Hello everyone! My name is Lisa, I'm 15. I'm a freshman and I go to public school. I love to sing, read, watch tv, and I'm a big fan of Harry Potter. Most of my freinds come to me for advice because they know that they can depend on me and just because I am young does not mean I cant answer questions from older people who seek advice so please ask away!
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Location: Pennsylvania, United States
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Every night around midnighti eat...way too much and then make myself sick!
How can I stop this?....(besides the obvious) (link)
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Dear Reader,
Perhaps eat a larger dinner and then before bed have a snack so its not midnight when you're eatting in the dark. I hope this helped, good luck and let me know how things turn out.
Sincerly,
Lisa
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its spring break and i want to come back with a make over. im talking like look wise. i dont want to dye my hair or anything because im in love with it. =] haha. but just like... anything look wise. im going to go get my eyebrows waxed and thinking maybe about going to a tanning bed. any other ideas =] ? thankss so much! (link)
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Dear Reader,
Getting you're eyebrows waxed is good, but I suggest you get it early on in the week especially if its your first time because they tend to say red for a day, (trust me, I just got mine waxed last thursday) it doesnt hurt that bad. I suggest maybe a new outfit or two, and try getting your hair cut into layers and a new part is always sets a face at a correct angle. If you're not a major make up person, I suggest you go with mascara and an eyelash curler, and concealer or foundation, and if you're a bit on the pale side, bronzer would be good too. And if your at a loss for makeup/clothing try teen magazines to spark ideas. I hope this helped, good luck and keep me updated.
Sincerly,
Lisa
P.S: tanning is bad for your skin, perhaps try some tanning lotion that gives your skin that summer tan that every girl wnats this time of year.
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Everyone hates me! Well , actually they don't but it feels like it. Everything is going wrong! I wrote a note to my teacher and he took it the wrong way. So now when the class doesn't get to do a certain something because of what I said in the note , they blame me. I don't blame them for blaming me but haven't I suffered enough? I'm depressed and I really need help. I want to be forgiven and I don't want them to hate me and I wish things were normal and I wish I never even wrote that dumb note! I even tried "forgiveness" or mean spells to get revenge on people who hurt my feelings last week , that doesn't help , WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!??? (link)
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Dear Reader,
Uhm, spells? Lets just not do that right now. What I think you should do, is sit down and write another note of your own apoligizing to everyone, and then when your in that class with everyone, get up and read it. Say like, the note was never meant to hurt anyone, I'm sorry the activity was taken away, im sorry if mr/mrs. so and so's feelings got hurt blah blah blah, and that stuff. I hope that helped, good luck and keep me updated!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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i love my best friend to death, but i always feel like she talks about herself and thinks that i care. i don't really know what to say to her..usually this is online when this happens, and i usually just say "lol" or something like that, trying to give her a hint that i'm not that interested. and whenever i talk about myself like a problem i'm having for a little bit, she helps me for a little bit then just stops caring. UGH it bugs me so MUCH!!! (link)
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Dear Friend,
I think that you need to talk to her about it and if you need to rant about something, and its online, just be like, "Okay, i need to rant, is that okay?" and just start ranting. If she starts talking about herself, just try to tell her something else that's not her related but related to something else, another words, link it to a new topic thats not about her. I hope that helped, good luck with everything and let me know how things turn out.
Sincerly,
Lisa
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Ok There is this guy and i have liked him for a while.. Well i wont go out with him because part of me doesnt want to.. But i just told him we can be friends with benefits..i totally regret saying that and i need your opinion!!!! (link)
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Dear Reader,
Why do you regret saying "friends with benefits"? Does he know that you like him? And does he like you back? I think that you need to talk to him and straighten things out. I hope this helped, good luck and keep me updated!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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15/f (16 this year)
As you may have seen, just today I asked a question on being bullied by older girls. I was punched in the back of the head today but didn't fight back. I don't want to fight, I knew I would lose or get ganged up on.
Before this, I had a perfect life, but I wanted to be a good person. Just a little fear of bad karma from the "usual" backstabbing, etc. Today, everything went wrong.
My "best friends" excluded me from everything. The last time they did this is lasted for months, they are not good friends and I want to get away from them.
There was this guy who I hadn't seen for months but we always talked on the phone. We hung out over the weekend and that went badly and I don't like him anymore.
