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My room is always messy and when I clean it up it just gets messy again! Im try to keep organized but it just never seems to work! What are some tips or things I can put in my room that will help me?

First give your room the bestest(haha) cleaning its ever had in its life! It may take a long time but you sure will be thankful when it comes to organizing. After you are done go buy some clear boxs and maybe some cute little shelves, you can use cups to keep pencils and markers. After that, seperate all your things into categories (ex. shoes,books,pencils etc.) Then you can easily put the things into boxes and label. Good Luck ! ! !

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If you are wearing Navy blue corderoys (sp), a turquoise and silver and black belt and silver and black and blue shoes what color shirt should you wear?

I reccomend ditching the navy blue pants :) They don't exactly match what you have mentioned above. If your determined in wearing them,then i would choose a navy bule shirt,particulary a one that shows the belt so you can have a little seperation. I would also mix in some silver jewlry and maybe a turquoise ring (or something small that can bring out the color a bit more. Good Luck!

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ok my homecoming is october 30th. i have a few questions. can anyone tell me a really good selftannig product because its told cold here to go tanning naturally and my mom wont let me go to a tanning bed. so that is my 1st question. my second one is can anyone give me a specific site for hairstyles for homecoming. and my 3rd and last question is what kind of dress should i get what colro and were (things like that for the dress) thank you guys so much! and i rate if it helps!

My friends tell me that Neautrogena Sunless Is a great product for sunless tanning but make sure you test the product on your hand or leg before you apply it all over (and make sure you apply it evenly). A great site that I love for prom is www.promspot.com ! Not only does it have hairstyles,it has tips,dresses,and so much more!I would reccomend checking out the dresses a PromSpot. They are super-cute! Good Luck and I hopw you have a great homecoming!

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This friend of mine, "Jane Doe", (name changed to protect the innocent) who will do anything for attention. She constantly changes her personality based on the people she's around. Not only that, but if she wants attention, she'll go make out with anyone who'll let her in order to get that attention. I've tried multiple times to talk to her, but she doesnt wanna hear it. Also, my other friends have noticed "Jane"'s behavior and they've also tried to talk to her. Is there ANY way at all that we can talk to her without her tuning us out? Because we're afraid she's gonna get hurt, and we have alot of weight on our shoulders b/c of "Jane"
Trying to get unwanted weight off my shoulders..

Jane seems like alot of people I know nowadays! Well the first step to recovery is admiting her problems! In order to do this invite to your house,maybe with a small group of close friends. Jane would feel more insecure probably talking in more public places likes school where there are bound to be some of her "cooler" friends there. After she admits of what she does. You will have to work together with her to fix the problem. Keep her direction steered in the direction of her REAL friends,and not people who are just using her. Through this process be casual,and gentle. She needs to understand that it ISNT all about her,and that this ISNT the way to make friends or keep them!Well I goped I helped ya! Goodluck!

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Hello, i just broke up with my boyfriend not to long ago about some thing stupid, but i still like him and i wanna go out with him again...i cant seem to talk to him though because i broke up with him but we talked once after 2 weeks of our break up and i sounded stupid what should i do??????.............

This is tough situation! You need to ask yourself the specific reason you broke up with him in the first place. Maybe he wasnt worth your trouble! If you are completely sure this is what you want to do,maybe he has the same feelings... In that case,you should talk to him(casually of course :) )and ask him about how hes been,but dont be tooo personal. You may have to develop a new relationship,built on trust. After that,make sure you flirt with the right incentives and make sure you talk to him often. Maybe start by talking to him on the internet,or if he wont talk to you,come up front to him and say hi! Well I hope I helped!Good Luck!

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ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors

- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black

p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL

Anggie

Ok,I know this sounds crazy,but hear me out! Why dont you do polka dots? You can buy some cute and cheap stick on colored wall paper and cut it into circles(different sizes). This is an idea that can bring all of your favorite colors together and you can bring all sorts of colors in! Hope I helped,and Good luck!

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Hey! This question is for anyone who has ever changed schools! I wanna know how long it takes to make friends! I'm really pretty shy and I'm so scared I won't have any friends!! I dont know anyone and I want to know some ideas on how to get to know everyone! Thanks a billion! -me!

I know just how you feel! I am about to move to Hawaii from Georgia! I am scared also,but I keep telling myself that I will have bunches of friends! Try to introduce yourself to someone you think you would get along with,if they don't introduce themselves first:)Good Luck!

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does anyone know of a store that i could get movie and tv posters from? also, about how much would they cost?
thanks

If you want a store,places like Wal-Mart and Books-A-Million sell them. But you really should visit www.allposters.com they start at about $4.99 Good Luck!

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I'm gonna redo my whole room and i need a magazine or somthing to get ideas from. I watch trading spaces but i need sum10 nore. Thanx bunches!

Maybe you could get a Home and Garden Magazine but for some cute ideas and an easy way to the stuff you need (I tell this to everyone with this dilemna) go to www.pbteen.com ! It is a really good site to get room ideas.

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i really like the look of black nail polish but the rest of my clothes are really preppy and it looks out of place. is there something i can do to make it blend in with the rest of my clothes?

thans

You can paint your nails black and maybe put a cute decal on them and that may help even things out! Good Luck!

