My name is Ashley Laskarin and i am sixteen years old. I have been through many different experiences in my life as many have, but i believe i have a gift for advice most of my friends and family come to me when they have an issue. im a good listener and love to help people. My life is the very essence of drama. I dont like it but ive grown up with it and know how to deal with pressure. ill answer anything with the best of my ability. so ansk me anything! :)
E-mail: nicolelaskarin@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Indianna
Occupation: school
Age: 15
Member Since: November 20, 2006
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i have light brown hair with blonde hhighlights and i want to dye it dark brown. what kind of hair dye should i get to do this and what shade shoudl i buy? also what if it doesnt match my face..is there anyway to get my normal color back? (link)
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well i would suggest goin to a salon instead of buying a dye but if you can't i would suggest loreal. they are the best i've tried so far.
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I'm 17 F/145lbs.
I'm not fat, I'm pretty strong for a girl, so muscle weighs more then fat. But I do have the "lower tummy fat" and would like to get rid of it. How?
Regular crunches aren't working. What are some ways to get that lower fat gone.
Ab things I could do in my room?
If you lost a bunch of weight, how did you do it. My stomach is for the most part, flat, but that little fat area, I would want that to be gone.
Also my hips are kinda big I think its fat, how can I make that gone too?
I'll be going on a diet with my boyfriend here next month, and until then we are running about everyday, and riding bikes. thanks (link)
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ok well for your abs i do this awesome workout.You take a chair and sit sidways on it so your side is facing the backing of the chair. get something or some one to hold down your feet. i usually tuck my toes underneath a door or dresser. Lean back about 3/4 of the way down and come back up. as you do that try to use your stomach muscles to pull u up....not your back. for your legs i have the same problem so i don't know about that. i've tried everything
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my mom never agrees with me and i luv her tons!! but ever since i was little iv wantd to get my naval pierced.. she knos it too. I just want her to understand that i really want this and i would do anything for it!! how can i talk to her about it with out making her mad??( latly every time i bring it up she gets madder)
~Angie (link)
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don't be to pushy...wait a while and maybe she will change her mind. she might have a good reason as of why she doesn't ask her why not and try to be as nice as possible try to be understandin of her but also still try to explain to her your point of view to
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15/m.
Ok, so I just recently got into a longdistance relationship and its been going strong for almost two weeks, we see eachother via webcam everyday, we text nonstop and sometimes talk on the phone..
But yesterday night she told me she had to go to the movies with this guy. She said the first time they met was at the movies, and within the first hour of the movie they were almost at thirdbase... Im hoping this doesn't happen again, can I trust her? (link)
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well at first long distance relationships are always risky. You can never really base a true relatioship on that. as for her she sounds to easy. Almost third base on a first date it slutty. If she really likes you then go for it. but i wouldn't trust her a damn bit.
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why are teenaged girls obsessed with boys i really want to know why i cant figure it out (link)
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It is just a stage that all of us teenagers go through. Hormones are changing and our minds are beginning to ask questions about certain things sexually and of course about the oposite sex. both guys an girls are effected. guys may not seem as much as girls but they do they just don't broadcast it as much.
