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14/f
my boyfriend and i were fighting last weekend, i was feeling upset so i texted my friend who i know and he is a boy, but my boyfriend has never met him. when my boyfriedn came to apologize we were ok until he wanted to read the messages on my cell. i deleted them. he can't trust me anymore.today we had the same problem!! but i deleted the messages..he thinks i am playing him but i am not..!! so herres the situation i am in:: my bf now has a problem in trusting me because he thinks i am playing him and i luv him and i don't want to loose him.how can i let him know the truth or something???sorry if this is confusing
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well,
im 14/f.
i think that 1 thing you can do is hug and/or kiss him infront of ppl. "if you and him do kiss". infrontof him, let every1 know that you and him are 2gether. and well let the rest go from there.... hope it works out>>>
holla bac at ya snowbunny,
"kizzaz"
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hey
i totally agree with the girl under me- a real trusting boyfriend wouldn't want or have any reason to read your texts!
if you love him and he knows it, that's all that matters. if you tell him you love him and that you are not playing him / being a player, and he doesn't believe you, he's OBVIOUSLY insecure. i mean who does that? however if you tell him you love him .. etc etc and he does believe you, then he is a good boyfriend.
all that matters is that you find a way to tell him the truth. and if he doesn't believe it, it's his problem.
not yours.
hope i helped :]
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Okay, I might be wrong but this is my instinct. A normal, trusting BF doesn't ask to see your texts. So he is either insecure,plain suspicious of you, or he is trying to distract you because HE is actually playing YOU. I think its the third. Have you ever given him any reason before to not trust you? If not, he wants to make himself feel better about his unloyalty by making you feel guilty. Even if he isnt cheating, he is uncommunatative and distant and doesn't trust you. All reasons to show him the door.
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