much, n I hurt myself whenever we fight...What do I do :( (link)
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to tell u the truth i have been in one of these situations and what i did was let it play out i talked to the girl online and saved the convo and when he came over my house the next day he read it and i knew on his face that he was liening to me so we talked about it and i relize that yeah i did love him but if we are cheatin on each other then it wasn't meant to be.
hopefully u and ur b/f will try to work things out email me to let me know whats goin on
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
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well.. if thats what u wanna do is have a baby than go for it it don't matter what ppl think as long as u and ur b/f are ready to commit to this idea email me back and tell me how things are..goog luck
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OK here's my story...
I just started high school and I became friends with this really sweet guy. And I like him and I think he likes me too. Well yesterday he told me that him and his gf broke up. And every single day he always hangs out with me at lunch!! And we stand really close hehe. Well he gave this girl a hug the other day n all but I dont know if hes goin out with her - but Ill know hes not if he hangs out with me tomorrow! He always stares/flirts with me! I love him to death! Should I make a move or something?? Don't tell me to ask him if he likes me cause I can't do that!And do you think he might like me too? Please help! Thanks! -Ems- (link)
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well... u should flirt back to know that u are interrested in him and if u guys are hangin out bring up the question and ask him if he is seen anyone and if he says no than be like ok and don't worry about and hugs don't also mean they are goin out that could be his friend.. good luck
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