Member Since: March 7, 2007 Answers: 38 Last Update: August 3, 2007 Visitors: 2822
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i like this guy im19+ hes the type that all girls want- but hes picked me- he has kids of his own though i have one but he still lives with his babys mama- they dont love each other or even sleep together and they both have sex with other people- but is that crossing the line-- i dont beleive that two people can love one another - im not trying for a realationship- more like friends with bebefits- but is it crossing the line (link)
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well, the ? id be askin him is "Y ON EARTH ARE YOU STILL LIVING WITH THIS WOMAN???" and what guy do you know that can live with a woman and not have sex with her
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So this guy we are basicly dating and he is really cute and really sweet. He like gives me lil kisses on my hand and on my cheek and tells me how beautiful i am but i`m sort of scared. There are other guys that like me including two of my exs that are going to be mad and never talk to me again. One of my exs I was inlove w/ but he hurt me really bad emotionaly. I mean i do like this guy that i`m going out w/ i just dont know what to do.. help please! (link)
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well 1st you have 2 see if there is ALOT of girls thats likes this new guy, he could just be a ladies man. and ex's and called ex's 4 a reason lol, bc your through with them lol. so i think you should see where this new guy takes you>>> holla bac>>> Az 4 lyfe>>>
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hey well my ex broke up with me on december. so weve been talking and lately he's been saying that he misses me and that he wants me back. so like i decided to just step away for a while. by the way we latsted 10 months.
so during that time i decided that i missed him so much so i wrote him a myspace comment. i cant call him because he doesnt have his cell anymore. so he told me that he wanted me back and i told him that i dont know because im really scared of getting hurt again. and he said it wont happen again because he feels something more. so he told me to be straight up with him so i did. and i told him that i rally like him and i asked him out. was that weired for him? if so what else did he want me to do. that was like my only choice. so i waited and i saw he was online on myspace and he never wrote back to my message. what do i do now.
srry if it was long thanks so much! (link)
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well, 14/f
the same thing happened 2 me and my ex!. we were 2gether 4 about 4 or 5 months. he called every 2nites "i dnt know y"he said he wanted me bac,he still loved me, and when we were in public we were 2gether. BUT then again he said he just wanted 2 be friends. so really, im confused 2! what i think YOU should do, "and im doin it 2 right now and its workin" is ignore him 4 awhile. get back on track and date sum1 else 4 a while and see if he calls or writes you back. if he does then he mite really want you back. dnt let him know you are bout 2 die w/o him haha. but then again flirt with him, and talk bout the old times. all the cute little things yall did as a couple.
tell me if it works out>>>
holla bac at ya snowbunny
"kizzaz"
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Okay, last night my boyfriend popped my cherry, but I still have vaginal bleeding today. I know it's not my period because I finished my period a week ago. Is this normal? (link)
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well, its okay. i think its normal, bc the same thing happened 2 me. everytime you "do" a bigger 1, it will bleed bc it is tearing your "you know what" lol. well hope i helped...
holla bac at ya snowbunny>>>
"kizzaz"
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14/f
my boyfriend and i were fighting last weekend, i was feeling upset so i texted my friend who i know and he is a boy, but my boyfriend has never met him. when my boyfriedn came to apologize we were ok until he wanted to read the messages on my cell. i deleted them. he can't trust me anymore.today we had the same problem!! but i deleted the messages..he thinks i am playing him but i am not..!! so herres the situation i am in:: my bf now has a problem in trusting me because he thinks i am playing him and i luv him and i don't want to loose him.how can i let him know the truth or something???sorry if this is confusing (link)
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well,
im 14/f.
i think that 1 thing you can do is hug and/or kiss him infront of ppl. "if you and him do kiss". infrontof him, let every1 know that you and him are 2gether. and well let the rest go from there.... hope it works out>>>
holla bac at ya snowbunny,
"kizzaz"
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13/f, kinda popular.
so i am desperatley in love with this guy
i have liked him since last year. we have been pretty good friends. my friends have told him alot of times about me liking him but he just ignores it. my guy friend is friends with him and tryed really hard to get us to go out but he didn't. then this girl asked him out and he was pressured to say yes because everyone new she asked him. then a couple weeks later he broke up with her and said that he never really liked her and that she was annoying. i kinda stopped liking him during that time but now i sit by him in science and fell for him again. i no i can never forget him so i really need help. i cant just go up and ask him to go out with me because i am really shy with guys, but i have talked to him as friends. a school dance is coming up if that helps. i really need your help asap! thanks in advance!~ (link)
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well what i do when i have that prob is, ignore him. he'll miss how you use 2 mess around with him and talk 2 him. then b4 you know it he'll come n talk 2 you. thats how i got my man. and now we've been 2gether 4 months!!! so hope it works,,
holla bac at ya snowbunny,"kizzaz"
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OK, Well, I like this guy...