I also used to like a couple of guys. It turned out they just wanted sex and I deserve better than that. But I thought they were still okay friends, but they started saying really mean stuff over the computer to me. They said I have a hot body but ugly face, etc. They are jerks and I have no reason to waste my time on them.
Today, I've been called every bad name in the book. I think this has all happened for the better. I want to end these bad relationships. I don't want to get physically hurt (which I'm worried about right now) but I know a little emotional pain will make me stronger.
In the past, my "best friends" of ten years all of a sudden went against me and tried to "make my life a living hell." I left them all.
The thing is, I don't know how to end these situations. I want to just be a good person, not fight back and re-establish myself without having a completely ruined reputation.
I don't know how to avoid being beaten up by the grade eleven girls. My school isn't that big, and I know everyone in my grade. I don't have any options for new friends.
I have three best friends (from different groups, they hardly know eachother) and I know they could help me emotionally.
Just.. what do I do? I'm an optimist and I am confident that if I make it through this without being beaten up or raped I will be a better person.
Thanks, help is greatly appreciated! =) (link)
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Dear Optimist,
I'm really glad that you're not resulting to physical violence and I'm glad your optimistic, same here, which is why I think it would be better if you told your parents about it if you havent already. If you've been punched in the head already, I think you need to tell a teacher or a councler. Dont think of it as ratting someone out, think of it as saving yourself unessicary drama. From your outlook on the situation already, it seems that you'll make it through okay, just remember to not let anyone get you down. And as for the boys, unless your known as a whore around school, which I really doubt, and I'm not calling you a whore either, but unless you're a whore, they're just messing with you, and they're jerks and youknowwhat-holes and boys will be boys. Dont let them bother you because in the end they'll get bad karma.
Remember, everything happens for a reason, so you'll have to stick it out and stay strong.
I hope this helped and good luck with everything, let me know how things turned out.
Sincerly,
Lisa
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So I went to a dance as a date with this guy (we'll call him Bob) a few months back. I said I liked him and he said he liked me but he liked another girl more. I was pissed but I'm over it now and don't like him anymore. But when I needed a date to my junior prom I asked him. It's in a few weeks and I really need to talk to him about things. But his junior prom was this weekend and he went with another girl, and I'm kind of worried he might have liked her--my feelings for him are coming back. We haven't hung out since January...so...
Should I ask him to hang out with a bunch of friends to catch up or what? I really need to talk to him about prom but he rarely picks up his cell and it's so annoying talking on AIM or text...you can't get your point across right. Thanks. (link)
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Dear Junior,
I think its best if you tried talking to him one on one without the pressure of other people around you. And it seems to me that you could be somewhat jealous that he may like another girl, now, I'm not accusing you of being jealous but could it be a possibilty? And as for his date to his junior prom, I think it's just a friend. If you arent comfortable talking to him one on one, a group of friends help, but make sure its not over 3 other friends, otherwise I dont think you'll get much talking done. I hope that helps and keep me updated!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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i really really like this guy, we broke up a few months ago and we've been hanging out occasionally recently because his best friend is dating my best friend. my friends say that when we hang out there is alot of a sexual tension between us. the first time we hung out after our break up was 2 weeks ago and we made out a lottttt. He's kind of a man whore and has realized it recently and says it's a bad thing. He's been acting differently lately and not flirting as much, what does this mean? should i start talking to him more? we're still friends and we still kinda flirt but idk what to do. HELP. (link)
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Dear Reader,
Well, sit him down and talk to him. I dont know how there can be sexual tension when you guys are making out. Shouldnt sexual tension be you want to make out but you dont and you're awkward about it? But uhm, thats besides my point, my point is, talk to him you'll never know what he's thinking for sure if you dont talk to him! Let me know how things turn out, good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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Basically I have begun to really really like my guy friend. I am 13/f. He has gone out with 3 of my girl friends but they always dumped him because they stopped liking him. I have liked him for months now and seriously think about him 24/7. We flirt alot and I was wonderring if you have any ideas on how to tell if he likes me other than just asking him. These are things that he does that make me think he does like me:
I catch him staring sometimes and when I do he'll smile back and stick out his toungue (i know childish)
I am of mixed race and when people bug me about it and call me names he'll defend me and get them to stop
Sometimes he'll trip me for no reason
He always says hi to me in the hall
When we talk we have total eye contact (never wavers)
When we talk we'll usually end up shoving eachother and touching eachother
When he says something mean (even if it was a joke) he'll say sorry afterwards
If he's talking to the guys and I walk into the con he'll acknoledge me immediatly
he shows concern when im upset and kind of demands a reason why and such
Sometimes he'll put his arm around me for no reason
Reasons I think he doesnt:
He flirts with my friend who dumped him last year
If people say we look like a couple he'll suddenly run away
If people say were flirting he'll yell something like "Stop Flirting With Me" or "AAH Shes trying to Rape Me"
We walk to our buses together and whenever he approaches his he'll see the guys then run away screaming
He says rude coments when people say "we should just go out" such as "Oh ya like Shes sooo wanted" in a mean sarcastic tone
I have no idea if hes just being a good friend or maybe likes me! Any signs? How could I find out? (link)
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Dear Confused,
Well, I was going to tell you to make a pro's and con's list but I see you already did that. I think some of your cons are ways of him flirting with you, like.
