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okay my name is amber and if u need help i can help you i love swimming shopping go to scary movies and funny and love movies i love hanging out with friends going swimming im 14 i love french fries lol
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Kay well my parents' are spliting up , and I've been expecting it , I'm not sad or anything [no I'm not in denil either] and I have a desision to make , who I want to live with.

1) My mom : She sooo nice and I can tell her anything , But she can get moody and emotinally abusive [just a little bit].

2) My Dad : He is always asleep or a work or on the computer ,I can't really talk to him about anything.He is always in a bad mood and is vitiamin D deficiant [usually really bad mood in the winter] and he over grounds me for everyhting.BUT he brings me places and gives me money and treats me my age. (link)
i think your mom i would do that if i were you but you can visit your dad anytime you want or if u live with yur dad you can visit your mom but if i were you i would go with your mom


Yesterday i tried to curl my hair. It didn't work at first, so i kept the iron on my hair for a kind of long time to try to curl it. Afterward, i noticed my room smelled like i'd burned something, and today someone asked me if i'd burned my hair. I smelled it after that, and it did smell like i burned it. My hair still looks fine, i just can't stand the smell.

Is there anything i can do to make the smell go away? I've already tried shampooing etc (link)
hair spray perfume


I was doing my essay on my computer and i accident unplugged the circuit breaker thing instead of my lamp and i didnt have the essay saved. is there any way i can get it back? i dont think there is but im just asking... (link)
nope there isent but re do it and save it like when you are half way throgugh save it then save it again when u r done


I'm going to visit my grandma for the last time in two days. I'm really nervous, we used to be really close but we barely are anymore. I'm not allowed to act different around her.

I'm afraid I'm going to break down and cry when its time to leave. How do I stay strong for her and my mom? I've never dealt with a death before. (link)
well when you cry make sure you leave the room but just think of something differnt take a breath and think of somethign differnt


I made out with this guy... umm he was HORRIBBLLEEE.
I just don't know what he was doing haha. Anywayss, basically, I'm afraid that he would tell people that I'm a bad kisser, because he doesn't really understand the way to french/make-out. Like I just don't think he grasps the concept of how to make out...
Anyways, now we're like pretty much hookup partners haha, so how do I adjust to his kissing or is there something I could do to improve the way he kisses? (link)
well make out with him more and do something different when you guys make out like make out your way and he will probably go with it but like keep on making out with him more and more and he will get better or tell him there is a different way of making out i learned wanna know and show him but don't tell him hes bad at it just tell him you know a different way that will be more funner and he will probably go along with it


ok heres the deal i was going out with this kid about a year ago and we ended up breaking up because i caught him with another girl but i dont care any more he is definately out of my system but afyer we broke up he started getting really close with my cousin it botherd me at first but now i dont care .... she ends up telling him that she loves him and he has a girl friend and hes telling her to just wait for him and basically saying that when i get tired of my girl i'll move on 2 you ... so then he ends up asking her out while he has a girl and when she tells me he did she said she wants to so bad but she wont and making it all my fault. the thing is i really dont care about him but thats my cousin and you just dont do that 2 your family . should i be mad at her if she went out with him? (link)
well idk because thats bad to a family member to date your ex and i don't want her to get her feelings hurt because you know hes gonna dump her for someone else anyday but i think you shouldn't get mad at her i think you should talk it over with her


so im 15 and my boyfriend JUST turned 18 and im about to turn 16 in october. i finnally told me parents he was 18 after two months but he turned 18 in may so yeah. well when i told me mom she was a little upset but when i told my dad he freaked out saying he can never come to the house agian or call me ever agian. We both are in love ive been crying ever since my dad told me that and so has he. we have summer school together which will be over in a month and he said he will wait for me to turn 16 to go back out. we are pretty much broke up but we are still talking. i plan on going behind my parents back and keep dating him but i can only do that for so long. well my question is, is there any way i might can get my parents to let me date him agian? they really love him, until they found out his age. i havent stopped crying cause i really loved him. What should i do, (link)
tell them hes a great guy and tell them that we are in love and tell them hes only 2 pr 3 years older than me and i really love him please let me date him again give me another chance and say that you will go any under there rule you will do anything to go back out with them


heres a convo of me (m/13) and a (f/13) what am i doing wrong im trying to get her to like me..

me says:
hey

she says:
heya

me says:
u gd?

her says:
yip im aighht yew?

says:
yep

her says:
... wt tim eis it, i justt woke up laugh out loud

me says:
laugh at loud

her says:
shit kik

her says:
*lol

her says:
guy was trying to go all night but i guess it failed

her says:
haahhaha

her says:
we wer talking to girl nd girl

her says:
hoo?

her says:
ferguson?

me says:
yeh

me says:
their a bit..random

her says:
hahah .. wth wer u talkn 2 them 4

her says:
ther such loers

her says:
*losers

me says:
i dont know good question

her says:
hhehe

me says:
they started it

me says:
they said haha good one about 100 times

her says:
lovely

me says:
guy was ... fighting? with them

me says:
hahahah about wt

me says:
forget now but i think it was because he called them losers

me says:
and u have 2 see something

her says:
showw me(:

me says:
lol yeh

me says:
its worrying

her says:
wt is it (link)
flirt with her more tell her she pretty


How do I make my hair grow realllllllly fast?

Besides taking pills.

