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Location: I Live in Vegas but from Honolulu Hawaii but born in Santa Maria California
Member Since: June 3, 2004
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Last Update: November 11, 2005
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Hey everybody!
I asked this question before and I really got some good answers, and some had me thinkin. So i am going to be more specific.

I am a 14yr old boy who likes girls (typical). But just over the summer i knew i was bi. right now in october i still like other
boys and i have a crush on one too! however i still like girls as in
emotionally and socially, but i like boys for all 3 emotional, social, and sexually. i would still go with a girl, but i prefer a boy because it's something diffrent. i think i know i'm gay but i still need to know if i should just be completly gay and forget girls!?! (link)
i can't really tell you what to do follow your heart


Ok well i have absolutley NO Pimples or blemishes or ne thing, but the thing isn't that its black heads... I mean They are on my cheeks, not even on my nose or any of the normal places black heads would be, what do I so how to i get rid of them, i mean they are HUGE black marks, and im white by the way, and it sorta looks like acne, even tho its not at all, my skin it smooth if u touch in nothing on the surface, i mean whats up? (link)
i think you should see a dermatologist if there Huge..?


Ok, I'm a 16 year old girl and I've got this really great friend who happens to be a guy. We've been friends for a really long time and he lives right next door to me. Since the Homecoming dance was coming up, I asked him to the dance without thinking. (he's the only guy friend who I know that I'd have a good time with and we've gone to the past couple years' dances together so it seemed only natural that we'd go together again) He agreed to go with me so I thought that everything was ok... so we went and had a great time as always. Nothing interesting happened (we are JUST friends afterall) Later, I found out that he was planning to ask his secret crush out to the dance and now I feel really bad because I hadn't considered this when asking him to the dance. I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW HE HAD A SECRET CRUSH! Now he refuses to talk to me and won't even let me have half of the pictures from the dance. What do you suggest that I do? I can't take back going to the dance because it's already happened and now his crush hates me!
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talk to his Crush and tell her you guys are Neighbors and that you didn't even know about her and just tell her stright out your sorry and that it was like a tradition and talk to him about it and tell him how sorry you are!


hi.my names jaylene and i my parents recently just got divoreced and ever since that ive been getting into drugs and cutting myself and my parents(mom mostly) abuse me and call me stuff like a whore all the time. my brother hurts me and does the same as my parents. everyone i no thinks im so happy and i just want to let it all out and tell all of them that im not! and i want to get out of my life and start a new one but thats not goin to happen...theres one good part i love my boyfriend weve been goiing out for 6 months and hes the only one that keeps me going everyday or else who knows whered id be but yeah i dont no wut to do about drugs and abuse and my parents so please HELP me!!! ps i love shawn!! (link)
aww thats cute well you can't base your life only on your boyfriend you must depend your life on you if your not good enuff with out the boyfriend what makes you think your good enuff with him? All boy Friends aren't for ever. i think you should tell child abuse about your parents and your bother or see your school advisor.. i think you should see someone about it befor it gets worst and if you have time search on the net to watch tis video its called Concrete Angel by Martina Mcbride i listen to everything so don't diss on me cuz its country!x0x0 Kay


Ya I have this situation with this girl. Like we hung out a couple times and it was an awesome time. Like we both cuddled with each other made each other laugh and kissed. Then the last time we hung out which was 2wks ago, like i kept in touch with her always asking her to c if she wanted to do something and she says ya but when it comes down to it, she always has something else to do. This just didnt happen once but a couple of times during the 2wks. I know she doesnt mean to cuz she is always apologizing saying she is srry that she couldnt hang out and when im always online, she will always i-m first just sayin hey. Like i know she wants to c me more and she knows i have feelings for her and that i like her but i wanted to know what u guys think about this situation.. Hope u can give me some advice for this... Also she like rlly never calls me. Like i feel im always the one to call her and i hate that. Im sure some of u guys know what im talking about. lol but if u anyone has advice to give i would like to know what u think. thx -TiM- (link)
she probally likes you or just likes you as a really good friend or is just stright out playing you or playing hard to get.. but you know it sounds like me with my ex jeff and i love that kid and always will but maybe she's just really busy like me im always on the run running late on time don't even show up you know you can't have time for it all and some things just have to come first talk to her about it and see whats up! Good Luck x0x0 Kay


will you go out with me?


love most valuable player (link)
Let me get to know you better then Maybe x0x0 Kay