"If people say were flirting he'll yell something like "Stop Flirting With Me" or "AAH Shes trying to Rape Me""
that is a sign of flirting. And also, you guys are only 13, trust me, boys will be boys.
And us being mature young ladies with handel it in a mature way, like posting your problem so other females can help you out. I think he likes you if that helps. I REALLY think he likes you, shoot if I knew you and I see the way you guys are talking, you really are, more or less going out.
Ask him if he likes you, dont just sit there and wonder. ANd if he likes you, then talk it over with your friends and get the okay from them to go out with him, that is if you want to.
I hope i helped. let me know how things turn out. good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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i no you probably see 395839 of these questions a day but i need some helpp.
i really really like this guy and we have like 2 classes together. he recently just started coming over after school. well like 2wice. but my other friends are there. he acts like hes just a friend but i try flirting every way possible and idk if its working. my friends suck becuase they always cough when were together or theyre like *look at the love birds* and he doesnt even no i like him. i dont think. fhaipfadh i relle am soo confised because hes a sophmore and im a freshman and hes always like wow you freshman are gayy blah blah blahh...and he sits behind me in one class and is always playing with my chair ..kicking it.. and just like talking to me. welll anyways if your still reasing thiss HELPP because i dont no waht to do...what should i dooo!!?!?
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Dear Reader,
Well, I'm a freshman myself and let me tell you. ALL upperclassmen talk crap about freshman, its kinda a tradition in lack of a better term. If he likes you, he will show it over time. In the mean time, keep flirting with him, talk to him, get to know him. Maybe invite him over one day afterschool WITHOUT your friends to see what he's really like. Good luck and let me know how things go!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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This is sort of complicated but i really need help because it's driving me insane.
background:
I'm a senior in high school, 17 years old/girl. Anyway, there is this sophomore who was apparently 'madly in love' with me at the start of the year. A random fact was that even his mom knew and ended up telling my friend this... he told me this too but i didnt really believe him. I mean, i liked him a lot too, but insecurity has always been an issue with me.
But during the month of coronation, he ended up going to coronation with his ex-crush and they started going out afterwards. And it hurt. i mean, before he was telling me all these reasons why he liked me and how he really loved me. But he has issues with insecurity too and he bends under peer pressure really easily; his friends and older brother all told him to go out with her instead since she was in his grade too and in his band thus less social repercussions.
The way it should be, it should be really easy to get over him, but i still cant. I mean i have some crushes on my friends in my grade, but i still have feelings for him. And he acts like he still really likes me, even though he has a girlfriend and does stuff with her. He tells me everything and acts like we're close, but its not the same anymore, if that makes sense.
