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My parents are in cali and my sister , her boyfriend, and her baby live in our basement last night i snuck a boy in and my sister caught me she was constantly yelling at me like she was my mother and telling me i was a slut. She keeps threatining that she will tell my mom and dad which i know she wont unless i make her mad again. No one in the house will talk to me and i dont want my sister to be mad at me anymore and i dont want her to tell my parents. I wish i could turn back time but i know i cant does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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Tell her that you are really sorry about what you did. Maybe if you tell her that she wont be calling you a slut.
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so I've told the guy I like that I like him, but we only really talk online now, because I dont really see him at school.. & we were never like, REALLY good friends or anything, but we would talk before our classes started last year, because we had a few classes together, but this year I dont even have LUNCH with him.. but now I just want to hang out with him sometime, but I dont know how to ask him, or get to where we can hang out. I dont want him to think i want to hang out with him to like, do something, i mean, I have never had a bf or been kissed or anything like that. I just want to hang out with him for a little while, so he can actually see what I am really more like outside of school, but in person too! I dont know how to do it..
please help? I just want to hang out with him now, but he seems to be busy, & we are only freshmen, but he has all these upperclassmen friends.. i mean, juniors & seniors, so I feel like, i am just another random, freshman that he talks to sometimes. its just wierd, & I want to hang out with him sooo bad, & maybe teach me how to play guitar. hes the best at that. omg. sorry. but please help!! (link)
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ok, you need to get the courage and ask him because if you dont then there really is no chance for you to. If you dont do it now who knows when you will ever find someone you like and you have to find out one time or another if he thinks of you as a friend or more then a friend and i think, if you want to play guitar and him teach you would be a great way for you to to bond!!!
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ok, so it was just last night that I had my first slow dance ever. & it was with just who i wanted it to be with, my crush. & he knows i like him, most people say it was a bad idea telling him, but i think its good, we talk way more now!!.. but anyways, we danced to this song that was like "you cant tell me its not worth fightin for" & I thought it was sooo true in my case. but anyways, the whole time we were dancing he was talking to this other girl, who is way skinnier & prettier than me :( & I felt soo bad because I was just thinking, "whats the point on dancing with him. its just breaking my heart more.. does he even care how i feel?" & when the song ended, ((luckily it was the 2nd to last song of the night)) I just sat on the wall & cried, because, it broke my heart more dancing with him but still knowing that I can never have him! what should I do?! I want to be with him so bad, but it seems like he doesnt care that much. I cant let him go, & I dont want to. I want to hang out with him, & get to be better friends, but I dont know how! please please please help!! (link)
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well you should have talked to him when you slow danced with him in the hallway find him and if you have any classes with him walk with ask him to hang outnd soon you will find out more about him and he will find out more bout you and will soon like you as much as you like him!
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ok there is this chick and she hates my guts cuz she thinks i was saying stuff about her bestfriend!(i didnt)!and she absoulutley hated this one guy but as soon as she found out that i liked him she was all over him an dnow they r going out and she doesnt even like the guy!wat should i do do i tell him that she is just using him!(now all her friends are rubbing it in my face that the 2 of them are going out)wat do i do
plzz answer asasp!!!
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tell him. let him no that she is just using him she doesnt really love him he shouldnt have someone who will use him he needs someone who will love him for him!
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I want to walk into my babysitting job with the kds running up to me saying yay _____ here! How any tips? I'll rate you high for trying (link)
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find out what they like to do bring it over and soon if you keep babysitting for them then maybe they will soon like you!!!
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sorry if this is long.but i need some help fast.. ok i am 3.0 student and i am a freshman and i play basketball. i will admitted i am not the worst or the best player on the team (out of 9 people i am like 5) i got 2 coachs and the varsity one has anger mangement problems that when he gets mad he will literaly through stuff. the Jv coach( my coach) really isnt fare. i got to all pratices so up on time and listen and follow directions and thent here are other people who dont show up usually and she lets them play in the game 3 times as long as me. the last two games i was playin for 3 minutes out of 2 games wit 4 quaters of 8 minutes. now what should i do. 1) quiet.
