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Hey! My name is Molly and I live in CALIFORNIA. Though I have only been on this Earth for 15 years, I have experiecned a lot. Here's a little about me:
I love to give and get advice. I also love dancing, shopping, boys, animals, friends, family, and a whole lot more!
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ok im like seriously self conscious about myself....like im about 5'4" and im 155lbs.. and i hae it.. but every sys that i look good adn stuff but i dont feel like i look good at all.... heres a picture of me.... http://www.myspace.com/ann1990marie adn im not doing this to promote my myspace either... u owuld have to go to my pics and look in there and im the one in the green dress but i dont normally look like that cuz i accually have curly hair thats down to my mid back... just that pic was taken in november... so i just wanted to kno what some people thought...

I think that you are absolutely gorgeous. AND YOU NEED TO STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!!!!!!!!!! That is a major self-esteem lowerer. If you think positive and nice things about yourself, you will be a more beautiful and confident person on the inside. People like when you have confidence in yourself. Heres a trick to get you in the mood for loving yourself. Write down 10 good things about yourself 2 bad things. Then, try and fix those 2 bad things you have. And compliment the 10 good things. Hope that'll work. But really, you are stunning!!!

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i really want to lose some of my stomach my summer. im not fat, its just i have a little extra under my belly button and the botom of my sides, toward the back. situps arent seeming to do anything, and its soo anooying. what excercises can make it go away maybe by summer?
thanks xo

Youre right. Situps wont do anything. CRUNCHES is what really works. Crunches are when you go to do a sit up, but dont go all the way to your knees. Do these until your abs ache cuz then you know its working. Turn over on your tummy and strecth out your abs. Also you can do lots of walking and cardio. Walking and cardio really work to get rid of excess fat. And water. Lots of water!!!! It flushes out unneeded fat from the bod.

here are some sites//

http://www.seventeen.com/health/train/spc/0,,625882_678516,00.html

http://www.seventeen.com/health/train/spc/0,,625882_679688,00.html

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i have a really bad sore throat. it hurts a lot & when i swallow i can't stand it. my voice isn't gone, but its croaky sort've. when i breathe in er make my neck move a certain way, i get this really bad chest pain, sort've by my bra line in the center of my chest. i have asthma & that stinging feeling you get when you have it, it's almost like that but a bit different. i know it isn't asthma, but i'm not quite sure what it is. any ideas??

thanks!!

I have the exact same thing! I just went to the Dr. and he said it was strep throat. I got an antibiotic called amoxacillin. It works, and quick. I got over it in about a day.. Hit the doctor's then see what they say.

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Do sit ups help get rid of love handles? If it doesnt what are some good exercises? I dont have huge love handles or anything just small ones that I want to get rid of for my swim suit. thanks!!I rate 5's

Ok, sit ups are not good at all. They wont do anything except put agony on your back and neck. CRUNCHES is what will do the trick for your abs. Crunches are when you dont go up all the way to your knees. To get rid of love handles you can eat healthily, excercise (as in TONS of cardio), and running. Running is the best thing to get rid of those 'handles'. OH and water. Water helps get rid of excess body fat and "flushes" it out of your system. So get water and lots of it!! Hope this helps

~TurrrrrrtleMolly

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do one peice bathing suits make over weight people look bigger or smaller?

Well, Im not exactly sure. But it depends on your outlook. I think that the tankinis look absolutely fabulous on um "fluffy" people.

Here are some sites that give pics of SO CUTE bathing suits (in plus sizes)

http://www.torrid.com/community/swim.asp?LS=0&

http://www.swimsuitsforall.com/Shop-sub-55.html

Hope these helped!

~TurrrrrtleMolly

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I got a v3 razor and it's T-mobile I want to use it in Cingular but I have to get it unlocked.. Does anyone know how to unlock it? I'll rate high!


Hi. I have a Verizon Phone. I unlock mine by typing in my last 4 numbers of my phone number (800-1234). When you try to get into your phone, it should say "Type in code" or something along those lines. I dont know if it will work because mine is Verizon... Try it anywayz it might work!

