My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Virginia Occupation: student Age: 15 AIM: mandyyx33 Member Since: August 9, 2004 Answers: 466 Last Update: August 8, 2013 Visitors: 40455
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So I got accepted into a vocational highschool and I decided I didn't want to go but my parents had to be unfair and transfer me out of my highschool behind my back and now I have to go to this voc highschool the thing is I don't want to start new all over again I don't wanna look stupid and I hate being new. Does anyone have any advice on how to just go with the flow and how to make friends and less enemies? Also my ex goes to this highschool and me and him got into a huge argument and I really don't want to face him . Please any advice would be good. (link)
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First off that REALLY sucks that your parents did that to you. Best way to make friends is to just smile and be very polite and seem like you want to make friends, people will talk to you. Everyone always loves the new girl. So just smile and be happy and outgoing you'll be alright. As far as your whole ex thing goes its only awkward if you make it awkward, if you see him just smile and keep walking, don't act like you hate him that will only make matters worse or you can just totally avoid eye contact and act like you don't see him but that wouldn't be such a good idea. hope i helped!
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hi so im a freshmann, and i was just curious about like homecoming. do freshman really go? and like if they dont have dates, do people still go? i mean, im not sure if ill have one or not. im not ugly or anything, its just im new to the school. ive met alot of cool people, but eh. i dont know.
any advicee will help. (link)
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Homecoming is for all four grades in highschool. And yes people still go if they dont have dates they usually just go with a group of friends. Either way its fun because even if you do have a date you don't really stick with them the whole night, you end up going off to dance with friends and stuff. Its a fun experiance and definitely worth going, date or not!
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i had sex 9 days ago. since then, ive had my period. im still afraid i could be pregnant, would birth control have an effect if i started taking it? would it change anything if i was pregnant? i dont think i am, but i know there is still a small possibility. (link)
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okay, as much as i would love to say that person below me is right, shes not. Just because you got your period does not mean you aren't pregnant. People have had their periods even when they were pregnant. But birth control wouldn't help now if you were. You may not be though. Best chance would be to take a pregnancy test to be 100% positive and then get on birth control.
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does that include unlimited picture text messaging? (link)
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like the person below me said it depends on your plan. but most of the time it will say unlimited text and pic messaging. check with verizon and see before you do anything
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Hi Ive Known This Guy Since I Was 5 And Now Were Planning To Have Sex, Im So Scared But I Want To Get It Over With Im 14/F Btw we're gnna use a Condom But Im So Scared Its Going To Hurt, Can You Tell Me Wat It Feels Like?
xx (link)
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Well first things first your not ready. if your having second thoughts and your scared then your not ready. so put it off till you know you ready with no second thoughts or anything of the sort. Its different for every girl though but the first time can be painful just because the skin is stretching and it might bleed but its normal. The next few times after might be uncomfortable as well but all normal.
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i play this game with my boyfriend called the question game
where you can ask eachother any question possible.. we tend to ask sexual questions
i know pretty much like everything about him so ive like completely run out of questions
any ideas!?
just like fun stuff
xooxox thanks (link)
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Well you said you know pretty much everything about him so im not quite sure of too many questions you can ask. If its sexual ask him stuff he would do to you and how he would do it or for him to show it to you. Ask him what his fetish is and his ultimate fantasy of all time, idk if you already asked these or not but something of that sort. but maybe its time for a new game since your running out of questions. hope i helped
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Well...I shave my legs and arm pits...I have shaved " down there " Twice but its really weird cuz you can see the hair under the skin and it pokes and pinches and gets itchy what am I doing wrong ? Oh ya I have a lot of dark hair down there...but I'm blonde ?? WHAT THE HELL ? lol (link)
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Haha im blonde and i have dark hair down there too i have no idea why that is but i can assure you its normal. As for the hair under the skin you might not be shaving all the hair off or its growing back fast. When you shave go over the same spots 2 or 3 times.
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Hiyah... i come thru to yur syt and i fort id ask yu 2 help me... my boyfriend dumped me not long ago [3 weeks]... i want him bak.. te reason [i think] he dumped me is because he told his friends tht i was 16 when i was 13.. i went along with it thinking it would stop truble... then it got out of hand... they found out and he dumped me sayin he had problems ... then he was deniying the fact he told me to lie and was saying he didnt kno.. but his friends dnt reli care any mre and i talk 2 sum of them. We are still good friends but he dont want to go back and his made his mind up.. and i cant move on and let go... please help me.. how can i get him back!!? before any other girl gets im!?
