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Q: is it true that it is bad to workout ur whole body in one day at the gym

not necessarily. But don't work out the same part the consecutive day. Give your musscles a chance to relax. You should work out some muscles on day, and the next day focus on the muscles you didn't do the previous day. So to answer your question, it's not really bad, but you should wait a couple days until u work out some more or else your body will really ache.

Q: ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?
It is definitely not wrong. First of all 13 is somewhat young and 11 is an extremely young age. In fact that's the youngest age I've heard of where it wasn't rape. Don't be ashamed that your still a virgin. Also, I reccommend the movie, "The 40-Year-Old Virgin." Although it is funny, it has a good message.

Q: I've been seeing a lot of myspace's that are private and their age is like 16 or 18 or something like that, how in the world are they making them private?
i thought private accounts were only for like 14-15 or something?
Normally since myspace was made for people younger then 16. Everyone younger than 16's profile was automatically private. Now he's changed it so that people 16 and over can have it. Not gonna explain how again cuz the person below already said how.

Q: I'm kind of "addicted" to Gatorade. Everytime we go to the store, I buy it. And, instead of buying cokes to keep around the house like I use to, I now buy Gatorade.. and drink atleast 1 a day. Ok, my question is.. Is Gatorade bad for you? And is drinking this much harmful? Should I cut down on any/all/how much?
Well it depends. If you do an active activity every day and sweat a lot, then gatorade is fine. But it's not good to drink when your not doing anything active; like watching tv or going on the computer and such.

Q: i'm 13/f mey boyfriend is 15 and he wants to have sex with me. i scared of what might happen! should i have sex with or should i wait until i'm more ready?
p.s we've been going out for 3 weeks. so do you think we're moveing way to fast?
thanks please help me soon!
he wants to have sex by friday!
Well it really depends. To me, since you're only 13, 3 weeks sounds kinda soon. But if you really feel like this could be a good relationship, then by all means go for it. Just make sure that he wears a condom, because you really don't want to be a pregnant 13 year old.

Q: i want to buy a flash drive to hold photos. thats all i will be using it for.

how many pictures can i store on a ...

256mb-
512mb-
1 gb-
2gb-

where can i find the best deal?



thanks :)
I can't tell u an exact number because it depends how big you set your camera's pictures to be. But I'd reccomend getting a 1 gb for like maybe 40-50 dollars. This is a really good deal because 512mb cards cost like 30. For a store to go to, check staples because I just saw a good deal for a 1 gb for only $25!

Q: whats the worst thing that could come out of..me getting fingered? like what are all the risks.

thank you
THe person below me already said that you might bleed, which is true, because if the persons fingers are long enough, then it could result in your hymen being broken. That would make you bleed a little.

Q: in your opinion, is "pissed" a curse word? i am 15/f and my friends and teachers say it, and i was just curious. for example, "that really pissed me off."
First of all, to answer your question, I don't think that it's a curse word. But you said your teachers say it. This is because your in highschool and your teachers probably think your mature enough to not say stuff like "ooohh he/she said a curseword." or something like that. I have teachers that curse all the time, but say much more explict stuff the "pissed".

Q: does trackzor on myspace really work?? or is it just a fake
ill rate nicely
I'm sure there are some that work, but the myspace trackers listed in the bulletins are fake, don't click em.

Q: How far up is your hymen ? And if you finger yourself could you be able to feel your hymen with your finger ? Please answer
Yes if you fingered yourself it is possible that you could break your hymen, depending how rough and how far up you go.

Q: Are men put off by stretchmarks?
Yes, unless someone has a stretchmark fetish or something. It's just like you, unless you're into stretchmarks.

Q: I'm fifteen years old and I seriously need some money. I have to pay my parents back for buying a chihuahua for me. I don't want to work in fast food like my parents want me to, so my question is if anyone knows of some good places that will hire me. I was considering working at a tanning salon called "Tanland" but I heard you have to be at least sixteen to work in a tanning salon. Is this true?

Thanks.
A great place to work is at your local pool. At mine the lifeguarding job sux (so don't do it), but the snackbar is great. The pay is like $7 or $8 an hour and it's really easy. See if it's not to late to get a job at your pool.

Q: What should I buy,

Prey for xbox360 or call of duty 2 for xbox 360?

they're both 60, but whats a better deal?
Get CoD2...I played it at Target and it was awesome. I've also heard good reviews about it too.

Q: im 23 now and i still havent had sex. ive been waiting to have sex, but now i want to have sex and no one wants to now. is 23 too long to wait?
Watch the movie "40 Year-Old-Virgin." I'm serious, it's not a joke. Although the movie is verry funny, it addresses the issue your talking about. Go watch it.

Q: what can happen if you are depressed and don't get help? (like if you dont go and see a doctor or get medicine)



It can lead to a lot of things including murder and suicide at probably the worst. Consult a therapist if you or someone you know is depressed.

Q: Ugh I feel like a retard... i met this guy and we started talking on the phone and he was just so sweet so i started liking him... and it seemed that he liked me too... and today i was like im really starting to like u and guess what he didnt say anything, he doesnt like me i feel so stupid and i just want to cry... like i really like him and i feel like i was lead on. What did i do wrong?
You didn't go wrong. You sound like someone in middle school or high school, so you have plenty of time to find the right person. Don't feel like just because it didn't work out with one guy it will never work out.

Q: okay so here's the deal. I'm 16/f and my best friend is a guy. He's attractive but i've never really like thought about doing anything sexual with him. He used to date one of my other friends, and now he's asking me to do stuff with him. I'm sure if I should. I'd feel bad because of my friend, but I want to at the same time because I haven't been with anyone in along time. Considering i've only been with 2 other guys. What should I do? Am i bad person for even considering it?
It sounds to me like you are just considering this out of pity or because you haven't been with anyone for a long time. Just think it through if you want to go with it, and no your not a bad person for considering it. It's your choice.

Q: I trim, and I want to start shaving. but do I just, shave it all off? I've heard that you can do different shapes like the "Bermuda Triangle", or do the "landing strip". But which would be the best thing to do? And are there other types of ways to have it look?
Thanks.
Well it's your body, so it's your choice. Most women shave all of their pubic hair off, but it's your choice if you want to or not or what shape.

Q: how acceptable are erections on nude beaches how do i keep from getting one?
Yeah, I've been to a nude beach before. Try going in the water. That way your penis will shrink and it won't look erect. Also, it might keep your mind off the nudists.

Q: ok so im a freshman in high school (15 yrs old) and like every weeekend someone in our grade has a party at their house.. and of course there's drinking. a lottt of people go.. and it's always the thing that everyone is talking about the week after that in school.. i havent gone to any yet.. but i really want to. what are some tips to like "fake drink" or only drink a little?
My advice is simple, don't drink. It's the same as smoking. You don't have to show your friends that you drink alcohol. That doesn't make you cool or not. Take smoking for example, if you tried smoking just because other people were doing it, well I think you get the point. Drinking is ok, when it is legal, but you have to drink responsibly. Since you didn't identify your gender, I don't know if your a male or female, but females generally can't hold to much alcohol. Anyways, I hope you make the right decision.

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