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Now this must be weird to go online and try to find someone to give you advice about your problems, but i dont think it's bad. I've been through like everything even though i'm only 15. If you have any problem at all, try to just bomb it because you really need to get it out of your system. So IM me on AOL, Yahoo, MSN, or just leave your question here. i'm going to check my account here everyday. Thankyou! And I hope to help!

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ok i have a friend name aurora. she's bin really sad alot latly. the reason why is that she barly has any friends. well i've tried getting her out into like really socil public places where she's likely to make some really good friends. but she keeps on my offer. and she is being too stuborn her self. ok here is my question. How the hell can i help her out if she wont listen to me?

ok, well maybe if she wont go somewhere, you have to bring the people to her! like, have a party at your house, like a "goodbye summer" party and invite alot of social people who would like Aurora, also ask people to come who like the same things as Aurora. Have your friends start a coversation with her and she'll have friends in no time! Also, a great time for you to relax and have an awesome party!!! haha, hope i helped. If you need anymore advice, my sn for AIM is "Silverwolf1561".

*Jill*

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I want to get hair extensions. My hair is already long, but i want to cut it and get blonde entensions. Has anyone ever gotten them? Did you get synthetic or real hair? How much did it cost? How long did the hair look healthy for? Tell me about it.
Thanks.

I dont like hair extensions because once you get them, you cant wash your hair, and your hair becomes SO greasy, it's disgusting. Why not just dye your hair? it's easier.. and maybe even healthier. hope i helped!

*Jill*

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I have myspace and i just want to make it look more interesting....do u know of any websites that i can get layouts for my site??? also i want pictures....of like welcome signs and stuff like that....please help

ok, well i dont know if you're a guy or not, but try: www.starlightmks.com. If that stuff isnt exactly what you're looking for, look at other people's sites on myspace, and if they have a cool one, like something you would want, ask them where they got it. hope i helped!!

*Jill*

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This kid likes me but I don't like him because he's NOT a good kid. I like my ex boyfriend and my ex likes me but if i go out with my ex the other boy will hate me along with my friend who's my ex's ex. (sorry if this is confusing by the way.) BUt the kid that likes me that I dont like keeps accusing me of liking my ex and if i tell him i do he'll tell EVERYONE and then if everyone finds out they'd hate me. What am i gonna do??????HELP ASAP!

how is not a good kid? well anyhoo, if your ex likes you, and you like him, you should just go out with your ex and dont tell the bad kid about anything.

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A guy at work and I became friends and things were going ok and when he did not get the position he wanted at work, I supported him and we started flirting. Well he found another job. Well, before he left he gave me a picture of him and email address. We seemed to be closer. We both agreed to keep in contact via email. I kept my part and he didn't his. He acted like he wanted to be friends and more and even called me babe. Why, after being "friends" he won't email, hasn't called nothing. Why is he treating me now like I don't exsist?

he probably just wanted to flirt with you. Next time, get HIS number so you can call HIM, cause trust me, guys dont call back.. it's like a man asking for directions.. it just does NOT happen lol. hope i helped!!

*Jill*

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I was just wondering what kind of things women did with their pubic hair. For example, I don't want to wax or shave mine, I know there are creams you can use, but I don't really want to get rid of it all. Do people trim theirs? Do they use scissors? How short do you do it? I know everyone is different, but I would like some kind of idea anyway.

There isn't really anyone I can ask this without sounding stupid and I don't really want to google it, I can imagine the websites it will bring up!

Thanks for any help people can give me.

i myself use siscors and just trim it so it isnt out of control and getting in the way. P.S. DO NOT USE THE SCISORS FOR ANYTHING ELSE, AND HIDE IT (JUST INCASE A FRIEND FINDS IT AND WANTS TO USE IT!). hope i helped!

*Jill*

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hey do you guys know any websites were i can get free marilyn monroe wallpaper for my desktop? preferably the ones that you don't have to download... thanks a lot

you can go to google, type in Marlyn Monroe and get a picture of her and set it as your backround. or on google you could type something like "marlyn monroe backrounds". It'll work. Hope i helped!!

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uch this is driving me crazy i downloaded stuff from the sims 2 (characters) and i dont no where to put them i just guessed for some random places i went to TSData, Res, UserData, Neighborhoods, N003, Characters which i have done before and it showed up in the game but it deleted my families. i dont no how to upload my characters, lots, objects, etc how do i do that? ill rate fives if there correct answers

you know, that's funny, cause mine did the same thing! i just sorta forgot about it, i thought it was a lost cause.. like i thought maybe it was my computer.. but i guess it's Sim people. I'm sorry if that didnt really help, but i just wanted to let you know that it happend to me, so i'm guessing it happens to other people.

*Jill*

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Does any one know who rupert grint is?

yes. yes i do. I dont know if you'll give me a high rating, er lol but uh, yeah, i know who he is.

*Jill*

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does anyone know where to learn how to make a css sheet for xanga? and does paint help at all?

on xanga there are groups, search for an HTML group, and then just ask them, they all know ALOT about HTML and things similar to HTML. hope i helped!!

