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So there is this guy... that I really like. The problem is that he's 17 and I'm 14, almost 15. We've been through a lot together and I'd like to, well, go out with him.
But is the age difference too much? Won't it be illegal considering he is almost 18? Would you go for it? (link)
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There is no problem that you love him but at your age, you should focus more on your education and plan your future. You still have a long way to go for that. The relationship would be illegal considering that you two are still minors. You're still young so you might as well enjoy your life.
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16/f So I was recently broken up with by my boyfriend Jake who is now my best friend. I still do love him but I have gotten over the shock and most of the pain that I felt at first. I have accepted it. So I've been helping him because he really likes this girl who is bisexual and she likes Jake and this girl Jane. The problem is that she likes the other girl a lot more and things have been working out between them. So my best friend (Jake) is devastated. :/
So I saw a picture of Jane, and she's really cute. I mean, Jake knows her and talked to me about her and after seeing her pictures I'm thinking wow, I'll take her!! Ahaha. This has happened before. I liked a girl that my friend (another girl) was dating. So I guess I'm attracted to unavailable lesbians? It's weird, but wow I really want this girl. Could it be because bisexuality is so normal for me? Jake is bisexual and so is the girl that he likes...and I have other friends who are too. Any input is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
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Whatever makes you happy, go for it. It's better to be hated for what you are than be loved for something you're not. Don't waste your life being something you're not because it's not worth living that way. Express your true identity and there is no other way to do that than just being yourself. If you're bisexual, than it's fine. You shouldn't feel bad because it's who you are. As long as you know who you are, nothing else matters.
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18/female. if this is long, sorry! i'll be thankful if you can help though and return the favor.
i've had a "thing" you could say with this guy for about 3 years now. well ... he's basically like my best friend. we're both attracted to each other its obvious but i mean nothing really ever comes of it. i guess either of us don't really want a relationship, but we love spending time with each other. we flirt all the time. he's the only guy i can TRUST and thats huge because i have the worst trust issue ever. we haven't had sex yet .. but he will randomly text me and say like "wanna fuck" and of course i'd do him in a second ;) and so i say something like ... "hell ya!!" but usually i'm at someones house so i'll be like "too bad im at so and so's house.." and then he will just be like haha or something. i'd say something more sexier if you would say, but i feel like when i see him it may be a bit awkward. when he texts me asking if i want to have sex and i say like hell yeah or something, and then i see him, i try and not make it awkward and just start being myself and being goofy:) i want to go further with him, i really wouldn't mind having sex with him but it seems like he is holding back!! and he's not a virgin either, so i dont know what the deal is?? do you think he's scared?? he calls me a tease sometimes, probably because i say i'll do something with him but i never did. the problem is that he tried going down my pants like two years ago and i wouldnt let him because i wasnt ready for that, but now i am!! what can i say to him that will make him KNOW i want him, and am willing to go further with him? how can i make it happen? i feel like it would be weird if i texted him asking to have sex .. but when he texts me that and i open the text .. i smile haha which may sound weird but it makes me happy. is there something i can text him to make him know i am ready for him? or say to him when i see him? usually when i do see him we're hanging out with a group of people so we don't really flirt that much or anything. ahhh!:( what to do.. (link)
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Maybe it's just not his moment. Just give him some time and maybe he'll pull through. He did the same to you when you were uncomfortable. This is a short answer but it's a better explanation.
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I'm addicted to shoplifting. I've been doing it for about a year and a half now. It was my 2009 New Year's Resolution to stop shoplifting...but I didn't. I've been shoplifting weekly for about a year. I steal everything from makeup, jewelry, clothes, chapstick, food, pens, and headphones.
Today I went shopping with my sister (she used to steal, too, but she doesn't anymore). We went into a store and I stole two pairs of pants. Then we went to a store across the street and I stole a pair of shoes, a shirt, and two drinks. My sister saw all the stuff when we got home and told me she would never shop with me again. She's my best friend and this makes me sad. :(
I hate that I shoplift. But I also love it. I love getting new things, and I love the adrenaline rush. I know it's not worth it, and I know it's illegal. How do I stop? Please help me. And how do I get my sister to trust me again? (link)
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Shoplifting is a really bad reputation. There are many consequences that you have to deal with. The way to deal with this is to go see a therapist. That's the only way to break the habit.
