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my bday is monday and i have no idea wat to do or wat theme or any thing plz help fast (link)
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This may sound a little dorky but, I went to this party last weekend && the theme was camo it was pretty cool. Everybody wore camo && thats how the party was set up.
I also went to a hawaiian theme party that was cool too.
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Hi, I have thick wavy semi damaged hair, I bought a curling iron because I REALLY LOVE my ahir CURLY! now how do I do it. Do i need to spray hair spray on my hair while curling it. I don't want my hair to be stiff I want it Curly Bouncy with movement. What do i do. Please help.? (link)
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Hey!
Well, if you dont want your har to be stiff dont use hair spray. Put moose in it before it dries, so like when you get out of the shower wrap it up in a towel for a little then take it out, brush it and add some moose then brush it again. It should help keep your hair to stay curled.
If that doesn't work just curl it all then hairspray it a little all the way around but hold the hairspray like 6 inches away. that way it just mists over it.
Hope I helped.
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i have small brown eyes and the eyelids don't show that well because they're thin so you can't see my eyelashes and eye shadow that well. I have a wide nose big lips and chubby cheeks.
any advice on how to make my eyes look bigger, my cheeks look thinner, and my nose to look thinner??
please give me makeup or hair tips on how to accomplish this!! thanks!! (link)
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Hey!
One way you can make your eyes look bigger and wider is put white eyeliner on the inside of your bottom eyelid then use mascara on both top and bottom. Since your eyelinds dont really show put some shimmer on your whole eyelind up to your eyebrow. Not a dark shimmer just a little light shimmer. All those should open your eyes up a little.
Okay now thining your cheeks use blush, smile when you put it on and apply it lightly from the apples of your cheeks back. I think that should work.
Now your nose, hmm... Im not really sure how to do that but if your eyes really pop then it'll draw attention away from your nose.
hope I helped :)
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I'm not a stupid girl, but I did something incredibly dumb. I was in kind of a depression fopr a while and I compeltely lost myself, this guy contcted me through a website and we started talking. He made me feel better and i loved talking to him but soon it became something incredibly creepy. he is in his 40's, which I did not know at first, and he says horrible graphic things to me. when i dont respond he calls me a bitch, slut, tease etc. then he aplogizes later and tells me he loves me? I started to get really really scared so I blocked him everywhere i could. He messages me through myspace and I don't respond, i put my profile on private.
it's been 2 weeks and he still tries to contact me. I got TONS of friend requests on myspace of people I dont know and they are all myspaces made that dya, w/ no friend,s so I think it is him... He messaged me and told me he missed me. Looking bck at our conversations he got alot of information out of me because I stupidly thought it wouldnt be a big deal! I'm really scared, I think he could find out where I live, he won't leave me alone, what should I do?
he says things to me like "you're my barbie doll, my sex slave" I start crying when he sends me things like that.
I don't want to go to the police because my parents aren't normal, they are psychotic and they would look at me going to the police as embarressing them. They would for sure kick me out or something horrible if they found out.
I told ym boyfriend, I don't think that's enough. Is there something I can say to him that would make him stop? How do you handle crazy people, should I ignore im or tell him off or be nice about it? (link)
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Honestly, Tell the police. I know you don't want to. but this guy could take it a step further & find you. Wouldn't your parents rather you be safe over a little embarassement. If he is really bothering you and your scared tell your parents && call the authorities.
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My parents have split up 6 times...
And then got back together
This is the 7th time..
And I found out that my mom had an affair 3 years ago!
I am totally stressing, and I block out my emotions until they come back, because I don't want to feel sad...
Well today I found out that my favorite person and teacher is pregnant...
I am totally like crying over it!!
Thats good news...right?
I don't feel like I can talk to her because she is preggo, there is no point in making her stress...she is having a BABY!!
So yeaa....
I think I might be depressed...and I can't handle this anymore!!!
I want to get awawy from my house, and escape my problems...and the person who I talked to about themm....I don't feel like I can talk to them...
I feel all alone...with no one to talk to...
And I almost broke down in school today...because I was soo sad...and I am glad that she will have a family of her own, but I still don't have anyone to talk to >.<
Not to mention my friends need me like I am their thera;pist, and I don't want to tell them to go away...because the need me...
What should I do???\ (link)
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Wow it seems like you have alot going on. If you need time away from your family see if you can stay with a frined for a week or weekend and do something fun to get your mind off of things. That way you and your frined can get closer and you could have somebody to talk to. You seem to be very thoughtful to alot of people but you have to think about yourself and take care of yourselfsometimes too. I think your friend thats pregnaut wouldnt have a problem helping out or listening to you so you could vent. If none of that really works for you i dont mind if you write me and i could try to help you or just knowledge you.
