well i'm 15. i love music, football, and cowboys not the football team but the acutial southern guys. oh yea and i used to date advice for dummies . yeah you're jealous.
p.s. the pic of me ins't overly fab but its what i have for now. i promise i'm much cuter than that and will work on getting new pics asap.
Gender: Female
Location: Red Sox Nation
Occupation: Model, Actress, and attending the school of the terminally boring.
Age: 15
AIM: hollowskye
Member Since: October 31, 2004
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ok, i have this guy that i really like, and i think he likes me. im not sure though. When i first met him, he didnt say much, but as i got to know him, he was really sweet. But then he just stopped talking to me. He would totally ignore me! And then he woould walk up to me and start talkting to me again a few days later. It has been going off and on like that for weeks, and then last week he started talking to me again. So i thought that maybe he was angry at me for something i unintetionally did. but through the whole time, i was super crushing on him. When he started talking to me again, i had just got a camera phone and went to take a pic of a friend. he wanted me to take a pic of him, and i was so happy! and then today, he told me that he got a new digital camera. he was all sweet and was like can i take a couple of pictures of you tommorrow? please? and of course, i said yes. But what the heck- why was he ignoring me? dies he like me? if not why does he want a pic of me? he said he wanted to put it on his webpage. but he didnt say it to anyone else, just to me. I am so confused. Any ideas, ppl saying f u, he likes u, dur- anything will help! please and than you!
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o yea, we both go to the same high school and i usually sit with him at lunch but then i moved when he was ignoring me. we are 15. (link)
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oh babe hes totally crushing on you hes just shy! and when it seems liek hes ignoring you its just because hes scared. go up to him! trust me it'll work. and if not then ill give u my brother. i hear es pretty hott stuf. just kidding! it'll work. no worries!
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there this guy that i thought i kinda lyk'd but he lyks one of my best friends. It kinda sucks cuz im so use to feeling this way cuz everyone likes my best friend. I dont wanna stop being friends with her because of that cuz thats juss stupid. Well i told this guy that i'd try to help him and my friend be together although it would kinda suck. My friend doesnt really like him lyk tha but still i have a feeling its gunna happen. I dont wanna tell him that i like him cuz im pretty sure he doesnt feel the same way and afterwords it'd juss feel akward... what should i do? (link)
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oh man. i have so been there done that. i ended u setting the two of them up and they lasted for a few days and the broke up but who knows whta will hapen with you. all i can say is kudos to you for being such a good friend to him. And to try and find someone else. easier said than done right? but i promise you your rince charming will come and you'll be so much hapier because he'll love YOU and you wont have to worry about being second best.
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so far me and my boyfriend have had the PERFECT relationship. we've been going out for 10.5 months and i dont know what to get him for our 1 year anniversary?? what should i get him? do i get him anything?? do i make him something?? if so what?? HELP!! (link)
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well you defenatly need to take into consideration what he likes. the best resents are thoughtful ones. get him somthing that represents an inside joke and dont worry about going out of your way and spending a million dollars you''ll just make yourself broke and resent him for taht.
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ok, well, i was babysitting the other night for these people and they were each going off to do their own thing. well, the mom left first, and the dad was supposedly leaving pretty quickly after, but instead he hung around for awhile. i was like, ok, um..why am i here if youre gonna sit around? well, i soon found out. he wasnt going anywhere. he put his kids in thier bedroom while i was cleaning something up, and he came up behind me and started grabbing me. he told me that if i yelled, hed kill me. well, i punched him where the sun dont shine and he let me go, but im sure that if i hadnt got away, he would have attacked me. but now i dont know what to do. he didnt rape me or anything, so should i really tell someone about it? all he did was grab me. they cant put you in jail for that, can they? im just wondering what i need to do about him....im supposed to go babysit again next week, and i cant exactly tell her why i dont wanna do it..so...HELP PLEASE (link)
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TELL SOMEONE!!! He grabbed you which is assult and you need not to go back there at all. tell a parent a school guideance counsleor or the police even. He CAN get in trouble and what he did was wrong. Also make sure his wife knows even if she dosent believe you about it and warn other otential babysitters for that family. that man is a pig and needs to be stopped you could have been raped!
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I've liked this one guy, Bob, for a while now. And he said he likes me and all, but he also likes a couple other girls. He told me this maybe a month or two ago, so I'm starting to think that he just likes being liked (because a lot of girls like him). And I'm starting to think that he doesnt really like me, even if he does act like it.