So my question for this is how to get over him? I mean i tried, i've been ignoring him for a few days now since i've been so frustrated especially when he admitted to me that he almost had sex with his g/f. It's like.. are you trying to see how far you can hurt me? Towards the end of our little 'romance', he was telling me to get a boyfriend so he wouldnt feel guilty about 'ditching me'. it was like ouch thanks for trying to get rid of me. but yeah, please give me advice how to get over him!! please and thank you (link)
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Dear Senior,
I had the same problem too. I used to like this guy and basically in the end I didnt go out with him, one of my friends did. And all I can tell you is, you can't go cold-turkey and totally shun him. That hurts even more then talking to him. I would still talk to him, keep in contact, and eventually you'll find someone else and you'll get over him slowly. It'll hurt, I'll tell you that much, but it'll be worth the hurt when you're over him. I hope this helped. Good luck and let me know how things turn out!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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My mother and I can never get along. We don't agree on anything and we're always really bitchy toward each other. We fight about everything and anything. Frankly, it's to the point where I can't take it anymore. I'm not saying it's entirely her fault. Sometimes I feel that I have anger management issues, but I'm trying to better myself. I've just gotten so much hate built up towards her that everything she does angers me in some way. She acts like she's perfect and she is trying to control every aspect of my life. We have considered going to counseling, but I know my mom very well and she would never take a shrink's advice because she can never admitt she is wrong, like I can. I admitt that I have a short temper, but she won't admitt that she nags about EVERYTHING and always thinks she's right when it comes to decisions about MY OWN LIFE. How can I deal with her? I don't want to shun her from my life, but at this point, I just want to get away and never see her again because all these fights are destroying my life. Does anyone have the same problem? How can I deal with this?! (link)
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Dear Reader,
I understand how sometimes we dont get along with our mothers, trust me, I know what you mean. What I do is I talk with my mom, I tell her how I feel and I try to talk it out with her. I wouldnt ignore her becuase that creates more problems and you dont want that. I would just talk to her and try to understand where she's coming from. Its good that you know that it's not always her fualt, but try looking at things from her point of view and see if you can compermise with her. Let me know how things go! Good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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What are some good songs to learn on the keyboard/ I can sing ? Like five for fighting-100 years. Vanessa carlton- white houses, ordinary day, a thousand miles. I know the Fray and Augustana too. PLEASE DO NOT SUGGEST COLDPLAY because I do NOT like them. Thank you :) (link)
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Dear Reader,
There's this song called "Heaven" By DJ Sammy that you can search up on Youtube. It's a great song. Hope I helped!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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Did anyone see the without a trace episode "primed?" I saw all but the last ten minutes, and its absolutely driving me crazy. How did it end?? Did they find Abby? And what did they say about Marcia and Ian? Thanks (link)
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Dear Reader,
I dont watch the show but you can however search up the episode on "Youtube" (www.youtube.com) or search it up on google, I'm sure there are fansites for the show. I hope that helps!
Sincerly,
Lisa
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I'm 14/f
I've wanted to get into modeling for a while now and quie a few people have said i should. My mom dosn't want me to because she said it would be to hard on me. I think eventually i could convince her. I really think i could take it. Whats it like starting out? Does anyone know how to get started? (link)
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Dear Model,
my friend is a model actually, and she had to take classes and stuff to get the basic walk and whatnot down. then she got an agent and stuff and they booked gigs and stuff. it'll be a little hard at first but if you want it bad enough you can get it.
good luck! let me know how it goes.
Sincerly,
Lisa
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I have a really good guy friend who's name is Patrick. We've been friends for like 2 months. He goes to my school and he's in my Science class. I added him onto myspace, and then I asked for his screenname. When I signed onto AIM, I IM'ed him and we talked for 4 hours straight non-stop. I talk to him every [school] day in person, and I IM him on AIM. We talk for a minimium of 2 hours. BTW, he's obsessed with Motion City Soundtrack. This was our conversation on AIM last night:
Patrick: So are you gonna get me anything for xmas lol
Me: Maybe, what do you want?
Me: It has to be 30 dollars or less maybe like a Motion City Soundtrack hoodie or something
Patrick: Those are like 50 dollars though
Me: Oh okay. *finds a shirt on hottopic.com* [I found a MCS shirt with the bear on it that says motion city soundtrack] Do you like this one?
Patrick: Hellz yea but you don't have to buy it for me I just want a paper hat
Patrick: whats the catch?
Me: What catch? There is no catch it's just a simple gift from me to you.
Patrick: There has to be a catch. The first guy said theres no catch but then he told me to bend down and squeel
Me: LMFAO!!!!!!! There is no catch though
Me: Patrick I'm not getting you a paper hat.