*Jill*

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hey all i have aol instant messenger and i have no clue what to put in my profile. give me some ideas or other things. thanks i will rate

well if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend you could put:

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Hey uhm im 13..and im not the u kno most preppiest girl out there. I have black hair and brown eyes..I want sumthing to do with my hair cuz im tired of being so tomboyish. Im not the skinniest girl so does ne1 have ne tips on how i can be a little more girly without being preppy?

you could get blonde highlights, those are cool on black hair.

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My sister has been smoking for over 6 months. She's only 16. I live with my mom and my sister so out of us three I'm the only one who doesn't smoke. I hate second hand smoke and how they don't even care enough to smoke outside. I've asked them numerous times to smoke somewhere else but they tell me to deal with it. My other sister who is 27 comes over with her boyfriend and they also smoke. My brother and I are the only ones who don't smoke but he doesn't even live here. I get so mad and my sister and I get into fights over this. What should I do? They don't think I have any right to be mad or anything and it's just not fair.

get some oust and do a report on "second hand smoke" and make them look at it. They'll listen, and the oust will help. Hope i helped!

*Jill*

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do you have to be rich in order to be popular?
im just wondering if it gives you an advantige.
CAN ANYBODY GIVE ME SOME STORY'S ABOUT YOUR SCHOOL AND THE POPULAR KIDS. THANKS.

ILL RATE HIGH... SIGNED,
Michaela

ok, i go to a private school and their are no "popular" kids, sept me, all you really have to do is know everyone. No you dont have to be rich. Usually the popular crowd are people who are just really mean, sexually active, sluts, hors, junkies, no-brainers, or wannabees. Just meet more people, and you'll be popular in a GOOD way. Trust me! lol. Hope i helped!

*Jill*

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Everytime *it never fails* after I eat I get a stomach ache, and there not normal small pain ones, they hurt like crazy. I've been to the hospital and they've found nothin, they think its all in my head. Im afraid to eat sometimes because the pain is so bad and Im always stuck layin in bed for hours. I eat pretty healthy food, im normal weight and I excercise alot, does anyone else no what my be going on? *Im 13 and some doctors think it could be growing pains .. but would they hurt this bad and how do i get rid of them?* sry for the length but I'l rate BUNCHES! :)

well did you get your period yet? cause you sound like you have cramps. If not, maybe there is something wrong with your appendix.

*Jill*

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TOTAL BLUSh! I have blue vains going all down my CHEST and on my breasts they're so embarrasing i cant wear a nice bikini or a low top. How can I make them look not as noticable all my fat goes to my but not any where else really! Im only young so plastic surgery aint' a option any help? Ta x

well i think you should talk to your doctor about it, you may have something wrong with you, and we dont want to take that risk. If there's nothing wrong with you, make a swimsuit! i make clothing and i know alot of people who do, so talk to your good friends about it! hope i helped!

*Jill*

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I'm 13, 5'6, and 121 pounds. My friends all say I'm skinny, but I don't see a skinny person when I look in the mirror. Are my friends just being nice and saying I'm skinny or am I and not realizing it. Does this lead to eatind disorders? What are some symptoms?

ok, well seriously, i dont understand why people care about what they look like, but if they think you're skinny, then you are! people see from there eyes, not yours *sadly*. So listen to your friends, but still look through your eyes. Just eat alot of healthy food, so that way, it's half and half! lol. hope i helped! please rate!

*Jill*

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ok i just bought Curling shampoo and i think most of you have seen the commercials...and well it said leave like 5 min and stuff like that so i followed all the direction but still i have no curls in my hair. is it just my hair or is the product just plain sucks?

and is there product that works? to curl my hair. other than perms and curling irons and hair rollers. i mean like curling hair spray ?? do they really work??

ok, well i've used got2b but it dosent work, they're other stuff is good though, but truthfully you should go to a beauty salon and tell them exactly what you want, if they have something like it, buy it. if there's no such thing, just get a perm, or keep your hair the way it is. Well hope i helped.

*Jill*

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ok so i am 16 female and i was going to meet up with this boy tomorrow he has never met me and i have never met him i promised him last week thing is i have spots on my head now.I can't meet him with spots i mean its like 4 spots on my forehead.i have never had spots before.What shall i do chicken out and tell him i will meet him next week.i mean its better than him seeing me with spots..... or anyway i can get rid of them by tomorrow.

well it sounds sorta risky going to meet him like that, so cancel and tell him that it was urgent and go to a dynotologyst, they'll do something about it. Hope i helped!

*Jill*

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I'm 15 and going into 10th grade but the guy I like is 19 and going to be a sophmore in college. We've been hanging out alot and he said he liked me too...but my mom is way against it. she says he's too old and she 'knows what older guys want out of younger girls' but its not like that at all. How do I get her to see that he's not jus trying to get some?

ok, well i know how moms are *even though i live with my dad*, just go out with him without her knowing, i know it's hard to lie to her like that but when your older like in college or whatever then you can tell her that you're going out with him. That's my plan for my boyfriend. Just try to help her understand that love is love, whether it means different age, sex, height, weight, there's really nothing you can do to move on, right? hope i helped.

*Jill*

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