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Okay so me and my family moved in with my moms boyfriend we now live in the middle of nowheres and i hate, everyone does. all my friiends are 40 minutes away. and my mom works all day im only 14 i have no car or job. and we are in the middle of nowheres. the nearest store would take me like an hour to walk to. i dont know what to do to keep myself occopied. and i dont go to the school here. what do i do, to fix being so miserable and bored. (link)
Two words. Public Transport.

All my friends live far away, and Public Transport has saved my life.

And you can always guilt trip your Mum into being your personal Taxi ;)

"I WOULDN'T BE IN THIS POSITION IF YOU DIDN'T FREAKIN' MAKE ME LIVE HERE, SO DRIVE ME WOMAN!"


does anyone know where i can find a dress with the australian flag printed on it? i've been trying to find one everywhere on the internet, because i live in thailand now. my school is having an international day. does anyone know where i can find one please? (link)
Hi mate, this is coming from an Australian.

What we do a lot here, is when we have events (especially on Australia day) we just wear whatever we like and drape the flag over our shoulders. That's if you want to be "authentic"

http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2007/01/25/flag_wideweb__470x304,0.jpg

http://aussie_news_views.typepad.com/aussie_news_views/images/bdo2.jpg

If you need to get the flag anywhere I'm sure it would be easy to find, just not sure about the cost though.

However if you really want to wear a dress/NEED to wear a dress (and don't want to drape the flag over your shoulders) you can get iron on t-shirt paper, what you do is print the picture onto the paper then iron it onto the dress.

A lot of stores sell it over here, so I'm assuming they would in Thailand. Just look at stores that sell stationary and office supplies.

Not too sure if you'd be allowed to buy online/this site ships to Thailand but there's a TINY bit of information about it.

http://www.inkjetcartridge.com/ironttrpa.html

Hope I helped :)


Hey. I quit my job in August. I never said why I quit, my mom called because she thought that she should talk to her idk why. She told my mom she'd rehire me because I was a good worker, I'd just have to call her when I'm ready. I don't know if I have the guts to call her. I mean what should I say? What if she ask me why I quit or something.?

Any help Thanks.. (link)
I know it's a bit nerveracking, I quit my job about 2 weeks ago and got my mum to call in for me!

However, just remember it's over the phone, and try and focus on your tone and voice staying clear and confident.

Just remember she is okay with rehiring you, so she can't be that mad and appreciates you as a worker.

When you call up, if the person you're looking for answers (which I would assume she will, since managers have to answer the phone) just explain to her you want your job back.

If she does ask why you left, say a bit of an exaggerated lie. Say you were going on a long-ish holiday and didn't want to let the team down or something. She will only want the answer why you left, not a huge recap with heaps of details so don't get worked up over that.

And that's all you really need to say. She'll ask questions, just things like when you want to start work again and small things like that.

Good luck!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qInv1caJUU

is there anyway i can convert this video into a SONG, not a video? so i can put it on my ipod? please help me!!! (link)
If the one below doesn't work there is always

http://vixy.net

Choose MP3 (Audie only)

However not sure about zamzar, but vixy isn't very loud, it comes out quiet for a strange reason.


ok so i am doing this paper on racism in cartoons before 1955 and i am looking for pictures... actually a specific picture.
since this is such a wide topic i chose tom & jerry as my main cartoon and i remember as a kid when they use to put reruns there was this episode where jerry (or tom!) had a dynamite stick that blew up and made his face burn and the artist referenced "black people" by making the lips bigger and "swollen" and added ribbons all over jerry (or tom's) head....

there was also a merry melodies cartoon that had a girl with a fruit basket over her head and another with the ribbons and both with the swollen lips...

can anyone help me pleaseeeeeeeee to find these picture i tried google but i am not that good a searching! :S:S:S:S thank you so much in advance! (link)
Hiya.

Sorry this isn't a picture of it either, however I have another reference for you. Remember the owner of Tom? How you always saw her legs but that's all? I remember her being black, I haven't watched it for years and I can't remember if she did anything bad or what would be considered racist to black people, however there must have been a reason for it.

As for the photo, try to google a paper someone would have done on the same thing, I'm sure you've already tried google but try googling different things. Also I would give photobucket and tinypic a search.

Hope all goes well xx.


