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I mostly prefer to answer questions about relationships whether they are the romantic sort or about friendships, however I also know a lot about books, music and sports. Do not ask me questions about cars or computers as I will most likely refer you to someone else's column. Other than that I love to answer questions and help people. Please rate fairly and honestly. :] Good luck to all you puzzled people out there.
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I need new hairstyles. where do you get yours from??
I tend to look at past hair cuts I've had and design a new one from those or look at actresses face shapes and see what hair cut looked best on them. Or I go to the hairdressers and ask them what they think would suit me. This normally works best. IF all else fails, I would go on one of those websites where you cant paste your face in different hairstyles and see what it would look like. Good luck! Hope I helped. :/ x
whats your favriote TV show?
Well I don't know if you'd like these but I LOVE True blood (about vampires, werewolves, etc but not in that twilight crap way, and Jersey shore just because it makes me laugh my ass off. Genius. Hope I helped. x :]
I really like my best friend. He is perfect..I think so atleast =). I think he likes me too. But I'm really shy and I have decided to tell him how i feel. B/C not tellin him isnt an option nemore. My feeling are too strong. So..how should I tell him? I'm j/ really worried we wont remain friends if I tell him.. Like if he ends up NOT liking me. Thanks for your help! =)
Haha. I am ALWAYS in this situation and I've found that if the friendship really is strong enough, no matter whether he likes you or not and then you break up or never get together, you remain friends. Anyways, the way that worked the best for me was that I just kind of told him the honest truth. I basically said in every boy girl friendship there comes a time where you have to discuss if you feel anything stronger and if there iss potential for your friendship to go further. If he says he doesn't agree with you then just say that you're disappointed but being friends is the first and foremost important. That will show him there's no pressure on him and take the awkwardness away. Hope I helped! Good luck! Friendships that blossom in relationships are always the ones that I remember the most. :] x
did miracle fruit work? how were your experiences with it?
Well for me it didn't have that much of an effect but I know my friend says it did everything it's supposed to. I guess it differs from person to person. I normally only eat and use very organic medicines and foods but she doesn't really watch what she eats so I think that had an effect on it.
i hooked up with this guy 2 weeks ago and we had sex. it was fun and after he asked for my number. i gave him my cell but he hasnt called me yet. he said hed make sure to call me soon. how can i tell if i was just a hook up or if hes really interested in me? he seemed like he was really wanting to be with me more than just hooking up and sex. he even kissed me before i left. but he hasnt called and that makes me think he just used me. my bff said to give him time. how much time?
Well to be honest, it sounds like you were just another hook up.. Its already been two weeks. If he really wanted to see you and be more he would have contacted you by now.. He can't possibly be that busy. I mean not even a text message. Unfortunately I feel that he's a jerk and he used you but if you really believe there was something I'd wait another week and then move on. I wasn't there that night so I don't know how he acted but from what you've told me it sounds like he's blowing you off. Sorry. Good luck! Hope I helped.. x
Okay I have a big problem! I got my new I phone and as I added all my old contacts one by one I also deleted them off my old phone. Than when I plugged it in to I tunes I choose restore to my I pod settings cause I wanted the same apps and music, little did I know that all my contacts would be deleted. Please if anyone knows how i can get these number please let me know thanks
Unfortunately, I've done the same thing and I have to tell you, you can't.. I asked everyone to text me... :/ Thats all you can really do! :( Hope I helped.. Good luck! x
Me and audi have been friends for like what? a year? we got reallly close during that year but shes not my bestfriend, shes just one of my close friends. but One night i made a mistake with her boyfriend [Ex at the time] I got drunk with him then had sex with him! i felt soo giulty i had to tell her, So like 2 weeks later i decided to tell her, Then she told me that she had sex with my Ex! [Paulo] i Was soooo mad but i couldnt say anything. so we just said we both fucked up so whatever. So we forgave eachother. but she would always bring up me and D, and she told people about me and D and everybody looked at me like i was the fucked up one and shit, she was leaving out her and paulo! So i eventually got pissed, and i said i was done!
So we didnt talk for like 2 months. then out of no where we started talking and he kicked it again. then like a week later i was talking to this guy angel and he told me that audi had sex with paulo 2 days ago, and i remember she told me she got drunk with all these people. so i confronted her and she said no! So i said i was done!
But when i got realllly drunk i just went to her house, and we went to go see Gio and stuff, then Little started talking about how Audi had sex with Tres and Jokes that night as in Paulo. i ignored it cause i didnt wanna fight.
But like Saturday Me and audi were talking to some girl and she was reminding audi about what happened that night at her house when she was drunk, and she was like yeah and you had sex with Gio in the bathroom. i was like Whaaaaaaat? and audi was like i don't remember that! And i asked Gio and he just said wtf Littles girl? i was like yeaaaahhhh! And he didnt answer me!
I don't know what to do or believeee !