Anyway, I met this other guy, Bill, and I'm starting to really like him. and i heard that he wants to ask me out. but i still like Bob a little bit. even though im getting over him pretty fast.
should i go out with Bill even though I still kind of like Bob? or should i wait until I'm fully over Bob to go out with Bill?
thanks so much (link)
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oh i have so been there done that. bob is just an attention whore. go for bill and forget about bob. not as easy as it sounds but just keep spending time with bill trust me it gets easier as time goes on.
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my question is that i asked my bf if he looks @ porn he said yeah and he was being porn but like a couple of Months ago he said he only looked at it when he was single but before i was like wow he looks @ that and he said he loves me and shit?? what should i do? (link)
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its not a big deal that your boyfriend looks at porn. it wasnt cool of him to lie to you but still hes a guy an dthey have that weird sexual needs thing which personally i think is juts an excuse tehy all made up so they could be perverts but nevermind. like i said to someone else..juts be happy it only porn and hes not off sleeping with some otehr girl.
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hey im 15/f and i was at my really good friends jacobs hosue the other night (16/m) our families have been close forever, adns he is the sweetest best looking guy u will ever meet, although kinda cocky (in a cute way) sometimes. well we were alone at his house (nothing new, our parents dont think ne thing of it) adn he said something really sweet, and we kissed. after we just had dinner and were watchign tv, in alittle while he was telling me about when he went shopping wiht his friend and he got a free pair of hand cuffs, we joked aroun wiht them, untill he locked them to me adn to the leg of the table. we made a game out of it, adn we were kissing and playing around, before i knew it he was on top of me. i told him 2 times i didnt want to do that and to stop, but eventrally i just stopped adn actually enjoyed it. is this rape , please some one help me (link)
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well kind of but then again not. if you said no then he should have stopped right then and there. but if you stopped protesting and worrying about it then its not. u ned to tell him that it wnast cool that he didnt listen though to prevent it from happening in the future when it really can be rape.
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My dad is moveing to San Antonio, Texas tomorrow. We live in Pennsylvania now, but my dad got a job, and hes moven there now, and leaving me and my mom behind until we sell our house, (they think its the best thing to do) My dad is like my best friend, and alotta people know that he is. My friends invited me to hang out with them like since its Halloween abuncha my friends hang out and we just mess around. I really wanna hang out with them tonight because Halloween only comes once a year. But I wanna spend time with my dad too just because he's leaving tomorrow, and I won't be able to see him again until December 22nd. What do you think I should do? Any help will get 5s! (link)
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cill with your dad douring the dya an dmake sure your doing somthing that he enjoys even if its not your favorite thing to do.then at night u can chill with your friends. i'm sure both your dad and your friends will understand that you want to hang with each of them today.
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i need to get advice on my six year relationship, iam very unhappy as i have just found out my partner is texting a girl he dumped me for two years ago,we split up for 3 months i which time he had another relationship, we got back together as i had two of his kids and was pregnant again he told me abort the baby but i dont belive in it so i kept her, he made all my pregnancy a misery and i found out he was texting and phoneing this oter girl, i was sterllised recently an now for the third time i have found out he has been phoneing and texting this other girl, he keeps telling me he loves me but how can i belive him i cant trust him at all, i have three kids he will want custody if we split up so iam trapped (link)
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just give him a taste of his own medicine. if he can phone and text other girls then you can phone and text other guys. see what hapens. i'm sure he'll get jealous and then all you have to say is..."see? now you know how i feel."
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My Boyfriend and me just had a little fight , well the head cheerleader heard about it and now she's al over my boyfriend and were not even broken up , well we made up and she still wants him , she like bends down in front of him with her cheerleader clothes on or she trys to sit with us and well she drives me crazy , but the thing is my boyfriend dosnt like her and he's the star Quarterback on the football team, and he tells her to back off , is he the good kind of boyfriend every gurl wants? plz help (link)
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hes the refect kind of boyfriend especially if hes telling her to back off. shes just making an idiot of herself by being such a slut. if nothing else her stuid behavior will give you and your boyfriend somthing to laugh about at the end of teh day.
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Hey, my friend Emily is 14 and she just recently started to look up porn on the internet. I was thinking, this girl is 14! But, do you think it's normal for a girl in her young teens to look up adult images on the net? I need to know so I can tell her! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much! - Serena (link)
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its compleately normal. natural curiosity and all. jsut be glad taht its not porn and shes not going out and sleeping with random guys.