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i have bags under my eyes. i use coverup, and you still can kinda see it. i get atleast 9 hours of sleep. how can i make them go away? (link)
It could be your diet, I would check that you're eating properly.

Also, you said "at least" which means you oversleep? Oversleeping can give you the same effects as not enough sleep.

If there is natural way of getting rid of them, try concealer. Concealer is more for those sort of imperfections than cover-up.


i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years i recently asked him how many girls he has been with since we were together he said one he asked and i said none i didnt know he was talking about when we were broke up so i told him yeaterday i have been with one other man but him but we were broke up at the time and he said that he was with one other women when we were broke up bt now he is furious with me and said i lied to him i told him i didnt lie to him he asked while we were together not broke p but now he refuses to talk to me what did i do that was so wrong should i have just not told him ??? (link)
He's just being stupid, just let it pass over until he calms down.

Then you HAVE to explain to him he's being a hypocrite, since he said he hasn't been with anyone but admitted he was with another girl. Mention you could have been just as pissed but you weren't because IT DOESN'T MATTER.

good luck!


ok theres a boy that i like and i pritty sure he likes me and i want to ask him out but im to shy and scared to so i asked my friend to ask him the next time she see's him is that rong should i ask him myself im confused...... (link)
Haha, I think in this modern day and age it's not as bad to get a friend to ask a guy out for you, so there isn't much of a problem of that.

He might be a bit taken aback, and take it as a joke or something, just a warning, however don't get too stressed about that.

If you're really shy, you can ask him out online if you'd like. It may not be face to face but it's a step up from your friend doing it for you. Hey, if worse comes to worse you can always fall back on "I got hacked" "That was my little sister" etc.


okay me and my bf have more in common than different
but one of the big differences is he actually likes to talk about problems and i don't i hate talking things out. when ever we have a fight i get scared not that hes going to dump me but the fact thats hes going to want to talk about it so should change myself for that because i dont want to lose him (link)
I think you shouldn't change yourself, but stay open minded.

Maybe meet each other half way, if you feel comfortable talk about small problems with him. However if you don't feel comfortable with it clearly don't do it.

I guess there is one problem you can talk about with him, this. I don't think he'll mind if you don't feel comfortable with it so don't worry.

So yeah, just don't change yourself completely because that will end up in tears from both parties.

Hope I helped xx.


Which is it??
Short hair makes you look thinner, or, long hair makes you look thinner?
i remember hearing one of these, but i dont remember which it is. i'm planning on cutting my hair very short, and i'd like to know before i do. (link)
I would say long hair would make someone look thinner, the short hair would show more face, which could make someone look a lot more chubbier than they really are.

However it would depend on each person's facial features and I doubt it makes much of a difference anyway.


I want to get my belly done for my birthday which is in april.But the thing is i do circus 4 days a week and i don't want to damage the piecing by doing something at circus.Wat could i do to stop it getting hurt or damaged?
Thanx (link)
Hmm, not entirely sure what you do at the circus but in most ways where a piercing can get damaged the best way to stop that is by placing a bandaid over it.

Hope I helped xx.


ok we started going out the day befor chrisstmad break and we need to get together to kiss and she wants to french kiss but i don't want to do that yet and i don't want to hurt her feelings and make her break up with me so now idk what to do i neeeddd heeelllpppp!!!!!!! (link)
Relax, it's okay.

Just explain to her the situation, and the awkwardness and it has nothing to do with her but you're just not ready to french kiss yet. However explain to her you're still comfortable with hugging, a kiss on the cheek or maybe even a peck on the lips if you're comfortable with that.

Therefore she'll realise it's nothing to do with her and she shouldn't mind too much.


Ok well i had my period for december already but i started getting again now and i dont know why cause i had it at the beginning of december like it ended i think december 7th or something so does your period run by months or days? (link)
It runs on a 28 day cycle usually, however I'm going to assume it was the first or second time you've gotten it.

There is no need to worry, when you first get your period it runs on an irregular cycle, it's very normal. It's actually rare if it's regular the first time you get it.

So don't worry, it's just being irregular and there is nothing wrong with you!


