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Im Nikki, 15 student at LHS. I love music and helping people with their problems. Im a good listener. I love the band Taking Back Sunday(read the sn) and Letter Kills. Im a Cheerleader but not the sterio typical one (believe me!) if you have anymore questions about me e-mail me or Instant Message me.

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Ugh, this is so discusting, but how do you get rid of dead skin cells on your face, like after you have a pimple or somthing, without having to go out and buy somthinggggg i mean i have great moisturizer but during the day my makeup becomes all flaky and suck and i dooo not likkke ittt attt alllll!!! hahaha...I'm so frustrtaed, also, what can you do for a scab thats on your face, fast, I use neosporin but it doesnt work that well, ughh im so mad at myselffff =(

sad and frustrated

well what u can do is BUY (yes buy haha) an exfoliating skin scrub and just use moisturizer and an oil free foundation if u use or no foundation i suggest sephora (www.sephora.com) to look for really great make-up and skin care. but since you dont want to buy you can use moisturizing soap (if u have) and lotion REALLY GOOD THICK lotion if u have dry skin. Peel off the skin around the popped pimple, dont apply neosporin it causes scars use bactine or liquid bandaid. I dont have a pimple problem but i know ppl that do and it happens to work! but really if u want to buy, BUY PROACTIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont have pimples and it just keeps your skin great! i hope i helped, have ne more questions just e-mail or IM me (nikkirox45)

hey...ok im gona be a freshmen in hs. and ive played soccer ALL of my life. and im having a hard time deciding wherther or not i wanna play for my hs team. i mean soccers ok. im good at it and everything but its just getting old...and lyk i went to tryouts this past week and lyk all the freshmen kno eachother and i dont kno ANYONE and i feel soo stupid...and lyk the other thing ive been wanting to cheerlead all of my life. and i have all the abilities to do cheerleading cept im not flexible. and im short and i weigh 85 pounds so i think if by a chance i did make the cheerleading team i think i would def. be a flyer. and if i would have to choose between cheerleading and soccer i would definitly choose cheerleading. but im so much better at soccer. so my ? is...if i did try out for cheerleading do u think i would make the jv squad? and do you thnik i should still play soccer.? help!!

Well i am a cheerleader and its tons of fun! i never used to be flexible (and you would be going out for Varsity since your going to be a freshman) but now i can do splits and scorpions and all that good junk. You should deff. do cheerleading but make sure your STIFF and have great facials! Dont make yourself look slutty cuz that makes your squad/school look bad. you should do soccer too but if its getting old dont do it, try something new and be ambitous. If you have any other questions on cheerleading just ask me! (IM me on nikkirox45) and i'll help you w/ whatever u want, im an expert ;)

~Nikki~

hi every one......im Tripp...and im in a band...and we REALLY suck ass....we practice like every day and shit...but we still suck like really bad....so if u know n e thing else we could do....tell me.

Hey Tripp maybe you need to get better musicians and dont make up your own music yet, try to get sheet music from already famous bands and use theres for starters.

I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy*

Letter Kills (just buy the cd it rocks ass!)
and TBS!!!! (taking back sunday buy the cd!!) Best Band ever!
Breaking Benjamin-forget it
underoath (the whole cd)
Coheed and Cambria-Al the Killer
Matchbook Romance-stories and alibies
My Chemical Romance(the whole cd)

They all kick major ass and rock! its mostly emo so if u dont like emo forget about my advice lol

I'm not very physcially fit, I dont exercise a lot and well i started skool few days ago and i have gym..my teacher is crazy and makes us run a lap, run up stairs, run down a hill, do 20 crunches, 10 pushups, and then do it one more time! Before that we have to run acrross the football field doing things like skipping, jumping,jogging whatever. And thats all for the warmup! is there anything i can do to less the pain i feel after we have our warmup??? my legs are so sore i can barley walk! thanks i rate!

well you should start going to the gym and doing your own work outs, then it wont be so hard during gym! i was in HORRIBLE shape, i couldnt even run 1 lap around the track, now i can run to at least 3 miles w/o having to walk and thats about 2 months of the gym, stretch A LOT and just try going to the gym, its a lot of fun and makes you have more self confidence.. believe me :)

~Nikki~

Here's my story though it's kind of embarressing... For about 2-3 years now, I have had this clear slime come out my yeah, and I don't think it's normal, but is it somthing I need to REALLY WORRY ABOUT? I mean is it normal... It's like I am constantly wet (though I am still a Virgin and I haven't been there yet) and I hate it...so I wear baby powder down there to keep it from smelling just in case it does... any advice.....

its vaginal discharge its normal everyone has it dont worry! but if you are really nervous about it go to the geinocologist or w/e.. they can help you too

~Nikki~

i sweat really bad i need advice on a good deodarent taht will stop teh sweatin or another trick or thing i can do Thank u *

DO NOT USE ANTI PERSIRANTS!!! they clog sweat poors and when it runs out it just lets all the sweat out and you sweat even worse, use regular deoderant, maybe guys deoderant like old spice or arrid.

~nikki~

I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now?

well if your a guy then ask her out on a date and if your a chick she might not be thatwayand she might get creeped out lol so idk if your a dude or a chick sorry!

