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Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥ (link)
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hook ups are totatlly..fine and healthy..
the only thing is if you let too many people find out, they might start saying things..so just try and keep it on the downlow..either way as long as you like it :)
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ok im not gonna tell u my reason why i am asking this cuz its a long story but would they have halftime at a football game at 9-10pm at night for a SCHOOL? (link)
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if it is a friday night then yeah...suring the week school arent suposed to have the games going on past ten o''clock...but i know my athletic director told me that hihschool games on friday and saturday can go up to midnight
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I'm a teenage g i r l. There's a guy who I want to hook up with, and we planned it for next month. I want to do it really badly, as I'm not a christian so I can do whatever I want sexually. But the thing is: I just can't decide if the pleasure is worth the guilt I'll suffer from- if there IS going to be any guilt. I just don't know how guilty I'd feel afterwards. Especially IF and WHEN i happen to meet someone worth dating or marrying.
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if you want to hook up with someone, go ahead. i dont see what is stopping you. beacuse most likely if you do find someone on the firute worth dating and worth getting married to, they will love//like you too wuch to have thatimpact their decision anyways...i mean i like by boyfriend more than alot and when we started dating i thought he wasnt going to like the fact that i had sex before him but her really didnt care..he told me that he likes me for me and as long as i dont change how i am now he wants nothing less...soo if i were you i would go for it...just if you do, dont be guilty because you know it is something you wanted...so dont regret(=
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considered a slut if she has sex on the first date? (link)
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well alot of people consider being a slut many things..i personally think a slut os someone who has sex with ALOT of people in a short span..i mean its not always a good thing to let yourself go early but who cares...its your body and do what feels right..if people judge you, let them go. most of the time when people judge they are to discouraged about themselves annyways
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Okay, so at the end of lastyear, me and lets say there names are, Christen, Kaliegh, and Brittney
we were all bestfriends, and this year, me and Christen got into the same class and Brittney and Kaliegh did, but the thing is, me and Christen are bestfriends now, but Kaliegh doesn't like Christen and she just wants to be my bestfriend, but me and christen are, Christens the one that likes the same guy as me...and well Kalieghs mad at me. and i dont know what to do, since i like hanging out with Cristen I can be myself, and around anyone else. i feel obligated to act differently, but Kaliegh tells everyone that she wants to be my bestfriend, i dont feel the same way about her anymore. what shouold i do :S and how should i break that to her?? (link)
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well you can be bestfriends with more than 2 people..like i have ONE BESTfriend but MANY CLOSE friends...and if you dont wasnt to beBESTfriends with kaliegh then me like with christen i can be myself and not think twice..no one cares how i act because im ymself but with you ,,you make it seem like icant be me and i dont like that..i want to be friends with you but i already have a BESTfriend..yah knowand since christen is your BESTfriend it should be easy for you to expplain the whole boy thing because she knows you for you and understand you..so i would try talking to christen and then tell kaleigh whats up, dont be shy
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Yeah i could do that, but i dont want to feel annoying, and he did, but my bestfriends really effing pretty, and i know that im no comparessen to her :( (link)
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see now by saying that hes not gunna compare you two..but if you have self confidence u never know the comparison..and beauty doesnt always matter:) but just chilling with aLL of your friends might be good for you and talk to him everyonce in awhile and maybehe will realize what hes missing...
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Hey. I'm 14/f and I was just wondering in Abercrombie & Fitch, abercrombie, Hollister, and American Eagles have Thankgsgiving sales. And if you could tell me if others stores like Delias, Forever 21, etc. have Thanksgiving sales I would gladly appreciate it :) Thanks and (link)
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well the friday after thanksgiving is black friday and almost any store i can think of has huge sales :)
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I found out that my brother smoked pot and I saw that he kept doing it so I told my mom (who doesn't believe me) but now my brother is being a jerk when all I wanted to do was help him what should I do?
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i know you care abotu your brother and everything but if i were you, id let it go..because the more you ell on him and tell your mom stuff, the angrieer hes going to get at you..and by the looks of it you dont like when hes mad at you..i mean it might not be a wonderful/healthy thing smoking pot..but many people do it usually its just a stage..who knows maybe he will stop within a few days or weeks or something..