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If i tried getting my vagina to be cleaner by putting listerine on it? (link)
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yah and maybe brush it with some toothpaste and floss
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hi im katlyn... there are dese girls at school they dont like me for no reason and dey are really buggin me they love to talk about me and they love to messs with me every time i walk past dem they study me hard and dis one girl always comin by me telling me to give her candy and if i dont she said she gon do somthing which aint gon happen ....i think its because im pretty and she is ugly real ugly and dark as hell to and she always pushing me arond and she hate me to fo no reason....i dont even kno da bitch and the girl actin real hard in front of her friends tryin to make me hate myself and she keep on touching me and pushing me which i dont like and yes i do do something back and if she do it again on monday we gon be fighting cause i aint about to have dis little ass girl pushing me around hell no ... now are dey haters ???? (link)
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Just ignore them and move on with your life. If you let people bring you down, you will lose in life. Stand up for yourself if you have to. Those girls, they're probably just jealous so appreciate it. They're just making themselves look stupid and ridiculous.
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do you like it if or when a girl chases after you? what do you want her to do to let you know that she likes you? i just need a guy to answer this please. i will rate 5. (link)
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In my opinion, it's a great feeling to have girls falling for you but when there chasing you, it's more of an obsession. Obsessions for me can go over the top which can make things uncomfortable. The easiest way for me to bond with a girl is to get to know each other better and by developing a close friendship, you will have the confidence to expose the truth. There was this one girl where I was friends with but had no deep feelings for. As our friendship grew stronger, I actually developed real feelings for her. You don't really have to admit to them that you like them. Just play it natural with them and make him develop feelings for you. Us guys, we like girls who are natural!!!
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Hey ill try make this short and simple.
15/f
Theres this guy called blair. Hes really cute and hes SO cool.
This guy he is turning 18 soon.. we talk alot on bebo and stuff and we've hang out a couple of times with a group of people.
we are going to hang out by ourselfs after exams.. and i think i may start to like him. but im pretty sure hes just in it for the sex. im sexually active.. and we have plans to have sex.. :L sounds weird but hes soo hot :P
but what if my mum doesnt like him
he does smoke weed and drink most weekends so im guessing she wont like him :L
but she will wont to meet him first before we go out or whatever.
cause shes just like that.
and i feel bad if i argue to her about guys cos they are just guys and i want to make her happy as well as my self...
soo
idk
theres a couple of problems here.
my mother. and blair.
idk if he will like me or just want sex all the time.. which i guess i dont mind ..
and how do i get my mother to understand that i want to go out with the guys i like even though she dissagrees.
sorry that its long!
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Basically, your mom is just worried that you will go the wrong direction. That's how parents are to their children. The guy you're going to introduce to her has a reputation of doing drugs. Even if you find him very attractive, you think you will be able to live up to his reputation? Make a wise decision on this!!! That's my honest answer. To get your mom to understand, just generously tell her how you feel. As long as you express your feelings, she should understand where your coming from.
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Okay so there's a boy i REALLY like and he's said i'm pretty. I need tips to look great. See at my school you're barely allowed any make-up so i need to look naturally beautiful. HELP! (link)
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Natural beauty comes from within. Just act natural and it will show.
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everytime after i pee, like right after, i have this pain that feels like i have to pee extremely bad. like ive been holding it in but i just went pee and cant pee anymore. what is it and can i do anything to fix it? (link)
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The best cure for urinary problems is cranberry juice. If it doesn't work out, you should go see a doctor about it and get medication for it. There is a cure for that!