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I am 15 (almost 16) and I'm a female. There are some guys at school that like me. I know this because they have said it to me or to my best friend. One is a year older than me, and he kinda scares me. He doesn't know what flirting is. He kinda acts as though we are going out right now, but we're not and probably never will. He's always touching me and tries to get me away alone. What should i do about him?
Then there is this other guy. Lets say his name is Joe. Joe is really sweet and he respects me and my boundaries. I've liked him since last year and he just told me that he likes me as well. But, there are a few problems with that. First, I'm not allowed to date til I'm 16 (January), and then there is the guy that I described above. Its like he is trying to get Joe and I farther apart. The first guy is really starting to disturb and scare me. Joe and I like each other a TON, but then there is the other dude. What is your advice for this situation? What would you do to tell the other dude that you're just not interested in him like that? And what should Joe and I do? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Confused and Weirded Out (link)
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as far as teh 1st guy tell him how you fel but be nice about it. just tell him you dont like when he touches you because it makes you uncomfortable. as for joe adn u ignore mr creey and just enjoy yourselves. an dif your not allowed to date then just do group things. parents are stupid and as long as tehres one otehr person they wont susect a thing make just make sure that the people your with are all able to couple off or wont get mad when u and joe start flirting or want to go off alone for a few minutes. then everything should be ok.
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I haven't heard from my boyfriend at all since friday. He hasn't called or texted or anything. I've texted him but he hasn't texted back and I called him yesterday but he didn't pick up. I know that he's gone away for the weekend but he would always have his phone on him. I'm getting worried. (link)
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if hes away he may have jsut left the phone in the hotel or whtaever or he may have lost it. i'm constently losing mine especially when im in places im not used to being in. also he may have just forgotten his cell phone charger. god knows how many times ive done that. i'm sure everythings fine when he gets back mention taht you've missed him and that you tried to call. see what he says but dont tell him you were all stressed about it..you dont wnat him to think youre too clingy and such.
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SO yeah .. there's this guy. I'm not sure what grade he's in. But everytime I am near him ..walking past him or just standing there.. he always turns to look at me. Just stares at me.. dead in the eye..sometimes even smiles.
the thing is .. i know who this guy is. well i know who most of his friends are.
i told one of my friends about him .. "hey theres that 'creepy' guy that always stares at me.. thats him".. and shes like "ohh thats him? I know him!".. and she told me his name..."oh he thinks youre pertty!" and i said "really? how.. why what has he said?" and she said "um, we were in the bus and we saw you walking outside and he asked me 'hey do you think that girl is pretty?'..and I was like yeah." And she said that most likely he didnt just ask if he thought i was pretty because he didnt think i was! u know? Well thing is.. i always see him right.. and I WISH i had the courage to talk to him.
its so cute too.. this past thursday i was going to my 2nd period and there he was coming my direction..with his hair covering his face as he looked at me between the spaces of his hair.. and i moved to the side and i noticed he got nervous because he stopped to let me pass by. I smiled as i kept walking because i thought it was funny.
i would like to get to nkow him.. just talk to him.. man.. i need help...
thing is.. most of hsi friends KNOW ME (i dont know all theirnames).but they know who I am... and most of their CHICK friends dont like me because of this girl that started rumors about me because the guy that she liked.. liked me instead.(which i never went out with .. yet)..
i cant explain myself.. PLEASE HELP
[14 yr female gr10] (link)
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well there are a few ways to do it.
theres the sneaky way...nest time you see him and hes staring at you drop somthing (make it look accidential) and when he helps you pick em up say "thanks i'm...." and introduce yourself.
not exactly fool proof but whatever.
or you could have that friend of yours introduce the two of you.
or if all else fails just make eye contact smile and say hi. trust me doll its a highly underrated appraoch.
good luck!!
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ok ive kissed before and all i mean i know how but when ever my boyfriend wanted to french i always got scared i wouldnt be good enough of a kisser for him ..how can i change that? (link)
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just go for it. if you think about it too much it will feel nad be forced and that isnt good. just go with what feels right and i promise you every thing will be fine.