But he's two years older.
At one point one of my friends were like, "He's going to ask you out." But I was like noway.
Then,
That friend was like ya, he is.
But then he went and asked my friend out. She said no because she was being a good friend, because she knew I liked him. So, that was good, but, I don't know how to get his attention, because ever since her found out that I liked him, he doesn't talk to me anymore.
He says its weird because he is good friends with my older brother, and I can see how that could be weird, but sometimes I wish it wasn't like that, because I REALLY REALLY like him. Everyone expects me to get over him now, but to tell you the truth I can't!
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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yea well> the age part- dnt matter at all lol. like really 2 me> it dnt matter how old you are. but anywayz, just curently i have found out that guys like girls that play hard 2 get. so when he is at your house or when you see him, ingore him. it alwayz work 4 me anywayz. lol, does your brother know you like him???? well anywayz,
holla bac at ya
snowbunny,,, holla
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im 15 (almost 16)/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.
we've been dating almost 3 years now and are sexually active, but we do not use condoms. he usually either finishes in my mouth or on me, never in me. the thing is, i want to get pregnant, but he doesnt. i can understand why he doesnt though. what should i do? i really love him and i really want a baby. (link)
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well all i can say is what happens happens. if yall have sex w/o a condom and you get pregant then it was meant to be. but if you do get pregant is he going to actually say and act like he is the daddy?
abby aka Az
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I'm a virgin (15), and my boyfriend is not(17). he doesn't care that I am, or anything like that, he has a girlfriend for a long time and she's only the other person he's had sex with.... Well I'm really scared to do it, and it's not liek he's pressuring me or anything, I just want to know, what his reaction will be like. because I'm really afraid, and do guys usually have patience with girls during their first? and how bad does it actually hurt? (link)
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well ima tell you the truth. itdidnt hurt as bad as i thought it would. it only hurts 4 bout 10 seconds, then its ok. i told my 1st to gooo very slow, and he did. then there waz one time where i said go slow and he jabbed it in there, it still didnt hurt that bad, quick pain. then it feels okay. haha. its not that bad. but you know im not telling you to do it or wateva, just do it when the time is right,.,
abby aka Az
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well i have only had sex twice.
the second time was last night and we didnt really go all the way.
he was too drunk to..you know.. get hard but we did other stuff.
he put it in me like twice but that was it and it didnt even go all the way in.
he fingered me really hard and since then i have been bleeding a little bit down there.
i know its not my period because i just got off like a week ago.
and im kind of swollen and sore.
and ive had to pee ALOT.
is this normal and do you think that i might be pregnant?
thanks in advance =] (link)
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well i really dont have an answer for that. but i know what you mean bc the same thing had been happenein to me latly. but after a day or two it stops being sore and swollen. does yourS? i think ima ask a doctor about it this week.,., just to make sure and youll be the 1st i tell the answer to hahahaha.
Abby aka Az
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last night i had sex for the forth time and i've been sexually active for the past 3 weeks. (my first time was about three weeks ago) last night when i did have sex it still hurt when he put it in of course not as bad as the 1,2, or 3rd but it still hurt like an elephant goign up my vagina haha but anyway. it still bled too;; i brok my cherry at the age of 5 from jumping on my bed and yeah you get the picture. so it's not that.
is this okay? or should i talk to my mom about it (my moms my best friend i tell her everythign) and maybe see a doctor. but when i went to planned parenthood she said i was heathy and everythign was fine which was last week. so is this hurting and bleeding still normal? (link)
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well i think it is normal bc the same thing has happen to me.every single time it hurts. i think its bc when a dick goes into you it stretches the vagina. and when a bigger dick goes into you, it tears it open bugger. thats how you become lose. mine still bleeds>>>> but im ok haha.,.,
abby aka Az
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So basically. im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 going on 18 in may. but trust me we have like almost the same maturity level. and honestly age doesnt really matter for us. so just ignore that small detail. haha. well him and me have done almost everything except have sex. and honestly i dont think ill be ready for that for a really long time. and he understands that i want to wait a while. its just that im scared that when he wants to i wont be ready and i wont know how to tell him so ill end up doing it and become a complete mess and totally regret it the next morning. so i was just wondering, for anyone who has been in this situation before or just even knows what im talking about, what should i do or how should i tell him when the time comes around without hurting him or even myself. thankss. :] (link)
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well, yes i have PLENTY OF TIMES. and you know what. if you lvoe him then do what YOU want. and sadly i gave in. its just those cute lil eyes, and smile, and the puppy face. and you know what> i got played! yeppers i lost it to the wrong one and i thought it waz right,. so if you feel like he IS the one. you decide when you want! but a lil hint 4 you> if you make them wait, and THEY ACTUALLY wait 4 a long time, then they just actually want you 4 you. plus some pleasuring haha jp. hope you do what you think is right. and age IS just a number!