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my freshman year i cam across this boy named tommy and i liked ever since junior year we started talking and in the summer he asked me to be his girlfriend so we went out i liked him alot he was my real first boyfriend and i was crazy fro him see i like my rocker guys with long hair and piercings ans he has that :) we even went to family values together and had a good time....school started and it was fine we didnt see each other at all only in themorning when i would get off the buss but only for 5 minutes and then i would just talk to him on the phone or myspace...so on the third day of school he broke up with me on myspace and i was devistated!!!! i couldnt belive it i mean the day before it was all fine!!! so then we broke up and i was sad i dated guys after him but for a very short time i cant get my mind off of him.....so im dating my current boyfriend nick and i liked him but now im loosing my feelings for him but he knows my tommy they live next to each other...and when ever me and nick are together and i see tommy i get pissed and puch nick away i still love tommy and by the way tommy has a girlfriend and apparently he is in love with her one time on myspace he wrote a song and he sent it to me to see if it sounded good and if not if i could fix it up and i did and it hurt he doesnt know i am still in love with him so when ever i see him i get this stmach ache and i just wsh i was with him......what should i do? i want him really bad!!! (link)
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okay if you like him as much as you say you do the only way you will be satisfied is if you get some courage and tell him how you still feel. it will be hard but the best thing to do is get it over with just go up to him or write him and say what ever you want to say. try to keep your mind off of it until he replys if you din't try to keep your mind off of it it will drive you crazy
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do guys like tomboys or do they think of tomboys as a guy friend and save the pretty girls for there girlfriends or do some boys like tomboys if so please tell and what makes a girl sexy i would like to know (link)
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it all really depends on the guy. some like girly girls and some like tomboys its just thier personal prefernece and their is nothing you can do about it. every guy has thier different reasons for thinking a girl is hot. you alaways here about them just liking your body or your face but truthfully i think it is ither things too. if your going for a certain guy don't change yourself for him because trust me you won't be happy even if you get him. you will eventually get tired of pretending to be something you aren't
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15/F [SORRY IF IT'S LONG]
Last year in the beginning of the year, I met this guy. Let's name is Bob. Well, I'm pretty shy. But Bob would talk to me. And I started to like him. Towards the middle of the year, we stopped talking. But I still liked him. I found out he was doing drugs. So, I started liking someone else. And during the summer he was all I can think about. And now this year, I don't have any clases with him [we had one together last year] And I really don't see him around campus. But when I do see him, memories come back. And I admit, I still like him. How can I stop liking him? I don't want to like him. He's really not a good person. And we really don't talk anymore. I like other guys. Like this year, I like this guy. Let him be Oswald. I don't talk to him. But he's really nice. And I want to talk to him. What can I do? But even if I do like Oswald, I prefer Bob. But I don't want to prefer Bob. I want to prefer Bob. Help me, please!
Thanks in advance. (link)
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ooo honey, when i read this i was so surprised because i have been in the EXACT same situation and when i say exact i mean EXACT. with my guy he was in to drugs and he didn't get any better. i wanted to get over him for sooo long i wasted 2 years of my life on him. we talked but not very often. drugs took hold of him and not he is a horrible person....real skinny and looks horrible. what i can tell you is that if you do like this other guy oswald then try to focus more time on him. when you seem him say hey and try your best to block this bob out of your mind. whenever you see him think about the bad and not your memories because that is what kept me holding on for so long. he won't get any better even if he says he will he won't just remind yourself of what he will become and how if you get involved how you could change to....if you get to involved withthe wrong people you will try things to be more like them and don't fall into that trap. focuss more of your thoughts on oswald and when you think of bob just push him out of your mind and think of oswald. talk to him and try to find out more about him and just ride the waves after that.
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Well, I recently changed schools, so I haven't seen this guy for months. I was recently talking to him, but he seemed kind of down, so I tried to find out what was wrong. He told me ''I don't want to make the people I love feel sorry for me'' So I'm wondering whether he likes me as a serious thing, or he is just being nice?
He's always been nice to me..and flirty. But the thing is that he is having a really hard time with things that are going on, and I want him to feel better. I do care about him. (link)
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well form what you said i can't really tell if he likes you or not...not enough detail but if you like him you deinatly need to tell him and let him know that you are ther for him try to talk about it with him and offer suggetions on what to do just make sure you let him know that he is loved and people do cre about him...even maybe more than he knows. just be really supportive and make sure he knows you like him. it may actually help.
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14/F 5'1 100 lbs
i recently lost like 30 lbs and the upper parts of my arm or my bicepts are really toned and defined. My tricepts on the other hand are REALLY untoned, but the thing is I'm not sure if it's really my tricepts or just extra skin. If i tone my tricepts do you think that if it is extra skin, it will not look like extra skin anymore and if not what should I do to get rid of it and what is the fastest way to tone my tricepts? Dont just give me a list of excercises, I have that. I want to know which excercise will work the fastest.
