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i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
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Well, did your fight mean you broke up?? If so then you should tell him that you want to be together again and that really like him. And if he does get into the relationship again then tell him you really love him to death. But if he says no I don't want to be together with you, then you come in and say but I really Really love you and I would do anything for you. If your fight means you are still together but taking some time off, say I really love you and I don't want to fight with you I just want us to be a happy couple and love each other to death. But don't come right off before you have even talked and go I love you to death he might think you are obsessed and might not want you back. Hope I helped!!I am always here!

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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????

Are you a girl? If so YES!! And don't do that! Please even though I don't know you, Please don't!

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Female 13 single
I think i like 3 guys. one is madly in love with me. one doesn't even know i exist (the on i like the most) and one who flirts w/ me ALL the time and my friend thinks that he wants me to know that he likes me. i dont know what to do and i'm so confused!! can someone at least give me a lil bit of advice? not that "follow your heart" crap real. life. advice

-seriously confused

okay well, you should go with the number 3 one with the one that always flirts with u. and if that doesn't work try number 1. Hope I helpedalways here if ya need me!

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I know this is weird...But whats a descrete way of giving the guy you like a hug? :P Besides just walking up and hugging him. Sorry this is weird...But I rate high :)

Hugging is a way to show someone you really like them and hugging is AWESOME~! Walking up to someone and hugging them isn't really anything bad right!>3 Chrissie

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I like this guy i work with so much it hurts. He tells me all his personal stuff about his family and and his ex giirl fiend.We have a lot in common. He even gave me a mix CD. I give him free potato chips from the store that i work in. He always seems happy to see me. When he walks in he has a great big cool aid smile on his face. But there is a problem he never asked for my phone #. What's with that. I am way to shy to ask him for his. My question is does this guy like me? Or does he see me as just as a friend what am i doing wrong? how do i get him to take me seriously?

Well, I don't think he really likes you soo you have to just be friends and deal with that. Maybe you'll find someone better then him Hope i helped! ~Chrissie

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im so ttoaly lost i really need help. Nothin feels right between me and my boyfriend. we have been going out for a while and well everything was great and now nothing feels right... i mean he is doing things he knows will piss me off and hes not really telling me anyhinghting anymore... i dont know what to do and i really need help and some one jsut to tlak to...... PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!

Well, maybe he doesn't like you anymore and you don't like him so much. I Think you might be tired of each other. I would brake up with him because he does stuff he knows makes you mad. He isn't being such a great boyfriend right. Well, before you brake up with him, talk to him and find out why he being like that. Find out if he will agree to solve the problem and find a solution if he doesn't want to take charges and hint hint that is braking up with him I know you may not want to and you will really feel that is the wrong choice but it's for the best. Hope I helped!! I am always here if you need me!~Chrissie

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i have a boyfriend, and we were having some problems over the past week! Then over the weekend my friend(lets name her A.) came up to me and said that my boyfriend was going to break up with me, and i was all upset!! Then on monday at school, someone told me that my boyfriend went to the movies with some people and was planning on meeting a girl there...(i found out later that it was the girl named A., the girl that told me that he was going to break up with me) luckly she didnt show!! Then i heard from someone else that my boyfirend was planning on making-out with her.... and so then i talked to my boyfriend on the phone that night and was like what is going on, and he told me his story and that the making-out thing wasnt true but meeting a girl there was true( he said that they were just going as friends)!!! Then i was like then why didnt you tell me you wanted to meet her,(they have never met before, they just know each other through me)and he just said that she invited me to see a movie and he said yes....and he went and everything but the girl said she couldnt go like 5 minutes before...i just dotn know what to do,should i give him another chance or dump him????

please help me!!!!

(in the past he cheated on one of his past girl-friends)

Well, I don't think he is all that good of a boyfriend. He maybe just needs sometime to his self to think of what he wants and who he is. Rumors really hurt people like you have found that they have hurt you. If let's say the you thought and heard the rumor was real and not made up. You have no proof unless someone gives you proof then it was made up to get someone mad at someone. Find out for sure if it is real or not if it is real and you are sure then you should brake up with him. U obsivouly don't trust him for many ways. Hope I helped !!I am always here!Chrissie

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ok so me n my friend have been hangin out with each other a lot since the beggining of the year. u can eve consider us best friends. now all of a sudden she never calls me anymore, or wants to hang out. ts kinda like shes ignoring me. what is going on?

