Hey wastup im aidan....im becoming a pro tennis player right now so i might be busy...i will answer your questions as soon as I can...I've been through a ton of stuff in my life so I can relate to a lot of questions....so go ahead....ask away...
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Hey =].
I like to consider myself a religious person. But sometimes it's hard. My question is specifically what are some things I should be praying about? I mean, I don't like to pray about the same things over and over, though I do. Should I be praying for better questions on Advicenators? ;]
If you pray, what are things you find yourself praying about so that it's not always the same thing each time? (link)
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haha...Well you can always pray for loved ones..pray for good health throughout the family....for peace...also you could listen to the news each morning and pray for some of the families. Also those at war and in new orleans....all the poor....also just pray to thank god for giving you life!!!
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There is this boy in school who I asked out but he said no because it was to earley for us but now i can't stop think ing about him but i don't want to stop thinking about him I want him to be all mine for ever boy friend and girlfriend but i need him to notice me plees need help boy trobles (link)
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Im a guy. In middle school these days all were into is shorts skirts and tight shirts....you need to act pretty, look pretty, and feel pretty...and heres a good plan....if come the first day of skool and he likes you....play hard to get fer 2 days....make him beg....
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Okay so I first got texting a few months ago, and my mom and dad gave me the 250 texts/month deal with verizon and let's just say i went about 1000 over and my bill was 350$. i paid it all off since then and have tried to be more responsible since they blocked my texting..i know it would be easier with unlmtd texting and i told my mom i could pay the 10$ a month charge for it. my dad is fine with me getting it but my mom is off/on about it. how do i convince her without being all annoying and begging-like? thanks!!! (link)
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haha every teen has this problem when they first get a phone...Heres what you have to do. Kiss up to you mom. Do everything she says and more. If she doesnt let you go out with some friends react by saying "okay" shell soon notice a change in attitude and therefore, she'll think you deserve it...
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WARNING! - this is really really long, but please help!!!!
i'm a 14 yr old girl.i go to a private competitive school but am one of the lowest in my year. i used to be good at maths and bad at english but since my 3 yrs at this school it has changed it to the oppisite way round. i haven't spoken to my dad for a year and he recently left our house and is living someewhere near his office, but i don't know where. my mom is in big financial trouble and she might not be able to continue paying my schol fees. i come from a sri lankan family. my aunts aren't that uptight but they wouldn't approve of my parents and my situation. my parents have always had a bad marrige but it was me who made him to leave. when i was in the middle of grade 5 i move to the city and for 3 and 1/2 yrs i moved between my mom and my dad. that was when everything was fine. then we bought his house in the city and my dad moved u here. he stopped talking to me. we had a few fights but nothing major, he just stoppped for no reason. i hated him and still do. i'd like things to be the way they were but knowing what i know now, i know things would never be the same. now my mom and i have huge fights all the time. my mom is nice and she mostly means well but she is also blaming me and taking it out on me. she is overstressed and has no problem saying mean things to me. she criticises me contantly which i cant bear, and she also still loves my dad even though he is horrible to her and that was one of the reasons why i hated him. she wants me to be nivce to my dad but i hate him. i know she need his mney to support us but i hate him so much. also, although it sounds wierd, i think my mom doesn't understand anything and i am a tiny bit smarter than her in a way because she cant see my dad is just being cruel and obviously dislikes her but she still follows him around and insists he is good man, but wat kind of father doesn't live with s for over 3 yrs doesn't talk to me for a year and leaves us? he's quiet and unlike my mom is very precise and likes things to be neat and perfect. i once tried to say sorry to him in january but i couldn't bear it. i am quite stubborn and my pride often gets in the way but i honestly belive that i have bad parents and it doesn't help. my mom doesn't get that i am a teenager and that i need space. when i get home she criticises me and sy i need to make up with my dad and his parents are sad and that my school work is crap + i need to do harder. and she keeps piling on guilt and i have enough to worry about. what she doesn't get is that i am going to graduate and leave as fast as possible. i don't want anything to do with ANY of my family. i don't care if i'm on the streets. so why does she have to control my life? why cant she leave me alone? i'm really sensible, i don't drink, do drugs, smoke or have sex yet she won't leave me alone. i have no chance to be myself and get results. she keeps sayings she wants me to get good results when she obviously says she doesn't care about me, so why does it matter? if she would just let me go to school and work by myself. and if i et good or bad results it doesn't matter to her does it? plus she keeps comparing me to my PERFECT cousins and contanly making me feel inadequate. she actually doesn't know anything about me. not even my favourite colour. she asks me why i'm not normal but how can be if i don't have a normal family i knoe there are people who have got it worse than me but still..... i should also mention that during grade 7 and 8 and still now continually, i have been suffering from derpression and minor panic attaks. i havve also been very suicidal and i do still wish i was dead. i'm sorry about how long this is, but either tell me how to survive till i finish high school or give me a sure fire method of suicide so i can finsh it quickly.... thanks (link)
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Im sorry to say this but school is not hard. Ive had a couple moments like you have last school year. But school is just about to start this year.Here is what I would recommend. First, get to know all of your teachers well. Get organized. When you have a test coming up, study for 20-30 minutes each night. If you do these things youll ace school because all it is is listening to your teachers and reading a little.
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what does it mean when a guy that you have been talking to, your not with him and he invites you along to meet his family to a bbq?
he's obviously interested right?
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Honestly Im a guy and if I asked a girl any place like that I would be looking into being amazingly close friends or dating....in your case I would assume he wants to go out...
