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im havin a movies night at my house for halloween and i was gonna take my friends to the mall and then have dinner at a resturant then go back to me place and watch a couple of movies and talk bout boys
i want to know if there r any good scary movies that r rated pg-13 or if theres any good comedy movies
plz help im havin i the night before halloween (link)
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If you want all out weirdness its gota be the Rocky Horror Show
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15/f
okay well i know this guy and let me tell you he is fine!
we're kind of friends and all but i don't know if he likes me he's al ways messing with me and when i asked him does he like any one at our school he said yes. So i ask him who and he was all like i don't wanna tell you so i kept bugging him but he still wouldn't tell me.
could he be likeing me?
I mean he puts his arm around me always tries to make me laugh but does he like me?
tahnks! (link)
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Likes someone at your school... wont tell who it is... puts his arm around you and trys to make you laugh...
Yes he likes you! How much I duno as I duno the guy but he definatly likes you as friend, and who knows maybe more. Hope things work out good for you:)
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isnt that actually a really mean thing to do? mind you... why doesnt she like pizza? although pizzahut does do horrible pizza... is this site american? i keep reading pop and cherry. weird. oh well c ya xx (link)
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In awnser to your question, she doesnt like pizza cos she doesnt like cheese. We were winding her up cos thats wohat brothers and sisters do... its just a bit of a joke anyways and that was the point I was trying to make. And yeah I think this is mainly an American site but Im from the UK:)
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Hi im a 13 yr old male and i like to wear girls panites thongs and bras...is there anything wrong with this , is this normal, is it like a sin to do it?
Thanks , answer asap please (link)
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Dude they is nothing "wrong" with this. It quite possibly is a sin if your a strict christian, but so is everything else.
How can there be anything wrong with something that makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone else?
Is it "normal"? if you mean do a lot of people do it then probably not. Does it matter? Not really. Although someone did make the point that it is bad if your stealing other peoples underware, but thats the only problem I can see here.
Dont let other peoples opioions keep you from doing what makes you happy.
At the same time I'd recomend not telling to many people unless you are completly confiend and secure about yourself first.
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ok so as all stories start out, there's this guy, and well he's really cute and he went to my middle school but we didnt have any classes together and now we are freshman in high skewl and i still dont have any classes with him but we do have lunch together. i really want to talk to him or atleast get him to see me. i know a kid who is kinda friends with him and might have his screen name abut i dont want to be like stalkerish, so i was thinking maybe sumtime during lunch i wud go up to him or maybe if i see him in the halls and be like "hey, did u got to landings? (the name of our middle school...) and he's gonna say yes and then im thinking of saying like cool me 2 by the way im anna" but i dont really kno if thats good and i dont want to look like an idiot. any suggestions? (link)
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Small talk and being confident would be a good place to start. Hes not gona think your an idiot if you just be yourself, and if he does thats his problem and hes not worth your time.
A good starting point might be something like "hey remember me from middle school", if you word it right I don't see him worrying to much about you not noticing him. Like I said, just be yourself and don't be scared hes just another person who might well want to come up and talk to you and be just as nervous. You dont know until you ask! Good luck.
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im trying to download freaking limewire but its not popping up when i click download now!! this is really getting me pissed.. whats the website to download it from? i need step by step instructions on how to get limewire on your comp cause i dont know what to click and shit. thanks in advance (link)
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http://www.limewire.com/LimeWireWinBoth
that should do it automatically assuming you have windows, if not go here:
http://www.limewire.com/english/content/downloadfree2.shtml
and select the one you want, good luck, message me if it doesn't work. That link works for me so if it doesn't it sounds like you might have something wrong with your comp/internet settings.
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ahhh! ok i am such a bad person!
i've been in love with the same guy for 2 years, and all along ive been trying to hack his email account to see if he has any emails from his gf's or about me or whatever! (i know! wrong wrong wronggg!) but here's the thing, his secret question was "favorite historical person" and ive been trying to guess it or years, guessing eveything from spongebob square pants to eleanor roosevelt, and then while doing my daily "try-to-hack-him" thing, i decided to google "favorite historcal person" and the first thing that came up was "Jesus" and im a christian (who sins a lot, even though i try not to..) but he's not, so i was like "pssh he doesnt have that as an answer, and if he does I WILL NOT HACK HIM" and guess what? i tried it - and it worked! and i wont to go in and read his emails so bad! but i did say i wouldnt do it if his answer was Jesus! I don't know WHY i did it, but i guess i feel it would be wrong doing something WROOONG using Christ's name.. so help me! i will not let go of it and just forget it! i will think about it every day, every imnute until i do it! ive considered sending him a anonymous email saying "change your secret question" so if im tempted i still cant do it.. but i want to! so badly! HELP PLEASE! maybe if you could help me find bible verses that can help in situations like these when you'r etempted to do smething bad? and just incase.. (incase i do it, like now..as soon as ive asked the question) could you help me with ohw to ask for forgiveness and maybe make sure it doesn't happen again?
help me please!! thank you! (link)
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Right, I'm not a Christian at all but I have a little bible and in the front it didn't have any sugestions for temptation like this, but I found this it recomended on a page for self control:
"Blessed is the man who persevres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will recieve the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.
