Hey Guys! My name is Laci, I'm 18 years old. If you send me a question I will try and answer it ASAP :-)
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Age: 18
Member Since: June 30, 2004
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umm a couple days ago this guy asked me out but he didnt really just ask he was like umm so if we like eachother maybe we should hook up sumtime . .i'm kinda confused . .can sumone translate pleas?thankss
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Well it depends where your from, guys in Mass will say maybe we should hook up sumtime meaning maybe we should fool around. If your from or around Mass chances are thats what he meant. It also depends on your age. But I'm almost positive that hook up means fool around all over the US. Hope I helped! Drop me one if you need anythign else!
*Laci
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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks (link)
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You can do anything you want! You could take a limo into your capital. (Mine's Boston) and go out to eat at your favorite rest. Or you could go to the beach, an amusement park, a water park, movies, your turning 16 so if your friends are all 16 already then you could go to a club. Most clubs around me are 16-21 for that age group. I don't know where you live so I might not eb any help. You could also have a sleep over at your house and when it gets really late and its dark and if its hot out still you can go swimming, but you said you didnt want to have a pool party. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again???? (link)
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Don't take him back. He might have stress in his life and on his back but that doesn't give him the right to physically abuse you. No one has that right. I think you deserve better than that and can get better than that. He might be sorry because he realized that you left him. I personally think, if he hit you this early in the relationship I'm sure he will again when feelings get stronger. Hope I helped! If you need anything else let me know ok?
*Laci
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Does anybody here go to Greenville Christian Academy in Greenville, North Carolina? I'm just wondering because I'm going there this year and wanted to know if anyone on here goes there. (link)
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is that near mooresville
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
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Ok, first of all you shoudln't be having sex with your boyfriend if you think eh is going to leave you. He's not worth your time. And your parents will find out eventually. It's better to tell them without them having any suspection that you might be pregnant, you know what I mean? They will be proud that they have ano open relationship with you that you are able to discuss things like this. You should tell you parents and boyfriend first. Don't go around telling your friends because rumors will go around. Specially if your parents make you get an abortion you wouldnt wnat everyone coming up to u in the halls and everything asking you, or whispering. That's only for you personally. I'm not sayin your not pregnant but some pregnancy tests will show up postive if you have a yeast infection, bladder infection, or kidney infection. You basically have to tell your parents.
Hope I helped & keep me updated!!
*Laci
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Hi everyone! Well, i no I am not fat, everything about me(my arms, thighs, ect...) is fine, but my stomach is flab and huge! I always say I will diet and excercise, but it never happens, but i am determined to lose weight by excercise and diet, but I need somethin easy and to lose weight fast! really fast! I am very impatiant! I am 5"3 and 127 pounds, if that helps. thanx so much. pleez answer asap! (link)
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Wow, your the same as me! Same height and weight too. I have no the same problem! I don't knwo anything that can help you. Just wanted you to know theres other people out there with your same problem!! Let me know if you find something that works ok?
Goodluck
*Laci
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I live in North Carolina and my mom and dad got divorced 3-4 years ago. He doesn't pay for much, and I know he won't pay for college. I'm 16...a Junior in High School and have 2 more years left for college. I really want to go to Boston University or University of Massachusetts because I love those schools and it's my home state. My mom said that I should go to college in North Carolina so it will be cheaper but I don't like many colleges here. The ones I do like (Duke University and Wake Forest University) are private and will still cost more. I told her I'd pay for law school and 4 year college but she wanted to pay for that. She said if I go to college up there then she'll only give me the amount a year that she would pay down here. What should I do? Should I go down here or up there or should I say something? (link)
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where in north carolina do you live. im moving there soon
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Okay I want to know why all these 12, 13, and 14 year olds are all thinking about sex and asking how to do it and blah blah blah...Theyre too young! And I hope all of you 12, 13, and 14 year olds get an STD and die....youre being stupid! (link)
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That wasn't nice to say.
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i know its early, but i already got my homecoming dress (GOOD sale) .. i dont know if i like it or not tho, im gonna decide today if i wanna keep it or return it. but one of the prblms is, it has a really low back that kinda like, laces up, but its open .. u know what i mean?? wat kind of bra can i wear with it .. its too low for a strapless one (but it would hafta be strapless) .. and the "backless" styles come like all the way down to your belly button and are kinda constricting, and i dont wanna be like that for homecoming .. so do you know of any other types that would hold up good for the whole night but still be comfy??
thanks TONS
xOxO*
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Your dress sounds cute! And for the bra, my friend had a backless dress going to the prom. She went to Victoria's Secret and got a bra that was just like a normal bra but it was sticky and it went right to her sides. You could always go there and look at the kind my friend had. Or you could get the sticky cups, I don't know the actual name for them but they are just like the cups to bras and they stick so they will just stay like that.
Hope I helped!
*Laci
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What is worse for you; throwing up or taking laxactives? I was just wondering which form of bulimia is worse on your body.