WEll, I don't think she is totally ignoring you. I think that she might be waiting for you to call to, or you to say "let's hang out." she might feel the same way as you do just try and talk to her and find out what she is doing if she does or doesn't want to be bestfriends anymore. And if she says she doesn 't want to be bestfriends anymore then you have to except that and try and be on the look out for any other Best friends or friends that are as good as her or better. I am always here!! ~Chrissie

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my best guy friend and i tried to start a bf and gf relationship but we feel uncomfortable being that. we just wanna be really close friends. i was wondering should i ask him to the prom and just say we can go as friends?! and when should i ask him?!

Well, your scared when your bf and gf you feel like you have to be more then yourslef when you are around him and impress him. But you should stay as really close friends but not like see any other guys. And yes you should go as best friends and realy nothing more. And ask him anytime soon! hope i helped~Chrissie

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my friend has this guy that she has been on and off with for what seems like forever. They both still like eachother and yesterday she wore his clothes and boxers (yeah...) to school. Should she ask him out?

YEah I think so that would be a good idea. It sounds as though that they are kinda already together but not together u know. Like in a special relationsip. >3Chrissie

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my friends keep gettin mad at ech other and they always want me to b on their sides but their both my best friends so i cant choose that would jus b mean and if i dont choose then they get amd at me i really need ur help


thanks-an old friend

Well, make something fair and switch off with each one. Say I don't take sides and i just want to be each one of your friends together.Also say this is the only fair way i don't like one of you better then the other and if they don't understand they might not be worth the friendship. You know?? Well tell them what i said hope I helped!!Come to me anytime I am always here!!
>3~Chrissie

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My best guy friend him and I have gone out before and we eventualy broke up but we still had feelings for each other but instead we stayed CLOSE friends he knows everything about me.Well I recently found out he has a gf which i never thought would happen so quick and when i found out i was crushed i began crying i felt terrible.I don't know what to do I'm thinking bout stop talking to him it might help but im not sure pleae help me! thank you either way for just reading.

Well you shouldn't brake the realtionship of talking with him and being friends with him cuz that is the only way u'll become closer then friends and u don't want to lost that. Hope i helped
>3 Chrissie

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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

yeah give him a shot !!! but i don't know if u should ask the guy out olny in u really really really like him wait for him to ask u

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Well I dated this guy for 2 and 1/2 years, and he dumped me in october! I still like him so much, and everyone tells em to get over him but its really hard. He doesn't like me at all, or he acts like he doesnt. Im really depressed and i cry alot, i dont know how to get over him!

Start seeing some other guy and hanging around other people that will get your mind off of him. Or see a counceler or a close friend that you can talk to...Hope I helped!!~Chrissie

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Otay.. Im a good advice giver and all.. But right now i need some advice from some1 else. Okay well theres this boy i really really like.. And we used to go out but then i broke up with him .. Wanna know the reason? So do i.. I dunno.. I was just in a bad mood and he happened to tick me off and i told some1 i was thinking about taking a break and next thing i know she told me she called him and told him it was over.. So after that.. We were akward around each other for the next few months.. But now were like.. bestfriends again.. And now hes off doin his own thing with his love life.. hes already been out with another girl and he likes this girl right now.. And thats sorda my problem.. Im still crazy about this guy.. And Im SICK AND TIERD OF BEING HURT, cuz everytime he talks about her or even says her name i get upset.. And The thought of never being able to be with him again hurts just as bad.. And my problem is.. I have been thinking latly.. That maybe we shouldnt be friends anymore.. Maybe we should just stop talking to each other and like.. never see each other or anything.. I think thats best.. If i totaly push him outta my head i cant like him anymore right? (btw he knows i love him) But im not real certain.. I cant talk to him about this.. because its about him.. and hes prolly end up saying something and hurt my feelings, not meaning to tho. But then again i want to keep being his friend. and i want to keep liking him. Cuz there is STILL this little tinsy wensy spark of hope.. Plus hes like my bestfriend.. And I tell him everything and anything and hes always there to help me out.. but i dunno.. Im just tierd of being hurt, what should i do?

