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hey everybody! =) my name is heather i am seventeen years old.i am 1 of three children &also the youngest. i am from tampa florida but i now live in peterborough new hampshire! i love to hangout with friends. reading and writing are things that i also love to do. they expand your horizons. i also give advice. i think that i am pretty good at it. i have been through alot in my life from running away to drugs & drinking also teenage pregnancy. so if you have a question and wanna ask go ahead and drop me 1 in my inbox and i will be sure to hit you up with an answer. i love to help people, sometimes its the littles things that help people. my favorite quote is " friends together last forever, friends apart get lost at the heart" i find that to be very tru and over the years i've learned for myself that it is. so i hope that i can help you. xOxOxO heather! =*
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I'm 17/f
i just had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was a virgin
Now all I think about is having sex, and I crave it all the time. Is this normal? (link)
yeah it is normal. you are a teenager& you just got a taste of sex. but just to be safe get on birth control & use condoms aswell. you dont want an unwanted pregnancy.


Hey! This is my first attempt to buy a mini skirt and i was questioning the way they should fit. On the one i bought, the skirt fits around my butt, but then is loose under the butt area. Is this how it should fit, or should it fit like a pair of jeans, tight all over?? (link)
yes! it is soppose to be loose around you bottom. but it also depends on the style & how you want it to fit.


I really would like to make more guy friends. Guys talk to me and stuff, but how do I develop a friendship with them? I'll give all 5's. Thanks (link)
i have tons of guy friends so its really not hard to answer you. guys are into sports like basketball& football and alot of other stuff. you should learn a little about the sports they like also dont talk about chick stuff. you never know you might be the one they come to for advice about girls when they have qusetions.


Me and my boyfriend were just talking and stuff (we've been together for a lil over a month) we went out before in the summer and that lasted almost 4 months but anyways he told me im the only girl he ever loved n stuff and how much i mean to him and he told my best friend one of his wishes and its nothing gross or anything but idk is this a weird wish for a guy to want?

he wants to marry me when we are older... like 6-7 years from now.

Is that weird? (link)
no, i wouldn't say that is weird. he is commited to you & only you. so you wont have to worry about anyone else! hope that helps.


What are some sad love songs sang by female artists? Mariah Carey, Shania Twain, what else? (link)
music box-mirah carey
never forget about you-mirah carey
without you-mirah carey
just to hold you once again-mirah carey
all i have-j.lo & llcoolj
stay-destineys child
when i think about cheatin'-grecthen wilson

i hope that those helped!!


i want to make a new s/n and i wnat to have the word barbie in it i noe its clechie but i think its cute sumthin like x0x0babrbie or i dont noe i need help ill rate high tnxs
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barbie_babe
barbie_girl01
sweet_sexxie_barbie18
blonde01barbie
xoxo4rmbarbie

i hope that these helped you. sorrie i couldn't come up with more!


Is there anything you can do to make a black eye go away faster? I've got one right now -- an accident -- and it's really gross looking and hurts. (link)
i know that you probably already herd this but a raw piece of meat or an ice pack. hope you feel better& your black eye goes away soon!


Are there any ways to pierce your own bellybutton without it getting infected? (link)
i wouldn't reccomend doing it yourself. you could get it infected and that wouldn't be good at all. it is maybe $20.00 to $25.00 so don't chance it just call around and find a place that dosnn't cost outragout prices but is clean and knows what they are doing that it the most important! just be careful whatever you decide to do!