2) talk tot he coach about it even though i am not supposed to ask about playin time
p.s. the Varsity coach as called everyone stupid, losers and sluts.
i love playin b-ball and i dont know what to do? (link)
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i think you sould wait till those coaches might be gone but your going to have to deal with people like that everyday!!!
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Ok, there was this dance on friday. i have liked this guy for a LONG time. so i asked him to dance, though i know he likes someone. so then awhile after that, the last song of the night came on, and my friend told him i wanted to dance with him,he didnt beleive her, and then she told him to go ahead.... so he walked out the door, came back in,and walked right past me and kept going. i started crying and then he came over to see what was wrong and stuff, and i dont know if i should talk to him or what i should say.
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dont ignore him like he did to you tell him how you feel and he will one day no and grow to love you like you love him
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i went to the pet store to buy some things for my dog, and when i went to the cashregister i donated a dollar to a pet fund. well then the girl asked me to write my pets name on the paper that they hang up, so i did. however about 15 minutes later i realized i wrote my other dogs name on the paper, who died last year! now i know that's not a crime or anything but i felt really weird because it's like i still thought he was my dog & i feel guilty. am i a bad person?! (link)
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Of course you arent a bad person. Obviously you still love your dog. Its not bad its good you still have him in your mind!!
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ok... well theres something wrong with me... and i dont know what it is its like im miserable because my friends are ture bitches! i love them but they are.. they r soo mean and its not jus one of them its pretty much all .. like theyll turn around and go amanda said you a 2 faced whore and i would of never said taht... i mean were worse then mean girls... and i wanna cut them loose but i cant.. because its all of them that do it and uhhh its jus horrible.... and i grew up with most of them soo i cant jus cut them loose... iv always wanted taht one true freind like that you can call you abouslt best freind..and here they all pair up... but then theres jus me... and i dont know everything i jus screwed up here and i dont know what to do please help me im in despret need of it!!!
. and i can admit im a bitch but not like them!!! (link)
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i think that if they do that kind of stuff to you who cares if you grew up with them you need to ditch them start to find a neew group of friends if you dont then you and your life will go down the drain if you stick with them so do what you need to do and if they keep doing it to you ignore them and if they are bitches to everyone you know one day they will get into alot of trouble so you know just do it girl!!
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im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. we have been going out for 4 months. she told me that she wants to make out with me. part of me wants too but the other part says no because we kissed for the first time last night at a dance. do you think i should make out with her now or not? if not how long should i wait? (link)
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i think just wait for alittle while longer till your just a tiny bit older. Too young to start. Just think what might happen if you give her the wrong idea
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a week. I'm not really into him like I thought I would be so I'm going to break up with him. However, he's getting me a christmas present. What do I do? If he gives me the present before I get the chance to tell him its over what do I do? I feel guilty cause he's probably already bought my present. I'm also pretty scared to break up with him cause he really really likes me, and I feel bad for not feeling the same. Please Help. (link)
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breaking up is hard to do... we all no that but i think you should wait till after christmas see what happens maybe you will change your mind about him... if you do then stay if this doesnt help please let me no
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Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something? (link)
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no your not a freak one day you will find the right guy and one day when the time is right he will kiss you it might not be today it might a yeaar but u will get ur first kiss believe me!!
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Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that... (link)
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just be yourself one day a guy will like you more than a friend
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lately me and the boyfriend have been having a lot of problems...a lot of which are over things that shouldn't matter. we've been together for almost four years, and all of this tension is finally getting to me.
my question to you is what do you think i should do? we've tried resolving these arguments and learn from them but there hasn't been any success. it's just like deja vu all over again. i've tried talking to him numerous times, and in the end, everything just turns out the same.
