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Emily prefers to be called/a.k.a em,emz,lili,mimi,lee or emi
13 from England living in Spain - loves; giving advice, making friends, music, photography, the color pink&more ..
hates; racism, terrorism, poverty , animal testing, cockroaches, darkness, sluttyness, being tired


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+ : rap
+ : hip hop
+ : reggaeton
+ : slow jams
+ : acapella
+ : pop


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advice

Hey, I want to get my lip pierced. The lebrae (sp?) kind. (You know how it's in the middle and what not) But my fear is that it will hurt extreamly bad. If anyone has gotten theirs pierced could you tell me how bad it hurt? Or any other information I need to know? THANKS!

It's labret, dear.
Well, according to a friends personal expierce and a couple of people I have asked online and to a magazine article
70% of mouth piercings (whether it be labret, tounge or whatever) go wrong causing chipped teeth, swelling, pain and teeth migration.

With a labret piercing, the piercing will rub against your gum causing it to eventually (whether the word 'eventually' means in 10 years or in 5 years I do not know) wear away part of your gum. Which will cause your teeth to migrate and become uneven which can cause chipping teeth, uneven teeth, pain and gum swelling. This may not happen to everyone though.

The best thing to do is go to a piercing studio and ask them to tell you everything about labret piercings that you should know.

The pain can be different on people but depending on how well you handle pain chances are it's going to hurt.
It may also be red for a while but cleaning it two or three times a day with warm water and sea salt should help it heal.
Unless where you get it pierced tells you to clean it with someone else.


There, I think that pretty much covers it ;D
Please note though, not all the information I gave you may apply to you. Like I said, people are different and you may not have the same effects as other people. I'm just telling you what people with personal expierience have told me.

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I want to make a new screen name. Im 13, im really preppy/girly! I love hollister a&f, designer stuff.. I would also like the word whore in my screen name and my favorite number is 3. Thanks! I rate!

DeSiGnErxWhOr3
WH0R3 F0R Di0R x
preppyWHORE33
hollisterxwhore
whorexmexup3
designerQUEEN
designerWHORE

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i want to make a new sn, my old one was princessofprep19, i want the word princess in it and the number 19, umm, im preppy and i love sports, and guys and all that stuff, , thanks in advanced

*insert sport you play here*princess19
princess*your name here*19
ll PRiNCESS ll 19

If you just play with words you'll find something.

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I am going to be staying in a small village in Northern Italy this summer as an exchange student for 6 weeks! I know I should dress modestly there as to not offend who I am staying with, but what are some cute ways to dress and stay in style while abroad?

I think if you just dress in some cute jeans or capris and tees and the ocassional skirt or shorts then you should be fine.

You could wear whatever you wanted as long as it's not too revealing seeing as the family may find it offensive.
♥Em

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How can I have a different index page instead of index.html?

My site is all in PHP and I want to have index.php instead of having index.html as the start page.

Help!

I'm sure you've tryed it but try renaming your index.html to index.php.
I doubt it would work though, worth a try.

If not you could either upload your index.php via FTP (or whatever you're using to upload) and make it overwrite index.html
If not then deleting index.html and uploading index.php.

You could also make index.html redirect to index.php which is what I had on one of my old sites.
Good Luck :D

edit// thanks for the one but I'm not copying their answers. I didn't even look at the other answers. I knew what you had to do from the start. and chances are more than one person is gonna know the right answer so obviously they're gonna give the same answer.

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When I was younger I used to be really skinny because I stayed with my cousins a lot and we were always swimming, running around, or riding bikes. Since then I've gained a lot of weight cause I haven't exercised much. My stomach is flabby and my thighs are kind of big. I want to tone down before school starts up again in August.. so does anyone know any exercises I could do? I'm not saying I'm fat or anything but I've gained about 20 pounds in the past year and I just wanted to tone down some. Thanks. :)

I also have another question about this. I love to dance & I have about four movies that have dancing in them. Does dancing help tone you down any?

Dancing is probably the best excersize you can do.
It's cardio, it's fun and it moves pretty much every muscle in your body.

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Im going to Warped Tour and it'll be my first time going to a concert like this (my parents finally let me go!) Anyways, I was just wonder if you've been in a mosh pit before. Whats it like? And like what happends. Will I get hurt? Just like full detail and everything about! Thanks in advance!

I haven't been to one before but loads of friends of mine have been.

If you have any piercings that are easily ripped out like your bellybutton, take them out. My friend got smacked in the stomach on accident and her navel ring was ripped out.

If you're small or fragile be really careful, people will jump, push, shove and just generally be careful.

Don't stand still, it's probably the worst thing you could do.
Just go with the flow and jump, push, shove like everyone else.
and try not to fall over.

No one will care if you fall over so you'll be stepped on.


♥Em

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is there anyway to keep my eyeliner on longer.. like so it will stay on and not get off.. i dont want a type of eyeliner i just want tips

There's no way to keep it on except for buying a better brand.
If it's coming off it's probably because the brand is shitty or because it's not waterproof.
Get a waterproof one and see if that helps
♥Em

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Well I'd been using clearasil ultra on my face and chest and they got really really dry and tight. my face is getting better but it's still a little pealy and nothing i do will help the skin on my chest, its all red, splotchy, and tight from where the medicine was. I've stopped using the medicine but it seems like even moisturizing doesnt even help. I have graduation in a week and i'm wearing a strapless dress help!

