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ok im confused at school i get made fun of alot because im smart. well normally i just bottle it up and dont do anything because im weak but what i have noticed is sometimes i will get so pissed off that if anyone who hasnt even done anything to me so much as slightly bothers me i blow up at them. i guess i just want to know how can i channel my anger more so at the ppl who piss me off because i hate blowin up at my friends but i cant blow up at the ppl that make fun of me cause im weak as shit and im just confused i dont know wut to do can someone please help me.. (link)
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I dont see why people would wanna make fun of you because you are smart. The world is becoming a strage place these days. Well if I was you I would find someone to talk to about it such as a friend an adult you trust or a school cons. Good luck I hope things get better for you
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Hey,
I have horrible frizzy, thick hair and i like it best when its straight. I.ve tried a range of products (straightening serums, shampoos, conditioners, sprays..) but nothing seems to work at all. i have one of those 'wet to straight' straighteners (£80) and if you use it when its wet it frazzles your hair and i think it ruins it (its says it locks in moisture but im not too sure it does). I've tried Sunsilk straight and sleek, Frizz ease, shockwaves extreme straightener..etc..and im going to try that Hot Straight from the advert that stars Beyonce. My bathroom is filling up with half used hair products and i want to find one that works.
Also i dont even know how to apply all of these products so they could be exactly what im looking for but i just do it wrong.
I want smooth, sleek and straight hair where it seems every hair strand is individual and soft . I want it to be dead straightand shiny so if i had it in bunched and took it out it would bounce back into straightness
If you know anything that will make this happen or ave any advice please help me..:-)
LuV
Rachel (link)
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I dont know what your prize range is but you can go to a beauty salon and get a chea straightner. I think thats how you say it but I have had alot of people tell me they work. Normally they cost 100. Good luck. hope i helped
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well i have this really gud friend thats a boy and we are really close. everybody knows that he has liked me for ages and gets really upset when i go out with other people but i just didnt like him in that way. ive recently (as in 3 months a go) broke up with my long term boyfriend of a year and he has been really supportive. i was really hurt after we broke up bt my friend helped me throught it. now i think im falling for him but i dont know whether i should. am i just pretending that i like him because he is so nice to me? or do i reali like him? what should i do? i mean im 16 so it would be serious if i went out with him. i just need some advice! (link)
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If you have feelings for him just talk to him about it and see what he has to say. He likes you so you really dont have that much to worry about. Hope I helped
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i want 2 shave 'below the belt' but i dont know what to do. do i shave it all or just a little bit? which is more prefered by boys? and how do i do it? ive been told tht it itches a lot though so how do i avoid it? please help! (link)
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Well shaving down there is kinda hard to do the first time but after awhile it gets easy. Its up to you to decide if you should shave it all or just a little bit. Guys are diffrent about what they like so if you dont have a guy to ask just do what you think is best. To shave it you need a shaving cream or gel and a razor from my personal point of view its better to shave in a downwards stroke rather then up because it tends to cut more that way. Also it does itch sometimes and I really dont know what to do about that but the best thing I can tell you is to put powder down there. Hope I helped
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I like this guy and his sister and his best friends tell me that he likes me too he has also told me that he does. anyway, I tryed talking to him and he was just acting like a total asshole!After we hung up I started to cry because he just seemed like he didnt care about me and he didnt care about what I had to say. I want to talk to him again but then I dont because I dont want to feel like I do now. He's never online and I live a long way away from him.. What can I do to like talk to him and tell him how I feel? And by telling him how I feel is also including that hes being a major asshole to me. (link)
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If you feel that you really need to tell him how you feel just call him and tell him not to say anything just to listen and after you tell him everything that you think needs to be said ask him if he will tell you what he thinks. If things dont turn out how you want them to just remember it wasnt meant to be and someone will come along. Good luck
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ok...im 17/m senior and ive never been n a relationship...ive been on dates with 2 ppl in my life and the last one i went out w/ 3 times...but thats done...i been told a lot recently how good ilook and how hott i am, but this is way new for me....i dont think ive ever even gotten a look from a gurl till now...im a popular guy, not the most, but every1 knows me...im a funny guy...but wats wrong w/ me...i mean i just got my first kiss! wtf...help plz. ha (link)
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Hun im sure there is nothing wrong with you some people just dont get the attention that they want until they get older its all okay babe..
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so ever since my boyfriend dumped me ((about 4 days ago)) ive been having thots and dreams that sum1 is out to kill me.
i keep thinking that sum1 is guna come in my bedroom and shoot me or sumthin. i know this isnt normal, and im so confused why this is happening!
im scaring myself but i can help it! *i rate*
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well dont worry about it..its just dreams u need to try and move on and find someone new! good luck hope i helped
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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Do girls ever go for a younger guy? I'm 17 and going into grade 12 this year, this other girl I know is 18 and going into college. I met her at the beginning of the last school year, and at the time I thought there was NO way. She was VERY good looking, a year older than me, basically just out of my league. But over the year we talked a lot, and then this summer we've hung out quite a bit. I can't tell if this is just a friend thing or not, I've never known a guy that dated an older girl and was just wondering what your opinions on it were. Thanks. (link)
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well i know girls who have dated younger guys so i guess some girls do and some dont but if you feel there may be something there that could be good then maybe u should talk to her about it and ask her how she feels and just maybe yall will get 2gether..good luck hope i helped!
