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Hey everyone my name is Calie. I am 13 years old and I am from Oregon.I have auborn blonde hair and blue eyes. I have a boyfriend and alot of friends,lol. Oh yeah and I am an only child. Also I play the drums.My friends always ask me for advice and whenever I do give it to them it does usually work. I mean I love to help people with problems. I promise you I will help so feel free to ask me for advice. Ciao for now!
~Calie~

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Im addicted to the computer. When ever i get home from wherever i am..i dart to the computer and if i don't get my reading done for school..ill lose computer for like 2 1/2 months! and i know im not gonna get my reading done. So im gonna like die with out computer! Can someone help me get over this? Thanx!

Just make yourself do other stuff. Tell your parents to take the computer away for a lil while then go and play some sports or something. I mean I like the computer, but there is not really an obssesion. Good Luck! ~Calie~

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My left foot feels really strange. It feels af if it doesn't get enough blood flow, because it feels numb, but on the top side of my foot. It has been doing this for a long time now. My right foot feels normal though. Also, I play tennis, so I'm usually on the courts about 5 times a week. Tennis requires lots of footwork, including mainly smaller steps. We also do lots of conditioning. Sometimes I step on my left foot wrong, and it hurts very badly. I think that I've strained it once before and it hasn't totally healed yet. It's a different pain than the other one I first mentioned. It's like a muscle limping type pain and it hurts very badly. It's been like this for a long time. I'm not really sure what I should do. My mom said that we might go see the doctor sometime, but does anybody know any thing that I can do at home to ease the pain. And don't tell me to lay off tennis, because I'm not about to do that. Please help and I rate.

I know what you mean I play tennis too, you should definately go to the doctor. Something might have happened while you were playing tennis, but I don't know. Just go to the doctor.
Tennis Rox. ~Calie~

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I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???

it's okay to wear the necklace, I mean I would. But it might make you feel uncomfortable if you are that kind of person. The necklace sounds cool so just wear it. ~Calie~

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Ok, well I asked the question: Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know??

Well, most people answered Signature Fragrance, but has anybody actually tried it?? Everybody but a few people said that they thought it was Signature, and the rest said that is was a cologne for men called Fierce. Has anybody tried it?? Thanks and I rate.

It is signiture fragrance and it smells really good. Bythe way also try hollister perfume. I love that stuff. ~Calie~

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I have a dog right now who is 7 years old - in human years. My brother and I really want another dog - a puppy- probably the same kind as the 1 I have now. But I just can't convince my parents!! Any ideas???!!

Well if your parents like your dog, be like please can we have another fdog we want to take care of it. Tell them how much fun your dog is and if you had another you would have alot more fun. Also tell them how adorable peuppies are. Hope you get one! ~Calie~

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I really like this boy. (lets call him Popcorn) But...the thing is I met him online. Not in a chatroom. Actually, I met him on advicenators...and...I started talking to Popcorn and we never made a connection really until during this past summer. We started talking a lot on AIM and I really like him. I told him...and he said he likes me too (this happened in the summer) He told me we shouldnt get into anything serious though because we live across the country from each other.
It's hurting.
I mean I thought it was all okay because my friend Brian asked me out...and we started going out and I thought that was better and stuff because Brian was someone whose actually here (not across the country and not someone I just talk to online)...and I really really liked Brian (we started going out in November)
Ever since September my computer has had a virus so I wasnt able to go online and talk to Popcorn for months...the only time I talked to him since my computer crashed was when I was over my friends house and we were online. So then Popcorn came online and I told him that I've been going out with someone named Brian for about a week, and he's like "really?!? I was just gonna tell you that I had a girlfriend."

And the freaky thing is...me and Popcorn both started going out with someone in the same week...and so we notified each other that we were going out with someone else...and we were both fine with each other going out with someone else I guess...

Then on Dec. 3 I broke up with Brian, (not because of Music) but just because it wasn't working between me and Brian and Brian said he still loves me (but I never loved him...I just liked him)...and we are still really really good friends...and since I broke up with Brian I cant stop thinking about Popcorn...and I really dont know if Popcorn still has a girlfriend.

And this may sound terrible, but I hope he doesn't...cuz I really like him again. I feel so selfish. I don't know why. Last night I was thinking about him and it just scares me that I really like him this much and I've never met him, although I love his personaility and his voice when he talked to me on mic before.

I just don't know what to do. My internet at home should be fixed soon...and I'll start talking to Popcorn again hopefully...but what if he still has a girlfriend?...and even if he doesn't, what can I do? I like him and I was thinking about him last night and you know how when you like someone you think about being with them and holding hands or kissing or something?...well...lets just say that's how it is with Popcorn. It was all of a sudden too. LIke I thought I stopped liking him and I still liked Brian after I broke up with him (I broke up with him because of a certain reason thats too hard to explain)...and yeah its just all confusing now...

But all I know is I still really like Popcorn, and I dont know what to do because obviously if he has a girlfriend he doesnt like me anymore...and even if he doesnt whose to say he likes me then?

Im sorry for it being so long of a question...please just help me with anything you can do...
I'm also a cutter, and I'm afraid to think about this too much because if I get upset I'm afraid I may cut myself more...and I cant because my family knows that I do it and every once in a while they check my arms.

okay sorry Im done now. Please help asap I have to get off this computer in about 30 minutes.

Thank you if you help.