Hey, Well there is this guy I USED to like..(Well..I actually still do) but I found out from my best friend who is friends' with the guy I like said that he was talkin' crap about me ... Well I got some1 thats spose to beat him up but he actually beat up 1 of his friends..Well I got news from this 1 guy that talked to they guy I like and he told me that (the boi i like said this)... "Did crystal* say that she was gonna get a gun and shoot me? Well tell her this, Tell her I said that I will get a gun , load it for her then give it to her and see what she'll do with it.." I never said anything bout a gun or shooting anybody!Can you plz help me!
Another thing, I'm really confused alot of my friends says that he likes me .. .but I dunno now I'm not so sure.. I found out he was talking bout me 2 weeks after school started... and well I dont talk to him that much... Alot of times he wanted to talk to me but I chickened out -n- went home... Can u plz help me?
This really scares me! (link)
Call him and strighten everything up or write him a not cuz if he reports u saying u wanna shoot him you'll get in a lotta trouble so be careful!! and another thing friends will be friends and not always know the truth.. Talk to him!!x0x0 Kay


OoK well there's this guy who I keep seeing in the math hallway -n- well everytime we pass each other we always lo0k at each other.WHat does that mean? I haven't really learned his name but I'm dying to ask..Homecoming is coming up..??What should I do?..
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well just go up to him and introduce yourself and do it asap cuz u know you might not have enuff time to get to know him b4 you ask him to homecomming so introduce yourself then get to know him a lil then ask him if your for sure you wanna go with him!! x0x0 Good Luck ~Kay


A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.

I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings? (link)
just tell her i think we should hit the gym were both packing on sum flubber and go to the gym togeather!! x0x0 Kay


how do i tell a friend that i think im to old to hang out wit them in the nicest possibleway??? plese help! (link)
tell them that your maturing faster and you think they should find friends there age and interested in the same stuff!! x0x0 Kay


Just so everyone knows, putting this in the subject of your question not only does not affect our decision to delete it, but it only serves to point out to us that you have already asked the same question before and it was deleted.

Asking the same exact question two or three times, only putting "MODERATORS, DON'T DELETE THIS QUESTION", does nothing but serve to annoy us more. (link)
umm okay!! x0x0 Kay


is it better to wear tampons during your period if your a cheerleader or pads??? plz help! (link)
yes if your a cheerleader wear a tampond not a pad!! lol x0x0 Kay


All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!

Sorry about the long question...I rate! (link)
Don't tell her that world be really rude and screwed up!! just don't say n e thing he will say somthing when he's ready..x0x0 Kay


does anyone know how to get bad scratches out of playstaytion 2 games thanks (link)
Cogate!!


Hey Girl What Kind Of Tannin stuff do ya use? Ive tryed everythin but nothing seems ta work! (link)
haha i use hawaiian tannin oil not fake stuff and lay out side 4 like eva and bring a phone and talk to someone!!x0x0 Kay


This is 4 all the girls out there (but I guess guys could help too)! How do or did u get over ur boyfriend who just broke up w/ u? (Or if u are a boy, how do u get over ur girlfriend?) Well, it's totally draggin me down, but maybe sum ideas will help? (link)
go out and start lookig wow i can't really help you on that cuz im like that too!! but we didn't exactly go out.. wow x0x0 Kaya


howd u get music on u column (link)
umm you im me on aim or just tell me the song and i'll give you the code to put in!! give me 3 options cuz some songs don't work!! x0x0 Roxy


ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do?? (link)
get a home test called EPT its litterally the error proof test it says on commercials get tested and if it says positive go to the doctors and see cuz theres is more accurate and you can get an abortion befor it even forms b/c its not even bigger then your thumb right now..x0x0 Roxy and your friend has no say in it so she should shut up and you should keep it to yourself if you are just you and your parents.. x0x0 Roxy


ummm have u ever had sex, i jus did for the first time and it was great, but all i think about is sex all the time so can u help me?? (link)
HaHaHa Yea Sex is like a drug you can get hooked on the 1st time and addicted all i have to say is make sure you use protection if you do it again cuz it sounds like you addicted!! x0x0 Roxy and have i ever had sex.. can't answer that!! sorry


i didnt know what category to pick , but i had got braces 3 days ago , and my teeth hurt so bad , i called my doctor and he wont b in t'll monday . can neone help me with some tips to releive the pain . it would b a big help . thankk you soo much!! i'll rate u a 5 , nethng will help riyte now (link)
Hahaha i have braces wow i remember thoes days like it was only a month ago haha cuz it was hehe well ibuprofin Alieve just pain killers will do hehe x0x0 Roxy




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