Thanks :) Feel Free to only answer one of those questions. I know putting multiple questions in a question is frowned upon, but I thought they went together. (link)
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when you work out you are pulling in all your excess skin and fat to make it look more toned. honestly no work out works faster than the other it will take time but if you work hard it will pukk in and look toned just work at it.
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i have this science teacher,and he well....CREEPS ME OUT!!!! like in a sexual mannor. i know its not that big of a deal, but its really bad for me!! all my friends dont like him either. and once, he asked me to read a paragraph from the book, and i was so creeped out, that my voice was a little shaky, then he let me get a drink of water for my throat, and once i was out of the room, and away from him, i was fine. i seriously dont know what to do. i dont want to be afraid of him anymore becuase i have him for the rest of the year. PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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okay if he is sexually harrasing you then it is a huge deal and is very inapropriaye behavior. the same thing happened with me art teacher and i talked to the guidence councler. you need to tell someone anyone that has atuhority enough to do something about it.
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M/16 Ok, so me and my friends have been hanging out with a small group of girls. One of the girls I kind of like and I would like to ask her out. One of my friends heard that she likes me, so I'm really not too nervous about asking her out. I just dont know what to say. I mean, I know I shouldn't say "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" But when I ask her out, do I literally say "Would you like to go out with me?" Just confused about what to really say. Thanks (link)
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okay before you ask her out you really need to spend some personal time together that way you can get to know each other better on a more personal level. when you are in a big group sometimes you can't say things like you can when your alone. just go up to her and say "so i was wondering if you wanted to hang out sometime" and then she says yeah ask her whatever date you want to hang out and if thats okay with her. hang out with her a few more times andthen ask her out. most of the time you can say do you want to go out with me. its theeasiet way and i imagine it isn't as nerve racking to say. don't worry about it just go with the flow and see where things take you.
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Ok so i've fallen really hard for one of my like best friends Josh. Now josh has a girlfriend and i know that. But he calls me everynight just to talk and he's always making plans and telling me to come see him. And apparently we both constantly talk about each other to our mutual friend. We work together and at work we steal each others rings (and wear them all day)and joke around like crazy and flirt. He never talks about his girlfriend and doesn't hang out with her much. Does he like me? What should i say? I will never be the other woman cause i will never beleive in it. So what should i do? (link)
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it sounds to me like he likes you since he blows off his gf for you. i'd ask him if you like him just go up to him a casually talk about his gf and see what he says and if he says he really like her and all that stuff back off but if he doesn't like her tell him you like him.
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17/f I use to be a pretty average studant my whole life, i made ok/descent grades, i have always been a very happy person, great personality,good kid but that was through about when i was 15, i met new friends i started drinking and doing drugs. i believe they have effected my brain ALOT. i make horrible grades, i have horrible short term memory, i am never happy anymore, i flip out on everything, and i have the attention span of a 3 year old, i cant pay attention to anything. im sure there i so much stuff i need help with but i just dont know what it is. i fight with all my friends about the stupidest things. and i use to want to go to college, but i feel like there is no way since im so dumb. what should i do? helpppp (link)
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well i can understand your position and yes you did mess your brain up very bad. drugs friy it like kfc does their chicken. the only thing you can do is of course stop the drugs and then try to gradually win your mind back. maybe go to rehab and try to get straightened out or atleast get turtoring for school. you might be able to look up excersises on the internet to increase your mind memory and capacity....i know they have games like that. The most stupidest thing you can do is not go to college you may need to wait a little until you can get up a better physically and mentally before you go though....it is going to e tough but i have been that with myslef and family...i kow it will be hard but try and believe in yourslef and keep telling yourself you can do it. Also get people around you to support you that alwayz helps
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im 15 and if i went to planned parenthood to get birth control would i have to pay for it? also, since you have to get that pelvic exam too does that cost anything? and could i just walk in or do i need an appointment? oh yeah, lol could i have my boyfriend come in the room with me or should i have him stay in the car? (link)
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yes you do have to pay for that stuff...and i'm not sure about your b/f but i'm pretty sure he might should stay ihn the car.
