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Ok.. my familys not perfect.. and i dont want it to be but i dont even feel apart of it. Everytime i get home from school they jump down my thraot to do this or to do that so i do it then go in my room and listen to music, do homework anything. Then i go over Carolynns and shes my best friend and like 40 years older then me but shes just like my mom even better. she gives me advice and i just wanna live there everythings so much better there. but thats never ganna happen so i just stay there all i can. well then go home for dinner where WE HAVE to ea at the table and talk about the day and i dont eat and dont talk and now there all worried thining im annerxic which i never could be considersing im a fatty! and they say it all the time. HOW DO I GET AWAY! i hate my family.
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Well, likely the biggest cause of you not feeling a part of your family is because you are excluding yourself.
We all had to do this and do that when we got home from school. At least, those of us who's parents wanted to teach us responsibility.
Why would you basically mentally replace your mother with your best friend? Sounds like you need to have a good sit-down talk-about with your mom to try to get back on track with her. I used to call my friend's moms "mom", but NEVER EVER could ANYONE replace my mother, nor could ANYONE EVER better than my mother. NO ONE. EVER. PERIOD.
As for having to eat at the table and talk about the day- lucky you. Really. A lot of kids out there don't have parents who care if they have to eat from the floor, let alone care enough to discuss their days. Yet, as lucky as you are, you don't see it and refuse to be a part of it by refusing to partake in the family meals and conversations.
Like I said, you aren't allowing yourself to be a part of your family. Yah, they aren't perfect, and neither is the rest of the families in the world. But you are mostly to blame for feeling excluded because you are doing it to yourself, AND to everyone else in your family.
Stop with this cry baby, poor pitiful me crap and enjoy the family you are so lucky to have. They won't be around forever, you know.
ygs-29/f
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you shouldn't hate you family for that when i get home i have to do lots of work there are just trying to teach you responsibility and they love you tell them whats really on your mind because you have a great life compared to some people but you shouldn't hate your family for them worrying about you they love you lots or they wouldn't care if you didn't eat you are lucky you have a roof under you heat and you don't get beaten but really tell them whats on your mind and why you haven't been eating and stuff and have a mom talk first and alone then a dad talk hope i helped
<3 Amber
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