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I need some ideas of love songs. like really romantic soppy stuff. Im making a video for my bf. ive got a few so far..

boys 2 men - i swear
celine dion - i want you to need me

but i need a few more ideas can any one help please? nothing rocky thanks :)

I RATE!

Hi. I absolutely lovvve these songs and I think of my love when I hear them...

When I think about Cheatin'- Gretchen Wilson

Photograph- Nickelback (I dont know if thats classified as a love song and its kinda rock-ish)

Thats all that i can think of right now but when i think of more ill let you know!

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I'm 14 and I feel really bad because I don't have any friends. Girls just seem to not really give a damn about me. I'm so lonely and depressed right now. I haven't had any friends since I was in the 5th grade. I haven't had a person my age at my house for a long time. I don't know why, either. I try to make friends. I rarely badmouth people and I try to be friendly and pleasant to talk to. Why doesn't anyone like me?! I've tried everything; nothing seems to work. Pleaaaase don't say "join a club and meet people who share your interests blah blah blah" because I've tried that millions of times, and I try to be friendly, but nobody really seems to want to talk to me.

I've also tried asking people I know over to hang out. They almost always say they're busy, or if they're not, they either spend the whole time checking their watch, or we have a great day and the person acts like nothing happened the next day.

I feel awful. Can anyone help me?

Friendless,

Maybe you are too desperate. Have you heard the phrase "Love comes when you arent looking"? Well, its the same with friends. Just lean back and have fun. Maybe when you are in school or at a function of some sort, just be yourself. Lets say you want to befriend the person sitting next to you in class. Just say something that you two have in common. Like the book you guys are reading. Say "omg I looove this book." or "this book really sux." But, dont come off as negative. You know, just bring up some stuff to talk about, then poof. You have a friend. I dont know about "poof". It might take awhile to be "Buddies" with someone. Anywayz,,, hope this helped.

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ok sorry this might be long ill rate all 5's for your time.

i like this guy and he said he likes me back but he doesnt trust girls cause he's been hurt in the past. My one friend who is friends with him too talked to him about it and tried to get it threw his head that i wouldnt hurt him like that and i've tried also. i just dont know what to do anymore i like him so0o0o0o much and ill wait for him. but i dont know sometimes i think im wasting my time cause he'll never date me.

any advice on what to do?
thanks !

Time is the key. Just hang out with him as much as you can but dont bring up the subject dating. Make him feel comfortable with you first, then you can go on to the bigger stuff. If you really like him, and he really likes you, then both of you will wait for eachother. Maybe another reason he is not "falling" completely for you is he might be eyeing another girl. Or, just not ready for girls at all. But, if not, spend as much time with him to make him feel like you would never hurt a fly, or hurt him. Good Luck Chica!

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Can you be forgiven for being gay? Is it really a sin? What if you just want to try it and see what happens are you going to be penalized for that? Can someone help me asap.. these questions are for a friend who really needs it

I think that being homosexual is definitly not a bad thing. (I am not homosexual, though lol) I for one am not really that religious, so these things dont bother me. But, I dont know about you. I think you should just do whatever feels right to you (and your partner). Homosexuality is part of who you are, and you cant help that. Hope this helps ...

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okay you know how you get your period every 28 days?? do you start counting from the day you get it, er the day you end??

i gotten my period the first of march & it lasted till around the 5th er 6th. i didn't get it yet soo should i expect it around the same time??

thanks!!

Yes you start counting to next time from the day it starts. Beware, though, that it sarts 26-28 days. So if you get it a day or two early, dont be worried. Its good to count on a calendar or write the days down to keep track and prepare for it. Pms starts the week before for me.

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i fancy this guy and we always flirt and things but he wont go out with me coz of my hair and im dieing it wot shall i do plz help me !!!!!!!!!! thnx love ????