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Ugh seriously my life sucks so bad and i just can't deal with it any more.!:(
I have been home schooled for a year now I left public school second semester of 7th grade and now i am in 8th. I lost ALL of my friends from being home school i have not EVEN one friend! I hate being home schooled i want to go back to school so bad i hate being home on a computer all day and i have no freakin life! It's not fair i want to go back so bad i just want to be a regular teen! Whitch leads to my second problem.... I hate the way i look I hate my body and i am to emmberest to go back to school cause I am fat! so thats why i can't go back i hate myslef and i am not strong and comfterable anuff to go back. I just want to be a normal teen, when i was in school i was the popualar girl not the annoyying mean stupid ones but everyone new me. Well now i am nothing. SO to fix my problem i work out everyday!!! 7 out of 7 days running bikeing stretching light weights EVERYTHING!!! i am on like the 4th month so far and i haven't lost a POUND!!!! i don't get whats wrong with me:(? I seriously cry everyday wondering why i can't be happy with myslef and not be huge i just want to be skinny and ughh it's not fair.
Next problem!.... I am the youngest one in my family My siblings cousins everyone! there all at that age were they can go out drink blahh blahh blahh and then theres me i am kinda of an outcast in my family for certin things, but it sucks that i can't be at that age they get to experince things i don't and i am left out it sucks! so bad being the youngest in your family. I hate how i have to prove to them i am not a freakin 5year old anymore the expect me to watch like Pooh bear (not really but do you get what i mean) and it pisses me off how they don't think i no what going on in the world like they think i don't no what sex or anything ugh idk they treate me like im 2 like really? your fucking anoying ugh whatever!! i hate my life and it's such a waist! i don't understand why any of this is going on it's not fair!!!!!!!
SOrry i just needed to let this out cause i have no one to talk to! i tell my mom this all the time but she never helps ugh this suckkss :( sorry if you have any advice feel free to let me no:( (link)
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The best advice for you so you to feel more comfortable is to be more outgoing. Live life like it's your last. Accept your surroundings. I'm actually going through the same thing. I actually came back from the Philippines a few months ago after being their for over a year and I was expecting a warm welcome back but instead, I got shady business from most of my relatives and family members. I was more happy to see them again than they were of me. It hurts because it felt like rejection. Until now, it still bothering me but the way I get over it is just being myself and live life to the fullest. Just think that a struggling life always leads to success at the end. Just accept what you get out of life and it also gives you a better advantage in the real world because the real world is full of challenges. Once you overcome the challenges in your life, nothing else matters. Hope that helps you out.
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Well, I where makeup most of the time, I wonder if my bf likes it or not? Do you guys like your girl friends with or without makeup? Or wat? He never told me not to wear it, so i dont think he minds it. thankss (link)
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I'm a guy and I say keep it natural. It really brings out who you really are as well as your physical appearance.
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i have tons of friends, but i'm not extremely close with any of them. i used to have a best friend but she let me down big time and i realized i don't want someone like that in my life. i feel its even hard to trust my friends, like don't get me wrong i love hanging out with them and stuff and they're fun people, thats why we're friends :)...but i feel like i can't completely trust anyone..everyones always talking shit and i actually caught my old "best friend" talking shit about me. i'm honestly a nice person and i try to get along with everyone but high school girls and even most of the guys now just love to talk shit because they're bored with their own lives and they love attention. i only trust 2 people in my life, my dad and my boyfriend of a year(and they're both guys look at that). i kind of want a female to trust though...or at least get close to. how do i go about approaching this? and it sucks cause all my closest friends are friends with my ex "best friend"....if you could even call her that.... (link)
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High school is a tough year but that's just the reality of it. Everything in high school is just a learning experience. In the real world after high school, it's much tougher. Even if you don't have a best friend, it's all right as long as you have many friends to hang around with. It's completely natural to not trust them, just don't make it obvious. Just think that it's better to have friends than no friends at all. Just be cool and understand them.
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I've only been friends with this guy for 2 months now, but the rate at which we got close to each other was astounding. I can consider him one of my best friends, if not my actual best friend.
A month ago he had told me that he liked me. I had been developing slight feelings for him at that time but after he sat me down and told me this I found myself repulsed and kind of angry at him for ruining the natural flow of the friendship. For a while we went as close, but recently I've noticed that my feelings are growing again. We are perfect for each other, and he might very well be my soul mate. Even his dad's friend remarked that we should get married, which made me very uncomfortable at the time.