i love the guy, but sometimes i think that it's logical to break up with him. he says to me that he can't handle a "break", so what am i to do? i want to stay and work it out, but it seems sometimes that i'm the only one putting effort into improving this relationship... (link)
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of course you know that bf/gf fights and just tell him that you are really serious about the relationship and you really want it to work out and tell him you dont think it can work out if you guys dont settle these fights
let me no how it worked out
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ok there is this guy lets call him bob.. a lot of girls like him and im a very lucky girl. he likes me back.ive liked him for only 2 weeks and hes liked me for over 2 months and i just told him online on friday that i like him. he told me that he LOVES me back. the problem is that hes moving like 40 minutes away from here so he might not come to our school anymore. He says that if he does still come to our school then he will go out with me. Thats the least of my problems now.. we both have myspaces. and he has some friends that i dont know because they dont go to our school. And they're girls. they always leave him comments saying that they love him etc.. and he does the same with them sometimes . now i dont know if hes playing around with me or if hes serious when he tells me that he loves me and thinks im pretty.i tend to jet jealous alot because of this. so what should i do ? should i tell him ? and whenever we are online and we talk to each other we say the same things over and over again like i love you i miss you etc... so if you have any suggestions on what to talk about that would be nice too!
im sorry for writing so much i just really had to get this out
~ heart broken~
Oh AND IM 13/F IF that helps (link)
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heartbroken,
they are probably friends if he says i love you to them i'm sure he doesnt mean it... and if he wasnt serious i think you would no let me no if this helps
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For some reason when a boy looks into my eyes when they talk to me I get SO scared and look away! I don't know why, but it makes me feel weird and awkward!!! When my family went out to lunch with my crushes family, i sat next to him and when he talked to me he looked me in the eyes. My face got hot and I blushed and I looked away. IS this normal and how can I fix it?! (link)
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sure it is normal obviously the guys you have been around you dont feel comfortable try and find a guy that you feel comfortable around
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Im 15 female and ive never had a boyfriend before. Im not going to say im ugly becuase people will just say "youre beautiful inside" blah blah. But my question: Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body.
So am i considered prude?
Will I ever get a boyfriend if i feel this way?
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if a guy will only go out with you just to do it with you he isnt worth it you want a guy that will call you beautiful not hot and no i dont think you are prude if you feel that way i bet alot of girls feel that way
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Well my name is Michael and my girlfriend refuses to call me that. She only calls me Mike. She also hates it when others call me Michael and corrects them with "Umm it's Mike not Michael." Even my mother. But she says it with more respect talking to my mom. Does this seem werid or overly possesive to anyone? Or should I just go with it? (link)
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just go with it if she wants to call you that then let her.. just tell her nicely not to correct other people
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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?
When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.
Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.
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wellits normal to have the pictures still there as long as you are still friends if you guys dont talk and arent friends then i would say take them off...
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Ive had a crush on this guy for like 3 yrs(ever since ive known him)last December he confessed to me that he admired me for 3 yrs.Thats when the relationship started. Things were fine until he started cheating on me with one night stend girls(more that once but different girls).I always forgave him cause i loved him and wanted him to stay around me.We broke up for real about two months ago cause he was dating another girl(no night stand girl but his actual girlfriend). so i made my way out. it hurted alot but recetly his friend says his missing me and that he loves me but he cant come back to me cause hes ashame and got to much explanations to do and dont know where to start. They said the reason he left was because he wanted sex and i thought we were to young so he didnt want to pressure me or hurt me so he left. i still do love him. I miss him. i may be fooloish but i have feelings that he does love me(according to me)im stating to have nightmares about him suffering and wanting me. i wake up often crying. but the real problem is that i have a new boyfriend now which i relay on as a comfort. I realy realy do love my boyfriend very much his a great guy and i dont want to hurt him. But its just that my ex is still in my mind and often drives me away from my boyfriend cause i think of him. i dont know what to do. I'm starting to hate everything. I mean everything about my life. I'm desperate.Dont ask me to choose cause i dont know what i want. Waht would you do if you were me? what will you say? Im still young and i dont want to live a life like mine anymore. just want to be happy (link)
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well thats what always happens you break up with someone and they are still in your mind. Well the only thing i would is break up with my boyfriend now and not go out with neither of them... If it puts you in the place that you dont want the life you have now get out of it while you still can because if u stay in it its not going to help you
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