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18/m
I apologize if this is in the wrong section.
First and foremost, I know smoking is bad for you. I am here for my question(s) not a lecture on my health. I have learned about smoking and tobacco products in school and from other people. It is my choice after all. Thanks!
I am not a very experienced smoker at all and I only have had a few cigs here and there. I don't even smoke a pack a month, which I'm proud of. I haven't ever had nicotine cravings or anything of that sort.
But I do want to learn about smoking cigars and what kinds are good for people just getting into that stuff. Any information will be helpful! Maybe any websites to visit?
What are good cigars for beginners? Best cigars out there?
What to expect when I go into a tobacco shop or Cigar shop?
Thanks! (link)
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I can't answer you're question sorry (I'm only 13) but I wanted to say that its super cool that you can smoke with moderation and I admire that. Good job, stay awesome.
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Okay I'm 18 and about 10 days ago me and my boyfriend of 2 years had sex and we normally only have it every once in a while. Every time we used a condom and have no contact before hand that would lead to pregnancy that way and none of the condoms broke. But ever since then my breasts have been really sore and at first I thought it was just bruising but now i've started to freak myself out over the fact that it could be an early sign of pregnancy. I have no idea why they would hurt in the first place unless it is the week before i'm supposed to get my period and well as far as I know it isn't. I had my last period end a couple days before we had sex. We are both extremely scared and to be honest this is why I usually say no to having sex. Can someone give me any advice if this has ever happened to you or if you know anything? (link)
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I recommend buying one of those pregnancy test things from the pharmacy or contact your doctor. It probably isn't pregnancy, but you want to be on the safe side. Good luck! Hope you aren't pregnant for your sake
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Well, my best friend in the entire world is a guy. He is my everything. Yes, we've dated multiple time on and off for a while but we haven't dated for 7 months and we decided just to be friends. Well, he is a gentleman. He makes me laugh, he is so nice. He sits with me o my bus like i"m the only person her ever sits with and he is plainly awesome. He was my first kiss and it's really hard just to forget about that person. Anyways, his parents are very rude towards me and he dispises his parents for being so mean to me but my parents don't like his parents and his parents don't get along with my parents so I don't want to date him but we can only really hangout on the bus and he lives right next to me. Like 100 feet away from my house. Any ideas I could see him without getting in trouble? (link)
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Here's my (pretty lame) idea. Ask your parents if you can invite him and his parents over for lunch/afternoon tea/ dinner and say it is important to you. When they come over (make sure your friend makes them come) talk to them. Say that you feel like your families need to bond more because I) you are neighbors and II) You and *male friend * and best friends. Just let them know that it is really hurting the both of you that there is so much hatred. Hope it works, sorry if it didn't help.
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also is this feeling weird.
my mother is currently in jail until February for a financial crime and I am her 14 year old daughter. My dad said to find and write her a card to send her there since her birthday will be coming up. I have no problem doing this but some would say it is a bad thing since I would be supporting a criminal. Personally since her crime wasn't against me I think it is OK to support her in some ways like potentially sending her some books or something. If I do decide to send a card what should I write in it (I am horrible at thinking up more than one line to write) and was thinking of getting one of those jail themed related cards on the internet but then it might seem I am making fun of her, though I know she won't mind being teased like that
also, is this weird, I have talked to my on the phone while she is there and for some reason I feel more comfortable being open with her about anything now then when she was actually here. Any reason why I would feel that way now? (link)
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Your mum sounds like a cool lady with a colourful past to me. Send her a card! Maybe not a jail themed one, but in the card don't get too serious. Say some funny stuff, but remember to say you love her! That will be important to her. Maybe even make a cool card. That would mean a lot to her- knowing you put the effort in. Good luck! PS your mum sounds so cool, can we trade?? ;)
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I am a 14 year old girl and people treat me like I have dyslexic hearing or my ears and my brain are messed up. I've felt this way ever since I was 7. Like today, I came in my classroom and one of the guys said, "shut up, it's her." EVERYONE treats me like this but nobody will tell me what's wrong with me and I'm tired of feeling this way.. People always stare at me, they sometimes kick and punch me. I hate it. I talk to my family but they just tell me to ignore it which is kind of hard to do when these kind of things happen to me EVERYDAY! I'm tired of it. I do have some some friends but they just tell me, they dont think anything is wrong with me. Please, help is much appreciated. (link)
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I really, really don't want to sound rude, and I am probably wrong. But from what you have said, its sounds like you might have some kind of disorder or disability. Try to think about what makes you different from everyone else, is it your school marks? How you dress? How you look? Are you extremely shy? Things like that. The things that make us special and unique are unfortunately used by bullies to make us feel like these things are bad. If you can find what it is about you that makes you different and special, you will find the source of it all. Then, find help to make it less obvious to the world. E.G I used to get teased for wearing glasses so I wear contacts. Don't get me wrong, everyone one is special or different in ways, but if you are bullied because of it you might want to try and stop the bullies. Hope this helped and good luck
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I am 13 male and i am 1.67mt or 5.5ft and i weigh 60kg or 132lbs. I eat a lot of everything but i am pretty skinny, i would like to make chest muscle and abs, but at the same time not get skinny, cause i dont like to be skinny. So is there any advice i can have here to make me buff up?? (link)
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Look, there are two kinds of exercise: exercise that loses fat, and exercise that tones muscle. Look up some abdominal exercises and bicep exercises. :) hope I helped
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So I've been "talking" to this guys for nearly a month now. He is the closest thing that I've had to a kinda sorta relationship. I am a 18 year old female in college. I've never dated, nor do I necessarily want to. Nearly a week ago he was over my dorm touching me, squeezing my ass, and we made out for a while. Then he started to left up my shirt and I said "WOAH" and he stopped. then for like the next hour he was playing the smack my ass game. Though a couple days later I asked him "are we like talking now? ". He tells me he's not looking for a girl friend, and ever since then he's been really awkward. I don't know what expression he got from me thinking that I WANTED HIM FOR A BOYFRIEND, but I digress. Basically how do I tell him I don't want to be his girlfriend but I would like to DO STUFF haha with him? (link)
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You've got nothing to lose, so straight up say to him: "Wanna be f*** buddies or not?"