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you knw what ill just type this as fast as i can i dont care about spelling errors bcuz i am sooo mad.
i am sick of my life
frst of all because of my sister
one sister is the problem child in the family and my parents dont know that she [lots of times] blackmails me
and ive had it
im usually the nice girl
and im DONE
my sister [olderrrr] she puts on a fake pesonality with other ppl but with me shes suck a bi*ch.. im so mad i dont even know what im typing
i forgot everything i wanted to say
my life sucks
im ONLY 14
BUT WQHY does this happen to me
i need a punching bag
where can i get one
i just cant wait for school because thats the only place i can hopefully find happinessi
im so pissed off my life sucks
this is not how a teenge lifeshud be like
whatsss w (link)
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Look...everyone has hard times in there life. Im a guy, I have a little bro whoz the same way. But when he annoys me I usually just ignore him or I punch him...i do not recommend this. Now, since I see that you like writing so much you should write down everything she does that annoys you and how it makes you feel. Read this every day and then go online and check the news. See how other people would die to be you. 4 year olds in Africa are dying of many diseases...I bet they would kill to be in your position. Love your sister because things happen and one day she might not be there...It happened to me...dont make the same mistake...
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Hii,
Well since your a guyy :)
Can you answer thiss?
I was wondering if a guy liked a girll...
And he heard she liked guys that like to play hard to gett,
Would he purposely try to not talk to you as muchh?
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Well..Im a guy and I would sort of keep pushing. But if I were u I wouldn't recommend playing hard to get. Because at some point, the guys gonna give up and also he may think that you just dont like him. Maybe ask a friend to tell him about you or sumthing like that...
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ok now i really need help me and my girl friend have been together for a little over a year and we have decided to start thinkin about maybe a kid but the thing is where only 15 but we are really wanting to do it we both really think we love each other well better yet know we do and if anyone on here says somethin about your younge u can be in love then you will not get a good rate but if u really try to help me i will give a 5 thanx
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Well. I mean you can do it but 15's a little young fer kids...Wait a couple more years until you and her start your real lives...like out of college and stuff...
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I really want to become an actress, is there a high school that is expessially for the performing arts I live in Naperville- about 30min. from Chicago, Il.
Any help?
i need wone, obviously, around my area.
thanks! =] (link)
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Sarantos Studios For Acting
405 1/2 South Blvd, Oak Park, IL 60302
Curtain Up Classroom -
548 Crescent Blvd, Glen Ellyn, IL 60137
School of Performing Arts the: Naperville -
200 E 5th Ave # 132, Naperville, IL 60563
I tried to find some local dance places near you. I dont know if these are any good I just wanted to try. write back if it works out..
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Hello.
14/M.
On the outside surface of my scrotum (NOT ON A TESTICLE)
I have a small, hard yellow bump that is not going away. Its about the size of an average pimple, except yellow. What should I do? What is it? Will it go away?
Advice is EXTROADINARILY appreciated. (link)
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I would agree. You have to go to a doctor because it might be harmful and it can probably be removed.
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so there is this one guy i like he is 14 as am i and i really like him i think he likes me but i dont know. I wanna ask him to homecoming and i wanna go out with him and stuff. My problem is that i am really shy and dont like talking to guys and really hardly trust anyone espically guys ive never had a bf i know lame right. im afaid if we do become really close and stuff he'll laugh and not like me cauze ive never really kissed and one before. I want to impress this guy and want to know what to do to impress him. we are walking together in his sisters wedding so that may be a good time to talk to him but him and his family will be over next weekend also i dont know what to do. pleaze help the hopless (link)
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Look, I'm in 8th grade and I've only asked a couple girls out in my life. I'm very shy as well. But you just have to find a time where you see him alone and ask him. Just think, if you dont, he might have said yes and that would be a big missed opportunity.
You should go up to him and say, "Hey I was just wondering if you wanted to go to the dance with me" Again try to ask him when you two r alone. Call him and ask to get pizza er sumthing....
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Here's the story. Me and a girl, lets call her Emily, had a thing for each other for about a week. We have totally different personalitys, such as, we dont have A LOT of common things, and she's not really into what i am, but the thing is she still likes me. I called her about 3 times a day.. She thought i was a little annoying, so she told her friend to tell me that i was 'clingy'. I got a little angry.. kinda.. and i kinda made a bet with Emily's friend that i wouldn't talk to her for 3 days.. 3 Day's passed by, and I've ignored every single call/text/IM, that she sent me. I know that was a stupid idea, and now she doesn't like me anymore. Any idea advice someone can give me? I really really need help.. (link)
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Alright if you like a girl, dont stop liking her until you lose interest. Dont make bets that involve your girlfriend because itll put the relationship in danger. You know all of this. Now, you have to get her some roses or any flowers that are red. You got to go to her and explain the whole thing and beg for forgiveness. I know because I went out with a girl and a similar thing happened to me. I got back together with her by doing that. good luck. write back.
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so recently i started getting high and i'm normally a pretty shy person. i mean i'm like loud around my friends and stuff but like new people i meet and stuff it's harder for me. but i was at a party last night and i met this kid and i guess i came off as a little bitchy at first and like quiet but then i smoked and he was like wow you're so much more fun when you're high and so basically it like makes me into the person i want to be.. like more fun and loud and stuff. like that's the personality i want. i'm like scared i'm gonna get addicted to smoking because i want that personality so bad. what should i do? (link)
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First off why are smoking and getting high? Its not good and it'll only do bad things to you. You cant get a new personality. Its something that you're born with. It makes you unique. I'm only 13 so I'm like anti drug right now but if your friends are doing things like that, then they aren't really your friends because there pressuring you to do things that arent good. Thats my advice. rite back.
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