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lately me and the boyfriend have been having a lot of problems...a lot of which are over things that shouldn't matter. we've been together for almost four years, and all of this tension is finally getting to me.
my question to you is what do you think i should do? we've tried resolving these arguments and learn from them but there hasn't been any success. it's just like deja vu all over again. i've tried talking to him numerous times, and in the end, everything just turns out the same.
i love the guy, but sometimes i think that it's logical to break up with him. he says to me that he can't handle a "break", so what am i to do? i want to stay and work it out, but it seems sometimes that i'm the only one putting effort into improving this relationship...
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i would try to stay away from him for awhile and let things calm down. i really would hate to her you 2 break up because you have been going out for 4 years. he needs to try to improve your relationship too. hope everything turns out all right, styxfan365
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Do what's best for you. If you need to get out of the relationship, you need to get out, regardless of whether he's okay with that. It will feel really shitty to hurt him like that, believe me, and you'll want to get back with him, but just don't. I know you want to stay and work this out, otherwise you wouldn't have stayed in the relationship for 4 years. I've been in this exact same situation, and, if anything, you guys at least need to spend some time apart for a while, because nothing is going to get better while you're together. Sometimes being in love simply isn't enough. When stuff like this starts to happen, even though the people involved both care about each other, they start to drift away and do really stupid things like cheat and lie. I suggest ending it before it gets to that point. The best of luck to you.
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of course you know that bf/gf fights and just tell him that you are really serious about the relationship and you really want it to work out and tell him you dont think it can work out if you guys dont settle these fights
let me no how it worked out
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