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Ok..well i have a desk in my room and i keep all my deoderant,purfume,and stuff 4 my hair in a little basket type thingy. But i dont wanna put it in there anymore..so does anyone have any ideas..or like wat do yall put all that in? Be creative..if possible=)

One of my friends has a caddy that has little pockets and you can put everything in there own seperate pocket. You could also get a bag that can carry all the stuff in it. Try looking at www.pbteen.com they have tons of organizing things! Hope you find what your looking for!

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i'm having a definete dilemma! i go to an all girls school, so makeup isn't a big deal. in the grade i'm going into, people wear makeup more, and i love wearing makeup, but just... don't. not regularly, at least. how can i start wearing make up without it being obvious??? and also, you know when u see celebs and they aren't wearin makeup, and they look wierd... almost like sickly, just cuz you're used to seeing them with makeup.... well i don't want that to happen to me!!! if i don't feel like putting on my makeup, i don't want it to be obvious! any way to wear makeup subtley, but not pointlessly???? (by pointlessly, i mean like if i looked the same as before, it would be stupid to even wear makeup)

I think I get what you mean! Try using a tinted moisturizer on your skin instead of a foundation. Wear light or pastel eyeshadow and if you want to wear mascara make sure to keep it clump-free. For your lips,wear a nude or very light pink lipgloss/stick (for ex. Jlo) Good Luck!

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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks

I know a great site that is bound to tell you what you want. www.birthdaypartyideas.com
Since the 5th grade I have found my birthday party for every year. Also if you have had a great birthday party in the past,You can enter in there monthly contest for prizes. Good Luck!

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im getting my wisdom teeth pulled to and im wondering what u sugest to do after like what to eat what to do i think i should do afterwards?

Try things that are soft such as yougurt,pudding,jello,blended fruits.Good Luck!

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Hey, I am not fat, but I have really promanate love handles. Does anyone know how to get rid of those?

I researched this question online and found a website that told me this-Sad but so, there aren't any exercises to break up those unwanted love handles.

Getting rid of love handles can only be accomplished via a concentrated diet and weight loss regime. In time, they will go away - so that's the good news!

Hope that helped a little bit. Maybe you can try toneing your stomach.that may help your love handles! Good Luck!

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ok.. in 2 days im going to the eye doctor and im gettin contacts.. what i would like to know if what color would go best with dark brown hair? please help ( i rate mostly 5's ) thanx!

Hazel eyes work really good with brown hair, but if you want to change it I would go with the green. It looks natural and really cute. Good Luck!

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every1 is talking about an 'xanga' or however u spell it. i was wondering how u get it and what it really is. thx! i rate!

It is a journal that you can write in online. To find it go to wwww.xanga.com

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ok, i moved into a new room like, 2 years ago, and now i'm in the loft. it's really big, but the carpet is screwed up cuz when me and my brothers were little, we spilled a whole bunch of crap on it. and i want 2 paint it, but i can't cuz 1) it's plaster and 2) it's connected 2 the living room, and i'd have 2 paint it 2, which my parents won't let me. i can't have curtains 4 my windows either becuz they're shaped like triangles. lol. i don't know what 2 do. does anyone have any decorating ideas? thanx.

Here are a few suggestions to help you with your room crisis- A cool rug (maybe a small fuzzy one) can cover up some of the the stains that can't come out. For the ones that can start by vacuming your room and then renting a steam cleaner (at win-dixie) and that may help clean up those stains. Instead of painting your room you can hang artwork to add color. Different colored mirrors arranged in a pattern is an artwork in its self. Have a colorful bed spread to be the center of attention and help people look at that rather than the colorless walls. For your windows you can use regular curtains (the ones for regular shaped windows) and bring them to the side at the point of the triangle sides. You can buy alot of the things i mentioned at www.pbteen.com I'm sure they can help you find what you need! Goodluck!

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ok well i saw someone ask do guys like brown or blonde hair better? and then they said "blondes hot browns sexy" but honestly..which one do u prefer?

Honestly,I think both colors a so cute! There are shades of blonde and brown that I don't prefer though! Maybe brown with blonde streaks! Two in one!

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i hated life for a long time and i try painless ways to kill myself like pills but it doesnt work i cut myself a few times but im so fed up wit life i dont kno what to do...im only 13 and i have to much 2 handle in my life...i see all of my friends layd back and stuff and i cry..when i talk to people they only tell me the same thing(well think of your mother and how she feels much worse-my moms got cancer-yea i knoo that there's more to the story but im not gonna talk about it but everything rests on my shoulder)..i dont kno what to do..if no1 helps me u'll be seein me one the news--"13yr old from massachussets committed suicied yesturday"
'i cry everynight and even though there r people out there who r less fortunate than me-yea i feel bad- but im npt used to it...hellllp me please

That is too much too handle on your body. It is better to let some things you don't really care about go, so you can clear out space in your mind. Trying to kill yourself will not help. Suicide will send you to hell. It is better just to go to god. Confide in him and he will help you. Believe me,I know! Try your hardest to talk to your family and tell someone you love about what is going on. Your bestfriend can help you through the crisis and give you much-needed support! I hope you can find a way through my advice! Good Luck and God Bless You!

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