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my boo is going to court tommorrow.. he wanted me to come see him before he went but i couldnt because i have school and i wasnt skipping school for a boy, im not in love with him or anything but im too nice and so i really care about his feelings. he gets mad when i say i cant do 'this or that' or if dont want to do 'this or that'..(little things). i need some advice because i really dont know what to tell him for tomorrow...'good luck', 'it'll be okay' i dont want to sound lame or anything i just dont know what to say to him. by the way he's been to jail more then once and im 15 and hes 17 (link)
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sound like he is bad news for you....if you don't love him then i don't seewhy you should go especially if he is goint o be ther a while then you are just going to give him hope when he comes out that you are goin to be there which more than likely if you don't love him you won't.; but jsust tell him that you are sorry but you have a HUGE Test or somthing.
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18/f.
University student.
Am working on a project that's due tomorrow (in 8.5 hours, actually). Right now, it's 1:30am. This project was assigned over a week ago and I just .. agh, got distracted, etc.
Does anyone have any tips for me so I won't procrastinate? I already don't get enough sleep during the week (5 hours max), and it looks like tonight's another all nighter. So what should I do?
Please don't dare say the words "time management"... Because obviously, I need help managing my time and I don't know how to. That's why I'm asking this question.
And share personal experiences and improvements afterwards please...I'll be working on the project and checking here once in the while...
Vei. (link)
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well time management is really the key but in your situation right now here is the best thing to do:
1. get load of coffie
2.make sure you write and read over EVERYTHING at lear 3 times to make sure your happy
3. go over the teachers reaquirements to see if you everything done right
4.call freinds and ask for help if you are haveing troube
5. if all else fails fake sickand do it during the day.
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okay so im 14 about ot be 15 girl and im in 8th grade,and basicly i like one of bestfriends brother and some times when i go over to her house and hes there he will just randomly come in and start talking to us[mostly me though]and he kinda flirts with me and stuff.but my friend totally hates it when we talk,if she can tell were flirting.
Earlier this year i like her brothers friend and we both liked eachother but we kinda grew apart and stopped talking but we never really went out.
so my friend when i say something that involves her brother just thinks im crazy/weird because she thinks im in "love"with him[or his friends] but yeah do i have a chance?
i really like him and i think he kinda likes me but idk am i just thinking that?im not sure
just gimme your thoughs
THANKS
keep in mind he is 16 and a sophmore
weird? (link)
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it is okay you do have a chance but i wouldn't grab at it until i taked to my freind about it and make it clear that you are not in LOVE with him........all girls really don't like it when their freind hook up with thier brothers but if you like him enough you should take the chance.
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I have dealt with a huge skin problem in the past. So now I have scars all over my body:my legs, arms, and back. They look so obvious, and it makes me feel so self-conscious that I have to cover it up with jeans and long-sleeved shirts. However summer is close and I want them to be gone, or less-noticable at least. I want to look better again. Is there any treatments or surgical procedures I can do to get rid of the scars?
Please give me some hope with this because I look so ugly! Thanks (link)
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you can use speacial scar treatment cream and it works really well you can ask your doctor or try an over the counter drug although that prabably won't work a s well. or you can use cover up but that would take to much time.
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i have this dog, and he has to be put down tomorrow, b/c he has been peeing in the house, and we got him fixed, but it didnt help. we have 2 other male dogs, so theres a lot to compete for. he is the smallest. and im getting a new puppy tomorrow, for my b*day, and it just happens to be the day that we have to put down my other dog. my dad has been calling me mean and such b/c im getting a new puppy, and im happy to be getting her, but hes like your replacing your old dog with a new one, thats so wrong. but today i was crying b/c its my dogs last day with me, and i really do love him.
im allowed to be happy to be getting a new puppy, right? (link)
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yeah your fine as long as you understand how sad it is about your other dog....but it's okay to be excited about your new puppy i mean it a PUPPY you know?
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