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There's this girl in two of my classes who's somtimes...I say "picky" on others but in a fun way. But it seems that she's more "picky" on me, like a mean almost bullying way and it's hurtful sometimes and when i go home i cry. I'm pretty short but she's the shortest girl ever which makes me feel ashamed that i'm even offended, depressed, and intiminated by her.
Is this something..normal or would you consider this bullying? And what can i do about this? I'm trying to avoid her but it's very hard to since she sits 1 seat beside me to my left. (link)
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Bully sucks i know but there isnt much you can do about it. Alot of people do it out of jealousy or to make them selfs feel better.
so keep your head up and Try not to let it bother you blow it off.
Ignore her or dont let her know it bothers you.
If she continues to do it then joke around back.
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prom is coming up and i need to lose about 10-15 lbs. in about a week and a half [if not sooner]
i know it's possible because i've done it before on a crash diet but my usual crash diet isn't working fast enough.
before anybody answers please note that:
- im pretty willing to try anything, as long as it works and doesnt dent my budget too much
- i understand the risks, i know how far i can push my body, please no lectures.
- i don't really care if the weightloss lasts it's just for one night.
so if anybody has any diet plans or anything that they know works really well please help me out! i was fasting but it wasn't coming off fast enough so i was wondering if i had like a detox drink along with my fast if that would help?
any and all advice is welcome, thank you! (link)
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Okay no lecture.
I dont know how healty or safe this suggestion is but i ate only bell peppers 4 or 5 times a day and drank water all day and workd out and lost about 10 pounds. I only did it for a week tho i was wayy too tired to do it longer.
If you try it lemme know how it goes
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so dont laugh at me, im 14, i dont know much about guys (all girls school lol!)
i was sitting in this guys lap today
and then later on he started complainin
and he said that his testicles hurt and that he knew why
haha what? who wants to explain? (link)
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He masterbates, or is having sex too much.
Possilby not but he could have and STD.
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Why do guys like blowjobs so much? is it mindblowing? (link)
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Hell ya, guys LOVE blowjobs. From what i've heard it feels good. None of them have really told me why. They just said its mindblowing and they like th combination of kissing, and the warmth, being touched. thats what makes it sooo mindblowing for them
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for a while now i have been getting really horny and all i want is for someone to eat me out. like i am almost tempted to ask some random neighbor hood boy to eat me out and i dont even talk to him. so should i go for it? or should i try to fight the feeling? and also how can i fight the feeling? (link)
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If I were you, Id go for it dont fight it.
I would be concerened if it was more than just that. You cant really get and STD from only eating out.
And you get pleased in the process.
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ohkay well i have this boyfriend and i have been with him for a year and i really do love and care for him but i ran into my middle school crush the other day and it turns out he is a major hottie. and i was up talking to him almost all night. i think i kinda like him.
i love my boyfriend now, but how do i know if i wouldnt love the other guy just as much?
what should i do? jeeez....
17-f (link)
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I think you should continue to talk to that guy, and if it turns out that you love him more or diferently than your boyfriend now then you can go from there.
If it starts to get serious take a break from the recent boyfriend and try a date with the other guy.
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What are some cute and funny ways to flirt with a guy.
I have this thing going on with this guy, and since we're always joking around each other and so on, then I want some tips.
Thanks! (link)
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Some cute ways to flirt with a guy is to be like a little phisical like play fight or lightly push him when you walk by.
Another way is you can play with him and blow him kisses(like the look-whats going on) and play hard to get.
You could surprise him with a kiss on the cheek evey now and then
Hope it helps.
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Hi, my name's Rae. I'm 18 years old, female, and I'm of 100% Korean decent. I have the most amazing fiance, Christian. He's 19, male, and super Irish (He even has red hair!). Anyways, the point that I'm trying to get at is that we're obviously different nationality wise. We're in an interracial relationship and a lot of people seem to be bothered by it! I honestly don't understand what's so wrong with us. We love eachother and I don't think your ethnicity or skin color have anything to do with it. So, I was wondering what kind of opinions any of you have about this subject matter. All advice is welcome, but please be serious and honest. Thank you! (link)
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Honestly, Race and ethinticity is a big part of todays society. Not eveyone belives in the mix of races like you an your fiance. It probably isnt ever going to change.Its a huge part of who everybody is.There will always be somebody with a prejudice.All you really can do is to try and ignore it. If somebody doesn't agree they can look away.
