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Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: XoI wAnT cAnDyOx
Yahoo: Shuld_B_Blond
Member Since: October 5, 2004
Answers: 39
Last Update: November 7, 2004
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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

Um thats tough..... imma gurl and i kno how i would take it... its gunna hurt her no matter what but maybe juss say "I dont feel things between us clicking any more... i dont want you to be mad at me im juss saying.... can we be good friends?" maybe shell be relived maybe shell be mad.... but give her time n shell get over it.

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I have 2 change schools in 2 weeks and i wont no any1 @ my new school and + ive never been 2 a public school before. What should i do?
from,
Alicia

Talk to your mom about it and if shes not willing to let u go back to private then juss lay low.... people will talk to you and you'll get friends and you'll get to like it... trust me.... juss give it time... IT ROCKS!

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Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

I think that theres someone fer everyone and maybe u didnt find him yet but jeez give it time u have ur whole life! date around... get to kno ppl... by no means am i saying be a slut.... juss get to kno ppl to find the one

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Hey, in 7th grade I met this girl who just came to our school from private school and she was totally a good girl. We got kinda close but in high school everything changed. Shes snotty, and stuck up. She is not my friend at all(thats a good thing!). Whenever I say something she rolls her eyes or says something really stupid. She makes me so mad! So were sophmores now, and lucky for me we have all classes together. I dont want to take her crap anymore, but when I have a chance to say something..my mind goes blank and I dont know what to say! I'm not the type of person whos a b word to people, so yeah. But what can I say to her thats nice but gives her the message that she needs to shut up, and get a life. haha thanks!!

lol well when u see her be like "hey you've changed and its realli pissing me off... do you always gotta get into other peoples lives? jeez u have ur own dont u?" srry if thats mean

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sami you liar you dont have blonde hair

who ever sed i dont have blonde hair no shyt.... i never sed i did.... i have brown hair... who sent this?

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Hey everyone,

Well I have a football game Tomorrow evening and I am in the band and our uniforms are light blue, white, and dark blue. I have medium length blonde kinda curly hair. How should I do my hair for the football game? I was thinking of wearing it up like I usually do with a blue hair tie that has like little ribbons on it ((its hard to describe)) or pigtail braids with a blue one and another lighter blue one but, I don't know. Do you have any other ideas or anything.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

IDK if this helps but I play the piccolo and I am 13/f

wear it in french braid pig tails... those always look cute:-d

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here i am asking for advice because i know not what to do. ok here's my problem..i've been with my gf for about 2 months now and its been the best thing thats ever happened to me..but itsy hard being with her because she had broken my heart twice in the past. dont ask me why i got with her kuz i'll just tell you i did it because i loved her from the second i met her and you could say i was just a love sick puppy..but real love is something i've searched for for most of my life..ever since i knew about the idea..but this is what happened..my gf (lets call her naomi) got with my best friend sid about a year or so ago i cant exactly say how i felt without going into detail but to sum it all up..it was the worst time of my life..well anywayz..after that happened i just completly lost hope of her actually feeling love for me i thought it was impossible for her ever to feel for me the way i did for her..i love her and all...but i cant stop thinking about what happened before...when she did that it was like my world ended..theirs was so much pain i started cutting myself i was cold to everyone i isolated myself from everyone it was like i made my own little hell..but now that i've gotten the girl of my dreams its like i cant stop thinking about what happened before. and whenever she would ask me whats wrong and i'd lie..she'd ask whats really wrong and i'd tell her exactly how i felt..witch is horribly crushing on her. i dont know what to do, its like impossible for me to let go, i hate making her feel sad and i hate making her feel guilty...but whats wrong with me?
Does she really love me?

Please Help me

yes she obviously really loves you. maybe befor she just needed a break and normally best friends are alike so gurls will go fer the guys best friend.... i dont kno how to help you with fergetting about that tho... its just something thats not able to be dun.... maybe you should try to have fun... eventually it will drift.... im sorry if this didnt help but i just dont kno what to do.