I can see myself spending my life with him. But I'm so young and not serious at all with men. I usually date guys that are attractive but we aren't friends, which leads me to separate sex from an actual friendship, so I don't see him sexually at all, so I can't imagine an actual relationship with him and sleeping with him. He's also shorter and smaller than me, which is something I've never had before because I'm not that tall and pretty thin.
He treats me so so well and I know I would be very happy with him if I can get over the sexual aspect. But i'm afraid to admit that i have feelings for him, because if I do, then there's no turning back. I also know that I will hurt him when I flirt with other guys. And in that case I will ruin something that potentially could be forever. this is something that could be very serious but i'm afraid the timing's not right. i'm afraid of myself i don't trust myself. but if i don't tell him soon i feel that he will pull away, he already is, it seems it's tormenting him immensely and he has stopped talking to me. i don't want to lose what i have now with him, but i also don't want to lose everything when there's more at stake in the future.
what do i do???? i haven't felt this strongly about anyone in a long time, but i'm also prone to changing my feelings a lot and i'm afraid. i don't want to mess this up or hurt him. i also don't want to see him with another girl, what if he finds someone else. how do i see past his physicality? (link)
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I've experienced something like that before. I met this girl, who is my cousin's cousin from her mom side. I was not close to her in the beginning but as the days past, we became friends and not only that but we became so close that I could see us together in the future. I actually developed real feelings for her than any other girl I've been with before. It happened when I took her on the Ferris wheel and it was her first time. She held me tight because she was afraid. I've never experienced something like that with a girl I just met. That's where I felt the connection with her. I was going to tell her but I second guessed everything. I was thinking that maybe if I do tell her, it could ruin our friendship and everything could go the other way around. That's why I did not tell her. I had a feeling too that she had feelings for me but I did not have the mind to ask her.
It's natural to have feelings for your best friend. When you feel the time is right go for it. Spending more quality time with him will give you answers to whether your feelings for him are correct or you guys are just meant to be friends. It will bring you too closer to each other.
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I am 17 and seeing an older man hes twenty five and hes married is that bad...? (link)
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Yes. It basically means he is not faithful in his relationships. You wouldn't want to go through that girl!!!!
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i am thinking that he is loving me but he is talking with other girls and touching them he is smiling when i see to him .he is calling me ithink that iam in love with him .i will think about him only all night and iwill tell his greatness to all my friends,family relatives etc. tell me that he in love with me or not
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If the guys is flirting with other girls, it could mean he is playing around or in other terms, a player. Player loves all girls who are very attractive but relationships with a player does not go long distance. To make sure, Just play along with his games.
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I hate to admit this but I am obsessed with porn. I mean really obsessed.
I feel like it is taking over my life completely. I can't wait to be alone so I can get on-line and find new stuff to look at.
I hate it.
Is there a way to break this porn obsession?
Thank you if you can help me! (link)
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Why don't you make changes in your life. Focus on something else other than porn. You got it in over your head with the porn and there is always a chance for you to change that habit. Another good idea is to see a therapist about that problem. Hope that helps you out!!!
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How can you describe a house using cell analogy including golgi bodies,chromosomes,cytoskeleton (link)
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Well to be honest with you, I am not a rocket scientist but why don't you look up those terms and identify their functions. Then relate those functions to functions inside a house. You can also use humans as extra reference because humans also keep the house alive and active just like how proteins keeps our body strong. Hope that makes sense. Sorry I am not able to answer this question to the best of my knowledge.
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im going to this dance with my girlfriend but i cant dance at all and im nervous, what can i do? (link)
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Maybe before the dance, open up to your girlfriend about your problem and have her teach you dance steps. Not everyone knows how to dance so she should understand.
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14/m
So I like this girl and we talk a lot on facebook and she said she kinda likes me. She said she noticed I was shy and I admit I am because I don’t really talk to anyone new epically girls in particular. My reason for not talking to girls usually is because I don’t know what to say. So I guess im asking is there a way I can get un-shy?
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The way to get over your shyness is to be yourself. Get to know each-other better and a topic will just pop up. I'm actually the same as you. As long as you know where to begin, you will get somewhere.
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