I am such a person to stress over anything you can ask any of my friends and they will tell you that I have been through about everything that you can imigne! Please don't be imbarresed about the way you look or the way that god made you. I have a friend who is obssed with her ears..She says that they are too big?!?! She dosen't even like to go swimming becasue her ears are too big!! I told her to be herself and that is all that she needs to do to fit in!
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I'm a 15 years old girl, and have had 1 boyfriend, which was a joke. I have been asked out numerous times, but each time I deny them. I allways find something about the guy that doesnt work. I have just come to conclusion that I'm afriad. I'm afraid to fall for someone, that might actually feel the same. I'm afriad to get my heartbroken.
I have helped many of my friends battle through heartbreaks, and from hearing and learning from this makes me wonder why even bother dating if they are just going to end tradgicly? I feel like i'm holding back, and I dont want to hold back anymore.
Can you give me advice on getting over this feeling?
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love can last swettie!If you see somenthing you sdon't like ina guy give it a chance and he cold be the one! I mean you are 15 and you only have three years untial marrige could be something that you decide to do. Not all guys are mean and crazy. say yes next time someone askes you out that you think you might have feelings for in any way. Don't worry about the future. Yo will get over a heartbrake! Belive me I have had plenty! I hope that you find the perfect guy!
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Ok theres this guy i like. We hung out this one weekend with one of my friends and like 2 of his friends and he was there. Well the whole night he acted like..he liked me..he was directing everything towards me and all his friends think that he likes me. Well i go over to my friends house all the time..and we always invite him over to do something or just go out and do something and hes always.."gone somewhere". Either his mom wont let him or hes really gone. Well his friends always jokes around that he lieks me and i was wondering. Do you think he doesnt wanna hang out because of me? (link)
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I serously don't think so...If he won'ted to be with his friend he would be and you would get ignored...Next time that you ask him to do something and he says that he is too busy just say somenthing lke omg again...and then laugh..say i can't wait until I gt to spend some time with you so maybe next time! I hope this works for ya!
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Alright so there is this guy that I like. I want to get his attention, make him maybe like me back. I want to like dress better and look better and stuff but im not exactly sure what to do.. I think he might have liked me at one point to but im not sure. Do you know anyways I could get him to hang out with me? or anyways I could make myself look better.. or anyways to get his attention or anything? please help.. anything will help..
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Let him knw that you have your eye on him and make sure that you get noticed even if it means stepping on his toe and then laughin about it...I mean do something that wiill make him see you. And I mean don't over do it and punch him in the stomich every 5 mins. But be there. lol! ok...maybe that dosen't make much since but just make sure that he notices you is the point! Be te kind of girl that it seams like he would like...Flirt with him! Be crazy but your self the same time. Think that personial qualitys do I look for in a guy like...Funny, crazy, ect,, and try to have some of those qualitys!I sawre I think guys like crazy girls!
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what does the term "69" and blue balls mean ?? and what happens when a guy gets a boner and when i masturbate how do i reach an orgasm cause idk if i ever get one like what does it feel like ?
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ok...the term 69 means somenthing bout a pose..lol...umm...you can look that up on the internet but I mean I don't know about the rest...I am so sorry!
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wow i dont even know where to begin. i'm 15m, my name is jake. just like at every school, theres that group of people who are popular and stuff right? well i was new to this school, and i kinda just joined this group. the thing is, in that group, theres guys and girls and they all have their own love triangles, but when i got in there all the girls liked me. and well at my friends party, rachel, kelly, may, sarah and i were having a little fun in a room, if you know what i mean. and well a some my friend walked in. before i could say anything he just left, and when we got done putting on our cloth he was gone. so i just went home form the party, cuz i was embrassed. so wow, this is bound to be extremely ackward to explain to the group, since all the guys in that group like one of the girls that i uh.. had fun with. what should i do? should i just find new friends? (link)
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No you shouldent fimd new friends. You should tell then that you didn't really think before you did what you did. Tell them that you are sorry and that you didn't mean anything by it that you were just looking to have some fun and you ended up in a bad situation if they are really your friends then they will let it go!
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ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right? (link)
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Yes you are so right and i fell for you! You need to let someone know that can do something about this! If the police knew then would it brake katies heart? I mean they really do need to know! Does she love him? Please help her tell someone. And by the way standing up for her was the best tinng that you could have done in that siutation!
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I have real sweaty hands...does anyone know anything i can do to prevent, or block this? It is so bad i cant even write without having my pen slip or having my paper become wet. Please Help. (link)
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washing your hands is good and that is mostly all that you can do but if you wash them in achole then it may help! Hope that It works for ya!
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Im in love with this guy, and he always tells me he loves me. Well I just found out from a friend that he had feelings for a short time on another girl. He never knew that I knew, and he always told my friend it was just a short time, and he doesnt like her anymore, and he hates himself for thinking like that about another girl. Well its been a couple weeks since that happend, but I still cant help but feel hurt and to feel like he'll do it agian. Im only 14 and I dont want to be hurt so badly so young, but I dont want to break up with him..what should I do? please help I'll Rate High! (link)
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tell this guy that you have so strong feelings for that you have really strong feelngs for him. lol! Tell him that you love him but if he won'ts the relationship to end then you had rather do that than be holding on to someone who dosen't have feelings for you. Tell him that it will brake you'r heart to see him go but if that is what needs to happen to satisfy him then so be it! Good luch and I hope that I helped!
