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Boy Trouble
15/F [SORRY IF IT'S LONG]
Last year in the beginning of the year, I met this guy. Let's name is Bob. Well, I'm pretty shy. But Bob would talk to me. And I started to like him. Towards the middle of the year, we stopped talking. But I still liked him. I found out he was doing drugs. So, I started liking someone else. And during the summer he was all I can think about. And now this year, I don't have any clases with him [we had one together last year] And I really don't see him around campus. But when I do see him, memories come back. And I admit, I still like him. How can I stop liking him? I don't want to like him. He's really not a good person. And we really don't talk anymore. I like other guys. Like this year, I like this guy. Let him be Oswald. I don't talk to him. But he's really nice. And I want to talk to him. What can I do? But even if I do like Oswald, I prefer Bob. But I don't want to prefer Bob. I want to prefer Bob. Help me, please!
Thanks in advance.
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ooo honey, when i read this i was so surprised because i have been in the EXACT same situation and when i say exact i mean EXACT. with my guy he was in to drugs and he didn't get any better. i wanted to get over him for sooo long i wasted 2 years of my life on him. we talked but not very often. drugs took hold of him and not he is a horrible person....real skinny and looks horrible. what i can tell you is that if you do like this other guy oswald then try to focus more time on him. when you seem him say hey and try your best to block this bob out of your mind. whenever you see him think about the bad and not your memories because that is what kept me holding on for so long. he won't get any better even if he says he will he won't just remind yourself of what he will become and how if you get involved how you could change to....if you get to involved withthe wrong people you will try things to be more like them and don't fall into that trap. focuss more of your thoughts on oswald and when you think of bob just push him out of your mind and think of oswald. talk to him and try to find out more about him and just ride the waves after that.
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What is happening is that you are torturing your mind thinking of this bad guy Bob you have to put your greatest effort in preferring someone else than this boy who will only bring sadness,misery into your life if he does drugs then he could be a drug dealer or other horrible things you have to say to yourself"any other guy is better than him because they don't do stuff like that he isn't worth it I'm too good for him".
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I see, well this is hard. If you like Oswald you should go up to him and start talking to him. And about Bob, if he's really that bad why do you like him? I think you can get over him. It just takes some time. I know you can do it.
Hope I helped.
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