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what to do...
I am 15 (almost 16) and I'm a female. There are some guys at school that like me. I know this because they have said it to me or to my best friend. One is a year older than me, and he kinda scares me. He doesn't know what flirting is. He kinda acts as though we are going out right now, but we're not and probably never will. He's always touching me and tries to get me away alone. What should i do about him?
Then there is this other guy. Lets say his name is Joe. Joe is really sweet and he respects me and my boundaries. I've liked him since last year and he just told me that he likes me as well. But, there are a few problems with that. First, I'm not allowed to date til I'm 16 (January), and then there is the guy that I described above. Its like he is trying to get Joe and I farther apart. The first guy is really starting to disturb and scare me. Joe and I like each other a TON, but then there is the other dude. What is your advice for this situation? What would you do to tell the other dude that you're just not interested in him like that? And what should Joe and I do? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Confused and Weirded Out
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Start off by telling the guy to start respecting your boundaries and if he doesn't back off then tell him off but try to do it politely if you can. After that, I would just tell Joe you'll go out with him and wait till your sixteen to actually go on dates. If you have a boyfriend, this other guy might start to back off and realize you are taken and there's nothing he can do about it.
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The weirdo guy needs to leave you alone. If he does not understand or cant see that hes making you uncomfortable or that your not interested then he has some seriouse needy issues. All you need to do is tell him exactly where to go. As for Joe if you and joe are supposed to date then you will. Nothing will stop that not even mr weirdo guy.
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Just tell the weird guy to back off and get "Joe" to help you too! Don't do it in like a nice way, cuss him out, it never works if you try to be nice. Just pretend at school that you and Joe are going out and then he might get the point. January is not far off, so you can probably just hang-out with Joe until then... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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as far as teh 1st guy tell him how you fel but be nice about it. just tell him you dont like when he touches you because it makes you uncomfortable. as for joe adn u ignore mr creey and just enjoy yourselves. an dif your not allowed to date then just do group things. parents are stupid and as long as tehres one otehr person they wont susect a thing make just make sure that the people your with are all able to couple off or wont get mad when u and joe start flirting or want to go off alone for a few minutes. then everything should be ok.
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