(link)
brush it everyday like 4 times a day use shampoo


On my upper arms, and on my lower-waist i have these little white dots. They look like goosebumps but they don't feel it, it just feels smooth.
People ask em all the time if i'm cold. i always had this. what is it, is there anything i can do about it? (link)
go to the doctors and ask them or use lotion or get medication they probably will give you some but all im saying its probably not bad


Ok.. my familys not perfect.. and i dont want it to be but i dont even feel apart of it. Everytime i get home from school they jump down my thraot to do this or to do that so i do it then go in my room and listen to music, do homework anything. Then i go over Carolynns and shes my best friend and like 40 years older then me but shes just like my mom even better. she gives me advice and i just wanna live there everythings so much better there. but thats never ganna happen so i just stay there all i can. well then go home for dinner where WE HAVE to ea at the table and talk about the day and i dont eat and dont talk and now there all worried thining im annerxic which i never could be considersing im a fatty! and they say it all the time. HOW DO I GET AWAY! i hate my family. (link)
you shouldn't hate you family for that when i get home i have to do lots of work there are just trying to teach you responsibility and they love you tell them whats really on your mind because you have a great life compared to some people but you shouldn't hate your family for them worrying about you they love you lots or they wouldn't care if you didn't eat you are lucky you have a roof under you heat and you don't get beaten but really tell them whats on your mind and why you haven't been eating and stuff and have a mom talk first and alone then a dad talk hope i helped



ok iam a gurl and i was just wondering how to put my hair in a mohawk without it looking all flat and crunchy?
thanks (link)
ok put lots of gelll in it and hair spray i mean lotssssssss


so there is this guy and i really like him and i thought he liked me too and once or twice i swear he was about to tell me. he's really shy so once was on IM and the othr in a note.
but iv been acting kind of mean wenevr he hints. idk why
anyway, for the past two days, he's been pretty much avoiding me no matter how much eye contact i try to make.
i really want to tell him but he won't give me a chance. his bro is always on his sn and i tried to ask if i could talk to him, but it didn't work. so how do i talk to him in school OR ANYWHERE?
plz help. guys responses totally encouraged!! (link)
write him a note and give it to him tell one of his friends to tell him call him or write him a note and put it in his locker


whats a good cute and cool myspace name? like if my name is Criss ? (link)
♥criss

but the heart will really work on myspace or

~.criss.~


My hair is very curly, but my bangs are straight. Idiotic straight. Like, they curl once at the scalp and then fall exactly pin straight across my face. It probably happens because I used to iron my bangs staright. But I did the rest of my hair too! Why is it happening? Pretty much my only options are to straighten them again or gel like there's no tomorrow. It's ugly and it doesn't belong. How can I get my bangs to curl like the rest of my hair? (P.S., I don't want it to look too unnatural, and our curling iron has a bigger rod than my spirals. Help!) (link)
use a crimper or get a smaller curling iron and curl it or braid your bangs while it is wed with big braids and then go to bed and wake up tomorrow and take the braids out or straighten your hair everyday or straighten it and crimp every piece of your hair


hey read my first question but ignore the bottom.

anyway what should i do about the girl im friends with. i like her but i dont want to destroy our relationship by telling her how i feel.
it feels like every day i dont tell her it further tears my soul. (link)
ok well flirt with her more and then call her on the phone and tell her that you promise that this wont ruin our friendship and then she says i promise then you tell her and i promise that will make you feel better maby she feels the same way


ok so i am 13 and i have an amazing boyfriend, he is really sweet but i went to the movies with him today, we held hands and cuddled and stuff but i all the sudden don't like him and don't no if its just because i'm starting to like someone else or if he just isn't right for me...i mean i was thinking it was just lust but was it more and should i break up with him?? (link)
ok i had an ex that was sweet and kind and the boyfriend a girl always wanted he was so nice anyways i dumped him because i stopped likening him one day some how but most of the girls like someone when they don't go out and then when they go out like a week later they don't like them anymore like before dumped my boyfriend i went out with for 6 months i felt weird and i stopped liking him but then when i dumped him he cried for like a month then he got over it and i cried and was depressed for like 4 months anyways he wen out with this girl and i sooo regretted dumping him right after i dumped him i found out i still liked him and i cryed but think it over twice you never know if u do like him or not so think it over again and take my advice don't dump him hes a good guy


My best friend who is bi kissed me, and since then she's been this nasty person. I feel like I don't know her anymore and it hurts me a lot. I don't want to lose her, but I feel icky when I talk to her.
Her bf keeps telling me that suicide is NOT the answer, but I really want to do it.
So- suicide methods that work, and how to deal with my friend alternately. (link)
yeah suicide is not the anwser just tell her that she changed and you dont feel the same way about you being friends as you did before


how can i get hair like her
http://a264.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01565/36/22/1565232263_l.jpg (link)
layer it and then in the back make up all fluffy in the back all by the top spray the back and then part den your bangs by the side then move your bangs over



to start off the year i had SO many friends.
i considered my self 'popular.' now it's the
end of the year & i have no friends. i dont
wanna spend the summer with noone to do stuff
with. all of my friends are friends with other
people and are always busy. theres 2 more weeks
of school & i wanna get most of my friends back.
i feel like giving up. random people are taking
my friends & buddying up with them. i ask them
to hang out but i always make plans too late.
should i sit with my semi-biffs at lunch? cuz
they have new friends but still talk to me..

i have so many ex- friends that have moved on but i need some friendss. help (link)
ok well go to school talk to them ask if u can sit by them at lunch or talk to somebody get to know somebody and ask if u can sit b them at lunch and next time you go to school ask one of those people if they wanna hang out after school but talk to more people or your ex friends alot more ask if you can hang otu with them

hope i helped



love amber




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