I am Alex Williams i lived in pensacola four 5 years and now i live in port royal south carolina which is in beaufort. My favorite sports are surfing and football. I have one brother and one sister. I am skinny, have blonde hair, and hazel eyes. I love to answer questions. Still singlr LOL
E-mail: dawms2@hotmail.com
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Age: 14
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look there is the situation. me and my boifreind are thinking about having children and he's scared that my mom nad dad r going to be upset with him. i dont kno how to assure him that everything is going to be ok. p.s thanks for listening (link)
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DEAR CONFUSED,
YOU NEED TO SIT YOUR PARENTS DOWN AND TELL THEM THAT YOUR BOY FRIEND IS SCARED TO TELL YOU THAT WE ARE GOING TO HAVE A BABY. I THINK THEY WILL UNDERSTAND.
SINCERLY:ADVICE GIVER.
P:S IF YOU ARE HAVING MORE TROUBLE EMAIL ME AT dawms2@hotmail.com
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in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked lisa behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.
-confused (link)
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DEAR BROKEN HEART
I KNOW THAT THIS MIGHT NOT BE THE THING YOU WANT TO HEAR BUT I THINK YOU SHOULD DUMP HIS BEHIND. WHAT I HAVE CONCLUDED FROM WHAT YOU WROTE IS THIS GUY IS A LIENG CONIEVING LITTLE PERSON. I KNOW YOU HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR A LONG TIME BUT IN THAT TIME HE HAS DISSED YOU TIME AFTER TIME.
SINCERLY:ADVICE GIVER
P.S EMAIL ME TO TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED OR IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO CONVERSE WITH.
dawms2@hotmail.com
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Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly (link)
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DEAR KELLY,
I UNDERSTAND FROM WHAT YOU WRITTEN THAT YOU LIKE THIS GUY. BUT YOU DON'T LIKE SOME OF THE THINGS HE DOES.WELL I THINK YOU NEED TO SIT HIM DOWN AND TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM ALOT BUT TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO STOP GETTING IN TROUBLE AND IN FIGHTS WITH PEOPLE BECAUSE IT RUINING MINE AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
SINCERLY:ADVICE GIVER
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Hi, My name is Ashleigh, I really hope some one can help me and not critize me when they give me there advice. I am envoloved with this guy named Mark, weve been together for 4 years..so, here's the problem.. Right here recently, I have started to have strong feelings for his friend {there not best friends or anything}. This guy, Jayson, has told me that he feels the same way. Both of us really like each other, and want to hookup! I love my boyfriend, but am not attracted to him as much as I am Jayson and I just love being around him. But the only time I can be around him is when he comes to my house. {me and my boyfriend live together} so it's like we dont have alot of time to do the things we both want to do. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do? Should I just stay with my boyfriend.....or go for all out happiness with this other guy? There also is one more problem...there is a 5 year age gap between us...me being the older one. (link)
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DEAR HOPELESS,
YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN WITH BOTH GUYS AND LAY OUT THE TRUTH.
SINCERLY ADVICE GIVER
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Ok, I need some help. My friend Caroline has been trying to get over her ex for a couple of weeks(I don't know why it's so hard, they only went out for a week). Now she's met some guy over the net, who's 23! She wants to meet this guy, because she thinks it'll help her get over him, which is a huge mistake in my opinion, she doesn't even know him. What advice could I give her without seeming like I'm telling her what to do? Or what could we do to get her mind off of her ex?
Thanx
Kortni (link)
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DEAR CONCERNED,
YOU NEED TO SIT HER DOWN AND TELL HER THAT YOU ARE CONCERNED AND TELL HER IT IS A REALLY BAD IDEA.
SINCERLYU: ADVICE GIVER
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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do? (link)
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DEAR CONFUSED,
MAYBE YOU SOULD TAKE A LITTLE TIME OF YOUR PARTY TO MAKE A SESSION WERE EVERYBODY TELLS A LITTLE ABOUT THEMSELVES SO EVERYBODY GETS TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER.
SINCERLY:ADVICE GIVER
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I want to get a thong. I am almost 12 and my mom says I am too young! Whenever I ask her she said "Hell no Jennifer! How many fuc*ing times do I have to tell you?!" How can I convince her to let my buy one without her getting mad and yelling at me..... AGAIN!!! (link)
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DEAR GROWING GIRL
YOU NEED TO SIT YOUR MOM DOWN AND TELL HER YOUR GROWING UP AND YOU WAN'T A THONG. MAKE SURE TO TELL HER CALMLY OR IT WILL BE AN HECK NO DEFINITLY. AND IF THAT DOESN'T WORK I KNOW IT'S HARD BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO WAIT.
SINCERLY: ADVICE GIVER
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i find myself too emotional, crying at every cute or even vaughly sad thing i see. I CRIED AT THE END OF VEGGIE TALES (the one that talks about not to be selfish) WHEN THE LITTLE ASPARAGUS CAME BACK FROM THE WAR!!!! how do i STOP this madness? this is affecting the friendships i have because i don't want them to know of my over emotional-ness. so i stay away from them. i've tried to hold my tears back but it doesn't seem to work! i've tried converting my sadness (if i'm crying because its sad) to anger or even happiness but i DOESNT WORK. how do i stop the endless flow of stupid stupid tears???? (link)
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DEAR CANT STOP CRYING
YOU KNOW IF YOU CRY, YOU CRY IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY. IN MY OPPINION YOU SHOULD JUST LET THOSE TEARS FLOW BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU DO YOU CAN'T HELP IT. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE MEDICINE TO TAKE CARE OF THIS.