Ok, what color is your hair? And, why wont he go out with you because of your hair? I dont know about you, but wouldnt you like to be with a guy who likes you the way you are? I think you should talk to him about loving your hair just the way it is. And if he doesnt want to work with you, then consider seeing someone else. Hope everything works out smoothly. ♥TurrrrrrtleMolly

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Hey,
I have fair skin and im looking for a bathing suite. Im wondering which color suit will look best and not make me look even more pale or make my skin stand out even more. Like black does that make my skin look even lighter? I will get alittle darker this summer but still pretty light. So i need to know which colors would b best. Thank you!
-marsbars

Light skin is in this summer. Be proud of the fair skin. I have fair skin like you. I think that greens, blues, silvers and metalics go great with light skin. Also, go for flower prints or vertical stripes. And, dont go for so much as a string bikini. Go for a little thicker and less revealing. BYE!

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Hello,

I'm just wondering what is the normal weight for a 4'9 age 13 girl? I'm 80 pounds, so is that average...?

You are perfect. (Maybe a little under) But, sometimes thats a good thing. Keep up the good work! How do you do that btw? lol.

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im 23 & my g/f is 20.her bestfriend hates me,what am i gonna do?

If you and your gf love eachother, nothing should get in your way. Maybe you can tell your gf's bestfriend that you and your gf are gonna be together for a long time and she is just gonna have to like you. You can talk to the bff and say maybe we can try to get along. Hope this helps.

TurrrrrrtleMolly

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My friend is always complaining about her figure and looks and it annoys me because she is one of those girls who have perfect looks skin and figure. I am overweight, not the best looking girl with bad skin and am seriosuly over my age height. I want to make her feel good about herself but she never does and everytime she starts it makes me feel bad about myself. I want her to feel better but when I reassure her she doesnt believe me. I know its wrong but I am scared I will end up like her. I used to like myself but now I have started feeling really depressed about it. Any advice on shutting her up and getting myself back how I was before? I hate the NEW me

Well, you may not like this, but if a friend is making you feel this way you shouldnt have to be her friend. She has negetive energy, and you dont deserve to be around that. You need a healthy and happy atmosphere. And, you have tried to make her feel better, but theres just no possible way to do that. She is what she is and you dont have to be around it if you dont want to. She is probably stuck up anyway... hope that helps.

~TurrrrrrtleMolly

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I am going to a wedding at 11am this Saturday. I am worried the outfit I picked out is more for an evening wedding. Can I get some opinions?

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B000CEEPMS.16._SCLZZZZZZZ_SS384_.jpg

I am wearing this top with cream dress slacks and black heals. The cream 'belt' ties in a bow in the back.

Is this appropriate attire for a morning wedding?

I agree with below advice. What I would do is take that top and get a skirt that is lower than knee highth. Morning is not-so-formal but formal enough... kinda like "medium" formal. Nights are really formal. Thats a cute top btw!

~TurrrrrrtleMolly

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help there is this dance on saturday that im going to with this guy but im gnna make a fool of myself cause i cnt grind:( cal someone help plz ill rate 5

OMG. I know exactly what youre going through. Yeah there are many ways to do it and the advice that Stephanie gave is like the most "intense" way of grinding. You dont want to do that if you are a beginner. The less intense way is you can kinda just bend your knees and shake it. Sometimes put your hands on your neck and upper body. And, also you dont have to grind. You can do "the sprinkler" or "the worm" or something. Just do what your friends are doing... lol.

TurrrrrrtleMolly

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Do belly (navel) rings look bad on overweight people? I want to get a belly ring but I am overweight so I am not sure how good it will look. What do you think? Thanks

HEY! Well my (overwieght) friend got a belly botton ring and it looks ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS! I think that belly rings look espessially good on um you know overwieght girls. You should just go for it! And it might not hurt as bad when you get one cuz of all the fluff... lol.

TurrrrrrtleMolly

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how do i get bigger love handles?

Do you even know what lovehandles are?

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