Hey everyone!! I'm Roxanne, you can call me Roxy. I'm going through the same stuff most girls have, boys, popularity, so you girls can come to me ANYTIME. I know a lot about it. Come anytime, I'm always there for you.
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What are some good, quick, easy ways to gain self confidence and self esteem? And to be able to be more outgoing? (link)
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Instead of focusing on flaws you may have, focus on your good side. Every half-hour think of one good thing about yourself. And also don't be negative. I have low self-esteem. I was always focusing on my flaws, and that was the biggest mistake of my life. Don't do what I did. If you want to be more outgoing join cheerleading, or another sport. Hang out with your friends and make new ones too. And don't walk looking at the floor (if you do) walk with your head up and say hi to people you know or are friends with. People will think your friendly, and maybe want to talk to you, which will keep you with good self esteem and confidence, because you have friends. Remember to focus on things that are good about yourself, and to feel good about yourself.
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I have this boyfriend...I just got him. I am moving soon and we aren't really hanging out. He asked me out in the first place! What should we do before I move? (link)
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Spend the whole day together. You could go out for dinner or see a move, or skate, or shop. When you move calle each other and keep in touch. Long distance boyfriends are harder to keep, but if the relationship is worth it, you'll hold on.
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I have this friend and me and her decided to try a new style for christmas and summer.its kinda 80ish.We want to cut pantyhose knee length and wear a cute abercrombie skirt over it.This is for summer by the way. But then we want to wear a colorful tanktop. For shoes we want flipflops or converse. Can anyone tell me if this sounds cute? (link)
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That sounds adorable!!! You should do it!! have fun, and maybe you'll start a new trend!
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what type of clothes and colors make you apear slimer than you are, and are flattering on someone who is chubby? (link)
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Black MAJORLY!!!! But I wouldn't wear it too much or people will think you're gothic. But yea, black, or anything dark, helps a lot.
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i feel fat. like everyone tells me that i am skinny. i am 5'6" and 108 lbs. I know i am not really overweight, but i have tons of fat. i allways feel self consious, and i have noticed myself getting more and more concerned about how i look. i am afraid i might develope an eating disorder, or just become depressed about it. that is like all i ever think about anymore. help (link)
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hun, you aren't fat. You seem to be perfect. You have nothing to worry about, you're thin. be happy you're not sitting in a wheel chair, and be happy you aren't like, 200 lbs. Don't worry about it, and I'll admit I'm the same wat. I'm an inch taller than you, and I don't weight much more. And people tell me I'm really skinny. Just enjoy being you, and you're not fat. Trust me.
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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!! (link)
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You need to tell imediatly. You won't know if you have it until you go to the doctor!! Tell because you need to stop it (if it is cnacer) before it gets serious.
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Hi, i'm gonna be the DJ for my best friends birthday party, and I do NOT know what music to play. What do you think I should play? (link)
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You should put out a request list. Have girls right down songs they'd like you to play. "1985" by Bowling for Soup is popular. Blink 182, Greenday, idk. Play what you think they'd like!! I think that since she's your best friend, at the end of the party you should play a special song for her. "Raise me UP" by josh groban would be perfect.
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i know its natural but there any thing help hair growth in a month..
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Dont cut your hair for a little while. I did this cause i wanted long hair to. But one thing that really helps make it look longer is a really good, but not to expensive striaghtener. It is the best one out there. Revolon (its white). 15$ Wal-mart
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what do the different color jelly bracelstes mean? (link)
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I am not sure, i have seen a list. All I no is black means sex
. Try going to google or a search and typ in jelly braclets. But I love my black one, and I wear it all the time.
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i am directing a play . i don`t know what one i should do . can anyone think of a googd play (link)
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Christmas Story, Christmas Carol, Le Miserables, Annie, Grease, The Grinch(cheesy, but would be fun), West Side Story, Peter Pan, cinderella, Little shope of horrors, anything creative
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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit? (link)
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NO!!! That's perfectly fine!! Tons of boys your age babysit. Don't worry!
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do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit? (link)
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I don't think so as long as you keep them entertained. Bring some fun games or coloring books. Make up games. I think it should be pretty easy. Don't worry, you'll be fine!
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my email is being really mean to me, so do you have an sn i can talk to you on? (link)
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I don't get it. I thought you new my screen name. OnSantasBadList7 Orcatrainer61692 Iluv my rat roxy
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ok, i'm about to make some prayer bracelets for myself, but i have no clue what to pray on. any ideas??? (link)
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Your friends and family, the fact that you have a house and food, God, peace, happiness, etc whatever you can think of!! good luck!
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my friend ****** likes this guy ****** and she won't tell him how she feels, so how do i get her to tell him? huh? how?! answer me! (link)
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Well, you really can't MAKE her talk to him. But you could encourage her. Tell her to be brave and strike up a conversation with him. Maybe talk about a test, the weather, or what he wants for the Holidays. Keep it working from there. At a school dance, encourage her to ask him to dance!
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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-arielle- (link)
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I am EXACLTY like you. I'm 14 and my breasts are still F-L-A-T!! Don't worry, you're day will come. For now just enjoy being flat. Because breasts stink! It's harder to play sports and they always hurt if you get bumped. They'll grow soon, and there is NOTHING wrong with you.
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I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle- (link)
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No, it does not hurt at all!! You have nothing to worry about! And also, you don't even know it's there. Don't worry, it'll be ok. It's nothing, and when you use one, you'll think "I was afraid of THAT?!" yes, tampons are better because they're not messy, and u can swim with tampons in.
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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it? (link)
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You should understand that not all realtionships last forever. Remember that you two cans till be budies!! And you never know, maybe you'll get closer again. Do other things to keep your mind off of him. hand with a friend, go shopping, make a scrapbook, etc.
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Hey..me and this girl were like BFF's for like 6 years in a row. . we did everything together. . .shopped,secrets,stupid fights,nails and everything! but then i introduced her to this girl that i new because she was new to the school..now her and the new girl are best friends and they ignore me all of the time! what should i do?! (link)
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I KNOW that this girl considers you a best friend. You'll always have a special bond, even if it may not show.
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I've never really been shy around guys but theres one that i like now but and really shy towards. he nos i like him but i just got my heart broke so could that be why im afrid to talk to him? (link)
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It could be. But when ou like someody your hormones act weird when your around him. I've read it before. Everybody gets nervous around a crush. Don't worry, you'll find courage for him someday.
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