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So, recently I have gotten my heartbroken by this guy I really like. We were talk talking for about a month but then he told me he wanted to stop talking to me like that because he had alot of stuff going on in his life. I told him I understood and that I'll always be there for him no matter what. All of my friends keep telling me to move on but no matter what I do I just can't stop liking him. So, should I just wait for him? (link)
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Uh, no. The thing about boys is that they say what they mean. Really, I promise, they do. If he doesn't want to be with you, he'll try to find a way to be nice about it, but he doesn't want to be with you.
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18/f me and my ex just recently officially broke up a week ago but we have been on and off for about a month now. He heard i cheated on him but i never did and he has done everything to get me out if his life, changed his # twice, told the gateguards at his community to not let me in and even blocked me on facebook. I was with him for a year and 8 months, and i cant just let go without a fight. His friend just gave me his new number but i dont want to mess it up again, what do i say to get him to give me another chance? (link)
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Let it go. Seriously. Its terribly hard, but it's the best thing that could happen. This boy doesn't sound over you. I think even his friend knew that or he wouldn't have given you his new number. If you want, and if the friend is willing, you could pass him a note that says something like, "i'd never do something like that to you. If you want to talk,you know where I am." Then LEAVE IT ALONE. If he's going to come to reason, it's not going to be because you've badgered him to death.
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I just have a quick question. I was wondering do dreams give you a message. Because i always have weird dreams mixed. Like a slideshow. from one thing to the other. Later the same day or a few days later i have a daja vu. Than i wonder if it really happened or if i just dreamed it and then it happened. (link)
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Different people will respond to the question with different opinions, obviously. But, I believe that some dreams are just a play back of your subconscious thoughts. Imagine that you're a yo yo (if you're old enough to know about that reference) and your string is wound very tightly by the end of the day, for one reason or another. Dreams are the unwinding of the yo yo (like when you let the yo yo go and it spins until all of the string is out). These dreams are your brain releasing all of the thoughts and tension of the day, in order to refresh you for the next day.
Another way of looking at dreams is that they're a prediction of what's to come. This would be a fun way of looking at it, except chances are you aren't pyschic.
Like you,I've had the same dream enough times that I can't remember if it really happened or not. A pyschic may tell you something like there's a reason for these repeated dreams, but I think in reality it's just something your brain is working through,like everything else. :)
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Me and my best friend were really close. But one day, she started hanging out with a girl I didn't like(She knows I don't like her). And the other day, the girl started talking crap to me, and she just agreed to everything. Anyways, she started hanging out with her, and I can't stand it. What do I do? I don't want to tell her I don't like the girl or ask to hang out.. Help quickly please! (link)
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For whatever reason, your friend is hanging out with this new girl. Maybe you've done something to upset your friend and she's just acting out of anger. Maybe your friend just wants to be friends with the other girl more because she's popular/ has something she wants/ etc etc. Anywho, your best answer would be to just talk to your friend. Remember, there are good qualities in everyone,and you should try to be open minded to what this new girls good qualities are.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years but we've been fighting alot lately.. He found out I was moving in 1 month and everuthing just went down hill. I want to know what I can do to just drop the situation and be like before?? Always laughing and hugging and kissing and stuff.. (link)
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Iyt seems pretty obvious that he's upset you're leaving. Depending on how far you're moving, he might think/know its the end of your relationship. Plan fun dates in the mean time and try to communicate with him.
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Hey there(: I have been having this problem for a while now. It used to work just fine like when my sim turns into a young adult gets married and moves out and I don't chose them to be my active family, the story progression is supposed to go on as I marked on options, and I used too and they would have babies on their own. And my active family sims would become grandparents. Like I would be playing with my elder sims as my active family and their daughter and her husband moved out well I would be playing with my elders, and just randomly look at the family tree and their daughter and her husband would have children. Well it did that for a long time with all of y family's but now it won't for some reason. After my non active aims move out on their own they still age but never have kids married or not. I don't know why and it really disappoints me because I thought It was so cool! I have looked online for answers but couldn't find anything that mathed my situation so please help thanks(: (: (link)
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In addition to the person below me:
You can also try to fulfill all the wishes for your sims to earn points and buy the fertility trait. This will help your sims to have multiples. Also! If you're into using cheats hold down the shift, control and c keys so the cheat bar pops up. Next, type in "resetSim" while you're on the sim in your active household that's giving you trouble. You may need to type in the sim's name at the end of that cheat. That should help. Then hit the Esc key to exit the cheat box.
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what is the spanish word for vagina (link)
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Coño is another word.
Www.translate.google.com
check it out.
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I'm a female and I'm in 7th grade, I am very mature for my age. I recently got a boyfriend who is a freshman. I've liked him for 5 months and got the guts to ask him out. We've been going out since 12-11-11. And our days we spend together are simply amazing. He act the same as bestfriends like we were before but now we have more benefits obviously. So he's a smoker & I truly hate smokers , but I try to make it the best when he tells me he smokes. Recently a boy that hates me doesn't want me and my boyfriend together and wanted to ruin my plans for me and my boyfriend tomorrow. So instead of spending half the day with me he's going to get high with the boy. And I've honestly been telling him anything even lies to make him stop smoking but I guess he thought I wanted to break up with him when that wasn't the case at all. But I explained to him and I just really wanna know how can we last longer because I'm really in love with him & I wanna know what to say and what not to say to keep him as my boyfriend.