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Ok, so the deal is all of a sudden my friends have starting acting very rude to me. They do not invite me anywhere or call me for anything, I am the one who has to hunt them down if I want to hang out with them. I think this has happened because right now in the group I am the only one that has a boyfriend (3 years) there was another girl who had a boyfriend (for a year) but he broke up with her. So my situation is I am trying to spend time with my boyfriend and my friends and try to get 90's in school AND working every single day. My friends were fine at the beginning of school and all of a sudden they got mad at me for not inviting them to lunhc everyday (when my bf and I go on a date). They apparently are mad at me for other reasons to but won't tell me why. So I bascailly try and hangout with them feeling like an outsider and I don't know what to do. Last night we tried to go out and I wanted to drink but they were saying they needed another driver so I ended up driving... I was having a horrible time and we weren't getting into any parties and my friend was demanding I drive her all these places without asking so I said well some people have to pay for gas, and she actually sat there bitching at me because I asked for gas money (none of the other girls who drive ask for gas money, but I am the only one who actually owns a car and has to drive it everywhere i go, they all get rides) So like what should i do? I am soo mad at them for not telling me anything like If something bothers you shouldn't you confront that person so they can stop ? I have tried to talk to one of the girls and she said "i don't feel like talking about it" like what kind of response is that? My boyfriend is all stressed about it to because I will go over to his house crying because of my friends. (link)
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u know what i think babe...you need new friends. these people are shallow and they are using you. try hanging out with some of your boyfriends friends or join a club or a youth group or somthing but you deserve better than friends who will just use you and make you cry. you'll find some real friends soon i promise and you'll be so much happier. and hey if your from around mass i'll even be your friend. you seem like a nice enough chick.
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My best friend and I were both dumped by this one guy, and we both still like him. Just about everyone says that he still likes me, but I don't want to hurt her feelings and I also don't want to take a risk and ask him out again, because he's the kind of nice guy that will say "yes" just to advoid hurting your feelings. That and he seems to be just cycling through girls right now, one of my other friends says that it's just his hormones kicking in, but I just can't believe that even though it's possible. However both his best friend and his little brother say that he really likes me, so what if he asks me out? I *really* like him, but again I don't want to lose a friend over it, but because he and I are pretty close friends, it seems that that's gonna happen, no matter what. What should I do? Is there a way to adviod losing a friend?
(If it helps any, all 3 of us are 14) (link)
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your life kinda sounds like teh 1st season of one tree hill. wait for him to make the move but if hes juts "cycling through girls" you might not wnat to be with him anyways because he may just be using you to pardon the expression get some ass. just remember...hoes before bros nothing is worth losing a friend over.
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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot. (link)
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there is no such thing as a secret.everything comes out eventiaully. your boyfriend wont be happy but i'm sure he'd ratehr hear from you than from your ex. i'll take a while to gain back his trust but just keep being faithful and reassure him that you love him and that your really sorry about what you did. give him some time to be angry and eventiaully im sure taht everything will be ok.
p.s. ignore what "advice for dummies " said. i used to date him..eiw.lol jk hes great but sometimes he gets carried away and dont feel bad about the slut thing. hes a slut.
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ok... our school is one of 2 high schools in the district... and srry if this is long.. but.. the other one had a "silently loud" protest the other day b/c the principle said they couldn't wear white, black, or pink t-shirts anymore... and the guys had to cut their hair... and the no one can wear black makeup....... like eyeshadow, lipstick, etc..... and now they wanna do that to our school... we are havin a protest on monday and everyone.. well.. mostly everyone.. is wearin black... everything black...... is there any other way to get them to realize that we mean buisness.???? thnx much.... i rate.. InsaneSanityBabi (link)
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if it has a cross then no they cant tell you not to wear it because it is a religious symbol. as for the ink black and white i dont think that they can do that either unless you go to a private school. what you need to do is go to the school board with this and talk to them reasonably about whats going on. find out why they want to out law the colors and find some way to prove to them that not just "punks or bad kids" wear those colors. also make teh point that if you arent allowed to wear it they they shouldent be either which menas no more black dress pants for teh teachers and also no more button down shirts. its not fair of them to set rules like that and not follow them. if you need more advice or wnat to tell me more about this to see what i can do to help feel free to i.m. me at Hollowskye. i'll do what i cna to hel you guys because whta they are doing is compleately unfair.
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I just got my belly button pierced today and when i went to clean it out i was going to use safegaurd soap... but it was a deoderant soap to or something, and has a little scent, do you think that its going ot hurty my belly button n all because it has a scent?
Thanks so much. (link)
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no it wont hurt you at all. think of all the paces soap can get into scabs and such (as gross as that may seem.) if it can go there then it can sertainly go in your belly button because tahts kind of like a healing bruise also. if it wanst safe then the FDA wouldent have let teh company release it and if you still have your doubts then just wash it out with an unscented soap.
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