How much should I charge per kid for babysitting? Any suggestions, comments? This is a main concern for me right now. Thanks in advance. (link)
i would probably say $8.00 to $10.00 a kid. if they are really good and you need the money take what you can get but no less than $8.00 to $10.00
if they are hell then maybe you should charge a little more for all the prolbems. hope that helped


Okay so this guy i liked called me the the other day and we talked sort of but it was kinda those quite conversations, i want to call him but i dont have anything to talk about. Should i call him and if so what should i say (link)
if you like him you sohuld just go for it. what are you waiting for? pick up the phone and call him ask him how his day was. what he's been up too. maybe ask him if he would like to hangout and do something. nobody ever fell in love without doing anything right?


okay! ahh! so i haven't kissed anyone before. and so one day this weekend the guy i like and me are going to make out. i'm scared, is there anything i can do to prepare? but like eh, how do you? and does it REALLY come naturally?
any tips are great :) (link)
i think that it will come naturally and you will just go with the flow. it dosen't really take talent to make out it takes passion. hope that helped!


how can you get rid of zits really fast? ill rate high (link)
don't wear make up for a few days it clogs up your pores! also if you dig or scratch at them then you can cause scars and you don't want that now do you? probably not. or try going to your family doctor and ask him or her about benzoyl peroxide 10% acne gel. it really works but it is only rx.it like $10.00 a bottle with your insurance. i hope that helps.


Do you guys have ANY ideas on what to buy or make my BEST friend for her birthday?! I want it to be special, but I can't think of anything! Please help. (link)
do something that you and her both like so you can enjoy it together. go out to eat goto the movies. or make her breakfast in bed. make her a homemade card. something that will mean something to her.


I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much (link)
wow! that's a difficult situation espically since it is another guy! maybe you should invite him over and try and talk to him but don't accuse him of anything (maybe that guy came on to him you never know.) maybe he had given the guy mixed signals and the other guy thought that he wanted him. or since in this day in age girls makeout with girls (since they are curious) maybe thats what they were doing and saw nothing wrong with it. i hope that everything works out for you!


hello
how i can get online study material or online access to the books on the subject of library and info science.
thank you. (link)
try www.google.com or www.askgeeves.com(it a sie like google) do a search for science study material. google might be able to help you they have information on everything. hope that helps.


Okay, I Absolutly LOVE music and i love singing and playing my sax.


I try to write songs, but when i do they are pretty lame i have no ideas.


Do you know anything i can do to get my feelings out, because its just not working, and i want a good song i can write.


ThAnKs sOoO MuCh (link)
well i don't know anything about writing music but i write poetry. it's almost the same atleast i think so. anyways...try writing what comes from your heart and then do editing on it songes don't have to rhyme. or write about the thing/person that inspires you the most in life. just try your best it's your song it what you want it to be. they are your feelings not no one elses right? well good luck i hope it turns out the way you want it to.


I need to burn a cd but I dont want to sign up for some $15 a month thing.

It needs to be FREE and I need to be able to burn cd's.

THANKS IN ADVANCE. (link)
try www.aresgold.com


Well.. I start learning how to play the drums in late November.. The thing is.. Well.. i'm not exactly talented at it.. but I'm alright I suppose. The thing is, I just want to know if I'm at least learning things at a decent speed.. I don't know how to find out, though. Doing a one hour lesson week, and now being able to play both basic rock beats.. is that an average learning speed or below/higher? This isn't an easy question I guess but I'd really appreciate if the rest of you drummers out there would answer. Thanks in advance (link)
i don't think that you need a massive amount of talent. i just think that you need to be dectiated to what you are doing pratice alot stay constant also moviated. love what you are doing and you will get far with your passion as a drunner. i hope that helped


how many oz of water are we suppost to drink every day (link)
i know that i've herd everyone say 8 glasses which is 64 ounces. but i don't really think that anyone like water that much but if you don't get the flavored water it just as good for you as regular water just taste better. hope that helped.


hey i already have the silver razr cell phone. im going to get the pink one, but im going to have to wait for about a week. it says limited adition for the pink razr. so does that mean that they arent going to get more in. my mom jut called ysterday and they said they had 4 left. i dont want to miss out on the pink razr. i rate 5s for all answers. ♥ (link)
limited edition means they only have a certain amout in stock. good luck on getting one.




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