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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my friend pat just told me my friend jessica hates me. she hates me cuz i told pat something she did while she was sleeping over my house. well pat says she was so mad she was swearing and stuff. i feel really bad and want to call and say sorry but pat says she will probably yell at me and hang up. whenever jessica and i have fights they are usually easily resolved, and im hoping pat is exaggerating, he does a lot. im mad that pat told jessica he knew, but i know im mostly to blame. so what should i do now? please help me, i hate losing friends :( (link)
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well i think u should try and talk to her tell her that u are sorry and explain to her how u feel if she hangs up on u after u tell her all that then maybe yall arent meant to be friends..hope i helped and good luck
-Haleifh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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okay i have a dumb quesion? is this site free? lol i didnt even question it cuz i was too excited about helping other people haha but i was reading something and it said something about fee's? unless its too late at night and im just tierd hahha sorry for my dumbness! (link)
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yes it is free unless u download extras and stuff like that..
hope i helped!
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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OK i met this boi n the problem is hes 19 n im 14 n we really really like each other but we have a problem its my parents n he goes well babe listen i no your parents dont like the fact that where talkin but we really like each other will u date me n i said i dunno..should i cause u n ohe might be the right 1 (link)
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well i dont think its right to do things behind ur parents back but if u feel he may be the one then i guess u should go for it but before u do think about how long u have known him and things such as that..age is just a number and he might be the type that cares for u and stuff but then again he might be using u so be careful! GOOD LUCK!!
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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my two best friends never met eachother until i introduced them .. know they r leavin me out .. nd i told them how i felt nd noe they r doing it behind my back.. give advice plz (link)
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well maybe u should try and tell them how u feel again and if they still do the same thing this time just remember they arent good friends if they dont care how u feel..so if they dont listen just try and find some new friends!! good luck!
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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Some times my pubic hairs kinda hurt when i pull them, so i yank them out and they have this sort weird sticky white thing on the end. after i pull them out it doesnt hurt there any more. this happens every once in a while and i yank em because if i dont it hurts to touch there. anyone know waht these are? i call them evil hairs. (link)
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OMG what are u thinking dont pull them if they bother u just shave them are go get them waxed off!
-haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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ok i have been rated 8 times ( i just started today haha) ne*way on the front of my page it says "rated: 5 times" not 8...hmm do u kno why?? u can see for urself haha http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=Xo_ShErRy_Ox
just wondering, thanks and i'll rate!:) (link)
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well sometimes it takes a few days to catch up on how many times u have been rated and what they rated u so just give it a few days it should get back on track soon
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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Okay well Im 16 years old and I dont know who my real father is. I know his name is Jim and he lives in west virginia. I dont like asking my mom because everytime I ask she gets this look on her face and trys to change the subject as if she were mad or something. I dont want to make her upset or mad but it feels like theres a wholllle other life that i dont know of! I mean its not one of those things where "she doesnt know who my dad is" she knows but wont talk about him. But there are days where I am completey upset cuz I just start thinking of him even though I dont know who he is."does he even know about me? does he not love me? was i not what he planned on having?" so many questions! Now the TRUE question is when im 18 should I ask my mom then go and try to find him or do you think it happend for a reason?!?! should I just let it go and live with all the pain? im so lost and heart broken. i mean i survived 16 years without a true dad but it hurt so bad excpecially because i never talked about him. What do you think I should do? (link)
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well since u seem like u really wanna know who he is and what he is like I think that u should sit down with your mom and explain to her how you feel and tell her you might wanna talk to him sometime and get to know who he is and if she will allow you to call him up you should and if he isnt someone you want to talk to after u know him then leave him alone and move on but if he is a good person then maybe you will be able to have ur dad again..hope i helped
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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hey, I just lost my virginity like, 12 hours ago, and I was wondering if it was normal to be swollen down there Because i was really sore so i stuck one of my fingers in there and it was really swollen. Is that normal? (link)
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Yes that is normal it will just be like that for like 2-4 days..
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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Okay, I am only 13, 5`1, and I way 133 pounds! Everyone thinks I look normal and I look about 100 pounds. Anyways, i want to lose my stomach fat, how would running for 1/4 a mile everyday day and 4+ minutes of situps get me in 3 weeks? (link)
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Well I think in order to see good results you need to run are walk at least a mile a day and do alot of situps to help ur stomach the other key to weight loss is eating healthy..dont stop eating because u will gain weight when u do that..just restrict the amount of fatty foods just try and eat like veggies and fruits! GOOD LUCK
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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Things around the househave been so hard latley because my mom has this boyfriend named dale who treats her like crap. The only thing keeping them together is there son Mathew who is my half brother. Things just keep getting worse and worse though. its to the point where I cry myself to sleep cuz I know how much pain my mom goes through. I wish I could help but I cant. He even hit her quiet a few times before. She flips out on me when I forget to take my purse, keys, her pay check, or money everywhere I go cuz if i dont then dale would take it. He sneaks around 24/7 he snoops in MY ROOM scrouging for things. Me and my mom couldnt leave the house at the same time cuz he would lock us out if we did. What can I do to get my mind of thses things? Is there any way I can help my mom out cuz I hate seeing her like this. Dale would flip out if my mom were to go with her friends to dinner, or 6flags. why does she have to sit in the house 24/7 just because he wants her to but yet he will yell at her the whole entire time? sorry for the long entry (link)
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well i think that if he hits ur mom while u are there u need to call the police because he can get into alot of trouble for that..but if you need to u could talk to an older adult like a school teacher are a friends parent and tell them what is going on and maybe they can help u and ur mom out! GOOD LUCK
-Haleigh ~plz rate my advice~
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is wearin a thong slutty? like the purpose is so you dont have pantylines but sumtimes liek if usmones thong shows people think she's a slut. i was just wondering what evryone else htought (link)
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I dont think it is slutty at all because i wear them and I know people who do think its slutty but i dont..just try and keep it down so it doesnt look like u are trying to show the world ur thong!!
-Haleigh ~plz rate my advice~
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ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want?? (link)
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You should talk to her and tell her how you feel because if you dont then it will just make the problem alot worse...good luck...hope i helped.
-Hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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