Use some aftersun on it.
When I get sunburnt my skin feels tight and weird so when I apply aftersun it losens it up.
So hopefuly that'll work. If not just keep moisturizing it, it won't work overnight.
And if the splotches are still there for your graduation use foundation over them.
♥Em

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I was wondering if anybody knew how to get very wavy curls that look natural? Exactly like the ones that Mischa Barton always has. Any help is greatly appreciated..oh and no rude comments, please!

Pantene Pro V scrunching hair gel works.
I think it's called that o_0 something like that anyway.
Also if you buy heated rollers (which I admit aren't always cheap) you can use them and if you buy a set rather than one or two on their own you can get different curl sizes :]
♥Em

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So when I wear eyeliner it always seems to go into the side of my eye and goop or w/e. help me!

Try wearing a waterproof one :]
♥Em

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K, so theres these kids thta always calls me flat, my crush hears that. Ok so i bought this bathing suit thta has padding in it, should i waer it even tho thye will now theres ometihng in it not noticeable but the bathing suit just makes me look big


Thnakyou
And any helpful advice ill give a 5!

Hey hun, if it's really noticeable you might be better off not wearing it because they might tease you (if they do they're immature jerks 'cause there's nothing wrong with padding) if you think it's that noticeable buy a different one that isn't so noticebale.
Also, if wearing padding makes you feel more confident about your self and you don't mind if someone might tease you then you should go for it :]
♥Em

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i AM punk...(i hate that punk, goth, prep thing but..its the only thing i could think of!) but i live in a small town with absouloutly NO stores with my kind of clothes and stuff. so everyone thinks im a stupid prep. so...does anyone kno any stores with punk clothes? thanks so much

Go to a thrift store. Yeah, not somewhere many people would think of but there could be something you could redesign to make it more to your style or you might find something you like without even redesigning it.
Or you could go shop online. Google it for some clothes websites or go to hottopic.com.
♥Em

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Okay, I need to know if this outfit matches for a party coming up, and if it doesn't, let me know.

1. First of all, do BROWN and BLACK match with eachother? (I hope so)
2. My whole outfit has to revolve around my BROWN sandals that I just bought.
3. And I want to wear my BLACK cardigan sweater (REALLY BAD!)
4. Can I wear my brown sandals, a (white or brown?) shirt underneath the black cardian sweater? And a skirt...but what color skirt?

Tell me if any of that matches. Basically I want to wear my black sweater and brown shoes, so what color shirt and skirt should I buy?

THANKS!

Okay so try your brown shoes your black cardigan a brown shirt and a black skirt.

Or: brown shoes, black cardigan , white shirt, brown skirt.

Or your best bid (not to diss you or anything, lol) would be to buy black shoes and go with black cardigan, black shoes, white shirt, white skirt.

Hope I helped
♥Em

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how can i get someone to like me?? i have liked him for a while he notices me but not enough 2 like me wat do i do????? how can i be more friendly, how can i get him to notice me more!!!!

~desperate

Be your self around him. Flirt with him without making it to obvious.
If non of them work flirt with him and if he flirts back play hard to get ;) but not all guys like girls who play hard to get.
If he still doesn't like you there's nothing you can do.
You can't change someone's tastes.
Good luck though.
♥Em

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Yeh i asked, if a doctor could kno that you were "playing with ur self" But..what if they make u pee in a cup?

Nope, docotrs can't tell if you masturbate or not unless you tell them.
Nothing in your urine could tell them that.

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Im only 15 years old but i need a job this summer. Do you know any jobs that will hire at 15 other than publix

Grocery Stores
Paper Round
Babysitting
Walking Dogs

There's different things you could do depending on where you live.
If you know someone who owns their own business there could be random things you could do for them if you ask around.
Good luck.
♥Em

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I*ve been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months now, and i really like him...but we dont ever see each other. We go to different schools, and we live one & a half hours away from each other. I see him when i go to my moms, every other weekend..but i dont think thats enough! Summers almost here and i*m gonna be at my moms house all summer, so i*ll be able to see him but people tell me that hes cheating on me and lying to me. I dont know what to do!!......

Well first of all don't belive them straight away, people like to shit stir alot for some reason.
You have to talk to him about it face to face and tell him that if she's cheating he has to tell you.
Hopefully, if he is, he won't be a jerk and he'll tell you.
But for both of your sakes I hope he's not
Good Luck
♥Em

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hey....im 13 and this lady calls me everyday asking me to babysitt her kids...i already told her that my mom said i cant because i already babysit 2 other kids and i have homework...and a life but she keeps on calling asking me to babysitt them....mind you she has like 5 kids...and she has a older son then me that can watch them so why does she need me to watch them???

comment please

Maybe she doesn't think her son is reliable enough. Tell her that you're really sorry but you just can't babysit and the more she asks you're not going to change your mind and if you know any of your friends that babysit refer her to them 'cause maybe she can't find other babysitters.
Good luck
♥Em

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ok so, my moms phone is broken and my dad said if i can convince her to take my phone, i can have a better one. I was wondering how i could convince her..

Tell her you're concerned that she'll miss important calls so you want her to have your phone, that should work!
♥Em

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