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ok so im thinking about changing my look to like the surf /beachy kinda thing. but i was just wondering is that a turn-on for guys? i know all guys are different but if your a guy can you give me your opinion? or if your a and you know any guys who don't/do like it can you tell me about it? thanks. (link)
I don't think guys really caree! You'll find one that likes you for youu! But.. from my experience they likee tanss (don't wanna be pale=]) && maybe like dirty blonde hairr!! Hott.


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can someone help me divide when to drink 8 glasses of water throughout the day? it's pretty hard now since i have to go to school and i don't bring water to school because my class is crazy and would destroy it or have a water fight with it (link)
hmmm, problem!! Well when you wake up drink a bottle. Breakfast drink!! Maybe on your way to school! Then go to the water fountain like 5 times! Come home && drinkk. Drink 1 hr beforee dinner. While doing homework. After dinner and right beforee bedd!
ahh that's moree like 9 && don't drinkk 9 cuz then you'll have to pee a lott moree =]..! That's why i can't do 8!


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Hey I have a qusetion. My friend told me to go become a lesbian. How do I do that? (link)
I would have to say that you can't just become a lesbian- it happens naturally in your body. I know many people who would say they would rather be straight than gay.
I don't know what you'ree friend was thinking- but maybe you shouldn't listen to herr hahaa! If that's what you want.. go for itt!!


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i'm 5'4.5" and about 110 pounds. i think i have a pretty good body, but kids at my school think im anorexic. it gets me so mad, they dont need to bring me down just because they're fat and im normal weight. america is so fat that they think people at a healthy weight are anorexic or bulemic. ANYWAY (sorry for going off topic) i want to add some meat to my arms and legs. I just want those two areas to be a little more "meaty". what can i do? exercize is hard for me, because i never have time for it. are there any drinks or foods i can use to help me gain weight just in those areas? thanks for your time and advice! (link)
I am so jealous! You're at a perfect weightt!! I really don't think you need to lose weight- you're right about those peoplee! Anyways! If you really want to lose weight all you have to do is eat some protein (meat & nuts), do pull ups, and strech!
Good luck getting fatterr! Omgg i wish somebody would say that to mee!!

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ok. ive been BEST friends with this girl since 2nd grade. then she moved 2 years ago. but we still talk and see eachother. but after she moved, she started caring about hoe she looked, and she started being mean to me on the computer. but when i talk to her she's like her old self. and the most important thing is now (on the computer) she's starting to tell me that i should dress better, and i should wear brand names. but that's not me. what should i do? (link)
I wouldn't listen to herr! Do you want you want- be who you wanna be! She's trying to change you into something:

A. She wants herself to be because she can't afford it
B. Put somebody else down to make themselves feel better
C. Think it's the cool thing
D. Want you to be a friend that at school she never got

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When im playin in a basketball game my fce turns all red. and its not beacuse im tired cuz as long as i am running around i dont feel that my face is turning hot but then wen i take a break on the beanch i feel it being hot but im still not tired. ill drink water then after mins itll turn bac to normal.

Is there ny reason why it my face does that cuz no one elses does on my team or nybody else that we play against? and is there ny way to make it stop? (link)
Omgg that's totally normal! That always happens to me when I go running! Just drink waterr.. and if you gett dizzy or somethingg stopp that's all! It just means you're working hardd!


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Ok, well, this guy, who is one of my friends, lost his usb port for his ipod. and his ipod is a peice of crap! haha! well, he asked me if i would put songs on his ipod, so i did, and i'm just wondring, how many songs does a 1gb nano hold?? because i don't want to take up all of his room. thanks ppl!!! (link)
It depends on the length of the song and if you have anything else on there like contacts or pictures. It should hold up to 250 songs.. but if they're like 4 min songs..


damn man I'm embarassed...my partner wishes me to have a larger penis, but hey...I don't want any pills for it...so does anybody have any natural at home techniques one can do to enlarge a penis???

help would be apprecaited (link)
Pills aren't good for you so that's a very good decision. You're partner shouldn't be saying this.. but when can you do?
The penis will expand naturally when there is more blood circulation to that area! So like sex.. could make it bigger!! But you could masterbatee.. that would def. help.. or just pull it in && outt.. that would also helpp. It's natural and it workss! Try vaseline.. i dunno whyy but i heard that might help!