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im 15 and so is my gf. She is "Emotionally unstable" as in she used to cut(but stoped for 6 months) and crys to the easist things.how can i break up with her so i dont hurt her feelings too bad. She really really likes me and so does her family (mom, dad,&bro.).we've been going out for 2 and 1/2 months. plz help me. (link)
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Hey man...Don't worry about it. If you just won't to be friends then tell her. If not say I think that we should satrt talking to other people. If she crys tell her that you are there for her any time and that shee can call you to talk. She will get over you I sware. It will just take time. Trust me! I am an emotnial girl too and I understand!
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yeah i went to our softball/baseball fields for the WHOLE day today and i have the worst fricken sunburn on my most sensitive shoulder right now and I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! it hurts WICKED bad! is there anything else to put on it besides aloe or burn cream because that isnt doin much right now! ANSWER ASAP! thx!
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Ok...ths sounds gross but PLEASE TRY IT! go to the grocry store and get some canned milk and put it in the refrigator or frezer and get it really cold. The open it and dip a cotten ball in it and smeer it over the burn. I sware it works. You can feel relif right then and it is like omigoodness It fells so good!!! Please tell me if this works! I hope I helped you!
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ok well i have 2 F's on my final report card. One in facs class wich doesnt even matter. But then i got one in science wich isnt so good. My question is this, can i still go on to the next grade if i didnt pass science? or will i have to retake the 8th grade? the rest of my grades arnt that great either but those are my only F's, my others go as followed, A A A D D D F F. Thanks. (link)
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Yea you can go on to the next grade but things arren't looking too great for collage babe!! You know that they satart to check the records at like seventh grade right?? Good luck and hope ya pass!
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Hi, im 15/f and ive never made out or been sexually active in any way whatsoever! Uhm the thing is that im scared to do anything that involved being sexually active because the hair down there(dont give me any hair removal method, il breakout in red bumps and i have no money to buy anything or get it waved) is really sparse and grows beyond my underwear, and my inner lips hang out noticebly longer than in outer lips. i think this might really freak a guy out because this is really ugly. Plus, im hardly a small A-cup. My 'breasts' are no bigger than a guys, seriosly, and even really small breast people are bigger than me, ive seen their boobs. i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him but i dont know how. im not sure what to do and i feel really bad because i guess noone else i knows has this problem and i dont wanna tell neone, its pretty embarasing. wut should i do?! (link)
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You are only 15 and you'r body hasen't fully devoloped yet so your pubic area may not be eather. If there is a person the you won't to get sexually active with then you must have some sort of feelings for and you must trust them. If they won't to get sexually active with you then tell them that you are uncomfortable but you do to. If they ask you why you are unconfortable tell them that you arren't comfortable with you'r body. They should understand and they will eather tell you something that will make you feel better or just do whatever anyways so...I hope my advice helped. Give feedback!
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well one of my really good friends has this notebook that she writes all her feelings in I guess its a way to get rid of her stress..but anywayz i read it last night and it talked about getting raped and why did it have to happen to her and stuff..well i asked her if it was true and she didn't answer me i kept asking her but she said she didn't want to talk she cuts and I can't get her to stop..how can I get her to open up so I can help her? i dont want her to hurt herself more than she already has! Plz help! Sincerely, *Concerned*
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omg! To you realize that what is happening to your friend could scar her for the rest of her life...(and I am not taking about the cutting)...what if she really did get rapped? Are you just going to sit back and watch your friend beat up her self? Tell someone who you can trust and don't be shy about this! It is serious! And if you think that you can handle it your self maybe you need to reconsider things becasue you are asking for help swettie. Please Please tell someone who can get your friend help and who can get who ever rapped her. He could do it every night...Help your friend! Maybe your friend just need to one special person. Ask her if there is anyone she can open up to...And tell her that you are only trying to help and that you are worried about her. Best of wishes.
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i have this friend right. we have been really good friends for a long time but latley she has been bugging the hell out of me. all she ever does is critisize me and disagree. she has such a big ego and it is so annoying. she thinks that only she has the answers. i would stand up to her but i can't i'm at the point to where i am going to explode on whoever back talks me! what should i do? i can't talk to her because she knows everything. (link)
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OMG! I thought I was the only one with that problem...I Finly brook loos and told my friend that she needs to have respect for me...I mean she always treeted me like I was dumb! She always made better grades than me and told me that my clothes were ugly...Tell her that you won't to tell her somenthing and that you are going to talk and that you don't won't her to say a word and when you get finshed you can listen to her. Show her how bad it hurts to have lost a friend and to be constantly put down becasue she thinks that she knows more than you! I am sure that you know just as much as her!
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Ok my cousin has this friend and i've met him and all he's really nice and he likes her but she don't really like him he's a real true christain boy. I want to go out with him. What do i say to get him to go out with me . I need help here. (link)
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thats a really hard question to answer becasue I don't know if the boy likes you too...But if he does then I wouldent ask him out until I got to know him. You should really be yourself around him and don't be shy.Be funny but don't over do it..If you know what I mean. If you think that he is really a great guy then you should tell him that you won't to spend more time together and that you think he is cute. I would not just go up and say will you go with me if you just like him for his looks. Try spending time together and I I hope things work out...
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okay so yesterday i got highlights [bleached] and i wanna go underwater in the pool.. would they turn green or sum,thing go worong if i did? (link)
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I had the same probblem!! This is what i did...When you get out try uesing some clarifing shampoo it works great and it keeps your hair from turning green! You might won't to use some kind of conditioner also becasue that kind of shampoo can sometimes dry your hair out.
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