Well, You are jealous of him and that is obvios. I think he might see that to. If yhou are bestest friends you shouldn't tare that apart right? No, matter what feeling you shouldn't brake your friendship because like with being a b.f and g.f and braking up u can't get back together well if ya do there is like 5% of that. If ya really are his friend then you shouldn't brake up that and you should like try and go out with someone that is better then him or try and maybe see a counceler and ask them what would be best...hope i helped...Chrissie

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okay my friend really bothers me..i mean she thinks she is so0o0oo0o0o cool..but i just hate it!! and i dont know what to do..cuz she always talkes things the wrong way..what do i do?

Well, maybe you are jealous of her and so you think different from her. She probaly doesn't relize what she is acting cool, and other people don't relize either it is just you. If you were her friend you wouldn't be saying things mean to her or thinking she's " sooo cool." Friends aren't supposed to fight they are suppose to be a loving, caring, almost sister type feeling but you don't think this way correct? She might take things the wrong way because she doesn't know what you are talking about nor does she understand. But what you should do if ya feel that way is maybe try and over come that feeling and wait a little bit before you tell her. Maybe tell her like in a week or later. But first, ask another friend of yours that knows her to as well as you do and see if she feels the same way as you do. If she says no i don't think she thinks she is soo cool then you are possibly jealous of her. But if she says yes then tell your friend that you think that she thinks she's o soo cool. I am always here if you need me.~Chrissie

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i just dumped my boyfriend last week because my friend that is a boy introduced me to these two hockey players and they were hot but they didnt go to my scholl but anyways i dumped my boyfriend for one of the hockey players that said he liked me and i believed him because we always used to talk on the phone and aol but then the night he told my friend he was going to ask me out he never did he left me single and this hurt me but i got over it and discoverd i still liked the boyfriend i just dumped but now the boyfriend i just dumped likes this other girl and goes out with her and now i dont know what to do he was really hurt when i dumped him and i didnt care and now when i want him back he likes another girl and now im hurt i really miss my old boyfriend and i wish he would come back to me

please help

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Well, you didn't do the smartest thing but hey ever1 makes mistakes in life. It seems to me that you are jealous thqat he has a new girl friend and it isn't u. U hate seeing him w. another girl. Well, try and meet some new guy there is someone for everyone out there. You'll find one. But try and keep staying friends w/ X- boyfriend and when he and that girl brake up your chance is there. And for future notice don't hurt the one you love the most becuase it's hard to get them back.

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ok i had a great boyfriend and we were in love and everything. we were together for almost 11 months. well lately he`s been being a jerk so i called it off. well last night my guy friend came over and we went with my sister and her friend out to eat. he didn`t have to be home at a certain time but he hated my sister`s friend so he left early and we didn`t get to hang out much. he complimented me and made me happy. he asked me on a double date but i kind of changed the subject. well i realized that i really like him (again) and when i told the 11 months guy he got really upset and he won`t talk to me. well i told the guy i was with last night that i like him and he told me he`d get back to me cuz he had to do sumn and he`d be right back. but he didn`t come back. i just don`t know. please help me!

Well, the new guy you like i don't know. If he left becuase of sister;s friend then he wasnt' to patiest or poilete ya know?? Then he lied to you when he said he'd brb he just left. I mean a really best friend and soon to be boyfriend would never do that... hope i helped i am always here.

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OK so my boyfriend got me a lot for Valentine's day and all I got him was a teddy bear. I cant think of anything else to get him. If anyone has any ideas at all please help me!! Thanx so so so much , I rate high.

Well, if ya don't know what to get get maybe candy. Maybe ask one of your friends to ask him what kind of candy does he like. Maybe chocolate?? Anything will do. But what is the biggest gift is that you guys are together and you should be proud.

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My old bff spread rumors that i was cutting myself and had social problems when i was out of school one week beacause i had mono. Everyone believed them and it about ruined my social life i had no friends for about a month then i met my new bff. The old one apologized and we are friends again but she always tries to start little fights between us like i couldnt talk to her crush or ne other boy cuz i have a bf. Wut should i do? friends or not friends?

Well, I think you guys aren't really good friends hardly even friends. There is one little string of hair that is holding you guys together and that part comes from u. No body is a friend if they talk about u and start rumors that are totally not true that can really hurt someone. You guys aren't friends. But there is always someone in the world for someone test out some new people...

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