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I hate her she is more immature than me. She's age 40 something.I swear I just hate her. She hurts my feelings too much but for now I am stuck living with her even though I can move out. I hate it I feel so helpless and irritated. She's an emotional abuser now.I've told her my embarrasing secrets hoping that she would understand and help me but no she just used it to annoy me. I wish I was gone. (link)
Talk to herr and say i'm treating you likee my friend now.. not my motherr.. and explain how like you can't stand herr.. you wanna move outt but you can't. Tell her that you'ree emotionally abusing me!
Talking to a school counselor always alwayss helpss=]. They're there for thatt!! They just wanna helpp&& if they think it's as important they'll talk to your momm && maybe let you move outt! First just talk to your momm.. or write her a letterr.. easierr than talkingg!


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i got a kinda big problem here. my friends suicidal. she says every1 h8s here wich is true and its all bcz of freekin drama and catty fights in my skool. but heres the thing. im pretty sure shes kinda tryin 2 get attention? because my other friend said they were gonna kill themselves and now hes in therapy but he got tons of attention and he made a code 4 it. so now my other friend hoo says shes gonna do it made a totally similar code. and they were gonna do it the same way. so im like wtf its so freekin the same!! and so she says her life is over and theres no point of living. how can i show her ther is a point in living? she says she only has 4 friends that like heer but thats like lucky u no? she has 4 bffs thtt luv her 2 death and thats not enuf 4 her and i got no clue how 2 show her that its not how many friends u have as long as they care about you and how do i make her not do it? im so so worried about her bcz she says shes gonna do it this weekend and maybe 2morow andserously no i cant please please please anythin will help (link)
Tell her what you just told... like the thing aboutt having bff. Maybe say like i'm you'ree friendd so theree! Maybe try and get the class to sign a petition like i am your friend:
name
name
name

yeahh ya knoww.. Most importantly tell a teacher or counselor. That's what they're there for! She might not go for it.. but pushh herr.. tell herr it's for her own good! You won't regret itt!


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okay so here how it goes down, me and this boy have been talking for about 1 month and a half now. for the first month i had a boyfriend and once i broke up with that kid me and him got closer and we decided to wait a week till we go out. which would have been new years. but 2 days before new years he found out his dad is making him move to puerto rico for 4 months. so when the first came around we decided not to go out. but everyday we hang out and we get closer and i fall for him more and more as each day passes. he is leaving the 12th and i wont see him for 4 months. i dont want to get hurt when he leaves but i think its to late now. what should i do? (link)
Tell him that you think you're getting closerr! He won't stay but he'll knoww.. and he'll be happy he knows! Write him letter, emails, aim! 4 months will breeze by since you have school and homework and all!



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Ok well for the past month i've been having a really difficult time falling asleep. Even if i am really tired i still can't seem to fall asleep, nothing really is on my mind either, nothing bad has happened nor am i stressful. Everytime i try to fall alseep i tend to feel sick or something, i don't know what is wrong with me, ohh and i don't want to take sleeping pills, my mom won't let me, she says then i won't be able to fall asleep by myself. Ohh and i sometimes fall asleep but it's only in the morning time, since it is still winter break for us, i want to fall asleep, so i won't be tired for school. Does anyone have any tips to try falling asleep better? Ohh and i already try counting sheeps and counting down from 100, it doesnt work. Thankyou if you help me! I'm so its long! (link)
Hahaa.. the girl below me stolee my ideaa=]! Yeahh just don't go to bed... that will get you tired and you'll go straight to bed! Hahaa! That's what i do sometimes for breaks they day before school. I wake up a 7:00 so i'm superr tiredd! Then i go to bed early so I wake up at a good time for school!
Before you go to bed do something calming... nothing loud! Go take a bath or showerr.. then listen to the radioo or watch tv.. (not too loud&& scary)

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okay so here's my probelm,,me and my bf have been together for a year and a half, and i really care aobut him , but there's times when im like all excited to see him and really happy about it and sure i love him, but there's times i don't even know what to think about it , i think that it might be cause im on christmas brake and have been hanging out with him more than with my friends and i don't do much things around the house just see him and when im with him i really feel i love him! but when he's gone, i just spend time watching tv or in the computer , and i start wondering things like if i really love him if i want to be with him :S im sooo confuse :S

i think it is cause when i don't go out with no one but him , and i'm just sleeping watching tv and computer all day i think about stupid things , it's these one of those?? cause when i have a very busy week or a week when i go out a lot with friends and him and im just too busy i'm like totally in love with him and wanna see him talk to him every second, i don't know what to think about it ...i don't wanna talk to him about this cause he might think i don't care about us anymore wich i think i really do cause when i'm with him i really like it , or how would i know i like him as a boyfriend and not just as a friend :S im sooo confuse he's really nice and really loves me a lot! and do a lot of things for me but i don't know what's wrong with me!! (link)
I think you have too much time on your hands=]!! Hahaa.. find something to do! Go for a run or do a project or organize your dvd's into the right boxes.. haha!! You know you love him.. tell yourself thatt when you see him! I love him.. when you doubt yourself be likee.. no i lovee himm.. i'm suree=].
Try doing something with friendss.. call them or ask them over!