I will admit i personally wouldnt mingle with another race because of my family and how i feel about me and it personaly, but I have no problem with other people doing what they feel like and makes them happy as long as they love eachother its the inside that counts, and it isnt like there relationship would b hurting anyone elses health right.
I wish the best to you and fiance, dont let little things like this get to you. Just stay positve and ignore the 'haters'
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Ok I know instant abs are not possible but a couple of friends are planning on going to the beach on friday and i have a one pack if you know what i mean plus stretch marks on my stomach.. help. It's repulsive and i want to make it as subtle as possible (link)
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If I were you I would just wear a swimsuit that would cover it like a tan-kini or waer a t-shirt over your bathing suit and if somebody asks say you dont want to gt sunburned or sumthing along those lines
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alright so me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex and well i'm a virgin and he's had sex with two other people and has had sex numerous times(he's a few years older then me). well, basically i'm really nervous and i have a few questions so if anyone can answer any of these i would appreciate it and yeah i'll rate:
1. is it normal to smell alittle down there? like a musty smell?
2. how bad does it really hurt the first time?
3. is it normal for me to have a gooey clear discharge down there and sometimes a creamy white one?
4. well i shave down there and i was wondering if anyone had tips fir getting the cleanest smoothest cut i guess?
thanks in advance : ) (link)
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1. Um its probaly normal it doesnt not have a smell
2. In my first time experience it didnt really hurt til afterwards, to sit stand up etc. Its just more uncomfortable more than anything
3.Yep thats normal
4.waxed is perty much the best and cleanest way to do it
Hope I helped
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ok so i have this friend. Lets call her "Jane" Well jane is always wanting to come over and when she does all she wants to do is look threw my clothes and my shoes. And stuff. And when i say lets do something shes like do you have any money and when i say no shes like well i dont know what to do then. and she is like always cramping me. I NEED MY SPACE FOR OTHER FRIENDS!!! what should i do?
-cramped (link)
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I know this isnt the nicest suggestion but its what i do, I just say i cant and make up some excuse why i cant(babysitting,family time, blame it on ur parents)
You can also try talking to her, but it could hurt her feelings, or she can just take it the wrong way.
if you dont want to even be friends avoid her
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i go to a reeally small school and im new this yr and i have a lot of friends and i know people like me but i heard that some kids think im conceited. I will be honest i do think im pretty but i know others are prettier than me. i joke around a lot but im not serious. this one girl in particular makes comments about it all the time and shes the only girl i know of that thinks im conceited but a girl told me more people do too. but im just kidding when i make comments and i mean i do think im pretty and i have self confidence but im not going to be like every other girl and be like oh no i think im fat or no im so ugly! cause thats stupid. i guess i could be more humble but its not like i try to be conceited! i just want them to know who i really am and see the real me and understand that im NOT. the girl who thinks im conceited is nice to like everyone except me-she always makes comments and i think its mean. what should i do? just write her a note or sumthing explaining that im just kidding when i make comments and i know im not like the prettiest girl ever or w/e. also i think she is jealous of my self confidence but i wish she couldnt be mean instead. thanks so much and your advice would be greatly appreciated! and i will rate :] (link)
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Hey!
So Ived had this same problem too, what i just did was be myself. thats all you really can do because if u weren't it would kind of make you fake so be yourself. maybe those girls are calling you conceited because they know that your pretty and they're self concious with themselves. You shouldnt really care what they think of you people will always judge you and will think wat they want no matter wat you do, its how u feel bout yourself...
so tell them you arent conceited and or ignore them
---thats wat i did---
hope i helpd a little
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i was wondering, if you or someone fingers you, does your "down there" get bigger, or wider or more stretched out?
thankz, just wondering that! (link)
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Normally, it does stretch your vagina out.
Depending on the amount of fingers, and how "tight' you are.
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what are some really good excercises to get in shape really fast. i know it takes time, but are there any really good excercises that i can do? (link)
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Getting in shape takes time, but some of the best excersises i think you can use to get in shape are; running, jump roping,any ab workouts,you can also walk around with ankle wieghts but dont do anything like running or jumping with them on it'll mess up your joints.
Hopefully that helped :)
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what are some good flirting skills that can rale the boy of your dreams in haha because i really like this boy and i wanna just show him i do by flirting with him. he likes me as well but i wanna put my self out there you knwo (link)
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When you talk to him or your by him make a point of touching him, for example lightly push him like in a playful way. When you walk by him lightly push him and continue to keep walking, while walking try to make eye contact. It'll get you noticed. You dont even have to keep walking just start talking to him lik Hi how are you and then go from there.
Hope that helps you some...Good luck
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