Reply soon as plz
Fank yu!!
Tash__X (link)
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Well you can't force him to like you, if he doesnt like you then unfortunuately he doesnt like you. Talk to him and straighten everything out about the whole age issue and what not. Then give him some space and let him decide what he wants, who knows he may come back to you. But for now you just need to straighten things out and give him space i know you don't want to hear that but its about the only thing you can do. Just let time do its thing he'll realize hes missing out and he'll get over the whole age thing.
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Am a 16 year old male i been going out with my girlfirend who is 15 years old for 5 months, at the beginning of our relationship she was cheating on me with my best firend but, she stoped and i forgive her, now when she whent on a sking trip she had sex with two other guys. i think it a total of 7 guys now and am not one of them. I have no clue what to do. i love her but it would be to hard to dumb her. what should it do? (link)
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Well it goes like the saying 'Once a cheater always a cheater' and sure you love her but i mean is it really worth getting hurt over? I would just dump her and get it over with, it doesn't really even seem that she has feelings for you if she can cheat on you with 7 different guys. Talk to her and tell her that she needs to change her ways or she can find a new bf. it may be harsh and i know you don't want to hear that but you deserve sooooo much better than that.
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Well I really need help on this ok..well i have like 2 best friends 1 is girl who is like my alltime best friend i dont see much of her though but when i do were inseprable ...so thats not the problem..But my other i wouldnt say best friend but a friend Well put the long story short , he wanted a 3 week break up (i said whats the point) so i like forgot about that then and I said i like someone else and he was like all mad (dunno why he broke up with me ) and now he is all mad and hes acting like he doesnt care about our friendship anymore and just got a new girlfriend (he always is really desperate for one if hes single) and thats annoying me so much at the moment and he acts all hard also
This is the really hoping question what should i do and how do i deal with him and the problem?
Thanks a lot
Friend_Girl123--x (link)
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Well it seems to be that he's just trying to make you jealous, because obviously he doesn't have feelings for the girl he was just upset and wanted to get back at you. Question being do you like him and want to be with him? If so tell him that, tell him how you feel. But either way you need to ask him whats up with the way hes acting and that your annoyed with it, that you never meant to hurt him in any way and you have no idea why yall broke up. Basically just talk to him and see whats up thats the only way you'll figure anything out. And you don't have to do it face to face. You can e-mail, IM, or call him but doing it face to face gives the conversation more meaning. Hope i helped!
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I've been going out with a guy for couple months. He told me he's not over his ex 2 weeks ago. I was upset (but i didn't tell him I am), so I gave him back whatever his staff he left at my place last Monday. It only took 5 min., becausw when he saw me that Monday, he didn't say sorry or try to talk to me about that he's still not over his ex.....
And now, I'm still upset about it, and he hasn't called or emailed me for a week. What now? Does it mean it's over between us? does it even matter to talk to him about it now? (link)
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He probably took it as you were breakin up with him because you gave all his stuff back. Try to e-mail him or something of the sort. Talk to him just ask him what he really wants and tell him what you want. It will give closure on the relationship or you may work things out.
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ok i heard this song on z100. i dont know the name
it goes like
one..your like a dream come true...
two i just wanna make love to you
three...your my destiny..
your the only one for me...
some thing repeat one two three
teh words arnt exactly right. but it goes something like that.
does anyone know the song and or who its by? (link)
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Brian McKnight-Back at one
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so on the inside of my right cheek, theres like a split down the side of it and the whole area around it is really red. apparently i must've bit it or something and it hurts really really bad! is there anything i can do to ease the pain? preferably nothing i have to buy! (link)
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try salt water. it'll sting but it should work
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Can anyone name some love songs? That mean like im happy and in love and i dont want this to end.. =] thankss (link)
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Would you go with me-Josh Turner(VERY cute song)
Your Man-Joshn Turner
The trouble with never - Tim Mcgraw
My best friend-Tim Mcgraw
Carried away-George Strait
It just comes natural-George Strait
Young Love-Chris brown
Strawberry wine-Deana Carter
The lucky one-faith hill
Livin on love-Alan Jackson
Me & Charlie Talkin-Miranda Lambert
Baby I got you-Craig Morgan
Wrapped Around-Brad Paisley
Two People Fell in love-Brad Paisley
Shes Everything-Brad Paisley
Somes Hearts-Carrie Underwood
Our Song-Taylor Swift
Bring It On HOme-Little Big Town
Little More you-Little Big Town
Hope i helped
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helloo :]]
bear with me, i know everyone's
question on here is like this but eh.
