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he is having an affair
i need to get advice on my six year relationship, iam very unhappy as i have just found out my partner is texting a girl he dumped me for two years ago,we split up for 3 months i which time he had another relationship, we got back together as i had two of his kids and was pregnant again he told me abort the baby but i dont belive in it so i kept her, he made all my pregnancy a misery and i found out he was texting and phoneing this oter girl, i was sterllised recently an now for the third time i have found out he has been phoneing and texting this other girl, he keeps telling me he loves me but how can i belive him i cant trust him at all, i have three kids he will want custody if we split up so iam trapped
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just give him a taste of his own medicine. if he can phone and text other girls then you can phone and text other guys. see what hapens. i'm sure he'll get jealous and then all you have to say is..."see? now you know how i feel."
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Its very unlikly a man would get custody of children unless you are an unfit mother. Hes making you unhappy, considering that he wanted you to abort and you did not this shows the type of person you are compared to him. Dont worry about his threats he has no power over you. I would go seek some legal advice and make sure he does not know about it. Hug for you.
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you should get a divorce , your not happy an you shouldnt be put in that posision , he cant get full custody cause your the mom , there will be times he can have them but you need to take the time an get a divorce, if hes having fairs then really get a divorce i know it may seem confusing an hard but if you dont trust him then an hes talking to other ladies then get a divorce , trust me there are other people that our out there same situation there misrable to but they did get a divorce an they got full custody of there child !!!!!!! i'll pray good luck if you need me im here!!!! ~ashley~
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The kids shouldn't have your partner as a father. You can try to get Couple Therapy, i doubt that would help, though it might... Have you ever thought about putting your children into the orphange(spell?)??? I know you may love the, and your partner may love them too, but your too young to handle it and maybe later in a couple of years you can try to adopt them or just break-up with your partner and let him take one or two of the children... Sorry hun, your in a lot of trouble there... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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