-Me

Well I can see you really like popcorn and all, but how will you meet him and all. For instance if he doesn't have a girlfriend any more he cnat exactly go out with him on the computer. You might have to tell your parents and he might have to tell his so you can meet. Also you should get his number and talk to him on the phone so you can get to know him better. Also send him your picture, and ask him to send his s you know what he looks like. Good Luck! ~Calie~

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Hey i was just curious about dreams. Are they meant to predict the future, or are they just your brain's way of sorting through everything that's going on in your head. Is there an actual purpose for them or what?

i think it depends what kind of dream it is, if it's a bad dream, but not like over the edge maybe you should watch for something bad to happen. If it's something good, but again not like you are living in a 500 million dollar mansion it might not be true. Dreams are cool though. ~Calie~

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OK so me and my Best friend have been friends since like third grade...we live by eachother and we would hang out all the time....In Elementary school it was great..then when junior high hit we still hung out but not as much...we talked all the time and we were still very close...but then highschool happened....it seemed that she became friends with alot of the cooler crowd and would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her....Now we are in the same church group so i see her every sunday and she talked to me there....I kind of feel like i am her second wheel...like if no one better is around she will talk to me...or if all of her "cooler" friends were gone all weekend then she wood call me....is she just using me? I dont know what to do.....HELP!

She is not really your old friend any more. You need to stop being friends wit her, and if she calls you tell her you don't want to be friends wit her. She just hangs out with you when her new friends aren't there so they don't know you are her friend. Make a new bestfriend. ~Calie~

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ok i just broke up with my ex-boyfriend..and i was going to ask him back out, but then i find out that he likes my best friend,a few days ago my best friend was like freaking out and was like what if he ask me out what if he tells me he likes me what should i say and so on. I was pretty upset bout it b/c she is my best frined and before i went out with my ex she used to liked him..so how do i know if she doesnt like him or how can i tell she is lying bout liking him..thanks and i hope this makes sence
-me

Just ask your friend if she likes him. She is your bestfriend just ask her and tell her you wont be mad at her for telling the truth. You need yo move on though. Get a new guy, so your ex knows that you aren't still sobbing about him. If your friend does like him, be happy for her because you and your ex are over with. Sorry for sounding harsh, but I am serious. ~Calie~

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My friends and I love hanging out together. We usually meet up at the same place, go and get a milkshake or something then go back to someone's house. The problem is, we're getting bored of doing the same thing all the time. It's winter now and we live in England, it's freezing so we can't do anything outside. Neither of us have much money so we can't go bowling or to the cinema. Does anyone have any ideas of things we could do together? There is about 6 of us.

Well Since you don't have money, you guys can watch movies that you already have and just relax. I mean there are six of you, you can do something. You can im (instant messsage) people you don't like and bug them if you can get their sns. Good Luck! ~Calie~

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the other night i had a dream that i made out with this cute guy i know. i used to have a crush on his cousin, and thats how i met him. after that dream, i can only think about making out with him. does that mean that i like him or is it just a dream and im over-reacting or WHAT?? i am so confused?

-nikki

Don't worry it's nothing. I mean you were probably thinking about him in the past few days or so. If you do like hm that's a different thing, but i don't think you do. ~Calie~

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ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!

That sux. Either you need to spend less time with your dad's famiyl or just ignore them. They are being immature and are getting to you. When they something to you just be like hey you are right and just like tak it as a joke and agree with them. They won't have a clue what's going on and that will annoy them. Hope I helped. ~Calie~

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I know someone who is really big on theater just as I am, but I don't think she likes me very much. I have tried talking to her, but she doesn't listen. What should I do?

Ask her what her problem is. She is probably just intimidated by you. Also if she is rude and doesn't want to talk to you, be rude back. She might think you are better than her. Good Luck! ~Calie~

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So I'm just wondering...if you want to be a model and you are a girl, what are some basic requirements that most agencies want?

Like the others said you have to be photogenic. Also you have to be graceful and poised. You can't be like clumsy and mess around. Also if you are modeling you have to keep a serious face.
Good Luck! ~Calie~

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I just got spacers about 4 hours ago. I felt just a pinch when I got them on but now they hurt so much I cannot bite down. On Jan. 12 I will be getting braces. I am wondering are they going to hurt more then the spacers, and how can I relieve the pain. Thanks in advance.

Trust me spacers hurt way more than braces. I hated spacers. Don't worry braces will feel better than spacers did. Though they hurt a bit and feel weird the first few days. Good Luck and remember soon you will have awesome teeth. ~Calie~

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Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know?? Thanks!

It's signiture fragrance I think. Though I like all of them. ~Calie~

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I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????



* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too

Well you need to break up with him, but be gentle. Tell him that you don't feel a connection btw you two. Tell him you still want to be friends though. Good Luck. ~Calie~

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I have chlostrophobia and my parents don't really know. Is this something i should ask my doctor about or is it just something normal?
Plz help. I keep having moments where i can't breath.

You need to talk to your parents and your doctor, I mean this isn't normal. Alot of people are chlostrophobic, but still you need to let your parents know. Also if you don't tell your parents and you can't breathe, you could me in serious danger. Good Luck! ~Calie~

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my best friend likes me and he asked me if i want to go out.What should i say?

Well do you like him? Say yes if you do, but also think about if you want to keep him as a bestfriend. ~Calie~

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which name do you like better...Ashley or Gabrielle?

I like Ashley. I think it's just a pretty and fun name. ~Calie~

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