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I was thinking of widening my wardrobe. I thought of wearing lower cut tops. But my question is, if let's say a girl reveals her cleavage, will the guy wanna bang her or something? Will he lose respect for her?Because I definitely won't want guys to think of me that way. So, maybe the guys can answer this? (link)
Low cut tops definetly don't bring that to a guy's mind. If it does it's not like they want you.. they just think you're hott! If they think that way then you prob don't want them! They'll probably think... mann she lookss hott=]!! No but as long as your boobs aren't popping out it's nothing to worry aboutt! If you're a little self conscious you could always wear a cammie, and those are cute and always workk!

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what is that story, i think it is by edgar alan poe, about a man killing someone, then going crazy saying he hears the heartbeat under his floor?

-greatly appreciated
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The story is called the tell-tale heart!! Good story!!



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ok last month i had a few blood droppings..barely anything and it only happened once last month. And idk if i have started or not. (link)
It sounds like you got your period! Congratulations!! Your first period is suppose to be VERRYY lightt..my'n was! So don't worry.. Just warning you your cycle may be off.. so don't worry if you don't get it the same week or even couple weeks!
congrats!!

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i've had my period for two years, but i haven't had it in the last six months. the last time i got it was in the beginning of june. i've never had sex, besides, after six months i think i would know if i was pregnant. haha. my doctor keeps saying that everything is fine and just to wait..but this is really weird! has anyone else gone through this that could give me any advice?

i got a job in june, and also started a new relationship, that recently ended. i also started running. i figured maybe those could be reasons for me not getting it, but i thought that things should be getting back to normal by now. (link)
It takes 1-3 years for your period to have a consistent cycle! Don't worry- listen to your doctor haha.. they knoww! You'll get it soon! I went through it for 8 months- && i was worried to! Think about it as a breakk! Hahaa


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To Start I have brown hair that goes about 3 or 4 inches past my shoulders that is naturally a little wavy and sometimes sort of poofy but I straighten it so isn't.

Ok I have 2 questions:

The first one is that I am going to a small party with about 10 people. I'm wearing jeans and flipflops but I do not know how to do my hair. I want to go for sort of a flirty kind of look. Oh and I have blue eyes would a gray shirt with white pokla dots look ok?

And also I want to get my hair cut but not to short because when I its to short it gets all poofy. I was thinking maybe some long layers?

Any suggestions are appriecated! (link)
I like how you're haircut sounds, if it gets too poofy why not try a hairstraightner? You can get an ok one for like $20.. that's not bad. If you can't get that try gel so you can like make it look wavy.. but good wavy. Haha.



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I was really living the life! Queen of the whole 1st year high schoolers was never hard to get used to. I was the most popularest girl in the whole grade, but only because I was head cheerleader, and ofcourse like every fairytale I had the star player on the football team, the most popularest, cutest guy in the whole grade, as MY boyfriend! Life could not get better! My dad had a great job so I was what you would call "Filthy Rich", and lived in a huge house!
Then one day my very rich dad lost his very "rich paying" job. We moved into a room in an apartment room, and I had to quit the cheer squad because we could not even pay the $80 fee. Then after that the roomer got around that I was now poor, and my boyfriend dumped me, which meant my popularity went buh-bye! Soon after that, my daddy got a call from his job asking for him back, so we got our house back and I re-joined the cheer swuad and the roomer went around and my ex-boyfriend asked me out. I said to him we can try. So I am going out with him on the Tuesday after X-mas, and I'm going to see if he really likes me or my popularity! But this guy is SOOOO cute, popular, and romantic! Should I dump him or take back my role, i mean after all, he is the MAJOR CRUSH of the whole grade and he likes ME out of 56 other girls! What should I do? (link)
I wouldn't go out with him, he doesn't deserve having you, and he just wants your money and popularity. If you say no, don't you think that will make you more popular? Dumping the hottest guy in school? haha yeahh =]


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i have a big test tomorrow, and i unfortunatly procrastinated. ive hardly studied at all, and here i am on the internet..
does anyone know of any ways i can learn alot of stuff in a short period of time...???
-thnx (link)
okk to study fast colors work. It's proven that if you write with colors that it will like stick to your brain better- seriously. Do hardcore studying for like 30 min. then take a 5-10 min break.. this way your brain gets a "rest". It's proven- so try it.



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