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I have this friend who likes to know just everything about my life, and always talks about me behind my back to my really good guy friend. Shes acuused me of liking every guy she has, but its honestly the opposite way around. She really is a backstabber and my guy friend says that i should confront her of what shes doing because shes ruining my chances of going out with anyone because she starts to like them and then i feel bad and want her to have him. I really dont mind if she talks about me because shes only hurting herself, but now im starting to wonder if it will get worse and i should do somthing about it?? please help!

Listen to your guy friends and confront her about it!!! thats not kool! and just because shes your friend doesnt mean you should give up every guy u like... she probably only likes them because she knos you do... so find a guy and ask her out! live your own life.... you guys arent twins stuck together you kno.

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Hey, does anyone have some cute suggestions as far as accesorizing? Things i probably wouldnt have to go out and buy for. Like just cute things to do with a belt, or a cute way to turn things around a bit??
*i want suggestions i can use tomorrow, and i wont be hitting stores, so maybe make things apply a little more universal*

thanks xoxo
i rate good!

well me and mi best friend amanda just started this new thing where the buckles of our belts are on the side... as soon as everyone noticed it they thought it was totally cute!! maybe u can try that!

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i really like this guy. hes really cute and hes SOOO funny. but people r always calling him fat. hes NOT fat at all so its really weird. hes really cute and his personality rocks. i dont want ppl saying shit about him tho. what should i do?

Theres nothing you can do about what people say.. you juss have to realize that they need to grow up and get a life and stop talking about his. just ignore it... you know the truth.......

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okay my friend is going to ask this girl out but he wants to know if she even knows who he is and hes askin me how he would know...but i like him n i've liked him for like 3 years and i dont want to tell him stuff like if she pushes u or trips u cuz i do that stuff to him..can anyone help us out? tnxs

i dont understand your question... sorry

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Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?

I think it is possible your in love with the guy he pretends to be. Most online guys are juss saying a lot of the stuff and dont mean it but if you'd meet him in person and u realli do love him... then its not.... maybe u shuld meet him in person once befor you go all "i love u" on him..... he could juss be faking

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I love yoo'z. ^^

i love u too

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ok theres this one guy on my bus and he says i dress like a guy and i do sometimes and he like hates me and he makes fun of me and i tell him to shut up and stuff but he wont listin to me he keeps doin it over and over again it drives me CRAZY i hate it and when i dont sit by he dont make fun of me and when i git on the buss before him he sits by me and says god u always wear boy clothes and and he askes ppl if i look like a guy and stuff like that what should i do? plz help me

Tell him to shut up.... i mean come on does it realli matter what clothes you wear? all you can do is ignore it tho.... but he realli needs to grow up and get his own life and stop talking about yours.

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SAMI I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART YOUR THE BEST WIFE EVER!

awww nick i love you too! lol maybe were freakin ppl out......((im not realli married ppl im only 14!!!)

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lol i love you to sami so your dads rich huh? lol jk

NICK STOP IT!!! lol or i wont love u no more lol im jp

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why the hell are you so afraid of dogs?
lol

lol because they look mean... they bark loud and sound mean.... and idk.... and mi friend juss came to skool last week with stiched in his side cuzz his dads dog attacked him!!! so thas why!!! lol yeah nick..... thanx fer sayin i love u too!! lol

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why are niggers so gay?

nick dont say that word!!!! lol i love u!!

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ok, i love my boyfriend(lets call him peter) with all my heart, body and soul, but before i got with peter, like 3-4 months before i was with his best friend(lets call him danny).

originally i met peter, then his introduced me to danny, my b/f awhile ago always flirted but he never made a move or anything so things just happen with danny, after me and danny were together peter backed off, then we broke up, and i was single for awhile then me and peter get together and we have been happy, it seems like whenever danny gets brought up(they are still friends btw) he gets all emo and talks about how i broke his heart, i love him but i dont wanna have to be the cause hes so sad sometimes, im supposed to be his girlfriend, making him smile.. but instead it feels like the past with danny only makes him sad..

i dont know what to do. i wanna be with him but i dont know how to handle knowing i make him sad ='(
help. what should i do?

Maybe you should just not bring danny up to peter any more.

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