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okay, so today, my bestfriend, gave me her password, and i kinda looked at her messages...and one was from the guy i liked (remember me tell you about him) and there was a whole bunch of things telling her that when we went to his house, he wanted to kiss her really badly and stuff, so i decided not to goto the airport and tell him how i feel since he probley just likes her anyways. awe, why can't good things happen to me?? :( (link)
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awwe well what if u call him or e-mail him or even talk through instant messenger?...if you do that, that way you can be like so whats up with you and (your friend) do yah liker her?..and try figuring it out that way..but its still worth a try because didnt u say he wanted to kiss you too?..who knows it wouldnt hurt to try now would it?..if you dont want to dont..im just letting you know that you hae nothing to lose..
:)
-Bri
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Alright. My boyfriend and I have thought a LOT about having sex with each other. I really want to and I'm ready but I'm only 15, and if I explained to my folks that I need birth control, they'd kill me. I know I'm ready because we've been dating for quite sometime, and I'm very in love with him and I want him to be my first. We've planned to stay together for a while and I'm not one of those girls who just blabber on and on about how I love this person so so so much. I take things seriously and I don't say I love you every 5 minutes because it's something very special to say. Not only do you have a healthy, good physical relationship with each other, we've got an amazing emotional one too. We're so open with each other, it throws me off guard sometimes. He's my best friend in the whole wide world and we even broke up with each other a few months ago but we never stopped talking like we do now and we didn't stop seeing other. He's amazing, I love him, and we can't ever get enough of each other. At school, we're together, and then after school we're on the phone until bedtime. Then on weekends we're together. Theres always things to talk about when we're together and theres always things to do. We get along amazingly and we have a really strong connection. Hes so practical and logical too. He's very smart with his decisions and he's helped me along so well. I've had a lot happen to me the past few years and I went off track but now my life is great and things are going smoothly. See now I want to have sex with him, and I already think my parents suspect that we fool around. Would fooling around be considered sexually active? Do I sound ready for sex? Someone please help me, I've talked to him about this as well and he doesn't know what to do. We need some clearing up!! (link)
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well just to let you know i am sexually active with my boyfriend and i am also 15 years old.
-it sounds to me that your ready, and that he is too.. the first time you have sex expecially since its with someone you love should be a very soulfull experience and it seems like you have it
-now with the birthcontrol..you can ask your doctor and they will give it to you and not tell your parents..thats what i did and then when i was ready i told my mom..you can also get birthcontrol at plan parent hood..but even if you do go on birthcontrol make sure u still use a condom for at least your first cycle. beacuse birthcontrol doesnt prevent chlimydia hiv or anything like that..just as long as you know that and that you know everything that BC has to do with..good luck (:
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Female/sophomore in highschool
Guys just don't see me in "that way"
I'm overweight and I feel ugly all the time
It's really bringing down my confidence.
I try to brush it off, but it still hurts.
What can I do to give my confidence a boost?
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the best thing i can tell you is to havea confidence in yourself..if you have high self esteem people will realize that and love it..if you have low self-esteem people might take advantage or just have none at all...talk to people and your friends. your still young so i wouldnt be worried about the whole guy thing. just please try to start thinking that you are unique and pretty and feel good about yourself..trust me it will hep you in the long run(:
-Bri
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Hi, I am 15 years old and I have been smoking marijuana for two years. I am beginning to feel incredibly guilty about this because my best friend doesn't know about this issue. My only problem is that I don't want to stop. I like it and I have fun doing it. But I feel guilty and I am slowly becoming dependent on it. Please help. Should I tell my friend and try to stop? Or should I keep on doing what I'm doing? (link)
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well i to smoke pot..and its your decision, if your friend finds out he/she has no right to be mad. but you cant get addicted to marijuana the reason why you crave it is out of habit. or just because you know ou can do it. if you want, you can tel your friend and if u want, you can quit. its up to you wether or not you REALLY want to quit, nobody really has a say.
-Bri
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Ok...i am a catholic and my step mom is a babtist and she asked me if i wanted to go to church with her sometimes...is it okay if i go to a babtist church when i am a catholic? thanks in advance. (link)
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yeah thats fine. beacuse no matter what religion you were "baptised" as, each one still beleaves i the same thing..GOD..even though each church has a way of presenting it. your not going against anything of you do..your still praying and doing the holy thing..im catholic and still to this day go to a methodist chruch sometimes.. i think your parents and "god" would rather you go to different churches than to nowt go at all
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okay well my EX is trying to get with one of my CLOSEST friends and i dont know what to do,i mean i know that seh likes him and i dont want to ruin that for her, but there are 3 things:
1. he still is tryin to get back with his EX
2. he treated me like shit so i kno hell do the same with her
3. hes MY EX!!!
how do i tell her how i feel and that i disagree with them getting together???