well, me and my boyfriend have been
going out for about 10 months but our
relationship slowly started going
downhill about 2 months ago. we rarely
see eachother or talk to eachother. i
always have to txt him or call him. he
never calls me or txts me anymore and it
just doesnt seem like he's putting effort
into this relationship. i wanna start over
with him but he's put me through so confusion and hurt. im just wondering what your
opinion is on all of thiss. thanks :] (link)
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Well why would you want to start over if its obvious that he doesn't really wanna be in a relationship with you anymore? Take a break from him no matter how hard it hurts. That way it gives you time to think things over and for him as well. But if you still want to be with him then tell him whats up and how you feel about him not putting in any effort and see what he as to say for himself. hope i helped!
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I don't know how to word this so ...
How do you fake a North Carolina accent. What is their dialect like? What are some of the words the use that others don't in the Northwest? What is there accent like? Is it really heavy?
Me and my friends made a bet. I lived in North Carolina until I was five, but then I moved. She bet me 50 bucks that when we drive up their this Summer on our way to New York that I couldn't pass for a local. So pretty much I have to get into a conversation with someone I don't know for more than 5 minutes and not have them ask me where I'm from. I may have lived there for five years but I was 6 when we moved, I'v never been back and I want to win the bet. (link)
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well any1 can tell when your fakin a 'north carolina accent' which from my understanding and from what i've seen is a 'southern accent'. Basically instead of sayin you say like yall and stuff. Im sure u kno what a southern accent sounds like idk how to describe it but use aint and yall alot. hope i helped
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I don't know how to tell my vagina is normal, and I don't want to ask a doctor or my mom, so please help!
im 13, and yes ive already started my period
but when i tried using tampons, it hurt sliding them in and idk if thats right or bad or what.
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The first couple times inserting a tampon could hurt or you may be doing it wrong. follow the directions that came with them. but it sounds normal
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I'm going to one of my best friends birthday party this Saturday. I'm planning on just giving her money but I would also like some other things to give her.
My question is what other little things could I bring her? Ballons, card.. that kind of stuff? Ideas.. please & thank you. :] (link)
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Make her a card or buy one, take her balloons or bake her brownies.
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my boyfriend does weed.... it pisses me off... i wish he would quit... he tells me that he is going to do it less... weekends and one day on the weekdays.... he does it too much... he hasnt stuck with it... i dont know what to do... should i tell him its either me or that or should i tell him to cut down and if he doesnt im going to have to let him go ? i love him sooo much ... i wanna marry this kid... i just wish he was more addicted to me rather than that... its seems like that is his first priority... i hate it... what should i do? please help.. (link)
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Well first off look at it from his point of view, if hes been doing it for awhile its very hard to cure an addiction such as weed. Now as for what you should do is sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel,that it bothers you and you feel like weed is more important than you. If you love him then you wouldn't tell him its you or the weed, because if hes truely addicted he may just choose the weed and then your screwed.Just say that the weed is beginning to be too much for you and you don't know if you can handle all that. Also present yourself to be willing to help with anything to get him to stop. Basically just be his support, dont nag him too much or he may just get annoyed and dump you, just make it to where he sees that its really important to you and if he cares he will change.
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18/M
hey all you out there, i've been having a problem with being constantly single, and i was wondering if anyone could help me out with it. i'm in college right now and i'm average looking. but it seems like no one is attraced to me that way, now i go to parties i mingle and shit like that but even when i start to hit it off with a girl i find out that she's already with someone already... i don't know why i have the luck to pick out every single taken chick but i do... well if anyone's got some advice for me (and don't think about saying "just wait for the right girl" cause it's not happening) it's much appreciated
thanks
marccwind (link)
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Like the people said below me your in college live it up while you can because once the relationships start getting serious (i.e marriage) then your gonna wish you had partied. but if you reallyyy want a gf then get more involved in social activites or start talking to girls you wouldn't normally go after..sounds stupid but you might actually end up falling for one of them, basically just try a different variety of girls. Make yourself seem more available and outgoing, be confident and the girls will come to you so it wont really be a one way effort to find someone. Either way don't give up.
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