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my name is Kendal and I am willing to help u with whatever u need. I like to hang out with friends and cheerlead and just b myself
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Age: 17
Member Since: July 24, 2004
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My little cousin has down syndrome, and alot of my friends always make fun of people with it and it really can hurt me, i*ve told them before and they say sorry and everything, but they keep saying stuff! What should I tell my friends? Or should I look for new ones? I dunno!! (link)
Well it seems that the friends u have may not care about what ur trying to tell them so if u really have to then u should find new friends but give it time and maybe they will see how much it hurts u

~*~kendal~*~


well i kind of like this kid but he really likes my friend. but i really like him. people have said We are such a cute couple and we would be so cute together(and we both kinda agree), and i've heard he has a crush on me but he really strongly likes my friend and i don't wanna tell my friend i like him cause she likes him alot to, but so do i and we flirt alott and i don't know what to do!! plz help!!! (link)
Well if u like him so much that u cant stop thinkin about him then u need to tell ur friend that u like him alot and if she gets mad at u then she must not understand the feelings u have for him and if u have heard he has a crush on u then he shouldnt be afraid to ask u out to me it seems like he isnt ready to be with just one girl so maybe hes not ready to make a commitment

~*~kendal~*~


what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?
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If u cant get over ur ex girlfriend then try going out with other girls sooner or later there will be another girl in ur life or if u dont want another girl in ur life then hang out with ur friends more


I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it. (link)
well for 1 thing u are not fat. And if u really wanna slim up ur body then exercise as much as possible like go ride ur bike play sports go for walks go for jogs just stay active

~*~kendal~*~


I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help. (link)
Well if hes telling u that is love life is bad cuz he broke up with u and if hes tellin ur friends he likes u then he must really like u. I mean i dont think he would just tell ur friends he likes u if he really doesnt like u.

~*~kendal~*~


when i was like 1 year old i had this friend and he was like my best freind ever. well we moved and i never saw him. i am 14 now (girl) and i get to see him soon. I really want to make a good impression...so what do i do? (link)
Just be urself. Every guy likes a girl who can be there self and doesnt just show off to give him a good impression.

~*~kendal~*~


volleyball tryouts are this week and im really scared i wont make it. I think about it non-stop and it gets me even more nervous and upset.
How do i stop this!?!
HELP (link)
Try to do other stuff then just think about volleyball. Like go to the beach hang out with friends even go to the mall. When I'm upset about something or nervous then I hang out with friends mostly.

~*~kendal~*~


ok me and my friend have been friends for a while and stuff but anyways. ever since i took her to youth group at my church everybody seems to liek her more now then they do me... they are all her friends instead of mine!!and im really hooked on my bf and whenevr i talk about him she gets mad but i dont get mad when she talks about guys thats shes not even going out with.. what do i do? do i take a break from her? help! (link)
maybe u could take her aside and have a talk with her about everything that has changed and if she doesnt understand what ur trying to say then maybe u should take a break from her but first try to talk it out.

~*~kendal~*~


Hey Everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and this summer my mom and I planned a trip to Tennessee. So she said I could invite a friend, so I did. Today we went out with that friend and another one, later at dinner my mom said she was re thinking bringing her with because she was a lil out of control. She said I should take my other friend that was out with us today. I don't want to lie to the one I already invited and take another one instead. I asked if I could take both, my mom said she'll think about it. So should I go to take both? Because I really want both of them to go! I rate. :) (link)
Yes u should definatley take both cuz if u take the one that u did invite then the one u didnt may feel upset but then again if u take the one u didnt invite then the one u did will feel upset so if u can then u should take both.

~*~kendal~*~


ok i met this girl lets call her megan through one of my other friends while i was out of town well we started talkin on the phone and now i have noticed there is kinda a lil connection between us but i have never seen her but like she really likes me and like one of her friends called me up to tell me that she really aproved of me and megan going out and that megan really likes me which to me seems all ok but the thing that worries me is that she is a year younger then me (i am 15) and that all my friends don't really like her atleast the ones that know her they all think she is like a bitch and stuff but i hold my friends opions very close to me cause alot of the time when they tell me somethin it's trueand i may just not be able to see it so do i go with chioce A. meet her then ask her out B. just go ahead now and ask her out without ever seeing her or choice C.just forget about the whole thing

Gabe (link)
Well I think u should go with choice A meet her then ask her out.

~*~kendal~*~


all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ?? (link)
Maybe u should try to talk to him yourself like just u and him. And if he trusts u then he will tell u if hes gay or not but if he doesnt trust u then u have to get it so he can gain your trust.

~*~kendal~*~


please give me a list of ways to lose weight FAST! i need to lose alot by august 30th. and keep in mind i am 14 and i WILL NOT get lypo. i will rate! (link)
Well I have heard on the internet and stuff about a patch that helps you lose weight maybe you could try that my step mom used it and it seemed to work really good


I dont know who to believe but some girl keeps telling me things aaron does ((bad things)) like cheating or.. brekaing up with ppl after a week but its been longer than a weekk.. and i duno who to believe i didnt tell aaron about ti he doesnt seem like that kind of person THOO what do I DOOO!!!!!!????

Signed- confused by love (link)
Well maybe you should try to talk to him about it and see if it's true.




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