Thanks. (: (link)
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Communication is key in every relationship you will ever have in your life. Your relationship with your parents,siblings, best friends, anyone! If you have something to say to your boyfriend (like, for instance, something that's bothering you) you have to say it. Don't ever say anything without thinking it through in your head first. This isn't to say that you need to second guess yourself, just make sure the words you're going to say aren't going to hurt or offend anyone.
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Well when we r together he will hold my hand but he will look at me and smile some times he will bring his face close to miñe but ie does dare try to kiss me why (link)
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Boys always want to do more than holding hands. Now,this isn't some sexist comment against men because we aren't talking about men, we're talking about boys. Kiss him on the cheek if you want to give him a little nudge, he's probably just shy.
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Hi
When guys ask me to do stuff its hard for me to say no. I really enjoy fooling around and it feels really good. I dont want to be a "slut" but I really do enjoy it. How do you enjoy pleasure without being seen as a slut?
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If you want to feel really good but not be seen as a slut,don't do stuff with every boy that you meet. Often, if you're in a steady relationship,people don't talk as much. Or, just pleasure yourself by youreself. That's about it.
Like the person below me said, people will always have something to say. As a generally blank statement, if you're young enough to ask this question,you're too young to be fooling around. Trust me. But over all, make sure you're being safe and safe and safe! You hear me? No fooling around today should not change the course of the rest of your life.
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I found out I have clamydia I think I have had it for 4 months without knowing. I took medicine my doc prescribed (one dosage) and it has been one week since then...I still have symptoms they even appear to have worsened. Is this normal how much longer will it take to clear up? please help (link)
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Definitely consult your doctor. Your symptoms wouldn't disappear over night but they shouldn't be getting worse, I wouldn't think. Talk to the doctor, thats why they get paid so much. Hahs
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how to ride your boyfriend?
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First, you're going to have to convince him to get on all fours. Then, throw a blanket over his back, attach a belt (for you to hold on to, obviously) snug around his waist. Then all you've got to do is climb aboard!
And if you're referring to riding him sexually, that's what Cosmo, Google, and Urbandictionary.com is for. It's doubtful that many people on this site learned sex positions from asking people on the internet. Plus, if I'm not mistaken, we get in trouble for going into too much detail on that sort of thing.
But for your reading, check this out:
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/woman-on-top-sex-positions
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If I buy a vibrator from Amazon that ships from Amazon, what will come up on my debit card statement? Will it say I bought a vibrator?
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No, typically a purchase shows up on your statement as the store name, the date, and a price. It's typically the same as if it said, Walmart 9/30/11 $4.86.
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me and my girlfriend are gay and plan on getting married and want to join the navy or coast guard. what are the rules about marriage? is it the same as if a man and woman are married? we do not want to be stationed in different areas. thanks for any help ! (link)
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This is something that you should be talking to a recruiter about. You're signing a contract with them, not us. No one will know better than them.
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What does it mean when a guy calls a girl lil woman or lil mama? (link)
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It's terribly unattractive in my opinion... but it's just like calling someone baby or sweetheart. It's said to have come from the New Orleans area in the 90's.
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i have this scab on my knee and on my foot it wont let me move or if i do it kanes i really just want to know how to make the scab...not so tight thanks!! (link)
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Don't pick at it. Moisturize it with something like vaseline or the equivalent.
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do i need braces
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Since no one on the internet will be paying for braces for you, I'd advise you speak to your parents and an orthodontist. If you were attempted to get us to rate a picture of some sort, there wasnt a link attached to your question.
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can a 43 year old man turn into a woman? (link)
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I'm sorry,have you ever seen Craigslist personals? Of course they can.
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I am 14 and I have always had really irregular periods and there is no way for me to really predict when my next period will be, are there any really prominent signs that will be a heads up that i will be starting my period soon? (link)
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First of all, try to track your period if possible, if you don't already . If you get an idea of a pattern, no matter how wonky it may be, you'll feel more prepared. Secondly, pay attention to how your body changes through out the month. Your acne, discharge, breasts, and even clothes will change through out the month. Typically, when everything begins feeling tender and sensitive your period on its way.
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So ive been in love with this guy for over a year. we have dated a couple times, but have always stayed involved. we are pretty good friends and he knows im in love with him. and i dont think he loves me back. which is fine with me, he doesnt have to love me back. but he told me he wanted to go back out, and was really sweet about it and everything. but i told him to give me a few days to think it over. so while i was thinking he went and slept with some chick i hated in the first place (i despise her now). hes always doing stuff like that. like hooking up with me then asking someone else out the same day. i know it would be smart to stop trying and give him up for good. but i love him with all my heart. hes the only person who makes me genuinly happy. and i would do anything, be anything for him. what do i do? continue to give him my heart or try to move on? and if i should move on how? how do i stop loveing him?
-female, 16 (link)
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Stop. Stop stop stop what you are doing. He is not interested in you. Think about it, in the same breath that you said he's the only one that makes you happy,you also said he slept with someone you hate. Did that make you happy?
I'm going to sound like an old fart when I say this, but this guy clearly, CLEARLY, is not the right guy for you. Don't get stressed out over it, that just means someone else is. Let this one go. You might love him with all of your heart now, but chances are you'll love someone else with all of your heart in a couple of years,and it will be a completely different love. You can't just flip the love switch, so to speak, to off and be able to move on, it's going to suck for sure, but its something you have to do. You know this. You just needed us to give you an anonymous kick in the pants. Be strong. You can do it.
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