abby aka Az
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so basically. im 15/f. well my mom is putting me on birth control because my period is wayyy irregular and because she thinks ima have sexx and get pregnant. [[virgin. ugh]] so i said ill do it. but i heard that u gain a lot of weight but it goes strait to your boobs. and that interested me fo sho. haha. but im not sure if thats true. does anyone know if that is. because i really need sum extra boobage. haha if that makes sence. plz help. thankss :]] (link)
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well my sis waz on birth control and the doctors never said anything about weight to the breast. i think that is not true. but when you go back to the doctor go ahead and ask. aint no shame in asking huh. haha, but anywayz, there is some bad things to it. just wanted to let you know> you do gain alot of weight but not to your chest, also break outs alot! and last but not least, in the future when you want to have kids, there is a possibilty you wont be able to. im not exackly sure why but thats what the doctor said. something bout when you take birth control that it stops somehing. idk, but anywayz
good luck with it,
abby aka Az
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what is a g-spot?
what does it mean when someone eats someone out?
what are types of sex...like cowgirl, 69, doggie, and what do u do in them?
what is pulled?
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well g-spot is the same thing as "hot spot" which is a place on your body that whenever some1 kisses,licks,or touches it you feel ticklish and horney. eating some one out is when a guy puts his head at the womans pussy and licks down there. which is called eating her out or "face". 69 is where a guy is "eating" a girl out while the girl is "sucking" the man. im guessing that "cowgirl" is when during sex, the woman "rides" or is on top of the man. doggie is when a guy is "butt fucking" or doing a girl from her butt. if you wanna know anything else just holla at ya snowbunny.,.
abby aka Az
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how can u tell if a boy likes you?¿ there is this boy in my english class and everytime i look at him, he turns his head real fast...because he doesnt want me to see him lookin @ me. i also look at him and he shakes his head to fix his hair. and everytime i talk to him he always doesnt say something for a while or he says something then laughs...which usually makes me laugh...does he like me? should we go out? (link)
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well he prob does like you. 1 way 2 find out if he does is 2 ask his BEST FRIEND. another way is 2 JUST ASK HIM. let him know that you like him by flirtin with him and just try 2 make him feel compforatble around you bc it sounds like he is VERY confused and scared around you.,.,.
hope it works out,
Abby aka Az
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okay so basically im 15 and a female. i have a boyfriend. and it always seems like whenever i get into a relationship i always start to think that there are better guys then the one im withh like i instantly notice all of the better looking guys and stuff. it reallly bugs me.
and usually it forces me to break up with my guy. i dont know if its because i have serious commitment issues or what? like i really do like my bf its just now im thinking that there these hotter sweeter nicer guys. i know this isnt good to think. and i really dont want it to ruin this relationship. aghhh help please. thankss. :]] (link)
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wow. i go through the same thing all the time. but what i do is when i c another fine guy i think about all my bf does 4 me. like hows he so sweet and hot. and everything i could want. like his smile and eyes. id think "y waste what ive got now 4 some guy that looks like a model and is a beat it and leave type" plus, if you hook up with a VERY HOT guy then u worry more bc you know the other girls are going 2 be chasing him! so yea all i have to say is think 1st. and holla bac at ya snowbunny>>>
good luck,
abby aka Az
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I'm pretty sure I'm paranoid,but my boyfriend and I have been fooling around, for a while,and well I just get nervous.
We don't do anything but oral sex and
such. I'm still a virgin, and even though when he fingers me I make sure that I got first and then I'll touch him just so my pants are on.
I don't think I could get pregant.
How long can sperm live?
If you have sperm on your hands but don't penarate you vagina is is possible for sperm to enter on it's own?
I'm just nervous. I've been thinking about it all week.
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well ok, sperm is a living thing. sperm DIES as soon as it hits air. so if you r still a virgin, then there is no way you could get pregant. trust me> i use 2 be scared of the same things. so i got curious and talked 2 my science teacher about it.so you have nothing 2 worry about. trust me. so if u wanna know bout anything else holla at me!
use condom lol<
abby aka Az
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There is this guy who I'm pretty sure likes me,
but the thing is, I really LIKE him.
He makes me nervous and in a good way.
I usually know what to say, and am a veryopen person to people, but not him.
How can I show him I like him without flat out saying it? (link)
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well i think a good way 2 show him that you like him is 2 just flirt with him. start asking him ?S like "do you have a girlfriend?" and/or "who do you like?" try 2 let him know that you like him but not all over him like drooling haha. then if that dont work then do what i do> tell his best friend that you like him. his friend ALWAYZ runs back n tells him everything. so he would prob know 5 mins after you tell his friend.
good luck,
abby aka Az
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