Patrick: YEAH YOU ARE
Me: NO.
Me: It's not a big deal I have money saved up from babysitting and from my relatives [I have money saved up for the trip that I'm taking to Argentina so I can buy stuff over there]. I have like 160 bucks saved up.
Patrick: 160?! DAMN!
Me: LOL. Yeah.
Patrick: But why would you wanna spend it on me? I don't deserve it.. [he made fun of this poserish girl who I despise strongly] I'm selfish.
Me: Patrick no you're not.
Me: I'm buying it for you
Patrick: Fine
Patrick: But seriously, thanks
Patrick: My dad is really cheap and my mom is low on money I never get anything new anymore
Me: Yeah it's no problem Patrick
His dad had to have a heart transplant so they had to pay for surgery [their insurance isnt that great] and they have to pay for his medications and on top of that, his dad is really cheap and won't spend money on anything, but he'll spend money for new things for his car.
Patrick's friend says she thinks that Patrick likes me because he says that we're really really good friends and he always brings up our conversations and actually remembers them.
I think that he might like me.
What do you guys think?
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Dear Reader,
Do I have to put a mistletoe above the two of you!?!?!? HE LIKES YOU!! *happy squeel* So now that we established that, if you talk to him this much and everything, I have no doubt in my mind that he doesnt like you. But now, do you like him back!?! And if you dont know, then ask yourself "does he make me happy? Do i enjoy being around him?" Then the answer is most likily yes. If he doesnt have a girlfriend, most definitly flirt around with him. Good luck and let me know how things turn out!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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Ill cut it short.
I love him.
We dont talk anymore , we used to be really good friends.
We had sex and all that stuff .
He has a girlfriend, they have a horrible relationship.
He stares at me at lunch.
Why why why?
ps, we dont talk alot anymore becuase we dont live as close anymore and a few other reasons. (link)
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Dear Reader,
Well, were you guys "really good friends" or more then that? Because you guys did have sex and all. But I'm not here to ask questions, I'm here to give you an answer. Why not call him? Or IM him? Or Email him? Or heck, even snail mail him? If you love him, it doesnt matter how far he is, you would do everything in your power to try to talk to him. He probably stares at you because he probably still likes you, and he's probably wishing that his current girlfriend was you instead. Try talking to him. Good luck! And let me know how things go!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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well i have this best friend lets say his name is umm starr lol anyways i figured out a few months ago that he liked me...a lot and like i told him a few days ago that since we were friends i couldnt hide anything from him and i told him i knew he liked me.. but now everything is all akward but the thing is we`re trying to get ourselves through it and we`re helping eachother get throught it.. we call eachother everyday which is kinda weird b/c the problem is us. but i`m really glad that we`re helping eachother b/c if we werent it would be really akward.. i guess i do like him a little but what am i so confused about?? and what should i do? (link)
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Dear Reader,
You are most definitly not alone!!! I felt the same way with one of my guy friends that I used to like. And really what you're confused about is wether you can see past that "friend" and determine if he's boyfriend material. And also the other thing I think you're worried about is if your friendship can last through a relationship (if you do decide to go out) and if you two break up then would the friendship be over. I think if you two are really that close as friends then after you two break up you'll both stay friends. What you should do is talk to him and stuff and by your question you already do. Make sure that you really DO like him before you start leading him on because that hurts too. And really, things are going to be awkward from time to time, no doubt about that but try to put yourself back in the old days before you found out that he liked you. And just play it cool. Back to what i was saying, If you do like him and you decide that you want to take it to the next level, I say go for it! But really, the only way you're going to get there, if you're interested, is by TALKING TO HIM. Good luck and let me know how things go (:
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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13/F. 4'8'/93 lbs
Hi Everyone. :)
I was just wondering if anyone had some good tips, and/or facts on losing weight. Just a bit of warning in advance.. I've got a problem with snacking constantly. I always end up trying diets, but I give up after a short amount of time, because I end up giving myself some kind of excuse to start eating junk foods again. I seriously have very bad will power, so if anyone could focus on helping me with that, that'd be great.
Also, I can't buy diet pills, special foods, or do things like go running/go to the gym for specific reasons. So are there any exercises I'd be able to do without equipment, which would be effective for weight loss?