SINCERLY:ADVICE GIVER
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i think my boifreind is scared of my mom and dad he woln't make a serious commentment without asking them what should i do? (link)
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DEAR UPSET
I THINK THAT IF YOUR BOY FRIEND IS SCARED OF YOUR PARENTS YOU NEED TO SIT HIM DOWN AND REMIND HIM YOU LOVE HIM VERY MUCH, AND REMIND HIM THAT YOU CAN NOT HAVE THAT SERIOUS COMMENTMENT WITHOUT HIM TALKING TO YOUR PARENTS. MAKE SURE TO TELL HIM A FEW TIMES YOU WERE SCARED. MAYBE THAT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL BETTER. BUT MAKE SURE NOT TO SHOUT OR YELL AT HIM. THAT WILL JUST MAKE THINGS WORSE.
SINCERLY: ADVICE GIVER
P.S GOOOD LUCK!!!!
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My brother has a gf. and i like her as a friend (im a girl im not lesbian) shes a good girl. and she wont break his heart. hes been hurt in the past. thing is he has like these mood swings and he has a trust issue with people outside of me and the rest of my bros. she wants to help him out and understand him better but like i said before he has a trust issue. but he says he loves her and everything. thing is i know that she wont stand for his mood swings and all that much longer i want to help him and her so they stay together. i dont want my brother to get his heart broke again. they're a good couple. HELP! (link)
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DEAR SIBBLING,
YOU NEED TO TELL HIM ABOUT YOUR CONCERN AND LET HIM NO THAT YOU ARE THERE FOR HIM. SIT HIM AND HER DOWN AND TALK TO THEM ABOUT HIS MOOD SWINGS,
SINCERLY: ADVICE GIVER.
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I'm a girl, in my last year of middle school.I hang out with this group of girls, and one of them, Audrey, is almost TOO nice. Anyway, there is this scary(scay I mean has no friends, yells BAD words at people for no reason, is extremley poor, you get the point) girl, Kirsten, who is OBSESSED with Audrey!! Now, Kirsten has insisted on hanging out with Audrey, wich means she's hanging out with the rest of us. Me and my best friend ( the only 2 out of the six who are worried about this) tried talking to Audrey, but as I said before, Audrey is almost tooo nice, and she doesn't want to hurt Kirstens fellings by telling her to shoo. So, we tried alking to Kirsten about it, and she just screamed at us! We really hate hanging around her, but we don't want to give up Audrey over it. What do I do? (link)
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DEAR FOLLOWED
YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE YOUR BEST FRIEND OVER THIS LITTLE OBSTICLE SO JUST TRY TO GET ALONG WITH KIRSTEN AND IF SHE SHOUTS ANY CUSS WORDS AT YOU JUST OBIDE BY THIS OLD SAYING" STICKS AND STONES MAY BREAK MY BONES BUT WORDS CAN NOT PHISICALLY HURT. LET ME GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE:
IN 2003 I HAD A FRIEND WHO WAS THE MOST LOYAL ONE BUT THEN THIS NEW KID IN MY SCHOOL CAME AND HE WAS ALOT OF TROUBLE AND HE TURNED MY FRIEND AGAINST ME.SO I HAD A CONVERSATION WITH THE NEW STUDENT AND WORKED OUR DIFFERENCES AND HE, MY OLD FRIEND, AND I ARE NOW GOOD FRIENDS. JUST RELAX AND CALMLY TALK TO THEM BOTH.
SINCERLY:ADVICE GIVER.
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I am going to a sleepaway camp for my first year, and the only person I know is... lets call her Mandy. Mandy is the only person I know there, and personaly, I feel she is a little rude and pissy to me. I have been talking to this girl named Kelly online for a few months who is also going to that Sleepaway Camp with me and Mandy. She is really nice and we are friends. But she is Mandy's friend too. They spend a lot of time together. I am also going to be in the same day camp as Mandy. I guess I should get to my question now.
How can I survive the summer happily with her and maybe be better friends with her and get her to not be rude and pissy to me?
P.S. She says she is my best friend.
P.S.S. She takes a lot of things really personaly and she gets sort of an attitude when something doesn't go her way!
Please help!!! (link)
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Dear confused,
I THINK THAT IF MANDY IS GIVING YOU CRAP YOU NEED TO TRY TO BE NICE TO HER AND ACT LIKE SHE SAID SOMETHING NICE NOT RUDE. AND IF THAT DOESN'T WORK THEN JUST TRY AND MAKE SOME NEW FRIENDS THAT WON'T GIVE YOU CRAP.
SINCERLY:THE ADVICE GIVER
P.S EMAIL ME @dawms2@hotmail.com to tell me if my advice worked and how things are going.
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