heyy! My namez danielle and im 13 I luv hanging out wit mi friendz, playing soccer, surfing, going on the computer,shopping,music,movies,etc. I love giving advice to ppl too so ask me nethinq babez!
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okay..i cant help it..i always let people walk all over me..and i serioulsy dont know how to be mean..and people say the meanest things about me..and i guess i just let them walk all over me..what should i do? (link)
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u kno what? im honestly the same way, but im startinq to change. What u should do is stand up for ur self! If someone says something bad about u..say something back or tell them to stop. Sometimes it's good to be the way u are b/c if a person iz mean 2 u and ur mean back, it can start a fight, so dont be too mean! But dont walk away from ur problems.
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Hey, i have a problem, theres this guy that i really really like..and i always have, and at once tyme he said he liked me and he wanted to do stuff with me, and it was the happiest tyme of my life..but then all of a sudden everything stoped, like he stoped IM'ing me...and smiling at me...everytning, and i found out he liked his x-g/f again..i was crushed..i was never so sad in my life...and to make matters wrose, after this once again he said he liked me and i feel fer it again and i ended up getting hurt again. :-( and i think i know what ur gunna say, that hes not worth it if he does this to me and stuff..but he is worth it, id go threw it all again jsut for him, b/c thats how much i care about him...i dont wanna move on, and i..ugh, idk, *please help me*
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aww-ok im not gunna say hes not worth it b/c it seems lyke u like him alot but if he askz u out again dont just jump into it..wait a little while nd make sure ur gunna b okay if it doesnt turn out the way u want. You may also want 2 talk to him about it nd tell him how u feel. xo
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Hey Ive been getting behind in school REALLY bad and I say Im ganna study every night to try and get better grades but then I end up getting invited some where or Wanna do something with one of my friends so I end up not either stuffing or doing my homework or anything Do you have any idea how I could do both? (link)
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Well i suggest you set aside a few days to hang out with your friends and a few days to sit and do your homework and study-without any interruptions. and dont just say "ok" when someone calls with plans, tell them you cant. You may want to talk to your teacher(s) or parents.
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One of my very good friends is 14 and she is having sex with her boy friend. I don't think it's right, but who am I to judge. I highly doubt that they'll stay together and she say she likes it a lot... Do you think it's a little slutty of her? And should I tell her I think they should stop? Help me... please! Thanks! much (link)
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ok i think it would be best for u to tell her before she gets hurt by her boyfriend, but u should break it to her easy b/c she might take it the wrong way nd get mad
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
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ok u deffinatly need to tell your mom, or another adult NOW! this is something serious that he could be sent to jail for.
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ok, i need help quick, i put my clothes in the washer and then the dryer and then i went to get them out and there was a penny in there and that was all...no clothes! do you think there is some kind of clothes killer on the loose??? (link)
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haha! yea..i doubt its a clothes killer..maybe ur mom or someone took them out of the wash without telling u lol
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hi im a 12 year old girl and i was wondering when is a good time and age to get my 1st bra
also if u wear 1 does it help u get a bf or to get guys to stair more (link)
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well when u start 2 see ur chest growing u probably should talk 2 ur mom about getting a bra. I got my first when i was in 4th grade. And ur boobs shouldnt effect guys staring at u or getting dates or anything!
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Should someone with a webbed toe not wear flip flops? does it gross people out? will they think that you are weird? (link)
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ok..to tell u the truth? i have a webbed toe too! lol its hardly noticable tho and i always wear flip flops. I mean, people dont really stare at ur toes and it really doesnt matter what ppl think of u anyway-do what u feel comfortable doing!
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Hey! my hair use to be really healthy..i use die it and i strighten it.. do u no of ne hair product to give my life back to my hair...~XOXO~ (link)
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one thing-stop straightening n dying ur hair! if u do it too much itll ruin your hair (itll dry it out, give u split ends, etc.) So cut back on that and there are also some volumizing conditioners and gels and stuff that you can use- go to the store and look around-you might find something u like.
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theres is this kid that asked me out 6 times and i say no everytime .and its really annoying and he does it everyday nd when i say no hes asks my best friend wtf is tha matter he cant be alone for a few months .. but what if he asked me agen what do i say to him ? (link)
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Wow..this kid should back off a little! If he asks you out again, don't just say "no, I don't think so" or something like that. Tell him exactly how you feel. That you dont want to go out with him and that he needs to stop asking you. Tell your best friend to tell him the same thing. If he doesnt listen, just try to ignore him and if things get bad, talk to someone about it.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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Well,I think you should talk to him about it,tell him your not ready and you don't want to have sex. If he doesn't respect your opinion, than he doesnt respect you. Remember- don't do anything you dont want to just to look cool. A boy shouldnt pressure you into doing anything.
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my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..
o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)
=0 me scared
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Well first of all, no one should rush you to do anything you don't want to do. If you don't want to tell him you love him yet, don't. I totally agree with you. Maybe you should try talking to him again and if he still won't listen..you probably shouldn't waste your time on him. And he asked you to marry him!? Personally I think 13 is too young to get married to anyone! But do what you want, I'm not telling you to do anything. Hope i helped! xox
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