I'm honestly not even sure how much weight I should lose. I've just kind of got a bad body image. :/
Thanks for any help, though!! I'll deff. respond to any help!! (link)
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Dear Reader,
Well, when I was your age, I was around the same height as you were and weighed just as much if not a pound more. But seriously, if you want to loose weight, here are some ways that you can. (Although I dont think you need to be loosing them)
a.you can still eat the same amounts of food you eat, just make sure you work it off. You said that you cant go to the gym. Well, try for every bag of chip, or candy bar, or bottle of soda, take a good 20 minute walk to burn off the calories you packed on.
b.another way to eat as much as you do now and not gain as much weight, when having lunch or dinner, have small morsoles at a time but eat more. Like, instead of having one huge lunch, try a half of the lunch, then after school have a soft pretzle. And instead of having a huge dinner at 6, have a small snack at 4 and then a small dinner at 6.
c. STAY AWAY FROM FATTY FOODS. and if you cant, try, but if you REALLY cant, work it off. Like i said, walking REALLY helps.
d. DO NOT GO ON DIET PILLS, DRINKS OR ANY OF THOSE SORTS. You are wayyyyy too young and I can guarantee you that if you start taking those things- 98% that you'll start having heart problems and blood issues and what not. ITS JUST NOT HEALTHY. DIET THE HEALTHY WAY! Eat lots of veggies! And water!
e. And last, try not to go too hard on yourself! You're still young, and really, I dont think that your fat! Do you think you have a good body? Or are your peers saying that you have a BAD body? Ask yourself that, and then ask "is it safe to loose all this weight at such a young age just because someone called me fat?" If this is coming from your peers, its called PEER PRESURE, deal with it and get over it! You are so much better then that. WHo cares if people think your fat? WHo cares what other people think!!?!?!?!? Its what you think that matters, and if you're happy with the way you are then dont even think of the "d" word.
Really, think twice before you diet. I think you should talk to your parents about it. The side effects can be majorly ugly. Let me know how things turn out. And Good Luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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I'm 13/f
One of my guy/friends asked me out today, and my friend put me under a lot of presure of what tosay, so I said I'd think about it. He smiled and went on about his buisness. Then like, 10 seconds after the last bell rang one of my friends told him I'd said yes, but I hadn't.
Then at 4:59(sry 'bout that, I do that all the time) one of my other guy/friends who had him over called and asked me what I was gonna say because he wanted to know. As I said earlier, I hate being under so much as the tiniest bit of pressure, and I said "I guess." Know, I wish I could go back in time or kill myself. I don't like him, I like another guy, I don't totally trust him, and my mom said I couldn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. So now, I am disobaying my mother(whom I love very much and hate disobaying) gong against my scences, betraying myself( since I like someone else), killing myself from so much pressure, guilt, and worry, afraid I'll hurt him, might loos a friend, and wishing I could kill myself. HOW HORRIBLE!!!! HOw would I break up with him without hurting him or lossing his friendship??? (link)
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Dear Under Pressure,
Well first off you need to go tell your "friends" how you feel and that they really need to mind their own business. Secondly, you need to go tell your "boyfriend" the truth because it seems unfair that he's getting the short end of the stick. THEN, you need to stay single and straighten everything out. THen after that's done, take a nice bubble bath to wash away your worries. You need to tell your "boyfriend" and your "friends" to mind their own business. "Under Pressure by your peers (in this case your "friends")" is known as PEER PRESSURE. You have to learn how to deal with it because by your age, i'm guessing your either in 7th or 8th grade. You really have to deal with it BECAUSE once you get into high school and later on in the school year you're really going to go nuts if you dont deal with the problem NOW. Some ways I got over this was to not worry about the tinest things. Like if I didnt have one homework assignment done, I would say, well okay I'll just get done what i can finish before that class. You already made the mistake, so why dwell on it? Move FORWARD, talk to ur "friends and boyfriend" and tell them everything. And as for the guy you actually like, give it a month or so, maybe after the holidays, and then start making your move on him. Or else people are going to start calling you names that arent so great. Also, THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK. if you say the wrong thing, your friends arent effected by it. YOU ARE. And if you ever feel pressured, tell them to back off. If you are mad at your friends right now, you have every right to be! So let me know how it goes! Good Luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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