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well ill tell you what i did because surprisingly enogh i was in the same situation.
-if she is one of your closest friends dont you think she should know how you would feel with the situation?
-tell her that even though you guys broke up it would really hurt you if they went out or got together or anything.
-make it personal and have feeling, let her know your emotions about the situation and dont hide anything
-if she is a true best friend she wont go with him or she will at least wait until your ready.
i wish you the best of luck!
-Bri
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ok so i want to get a razr from this website lorealparisusa.com and its teal and so if i bought that could i pick the plan i wanted like if i wanted to get verizon for it do you think i could?? (link)
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yeah i doont see why not, but let me tell you from experience with the razr..THEY SUCK...they are nothing but problems and junk (:hah
-Bri
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my boyfriends in jail and we don't know when he'll get out yet it could be anytime from this week til january.i miss him and he got arrested halloween night. lately he's been telling me he expects me to cheat on him although i won't but he expects me to since i'm in the real world and he's in jail. and i told him i won't and i really won't and we don't love eachother. but lately i feel like he doesn't wanna be with me ut im scared to bring it up while we're talking on the phone. i aslso don't know how to bring i up. i need some help with how to start the subject please. (link)
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well, when your on the phone with him and he starts bringing up the whole "Your gunna cheat on me" deal, just say something like What dont you understand, i hae been with you for (so and so) amount fo time period and im with you now..if i was going to cheat on you dont you think i would have broken up with you?..you should know im not the type of person to do that, i care about you wayy tooo much to do that. once i told my boyfriend that he was okay (
hope i helped Good Luck!(=
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14/f. i like my guy best friend. he's so awesome and i feel like we can have a really good relationship, but i don't know if he likes me. plus, there's this other girl he's friends with, and during a field trip we had friday, they were together the whole time. they're not going out, but it really made me SOO JEALOUS. and i don't like feeling jealous, but what can i do?! there's times that i feel like asking him out to make sure he's mine and cuz i've been waiting for so long. i really really do like him. the people who knows that i like him told me to just tell him, but i'm scared as hell. this is not like the other boys that i've liked, cuz i wasn't such great friends with them, and i don't wanna ruin our friendship. so what should i do? (link)
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i personally dont think that by you telling him you like him is going to ruin your friendship. if one day you two are alone and are just talking about randon things be like (lets say his names john=P) be like "john im starting to realize i like you than more of a friend.. and i dont want that to affect how we are now so what is your input on it. that might work (:
good luck!
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okayy. So is it possible for a guy 2 years older than you to like you. Last year we went to the same schoool, this year, we go to different schoools. Last year, he was like "well ill go out wtih you in like 3 years" just like randomly as im talking to him online. And at that point, i had no feelings for him so i thought it was kind of odd. then through the year, after talking to him, i really started to like him. And now that we dont go to the same schools, i barely talk to him. And i dont know if im wasting my time and should move on? Or if i should really consider going out with him. Last year some of his friends would be like yeah i think he likes you. But i always am like "no thats too good to be true" I just want to know some other peoples opinions on this. Thanks so muchh! :] (link)
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yes it is very possible and it happens ALL the time, i also have aboyfriend two years older than me so i get what your saying..but just try talking to him more. call him or im him. let it be known that you still think about him and care. ask him to hang out and just be out there. in the meantime if nothing works just go on as you do and eventually you will figure otu what is oing to happen with the both of you.
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does anybody know a site where you can get cheap uggs? dont say ebay thanks (link)
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try alloy.com
im not sure how cheap they will be, but they are cheaper than like the mall and everything(:
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I'm very afraid of storms and wind at night. I have to hand my hands over my ears to fall asleep. My heart just pounds and pounds. If the storm gets really bad, or loud for that matter, I go sleep my parents or my mom comes to sleep in my bed.
The sound of wind or thunder or rain is what scares, as well as power outages. Now that it is winter, it is a bit stormy almost every night, and it's horrible.
How can I rid myself of this terrible fear?
P.S. I am afraid right now, as it is 7:30 pm and it is windy and rainy. (link)
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try getting one of those cd's that sound like its raining and thundering. the nature ones, go in your room(during the day)and turn off your light, close your windows and blinds. play the music..get used to it, and just try to lay in your bed..getting used to something takes awhile, you have to adjust your mind setting to be able to accept things. if you get used to that eventually do it at night and within time you should be able to get through storms moreand more.
Good Luck(:
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