Well all my friends are mostly guys because of situations like the one you're in. I know from experience that if a guy changes the subject or didn't answer than he probably doesn't want to tell you the answer which in your case means yes. She's not one of you best friends and she's hooked up with this Paulo guy multiple times it seems. Yo have to look at the pros and cons and decide if its worth being her friend if you're going to be angry and suspicious all the time. If you can't trust her you don't really have a friend ship. If you look at the facts basically everyone says she hooked up with Gio except her. I would move on from her and stick with real friends. Keep her around to do simple, fun things with her but jut don't share your secrets ands tuff. She doesn't have to be a super good friend. Hope I helped. Good luck! x
Ok so I have never played football on an actual team but have always love watching it and playing it with friends. I was playing catch with my high schoolsvarsity quarterback the other day and he was throwing me about 50-60 yards ( i know the yardage because we were in a local universitys practice dome)bombs and i was catching them all and then the same to another kid and I was playing defense and intercepted them all too. After we were done playing he told me I had good hands and I said yeah i regret not going out for football as a freshmen and now its too late and responded to me saying no its not! But i think it is, so i was wondering if you think i should go out for football as a senior for the first time or not? I have always wanted to try it for the experience and just to know how good or bad I would do, I think I would be good at running or receiving, my school only has about 50-65 kids in each grade so we arent very big so i would be on the team for sure and it would be a good experience and good for my transcript, would this be a good idea or a waste of my time and everyone elses on the team?
Thanks
Well as a sporty person I would go for it! I tried out for sports as a senior this year and I've had such a good year because of it! You have natural talent and the quarter back didn't seem to think you were a waste of his time so why would anyone else? Plus its YOUR senior year. If you've always wanted to try it and you know you'll be on the team why not go for it. You'll be able to get even better during practices and games and who knows, you could end up being a really valuable player. I say go for it.
my boyfriend and I are at the point where we just fight all the time. I dont know why. I say he pushes me into theses fights, he says im too confrontational etc. etc. blah blah. Its just stupid and we keep creating more problems. It isnt fun anymore. I dont know what to do. Does it sound like maybe we should just move on? Any advice please.
I think that before you move on you should tell him what you just wrote on here and discuss if he feels the same way. Talk about the fights you are having and see what the root cause is. If you can't find one or if he completely refuses to talk about it and the feeling of having enough is mutual suggest, breaking up because then it might just be that there is a conflict of personalities or the relationship has gone just stale. Good luck! :/ Hope I helped x
me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months now. and all of a sudden hes asked for a naked pic ( i wont and havent given him one) i told him i deserved more respect than that, and he didnt seem to care that he hurt my feelings.
so school starts tommorrow and i will see him again. io want to break up with him and have waited till now to do it face to face.
how do i break up with him.
he wont care when i do, i doubt he even had feelings for me.
so suggestions?
Don't make it a huge deal and explain that he really hurt your feelings etc. This will just make you seem like you cared so much when apparently he doesn't give a shit. I would just find a chance to talk to him alone and say something like "I don't have any feelings for you anymore, I'd like to break up." Obviously if he doesn't respect you or care that he hurt your feelings he won't care about the long speech I know you'd like to give him about how disrespectful he is and how he hurt your feelings. I'd go for the quick, painless method. Worked for me and one of my ex's. Good luck and good job for having enough self-respect to dump his ass! Hope I helped x.
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One week ago, I got scratched by a rose bush on my right leg. I was wearing long pants but I guess it went through. I had two long scratches on my leg as a result. Well, now it has evolved into more. I have two bigger wounds now where there wasn't even a scratch before and they hurt. Another one of those is starting to form. And now even more are showing up out of no where. I have another one that looks like a big bug bite. Also, numerous small ones that look kind of like razor burn.. Not sure if this is dangerous or I should just let heal on its own. What are your recommendations?
I would definitely go to a doctor. Did you disinfect the wounds when you got them? If they appearing for no reason and the old ones are evolving into something else it sounds like you have some kind of infection. Get to a hospital right away and get your wounds cleaned and wrapped. My friend cut herself on a jack bush once and she let her wounds heal naturally and ended up in the hospital for two months. Not trying to scare you! I am sure you'll be fine. Just go to the doctors and get some kind of cream before it gets worse! Good luck! Hope I helped :/ x
how many miles is it from de land florida to jacksonville?
I believe it is 92.6 miles. I use this normally to help with distance calculations. http://www.distance-calculator.co.uk/usa-distance-calculator.php. Good luck! Hope I helped. x
For the past few days my left thumb has been going crazy. About once every 30 seconds to a minute it will spasm out for 5-ish seconds. It's frustrating and causes a lot of distraction for me. I don't really know what to think of it because it happens all of the time--during rest, movement, etc. I started reading online and saw that Michael J. Fox found out he had Parkinson's and remarked his pinky twitched on it's own a lot. Now, I'm not jumping to conclusions that I have Parkinsons because I'm still rather young, but is this (involuntary movement of the left thumb) merit a doctor's visit or will it go away on it's own?