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They both are horrible. If you make yourself throw up, you can burn a hole in the espoghus, get stomach ulcers, and it will eat away at your teeth from the acid. It also will make you ahve bad breathe. If you take laxatives, then you are forcing your self to have to be near a toilet for a given amount of time. That's not healthy for your body either because the food is getting all digested and when its about to be absorbed it is gettin flushed out of your system. You could end up with a long term problem with your intestines for not letting them do there job. So there are my reasons of why they both are bad. You can't really pick which one is worse when they both are horrible!
Hope I helped!
*Laci
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i live in miami and i want pink G-UNITS so bad but all i find is high tops! im a girl and im 8 1/2 in women sizes! plz help!! [[my s/n is xx1pimp69ettexx]] (link)
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Hey, those ar cute! If you can't find them anywhere, you can always order them from a store. I'm not sure which stores you have in Florida I'm from up north. I bet ebay will have them! Good luck in your search!
Hope I helped!
*Laci
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hey girl guess what im not preg..thanks for makin me feel better ur the best:) (link)
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That's awesome that your not pregnant! Have fun, be safe!
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k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him. (link)
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You can do MUCH better! He's not worth your time if he is going to treat you like that and do that to you. Sex is just sex, you could find someone else that treats you better and could be better at sex. I think you def. need to forget about this boy because he seems to be nothing but drama and hurtfulness!
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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ok well i'm jst really mad about my whole "big family" thing i got goin on here i have 2 younger sisters Kirby(11) Kiersten(9) nd a older sister Christina(22) shes actually a half sister but jst the same i grew up w. her nd nw my momss pregnant .. ok so basically im the oldest and ALWAYS have all this "responsibility" nd i hate it i dnt wanna b here to babysit i wanna go out .. plus my family owns ANOTHER PIZZA RESTAURANT weve owned soo many nd i thought that my dad would stop changin careers nd stay an electrition but no so now i have stress to work there nd my moms pregnant so i feel evn more responsibilty i feel lyk the mom alot .. nd my sister kirby i cnt stand she always tries to put me down i guess but she has no confidence .. nd sometimes i jst wish i was nevr born lyk i dunno what to do w. my feelings i tlked to my bf about it but she dsnt have a big italian family lyk me my family goes on nd im always gettin lectured about suttin .. nd i dunno how to deal w. my feelings
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Your best bet is to talk to your Mom and Dad. Tell them that you want too be able to go out and have fun. Tell them tht you dont want to have to babysit and that your other sister christina can do it too. This isnt too good of advice from me but I'm trying to help. Please dont wish you werent born and just talk to your parents.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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omg ok i know school is about to start and all but i REALLY want a boyfriend...i mean all my friends have had um n stuff but me. and its very intemidating when they do and talk about them and stuff...i mean this past summer it seems like guys look at me n stuff and seem to like me but never ask me out or n e thing. and i mean im deffiantly not the type to just go up to someone and just ask um whats there name or w/e so someone pleae tell me a way! (link)
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Well, you can't just want a boyfriend, thats unfair to the boy. You have to like the person and want to be in a relationship with him. The guys might be shy too just like you. You should just go up to one of them that you think is cute and strick a convo. Even if your just asking the time.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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hey i havent had my period in may,june,and july. i THINK i had it in april im actually not sure.. im 14 years old and got my period in february of 2002. i know im not pregnant im not sexually active.. (link)
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Your weight loss might have something to do with it. Or you might just be irregular. Most people start out being irregular like that. If you'd like you could talk to your Mom about it or the doctor. You probably have nothing to worry about!
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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Hi. I wanted to know. If my boobs are too small and I wanted to get boob pills! How could I get them if im not 18 and I dont have a credit card?
Sigened.
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They might sell them in a drug store. However, you might need to be 18 to buy them. Just like diet pills you need to be 18. You SHOULDNT take them if your not 18 chances are your still growing. Just be patient they don't grow overnight!
*Laci
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I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me.. (link)
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Please, don't ever have sex without a condom. I don't want you to have to go through this scare again. Even if he didn't cum inside theres a thing caleld premature ejaculation. Its when semen comes out without the guy even realizing it. It's clear, not white like cum. That though does hold a lot of sperm with potential to make a girl pregnant. If you keep worrying about it like you are you can cause your period to come later then it should. Try to relax. You don't need to tell anyone yet, you should keep your boyfriend informed on this though. Chances are you wont have any of the pregnancy signs or symptoms yet. Try not to worry and keep me updated on your period.
*Laci
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does it hurt you or feel weird when you take out a tampon?!?!
thanx,
anomonyous
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It might hurt a little if the tampon isnt full with blood. Thats like taking a snow tube down a hill with no snow. Ya get what I mean? When it is full of blood it doesnt hurt or feel weird it just slides out. It might of felt weird the first time I took mine out but that was 5 years ago.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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Can you get prenaunt from fingering? (link)
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Nope, you can only get pregnant by sperm
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