A friend of mine asked me this question and i couldn't answer it. So maybe u guys can help. Ok here it goes...

there is this boy, i've liked him for over a year. and yesterday i saw him for the first time in a couple months. and i tried to drop him hints that i still like him but he won't catch any hints. what should i say to him to make him understand without actually saying it?

just tell him straight up that you still like him, if he gets scared then he isnt worth it and if he doesnt and you guys talk about your feelings then great! i hope your friend uses my advice!

...im getting my teeth pulled..the 2 like first molars...i uess im getting laughing gas and a shot...umm what do they use and does it hurt can someone like tell me these things lol im sooo nervous and i just need to know whats going on....thanks sooo much =)

well the novicane needle hurts like a bitch, they inject it into your gums where your getting the teeth pulled and that gas is awesome, makes you feel stoned (you'll be fine) ask if you can be put under, they can do oral surgery too (thats usually better)

I have this line across my stomach, i never had surgery or anything there. I don't know what it is. And it won't go away. I thought it might just be the part where I bend, but nobody else seems to have this. Please help, I want to get rid of it.

it could be when u sit your belly fat creases where that line is so try sitting up perfectly straight and not hunch over..

~Nikki~

Hey I want to loose 100 pounds in 1 year! Thats my goal. Anyways. What are some excersizes i can do and how often,how long and ect to do them. What food do i eat? And do you have any sites? That can help me. Thank you so much i will rate everyone a 5 if you help! Ill even rate you if you didnt help because you tried lol.

Well i think thats a great goal and you are going to work very hard, my mom lost a bout 60 pounds in 6 months so you can deff. lose 100 lbs in a year! first sign up at the gym, Run at LEAST 30 minutes a day or do any kind of cardio workout like tred-mills, stairs or anything that includes walking or running. then you can do Abs (i have a lot of easy ab work outs so just IM me: NikkiRox45 or e-mail me: njr11390@netscape.net) arms you can lift small weights and i'll tell u how to do that. you can do legs i'll tell u that too lol so just IM or E-Mail me and i'll be more then happy to help you.

Heya there. Okay, well, I just lost my virginity, yesterday (I'm the one with the problem below called birth control) and now that I know for sure that there is a risk of be getting pregnant, I want to know what kind of test I should get. I'm 16, and I should know this because so many of my friends have gone through it, and I know I have to wait a couple of weeks, but I was wondering, what is the best brand of pregnancy tests and how much do they usually cost?

i honestly dont know the prices and everything but i went to the hospital to get one early inthe morning (you should do it in the morning cuz thats when your pregnancy hormones are most fertile) and i just peed in a cup and they took it to a lab and did it i wish i could have helped more!

hey, i tried the birth control pill and it made me have really bad heart problemz from it..and well, my heart is getting better now after about a year from those damn thingz!!!!

but my question is...do any of yuz kno any good birth control methods like the patch, or anything lyk that that is healthy and that you can use if you smoke cigarettes??

none are healthy if you smoke, but if your over 38 then its worse but now i dont think its THAT harmful for any birth control if you smoke.

Well there's this boi, and he goes to my school and all that yatta yatta. But I like him, and I jux found out what his name was, we've never really talked or anything like that before....but a while ago, he was @ my neighbors house, and he was checkin me out, and he was about to go somewhere and he was like I'll be right, you gonna be back out here, and I was like yeah I will, and he was like okay. But yeah, I noticed that he rides my bus and I jux realized how cute he is, and yatta yatta. My patna asked if he was single and lookin and he said yeah, and she described me to him, and she says for me to talk to him but what do I say??????

hmm I think he deff. has the hots for you but i dont think its a good idea if you talk to him like "patna" haha just a lil constructive criticizms(sorry) and you should grow some balls and talk to him! if hes cute n all. Yuo have to be confident and guys will like that in you if your confident

Ok..here I go...
I was going out with Aaron, and dumped him for his best friend, Josh. Now since his Josh hates me(we went out he dumped me), Aaron wants to go back out with me...and i said yes...but it's a long distance between us. Is it a good idea? Or no? Please help me!

Hey, I think its great that he forgives you and wants to go back out with you but that fact that its a long distant relationship isnt such a good idea, if anything you should have an open relationship which you can still go out on dates with diff. guys but Aaron is your only one. Ya get what im saying? i think thats what you should do cuz im in a open relationship with my semi b/f thats going away to college so yea..

~Nikki~

I am a 13 female and recently I just found out I am pregnant. I have no one for the baby except for my boyfriend who is the father. He is 16. My parents and me never keep in touch anymore so I live with my sister who is 18. She is never home and won't get mad if she found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend knows and is really happy. He is glad I am pregnant. But I'm not. I mean I am going to have the baby and keep it and i will love it but I am too young. But I do not know what I should do with my boyfriend. Can anyone give me advice? Please help.

Hey, im really sorry your pregnant but if you are before 7 weeks pregnant and if you have any type of youth pregnancy center around go there and they will give u a shot and a few pills to take and thats your abortion or if you DO want to keep it tell your parents deff. but refuse to move in w/ them or anything, trhat will make matters worse and if they offer there help and support, take it. Make sure you GET A JOB!!! and make sure he has one!! and get as much support as possible, thats all i can say or an abortion you can get an abortion w/o your parents knowing..

~Nikki~

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