I would say that if it does not go away in three more days to call a doctor. Better safe than sorry with these things because obviously if it is distracting you and happening ever thirty seconds its not normal and something is wrong. Good luck! Hope I helped x.
where can i buy miracle fruit?
Well it depends on where you live to be honest but if you're looking for an online site I recommend http://www.miraclefruitusa.com/ Everything I've bought there was the real thing and it's an actual site so there is no credit card fraud etc. If you tell me where you live it would be easier to help you find a local store. Good luck. Hope I helped. x
can you get a hangover immediately after you're drunk? does it always happen the "day" before? because i've felt like crap after drinking and then i keep puking. it so so horrible, the headache. but the next day i'm fine.
You could be allergic to alcohol or it could depend on the speed of your drinking and how much you drink. For example, if I start a night off by drinking large amounts of alcohol and then pausing and slowly sipping and then once again drinking large amounts rather quickly, I feel extremely sick but then the next day I am fine. Also it depends on what type of liquor I drink. For example, vodka and beer make me have a hangover the next day but an amazing night when I'm drinking but Tequila and whiskey make me very sick very quickly. Experiment and see what works for you. Also do not mix two different types of alcohol as this can also make you sick. For example, beer and wine or beer and vodka or vodka and wine as this basically makes everyone feel like shit. Good luck! Hope I helped. x
It's thursday and I'm gonna be with my boyfriend on Saturday and we're planning on having intercourse. We already have condoms and everything we need BUT I just started my period. Mine usually last 4 days which means I'd still be on it Saturday. Is there any ways to make it end faster or not bleed for a while? Exercising? Lots of water? I'm not sure what else. I can't go out and but anything at the moment so any tips will be nice :) and any little tricks during my time with y boyfriend would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance
Don't drink anything cold. I always drink tons of hot tea and stay warm because it helps circulation. Also, exercise like you said helps and also I know this sounds strange but try to eat as healthy as possible. Only vegetables and fruits. Kind of like a detox. I have no idea why this works but I have three friends who have noticed there is a correlation between what we eat and how long our periods last. If your period is still not over on Saturday try douching. Sometimes it can temporarily stop your period. Unfortunately, to be honest, if your period normally lasts four days, I think the most you'll be able to cut it down to is three days. Good luck! Hope this helped. x
Well there is a girl that I really really like at school. I have known her for about a year. She came to the first few weeks of school. Like me, she has perfect attendance but she has not showed up for a week. Nobody seems to know why. She did not say anything the week before. I do not have her number and she does not use social networking sites. I am really worried because this was unexpected and I want to see her again. We were friends last year but now I am really starting to like her and I do not think she has noticed. Anyway It is a three day weekend and if she does not return on tuesday I will be even more worried and sad. I want to be able to see her again. : (
Well if you are worried about her having moved schools, your teacher would have that information and if you are worried she has gone missing, your teacher would also know. However, the more rational explanation is that she has either left early for a holiday, or has a bad flu. If she does not return on Tuesday you can always see if the school will give you her contact information as the school nurse would need this. For example, a house phone number or a parent's cellphone. Don't worry. I'm sure she's just come down with a rough cold. Try getting her contact information if she doesn't show up on tuesday. Hope this helped! Good luck x
I'm going to confess my crush in the coming week or so! I have strong reasons to believe that the crush is mutual. I have confirmed and reconfirmed the signs just to be sure, and now I feel that I am. AND even if for some reason my intuition is wrong, I'd really like to know how he feels. Keeping this a secret is just annoying, lol.
So, it's his birthday on Wednesday and I feel like that would be a nice time to tell him. I don't want to sound all self-important, but if he likes me, wouldn't telling him on his own birthday be super good news? The alternative is to wait until after the birthday party next weekend, just to see if anything happens then. But honestly, he's so shy that it's unlikely that he'll ever admit it/act on it. I personally think it would be better to tell him sooner rather than later because there's so much of that awkward/tense flirtatious behavior going on at the moment. Won't telling him make us more normal around eachother?
I want second opinions. When would be best, and why? :)
I think it is best to tell him after his birthday because even though you feel that he likes you back, you still have your doubts and at a birthday party all the attention will be focused on him so there will not be a lot of opportunities to have a one on one talk with him. Also if that small chance that he doesn't like you happens to win, it means you are now stuck at his birthday party with him able to talk to basically anyone there and you potentially in the corner upset. Plus at birthdays usually things do happen due to stupid birthday games such as spin the bottle, etc. If you've waited this long and you really think he likes you, he won't change his mind in one day. However if you really can't wait and you are 100% sure maybe you can try showing up slightly early and telling him then or leaving later then everyone else so that it is just you and him. Good luck! I hope this helped. x