When tempted, no-one should say, "God is tempting me." For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone, but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desires, he is dragged away and enticed"
James 1: 12-15
I'm not a Christian but I do English Litriture and got an A grade at GCSE in RE(religous education) so this is what I make of that. God is not tempting you, your own evil desires inside you are tempting you (in this case you gave into them and tried to find out his password).
However that doesn't mean you have to give in to them anymore. Do the right thing and God will love you for standing "the test"
I know that doesn't tell you much about what to do, but as a Christian I think you can see it tells you to do the right thing and not to give in to your temptations, and you will get into heaven.
In this case does your bf need to know? I'd say thats for you to decide but you definatly shouldn't go on his emails because you have to withstand the temptation so you can become a better Christian, then you "will recieve the crown of life."
I hope that actually helped, it gives you a bible perspective on temptation even if it doesn't tell you excactly wot do to. I can give you my personal opioion if you like but as you asked for bible quotes I've done my best, I hope it helps!
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i am not lesbian nor will ever be, but one of my bestfriends is a lesbian, looks exactly like a guy. and people always mistake her for a guy.. anyways my brother always jokes me about being friends with her and says im her girfriend and jokes me about thinking im a lesbian, what can i do or say to make him shut up ? (link)
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Seriously this is your brother problem and is nothing to worry about. Its wot brothers do, for example:
Today me and my family went out for roast dinner and on the way kept telling my little sister we were going to pizza hut. She hates pizza and was shouting at us for winding her up. So we did the normally thing you do and kept winding her up!
I know you situation is a bit more serious then pizza but its the same thing, if she had just made a comment like "well you can eat your pizza but I'm going for roast dinner" or just not kicked up a fuzz we wouldn't have made a big deal about it *she is 8 mind you.
Short awnser- Don't let him know it bothers you and tell him its your friends descion and if he has a problem with it then he needs to sort it out. Hopefully he will soon get the message, sorry for the essay!
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okay i am a 17/f
anyways i am the kind of girl that everyone says is so pretty and well rounded and what not but i never am able to get the good looking kind of boyfriend i want
for a while i always wondered why
and then i was talking to my new friend from school last night online and he said that i don't seem to express my feelings well. And i told him i am always outspoken and stuborn and what not then hes like have you ever had a boyfriend you don't seem to know what your doing and i said yes i have
what does he mean by all of that. I asked him but I am still confused (link)
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I reckon the person belows got it one.
Also bare in mind that online conversations arent always the best place to have serious conversations cos its easy to misunderstand what people are trying to say... I'd ask him to explain what he means again if I were you to be sure.
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i have a LITTLE fuzz between my eyebrows but you can still see it. The problem is my mom won't let me get rid of it. I don't understand why. She told me that she'll kill me if I do it. I asked her why she wouldn't let me do it but she didn't say anything. I want to get rid of it. Any ideas would be really helpful. Oh by the way i'm 14/f. (link)
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Well if you want to make it less visible but not get rid of it you could bleach it?
I'd probably wana find out why your Mum wont let you get rid of it thou cos that is a bit of a strange thing to say in my opioion and it would be easier just to shave it off every now and then.
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I have a bass amp & I bought an electic guitar I would like to knowhow to get the best sound out of my bass apm with my electirc guitar.
thanx (link)
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Well it would help to know what kind of amp it is, generally thou all you can do is fiddle and hope for the best. A good place to start is turn the bass down and the trebble up a bit.
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ok i have a question. i was suppose to start on the 17th or 18th. well on the 16th i had sex with my boyfriend and he cumed in me. i haven't started my period yet. could the reason why i haven't started be bC of the fact i might be pregnant or is there another reason that i haven't started yet? (link)
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Stress could also affect your period. Obviously worrying that your pregnent could cause enough stress to make it late. Give it a few days then get a pregnency test, but seriously next time use a condom or birth control. I hope all works out ok and you were lucky this time.
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13/f.
Im getting contacts in a couple days (monday) and i was just wondering if anyone can tell me anything about them. IS it hard to put them in? Can they actually like slip down in your eye where you cant get them out? how long can you wear them? What will I have to do when i go to get them? Any tips or anything would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. :) (link)
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I think all of your questions have been awnsered by everyone else but I thought you should hear another take on contacts.
I had them for a month and half last year and now don't wear em cos they just wern't for me. I know everyone says it takes practice to put them in but in my case I just can't do it. I'm not trying to put you off, just warn you that some people just can't wear them and so don't get worried about it if you still can't get them in after a month like me. The best idea is just to try them and find out for yourself. Don't worry about sliping or any thing like that and listen to your optitican and I hope you have better luck with them then me!
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