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( Im 16 year old female. I feel like i hurt my mother. If shes disappointed in me and you want to say she'll always love me but i dont care. I dont want love. I feel selfish wanting love from someone who i hurt. I didnt even hurt her, she saw something that wasnt related to her at all and she went through it. Why did she stop is a question i cant bring myself to think about. I get sick to my stomach. I could pass out from the pain ) I want to die. Im sad. Im scared. Im worthless. I have nothing to do. Nothing to give. I cause other people pain just by existing an i dont want to do that. I dont want to hurt people. I stopped doing everythig. Its hard to just get myself to sower. Whats the point. Some of the reason why i honestly didnt cause. I feel like a whole other part is the result of my own doings. Something so small and an invasion of privacy led to my whole life crashing down in seconds. What is left. I dont feel bad for me. I cant. I hate myself too much. This isnt something i can just learn from and move on. Its somethig that was invaded of my personal life, and i hate hurting others. Why was seen hurt somebody. It was never ment to be seen. I cant live with myself. I hate this. I dont deserve to waste more time and space of those around me. This is my punishment i guess. This is my pain inflicted upon me. This is whats happening, it is what it is. I cant change it. Maybe I dont deserve to be able to. I feel like this will never end. I cant die but i want to. somebody please, have mercy on me. (link)
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It breaks my heart to read this. You are amazing, sure I may not know you, but everyone is perfect and has a gift to give the world. Love yourself. You may want to die, but if you kill yourself, you'll kill everyone around you.
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I love my boyfriend vry much,and wants to marry him. we r dating each othr for 2yrs. but i lied to him about my past that i don't had any relationshp in past. actually i had a relatn when i jst 13/14 years old. my x bf was very rude and tortured me a lot mentally and physically ..and aslo sexually. so i ended the relation.after few yrs i met in online with my present boyfriend.and started love him. when he proposed me i said yes to him. but i can't tell him about my past and i also tell him that i am a virgin.i was afraid to lose him bcz he is very orthodox.so i can't tell about my dark past.now he knows everything from a person.and asked me and i told him everything about my life. now he can't trust me,he call me a sl*t,, and he said that
i deceived him and used him.he now wants to break the relationship or IF I WANTED TO BE WITH HIM THEN I HAVE TO DO WHATEVER HE WILL SAY. AND ALSO LEAVE MY STUDY AND MARRY HIM AND BE A GOOD HOUSE WIFE.AND he tell me that this my exam. if i passed then he love me again .but i can't leave my study at this time. so he don't talk with me .I really love him a lot.i can't live without him.what can i do??? plz suggest me .. (link)
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Tell him this: he is being unfair to you as a woman- you deserve to live your own life! If you want to do your study then tell him. You do not want to waste your life being a stay at home wife. This is the 21st century. You are sorry you lied to him, because this dating thing happened when you were very young and silly. It was a mistake and you are sorry it happened. You want to work, and have a career because being a stay at home wife doesn't interest you. You love him very much, but you want him to accept and love you back so that in the relationship you are equals. You love him, but if he won't accept you then you're not sure it will work. Really hope I helped and good luck :-)
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I know this is a weird question, but I'm going to try.
How do you tell the difference between just acting like another gender and actually wanting to BE another gender? I'm a bit confused with my gender myself and am hoping to know how to tell the difference.
Thank you! (link)
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Well OK. When you think about yourself, do you feel like a stereotypical girl, or stereotypical boy? Like... (I know not all girls are like this, but bear with me) Do you ever feel the urge to go try on a dress, or put on make up? When you are around your girl friends do you feel like an outsider, or do you feel like an outsider around boys? Acting like a boy would mean you assossiate yourself with being a girl who is pretending to be a boy or vice versa. Keep in mind that you may be intersex (Equally male and female) Hope I helped :-) oh, and remember: Sexuality has nothing to do with it. You could be gay, bisexual, or asexual.
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