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bullying?
There's this girl in two of my classes who's somtimes...I say "picky" on others but in a fun way. But it seems that she's more "picky" on me, like a mean almost bullying way and it's hurtful sometimes and when i go home i cry. I'm pretty short but she's the shortest girl ever which makes me feel ashamed that i'm even offended, depressed, and intiminated by her.
Is this something..normal or would you consider this bullying? And what can i do about this? I'm trying to avoid her but it's very hard to since she sits 1 seat beside me to my left.
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I have had the exact same problem as you so i can relate. When she says something again that is picky, try to react as if she is the childish one i.e sort of giggling but at the same time saying thats mean. so she cant have a go at you for it because you sort of giggled too. now the last thing you want is to rise to her level i.e childish and low level bullying. So just try that first and she might think of you as not the one who is an easy victim. e-mail me on
i-need-help@hotmail.com i can then try to help you if my previous advice doesn't work :)
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don't be afraid. It's not worth it to cry or be upset. Try your best to ignore and if that gets old then stand up to her. Not in fighting mode, but more like "Dude, would just stop it already" or "If you think this is funny, well you're the only one" this way she can see that you can stand up for yourself and are not afraid. :)
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Bully sucks i know but there isnt much you can do about it. Alot of people do it out of jealousy or to make them selfs feel better.
so keep your head up and Try not to let it bother you blow it off.
Ignore her or dont let her know it bothers you.
If she continues to do it then joke around back.
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