My little sister wants a free download of the candy land adventure game, ive tried and it says my computer is not available for this service or something like that. I have vista, so im thinking thats the problem, does anyone know anyplace where i can download it for free thats compatible with vista? (link)
Sorry this doesn't answer your question but this may help in your hunt:

Having Vista may be part of the problem, but another part could be where you live. Some services are only offered to some people who live within that country. Your IP address would show you live outside that country and that could be why you couldn't download it.

I know it doesn't answer your question, but it may be information you need to know.

Merry Christmas. xx.


(Sorry if its in the wrong category!)
If I don't sleep with the tv on, I have nightmares!! Once I turned it off for 10 minutes, and in those 10 minutes I had a little nightmare! My mom says the tv light hurts my eyes, but I can't help it! Do you know anything about this? (link)
Have you tried anything else before bed? Maybe reading a book or something.

Music is another alternative too, it may not be the pictures and sounds but just the sounds keeping you preoccupied from something else, and if you put on a cd player it shouldn't hurt your ears or anything :)


There's this guy, Chris, who I've known for a hwile and we've become close. He's eighteen, I'm fifteen. We talk online a good amount, about pretty serious stuff sometimes. He went away to college this year, and I want to meet up with him when he comes back for a while(he comes back semi regularly, because he goes to college sort of near by and his class schedule allows him to). (He does too, we've talked about it.) But, we've never hung out one on one before out of camp(where we met). So, what could I do to make it not so awkward?

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Firstly, just bring along some friends! I've always noticed more friends=less awkwardness. Tell him to bring some along too, and go to the mall. Talk to him face to face there, and hopefully the awkwardness will melt so next time you meet up you can go alone without feeling awkward.


hi, i'm a 15 year old 5'4 135lbs female.
i'm not too much over weight, but i have big hips and cottage cheese thighs and a stomach. i also have big lovehandles and even more fat folds but i'm not that fat i dont know whats wrong, i know my body type runs in the family on my mothers side for all women, but i cant figure out how to make it go away. i really want to start going to a gym, but i'm too young to have a membership of my own at my mothers gym, (or even a guest pass). this really makes me mad, and i want to go to somewhere like 24 hour fitness, or total fitness. my best friend is much bigger than i am, but shes also taller and weighs more, but she has a membership to 24hour fitness with her mom. i had a thought that if i can get a guess pass or member ship at her gym and go with her all the time maybe i could work all my fat and chubbyness off. i'm really not fat i just always feel gross and like i need to workout. i know that i get mad and angry alot and i do eat alot, but i always want to hurtsomeone or something, or break someone or something, i usually controll my agression and anger by working out or listening to music.

can anyone give me advice on what to do? should i ask my friends gym if i can join and go with her, or what should i do? how can i get rid of all my chubbyness? i really want feedback asap, because i dont like my body eventhough everyone always complements me on how nice i look...(usually they are looking at my butt or my breasts)


thanks a bunch!
Maya (link)
Hey,

Well, I think asking your friend's gym if you can gain membership at your age is the best way to go. Working out together would make it easier for you to keep motivated and not give up.

However, if there is the small chance they say no do work outs outside a gym until you are old enough to join, they can work just as well. Maybe do 15 minutes of walking/running up and down steps a day and increase your time. Go for bike rides. These are cardio exercises and they are some of the best ways to lose weight.

Hope I helped a bit.


When will that The Veronicas Hook me Up CD be released in Canada?
Thanks
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Well it was released in Australia 3rd of November and I think it's already out in Canada

http://www.smokecds.com/cd/42718

That must be a Canadian website, as I went onto the Canadian google and clicked "pages from Canada" and that came up.

If for some reason that's not it, it'll be due out REALLY soon.




i got highlights a long tme ago and i miss my normal color. i dont wanna rehighlight it or dye it! but now it starts down my head. is there any way i can just get my highlights out like a shampoo or anything? nnothing to make it frizzy! thanks. (link)
I'm sorry I can't give you a name, but in my chemist I saw a shampoo which washes out all dye.

So it is out there if you're looking for it, except I can't say how well it works, or if there's a certain amount of time it needs to be used in.


that i used to like like serioulsy 2 years ago, and i am 16 now. and i just cant seem to let go of those feelings....can you please tell me how i should let go? because i tried everything i could think of. (link)
Wow, that's pretty odd.

I think maybe now they're not true feelings, but the 'what if' sort of questions running through your brain.

And to get over him, well, this may seem really obvious but find a new person to either date or crush on.




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